I think a guy in my class whacked off to me...idk what to do or how to feel Anonymous 23647
Well I feel pretty nervous tbh
To make a long story short I always sit in the very back of class behind a group of guys because it provides me the best vantage point of class and also allows me to play video games.
I noticed that of the group of guys who sit in front of me though one is always really freaked out whenever he sees me. And I see his friends nudge him whenever i come around.
I was wearing a pretty tight outfit today ngl because it was cold out and my tight clothes are warmer. Anyhow, the professor (also female, kinda pretty) was talking about drilling wet things and drilling dry and everyone in class basically was smirking about it at that point.
The guy who I think likes me kept whispering to his friend and stretching to look back at me. He yawns and leans back in his chair and i see him looking at me out of my peripheral vision.
At a certain point he starts to get really sweaty and goes to the bathroom although we're due to take a break in class soon and I've never seen him do that.
When he comes back all his friends are trying really hard not to laugh and they keep looking back at me. In fact they're doing it right now
Idk what to do it makes me extremely nervous to have people looking at me constantly. And I have this class every Wednesday it's usually more of the same. Help???
…is he cute?
I guess it's a compliment, I'm about 90% sure I gave a guy a boner on the bus once (suddenly there was a bulge in his pants when he stood up that wasn't there before) by exchanging stares with him and it felt kind of nice. He also tripped once another time that we made eye contact….the one that got away…
Anyway, if you're not a sexual person/are a lesbian/think this guy is otherwise predatory I can see it being creepy though. Maybe try sitting elsewhere if it's that bothersome.
He's not hideous but also not particularly cute. I really just don't know how to act when I know I'm being stared at. Like, should I just continue pretending i don't see them? Do they want me to see them? I also feel like they're going to see me doing something really ugly and be disappointed idkkkkk
I think if you acknowledged them and maintained eye contact/smiled at them he'd approach you. Just going by my own signs-that-make-me-approach-qts standards here.
If you don't want that, continue ignoring. Or grimace at him lol.
Engineering Analysis III (it's probability and statistics for engineers). My major is biomedical engineering.
From one engineer to another, I got mad respect for you.
My brother did biomedical - he’s in grad school working on PhD.
Designing brain implants and all sorts of neural stuff, etc.
I’m just went for computer engineering cause that’s what I knew best. I’m less ambitious, I must admit.
How the heck are you managing your classes while playing video games during lectures????
You should be sitting in the front with all the try-hards and gunners.
Also some of those guys will not survive that major. I can tell you right now.
Tbh, I am a bit jealous….I wish I was as smart as you Biomed Anon.
The professor is boring, she just reads off the slides. and I've tried studying in class but that normally just confuses me. Instead I've been designing houses in the sims and then study at home. Occasionally I'll get monotonous homework done, send e-mails, plan during this time. >>23655
I'm not that smart honey don't be jealous>>23654
Thank you very much. I enjoy biology very much so that's why it's easier for me. I've taken digital logic and a few c classes. From that brief experience I think CS is a bit over my head haha >,<
It might be better for me to sit up there tbh, but i feel like everyone will find that weird since there are only about 12 of us in the class and everyone sits in the same seats
So what do you want to do with your biomed degree? The field is huge : artificial organs, in vitro grown organs, gene editing , neurology stuff, artificial eyes….
I could go on.
How did you decide on that major?
And what do want to do with the enormous amount of money you will earn?
Retire young and travel the world?
(That’s what I would do.)
You are now aware that if you are remotely attractive that every male in your life, except for family members, masturbate to you regularly. Teachers, bosses, co-workers and friends, all of them do it.
Dont know how to break it to you but "girl next door" category exists for a reason.
I want to develop novel techniques for medical imaging. So far I've worked in a tomography lab which was very cool. And with my money I want to retire, give my kids a great education, and focus on religious pursuits>>23682
I seriously hope that's not true…I wonder if there's any way to tell.
When I ask guys why they try to get nudes if they have an entire catalog of 10/10 nudes to jack off to already, the most honest answer I get from them is this.
I don't like that men are like this because I'm genuinely interested in ""average looking"" men aesthetically.
Why can't I just date the equivalent myself as a man, personality wise? Someone who sees others as human and just wants someone to attach themselves to? They're just so rigidly hierarchical and hypergamous. I'm so tired.
