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gooners ruining hobby spaces Anonymous 129634[Reply]

>recently join the vocaloid discord because i love music and want to make friends
>click on the profile of the head mod
>rabbit hole miku
>uh oh
>click his X
>his pinned post is a petite miku sex doll face down on his bed
>wtf
>he has 5 more sex dolls he photographs
>the rest is RTs of miku hentai, at least 20 from the past 24 hours
>wtf

I don't even want to talk in the server anymore. It grosses me out so much. Why is everyone else in that server okay with porn being linked at the top of the server? Why are they fine with the server being run by a chronic exhibitionist gooner? I hate how normalized it is, it feels so weird to be in the same space as those perverts, especially when it's borderline CP. I don't really know what to do anymore or where to go. I wish it didn't bother me so much so I could enjoy the server, but I can't change I know it's gross and wrong. Any advice?
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Anonymous 129679

>>129678
Onlyfans phenomenon debunked the feminist myth that women are victims of the porn industry and were forced into it.

Anonymous 129680

>>129679
>Onlyfans phenomenon debunked the feminist myth that women are victims of the porn industry and were forced into it.

A lot of women genuinely want to become strippers, sex workers, escorts, etc. Some of them are victims, a lot of them aren't. They choose to do it for money and/or validation

Anonymous 129682

>>129679
No, it just proved that you can groom girls from a very young age to think doing sex work is good and profitable and get away with it

Anonymous 129685

>>129682
Feminists did that by inventing terms like "sex work" and promoting indiscriminate acceptance. In consequence society stopped shaming WHORES as it used to and young girls are getting the impression that prostitution is legit work and not a downward spiral to ruin.

Anonymous 129686

>>129651
They were always zombies. There is no soul behind those eyes.
>>129678
Things were never good.

>>129679
Feminism's biggest myth is that men are redeemable and could be socialized out of their sexuality with some sort of culture change, and that this would be deeper than merely conditioning them to be less open about their sexuality. That one was debunked almost out of the gate. Football team members might do the most rape per capita in colleges but you wouldn't want to be locked in an elevator with an antiporn but heterosexual male feminist either. But everywhere you look you see people clinging to the myth of male 'socialization' making them the way they are. Nobody is going to walk away from a myth just because it was completely debunked.

>>129679
No. Onlyfans rose on the promise that it is NOT conventional porn and NOTHING comparable to prostitution since she would be at most being physical with her physically present significant other, with no direct interaction with any other save through anonymized text through which she would be directly compensated. Onlyfans phenomenon proves that women are sufficiently vain as to be willing to do almost-porn and not-prostitution for money, which were already known in this sphere by virtue of cosplay scandals.

>>129682
I do not subscribe to the mind control theory of advertisement anymore. Ads do not target women due to some special vulnerability of women. Men are not immune to propaganda and women do not fold after seeing a single attractive woman enjoying a product. It is just that women are in the social position and suffer the social expectation of shopping, and in recent cultural memory even had the social expectation of mall-as-girls-hangout, which hangout millennial women are visibly nostalgic over. I also no longer subscribe to 'dumb slut' stereotypes. Bonnie Blue is probably smarter than many other equally financially successful entrepreneurs in the field of exploiting young boys' sexuality. Certainly smarter thanPost too long. Click here to view the full text.



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I want a man to save me from poverty Anonymous 129637[Reply]

I know this is extremely pathetic but I don't care anymore. I'm a worthless neet with no life skills, and I don't want to work so I might be homeless soon. I wish everyday someone would save me from my shit life, I know I can't save myself. I mean I've tried but i've been met with humiliation and embarrassment. I feel like I'm on the verge of death everyday because of how worthless I am. I feel like I'm too retarded to be alive on my own.
If I don't find a husbando by the time I'm 23 I'm just going to be a homeless crack fein trying not to sell my ass on tha street for $5 (I mean i still deserve dignity). By then I hope some psycho just stabs me repeatedly and fucks my dying body so I won't die a virgin at least lol. But let's hope I find a European boyfie before then, one that will save me from this life @_@ sigh
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Anonymous 129675

>>129666
>Live in a big house. Free food and expensive gifts. Take half his money if he leaves you, get a million if he dies.
Who fed you this cope?

Anonymous 129676

>>129670
What will you do when you get old, your looks fade and rich men lose interest in you, and you have no work experience besides giving head?

