Other people Anonymous 61104
How do/would you react to your partner talking about how someone is attractive? What do you say to them after that? Do you care at all? Does it make you insecure? Do you consider other people attractive?
I personally have no idea what to say. I do feel insecure and shit but just because i know im not pretty. I dont even know what kind of conversation he expects, do i just say my opinion? I can ask him who he finds more attractive, me or her, but i already know the answer to that.
Well honestly i dont even know what it means to him when he says that someone is attractive…
You should probably adress that issue telling him that it hurts you when he says shit like that, because that makes you compare and feel bad about things that are out of your control, which is most of your appearance.
There’s a difference between nonchalantly passing comment on it when asked, and intentionally trying to neg you. You can usually tell. But I have never met a guy who is comfortable with his gf complimenting other men’s attractiveness in front of him.
But i think that other people are attractive too, i tell him and he doesnt mind. I dont know why the opposite is such a problem. I mean hes attractive (objectively), im not, so if he says that someone is attractive i know that that means better looking than me. But again, why is that a problem. I dont get insecure when he says that someone does something else better than me.
Its always just a casual comment. No big deal. Also this >>61114