Me and this guy met on tider. We’ve been talking for a week and have seen each other in person 3 times. He really wants to have sex with me and gets halfies during our hardcore makeout seshs. We like the same shit. Anime, 4chan, paganism. I feel like I’m being too easy cause last night he played around with my boobs. I don’t know how to feel. I want to have sex, but I don’t want to be a easy little whore. I don’t want him to think low of me, even though he’s seen my breast. I want to disappear and just ghost him so badly right now. I just want to have a relationship.
>letting him hold anything other than your hand before your 1-year anniversary
You ARE a whore.
Hookups are overrated anon. Don’t be a BPDfag. Ghost him and aim for a stable, longterm relationship.
I’ve never had sex before. I’ve never dated off the Internet. I have no idea what I’m doing. I’m so stressed out rn
Do you think he would like to go on a date with you and eventually be in a relationship? He cute? Also this: >>41362
Don't be alone with him and it won't be allowed to escalate. I encourage you to tell him you are looking for a serious/long term relationship. Be prepared to hear no or for him to leave.
Wait until you are officially together (on each others social media, your friends know each other, etc) before going further.
If it’s your first time irl dating and you’re a virgin, just straight-up tell him you want a relationship. It’s easier said than done, but I think you would be happier once you get that out there. Be prepared for him to only want sex or to be FWBs.
He’s okay. Yea, he probably would.
We always spend like 7 hours together. Just watching shit on tv. Making out. Going to get fast food. Talking. Just sigh
Should also say I’ve ate dinner with his parents
If you’ve met with his parents, then maybe he’s trying to signal that he’s interested in more? go for it!
That's cool, seems like there's a possibility.>>41371
… and you met him through tinder? What are the chances??>>41372
Really, what are the chances?? So you don't want him to think low about you because you showed some skin… Ask him to show you his tits and then proceed to a normal 1st date.
I wanna cry. Y’all are all such lovely women
Love the kitty photo. Should I ask him to go walking with me at the river walk? Not much to do here at the moment
In my experience, it kind of depends on how the interactions are going. Do you guys hang out and do stuff other than make out? If not, this might just be a way to get his dick wet.
That sounds very nice, maybe ask him now and suggest the day of the meeting to be in a few days or even a week if you've seen him recently.
Will do. He’s already asked if I’d like to go walking there with him. He’s also talking about kayaking with me and my dad
The only thing I can add is: i want a bf too
Oh thank god. Okie, I’m feeling a hell of a lot better. Thank you anon! This gives me hope
He seems nice from reading the thread, but absolutely do not have sex with him until you know for sure you're in a committed relationship. I waited about 6 months before losing my virginity to my bf. You don't have to wait that long, but just make sure he's not using you.
My sister waited 3 months with her bf, met his parents, went to his place, and he dumped her shortly after. But they also had fights all the time and he was unstable. You'll have to date him for longer to see what kind of person he is.
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Wrong! It’s Johnny cash you fucking idiots
OP YOU ARE OVERTHINKING THIS
FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THINGS HOLY DO NOT FUCK THIS UP
LITERALLY JUST TELL HIM
“Hey man sorry if this is out of the blue, but I actually really like you and I want to take things slow to make it feel more serious. Sorry if that’s not what you’re looking for, but I want a real relationship, not a hookup”
Either he accepts it or he doesn’t
If he's so insistent on having sex with you, then that's a clear sign of what he's looking for. Have you considered that he's putting on an act to get you into bed with him? If he genuinely loved you, he would take it slow. Finding someone who shares all your obscure interests is a shot in the dark, and most certainly so on on a hookup app like Tinder.
>>42037>If he's so insistent on having sex with you, then that's a clear sign of what he's looking for.
him wanting sex is a sign of him being a healthy moid with a functional libido, nothing more and nothing less
the key is finding out whether he's in it for the long haul or just wants to pump and dump. since this is tinder i would assume pump and dump until proven otherwise. making him wait is a good way to test this, but if he gets the impression that you're stringing him along or friendzoning him then he'll feel taken advantage of and bounce. so if you have an ex who you put out faster than you want to do with him now, then better not let him know that, cause that will make him think he's getting cucked and moids hate that feeling (unless theyre cuckold fetishists)
Honestly? I think you should talk to him about your intentions, and see what his intentions are. He might want to be in a relationship with you, and is just picking up on your hints that you want to have sex with him. Tell him how you feel about the situation, and he'll give you your answer.