Sorry to derail so much I'm just in a sad mood because of other things. Normally I'm fine with them not being quite on our level when it comes to relationships and emotions. But recently I'd like someone who actually likes me…not that I can even get someone who pretends to like me.
Also will ask my male friends if they jack off to every woman in their life. Now I'm curious.
I don't think asking guys questions about masturbation is going to get you any closer to meeting someone who seeks attachment.
Well, I'm not into to those guys and it's mutual. We've also known each other too long and I've long since revealed my female neckbeard powerlevel to them.
idk maybe it is pointless looking for love when I'm not an uwu pure maiden who hates sex and has never seen a porn. I am a virgin but I'm also gross.
I mean, I'm not a slut but I am interested in some serious femdom and draw my own porn, so who knows.
Eh, virginity is usually enough. Anything else somebody puts up as a "requirement" for a relationship isn't really enforced.
I will concur with >>23712
, (most?) men don't want someone who hates sex, they want a virgin who loves sex.
At least he didn't do it in front of you. That was pretty courteous of him.
Listen, men are scum. Not all of them, not all of the time, but enough. Let me tell you a story.A friend of mine is a caring and empathetic girl with experience helping others through mental health crises. She decided to volunteer for a free suicide hotline and answer calls. After a couple of months, she had to quit. Why? Was she not tough enough? No. She had to quit because the majority of the calls were from men masturbating to a live, free female voice. The majority.
Don't call yourself gross, okay? You're a good, decent human being.
I would have told them "this is a SUICIDE hotline. So, how can I help you with killing yourself?".
unless you are in fucking primary school no one is going to go to the bathroom to masturbate to you
>>23845>a fresh shota having his first fap to you with huge embarassment
i didn't need these feels
When he got up he was walking funny and was adjusting the crotch in his pants and put his hands over the region…think it’s possible he just went in there to calm it down?>>23648>>23651>>23682
The possibility is dawning on me that at some point he may actually ask me out. What am I supposed to do then?
In my last large lecture class a grad student followed me around every day after class to walk me to the metro and I had to get a friend to come with me to scare him off…
he didn't go to the bathroom to masturbate ffs
why would a man masturbate in a public restroom when he can fap at home to your facebook and instagram pictures?
unless he was fapping to your facebook and instagram pictures in the bathroom, then it'd make perfect sense
Hahaha that's hilarious! Awful but hilarious.
Guys don't just randomly pop boners out of nowhere
That's stupid, healthy guys can get boners even without any sexual stimulation or thought, riding on a vibrating bus or just out of nowhere.
also if hes cutie ask him out
I'm pretty sure that only happens if they haven't had an orgasm in a while, which is rare nowadays because porn is so easily accessible.
I'm a sperg and wouldn't have any idea what to say. Don't even know the guy's name
But I hate disappointing people. I was planning on saying I have a bf (I have a potential bf rn) but i need to know how to say it in a nice way.
No, It can happen out of nowhere, it's a common occurrence during puberty as >>23892 has said.
Often they don't even feel aroused and they're stuck with an awkward boner they have to hide somehow. Putting your hand inside a pocket is the most common technique.
>>23882>hey random anon did you go the the bathroom to masturbate to me?
You could be super pornstar about it>hey anon. were you really masturbating in the bathroom by yourself? giggles
Don't, but it'd be funny
>>23913>laugh right in his face for admiring you
God, anon. Say it out loud before you think about saying something like that in public.
I assumed OP was in college, not around boys in the middle of puberty.
Most of these are also about guys getting boners during puberty, not as adults.
>"I already have someone I like, sorry">I'm involved with someone already>I'm flattered, but unavailable >>23896
Some of them, not all.
I honestly think it might be a problem for both parties in society, but nobody's bothered on a study for women, to my knowledge.
I wish something like this would happen to me. It sounds so nice to be desirable
He's a guy named Josh :) he really likes to read and write just like me! More importantly also we're the same religion, so we're actually able to date.>>23921
If it happens I'll try saying one!>>23976
I kinda thought it would be nice too in theory because I think I'm pretty ugly but in practice i realize that I never considered an appropriate response to such a situation, so the unknowns convert to anxiety…
No I'm a Christian. I decline to state what denomination, you probably haven't heard of it and I'd like to have it stay that way. He's white and from West Virginia. I'm black.
