I've met most of my internet friends by discord hopping, honestly.
If you don't have one already, make a discord with a bullshit email, Go to a site like disboard, and filter by 18+
Ignore any listing that has tags like "dating", "egirls", "rp", etc.
But don't be afraid to leave places that don't vibe with you.
I've met plenty of good people through this.
In my experience, no one will care that you're not a sjw, but they will get uncomfy if you start terfposting in public.
Your english is amazing btw.
Wouldn't have guessed you're ESL. What made you learn it?