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I have always wanted to get married Anonymous 21931

Don’t think that’s going to happen anytime soon. And of course my classmates are fucking getting married.

:(

Anonymous 21953

>>21931
You don't just get married
There are a few steps prior

Anonymous 21968

I love being married but the divorce rate is high. You might not be married yet, but that doesn't mean you're going to lose out in the long term because a lot of those marriages are going to fail.

Waiting longer means you'll have a better chance of finding someone you can actually spend the rest of your life with.

Anonymous 21972

>>21968
>this
I know there's this big push to get married in your early 20's, especially for women, but there's no need. Most of these young married couples who just got married because of "lol it's the right time" will end up divorced in 10 years.
I get that feel too. Sometimes I wonder if I will ever get married because I'm 22 years old and single while all of my colleagues are in serious relationships/getting engaged/marrying. However, us "left over women" are better off in the end. How many attractive successful men are in a massive rush to get married by 25? Exactly.

Anonymous 21981

>>21931
Disregard the naysayers. Make your dreams come true, anon! Just be careful, patient, and don't let anyone squeeze you for what they want.

Anonymous 22067

i know how you feel anon.
something about having a person just feels comfy. i want a domestic partnership so bad, but i also know how important it is to find that right fit. a relationship should grow

Anonymous 27350

>>21968
Waiting longer while being with someone, trying to figure out if they're right for you? Sure. Otherwise no.

Anonymous 27357

>>21972
>> How many attractive successful men are in a massive rush to get married by 25? Exactly.

Ehhhhh… older anon here (31) in my experience the men who want to commit do so early. How many attractive successful men are in a massive rush to get married? Not many. But not many attractive successful men want to commit. The ones who do tend to do so surprisingly early, and the ones who don’t early tend not to later, or only do so for appearances and then either cheat or treat their partner as a trophy wife or both. The attractive successful guys I know who wanted to be committed to someone didn’t get married young but they were paired up with their eventual wives pretty early.



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