Ignore the losers. If you really want to, just tell him to stop staring at you like that because it's really obvious and try not to say anything about his attraction to you AT ALL because he will take it as a cue to hit on you.
Wow. You must have a lot of friends who care about you very much.
>they are immature and not worth your time.
>They are still at the "point and stare stage" - "Hey looks its a pretty gurl, OMG! Lets chuckle and stare."
Isn't that exactly what most stacys still do in their late 20s & 30s? Are they also immature or does that only count for guys in your opinion?
More young men aren't having sex than women, but they're both trending up. The silver lining is… at least more people understand our suffering?
Hope that means all the young women are becoming lesbians
sometimes you see these graphs and realize how much of a loser you really are. thanks anon.
I thought you big strong men don't need us disgusting evil ugly women in your life and women are gross roasties who use sex to manipulate? Why are you complaining when this is exactly what you wanted?
IMO it's good that less young men are having sex, most men don't know how to appreciate women, find vaginas and most women's bodies disgusting anyway, spend too much time on video games and 4chan and wonder why women never appear at their doorstep, or when they do get into relationships they absolutely suck in bed and bitch about how she doesn't have porn star tits and doesn't want a dick in her ass etc
Just stay away from women, women are better off with other women
Take it easy. It's just a drawing.
You fucking autists really need to go outside once in a while.
>>24146>10% more men are sexless
…do some femcels get 2 incel husbands then? Or do they pair up and fight to the death? Or do half of that extra 10% transition and they pair off with chaser incels?
These are my solutions.
Really two reasons for that.
1) Guys today have been raised in an deliberately addictive consumer culture – which has lead many of them to pursue self destructive or otherwise time wasting hobbies. i.e. video games, internet porn, etc.
2) Chad is hoarding all of the women for himself. He can't just agree to marry someone at 20-22 like he used to 60-70 years ago. These days, he wants to screw around for a lot longer before he's interested in settling down.
So the dating pool is more competitive – because all the chads & "cute guys" are still up for grabs. Why settle for a neurotic, spergy beta who barely managed to pull himself out of the "Depression/NEET spiral"?
Of course, the incel view of the world is a false dichotomy. There are the normies, who tend to be hit & miss in terms of partners.
And there are the "True Men", who are virtuous, successful and charming. Those who are noble and restrained where Chad is base and profligate – who are stable and diligent where the beta sperg is unstable and inconsistent in his endeavors. But there are very few of such people these days. The zeitgeist is gone.
think about any male who's looked at you slightly too long in your life. And now think of the ones that haven't.
They've almost certainly rubbed one out over you and feel no remorse. If you bring it up they'll just deny it and do it again later.
You disgust me.
Do a good portion of men really do this? Fap to people they know irl? I don't understand the reason, especially when there is so much porn out there to accommodate such a wide variety of taste.
Being in physical proximity to someone can enhance their sexual appeal. You can smell them and have seen them move about as a regular person without the awareness of a camera like in porn, or of anyone watching them at all. Perhaps you have knowledge about their personality/quirks and that endears you to them even more. It feels like you're more connected to them than some rando on screen, basically.
Also attainability is higher which is a turn on.
t. experience in fantasizing about irl men
>>24244>They've almost certainly rubbed one out over you and feel no remorse.
Why is this bad? I don't want guys to feel bad about fapping to me.
Mmm… Thank you, for that.
i mean for all the people who were saying it was gross
fairs fair because im masturbating to them right now
No. I'm fat and ugly.
Approach them. No bullshit just walk up to them while in a group. Next time you have the class and ask THAT guy specifically "hey what are you guys always laughing about?" He will get embarrassed they will probably cool it out. If any of them are worth your attention they will try to interact with you like your an actual person. Depending on the age group biomed 20-23 maybe?? correct me if I'm wrong but at least one or two should be able to keep their shit together. Otherwise yeah just keep ignoring them if they are on some manchild shit.
Keep in mind they will be messing with each other just because that's how guys are.
wizardchan is over there, loser
Sober up, anon.
Aww, but that could have been a fresh new way for a guy to confess his feelings.
Just like in my doujins!