>>123643>>Girls, particularly those who are undiagnosed, are under a lot more social pressure to mask when growing up. If they don’t, they will be totally excluded and every little thing they do mocked.
What do you mean mask? I don't know if I'm autistic but I USED to relate to this. Also this is the central reason why marriage and relationships with men are a joke to me. I cannot live in the same house with their hypocrisy. Most of society and social expectations are a joke to me too.
Still you can actually get away with doing whatever the absolute hell you want, if you're not a pushover or easily manipulated by crab bucket people.
That is what most of society is, crab bucket cretins. If you think of them as under your foot, for being that way, and ignore them, they will be. They can't really doing anything about it but bitch and whine that you aren't playing by the rules of their suffocation game. Ultimately it just turns into a bitchfest over their jealousy. They just come out and say it to your face. All because you don't do what they want, or play by any rules. They'll honestly give their power away all day long, in obession. And if you're actually a pretty descent person who just focuses on their own thing, it makes them even more mad.
If you stick it out, its always like this, no matter where you go. No matter what you do. I'm not saying be a full blown psycho. You should be able to communicate really well and especially about what you want, but holy fuck. Its definitely in your best interest to at least pretend to be a nihilist psycho, because they wont stop until you behave like a toned down handmaiden all the time.
I really recommend it to anyone who isn't spineless. Its really priceless. I don't really know if I'm autistic but I really related to that first statement when I was 15 because that's when I realized all people were full of shit. People became a joke to me when I realized that.