Anonymous 129681

>>129666
It's a nice break from a shitty life, but when the relationship ends you haven't actually improved your circumstances and you aren't getting shit. All those gifts are nice luxuries but, presuming he lets you walk out with that garbage bag of shoes and bags when you leave, they resale for about a month of rent and food. You didn't earn any money while you were playing housewife, so how exactly will you stick it out in a court battle to get those gifts back or prove a common law marriage? Your best hope is him buying you a car as a gift in your name, so at least you can sleep in it while working as a server.

Anonymous 129683

>>129681
You won't have anything for working 20 years paycheck to paycheck like we're supposed to. The BEST you can hope for is getting to live in a car when you're 60.

My worst-case scenario is getting half the house.

Anonymous 129684

>>129683
Unless you're an Adriana Lima lookalike no one is giving you half the house



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Does this make anyone else mad Anonymous 129315[Reply]

This ugly swede made a YouTube video whining and e-begging about how he couldn't get a gf, and ended up marrying a 7/10 woman that saw his videos and fell in love with him. Imagine if it was an ugly woman that made a video like that. She probably wouldn't have gotten as popular as he did and definitely wouldn't have got a cute bf to wanting to marry. I fucking hate moids. They have the easiest lives ever
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Anonymous 129467

>>129444
If faggots like you got treated like a woman for a few days 95% of you would end your lives

Anonymous 129488

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My personal tinfoil but I genuinely believe that his channel was an incel psy-op astroturfed by YouTube to get more sympathy for incels in the world. Even when he uploaded his stupid wedding video the official YouTube headquarters channel commented saying "Congratulations!
Oh and let's not forget he even managed to get another girlfriend, a blonde American girl named Luna, before he met the current 7/10 wife that he's with. He uploaded some videos of Luna before he deleted them all and I guess the current wife came into the picture.

Anonymous 129655

>>129315
No it would've been rip her dms you hate incels but keep gender reversing their talking points

Anonymous 129663

>>129315
I'm not mad because I'm not bitter.

Anonymous 129677

>>129655
>rip her dms
yeah her dms would be full of ugly faggots with horrible personalities with zero redeeming qualities. she would not magically score a cutie like this guy did.



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i'm a virgin. i've completely given up on the idea of meaningful intimacy Anonymous 129598[Reply]

i've been a radical feminist my whole life, and i'm also quite unappealing physically. i thought i was a lesbian for a long time before i accepted that i'm bisexual and do want to have a moid to have sex with. i feel so conflicted with my sexual urges towards moids and also the fact that i wish they would all die and disappear off of the face of the earth. they are all disgusting scum, all unable to have a modicum of emotional intelligence, genuine kindness or humanity inside of them.

my ex was my dream guy physically and sexually, but i never got to dominate him and get what i wanted out of him. he haunts my dreams at night, and i hate him so much for being so appealing to me, physically.

i wish i didn't feel physical attraction to males, as it's impossible that a moid could ever fulfill my needs emotionally. i've accepted the fact that the way i could ever get what i wanted (sexually) is through casual sex or a fwb arrangement.

do any of you thnk this way? have you given up on romantic love too? how do you cope?
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Anonymous 129600

>>129599
i'm a real person lol my perspective is probably shared by most of the women on this website, so it's not hard to understand that i'm one among many

i'm just looking for community ig

Anonymous 129667

>>129598
>i'm a virgin
stopped reading

Anonymous 129669

>>129598
You seem like a lost cause.

Anonymous 129672

>>129598
I'm bisexual as well with a heavy preference for men/masculine people. I personally avoid 'dating' cishet men as they tend to be the worst breed imo.

Anonymous 129673

>>129598
I'm bisexual as well with a heavy preference for men/masculine people. I personally avoid 'dating' cishet men as they tend to be the worst breed imo.



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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 127939

>>127744
It’s like what people say about grief. You don’t get over it, you just learn to live with it. Just give it time is what I am saying, live life.

Anonymous 128040

i constantly wear a full face of makeup and always have my hair done while only keeping heavily angle and lighting frauded photos in an attempt to delude myself into thinking i am prettier than i am. ofcourse, it doesnt work and leaves me with intense feelings of guilt due to being a catfish. I also try comfort myself with the idea that in the future ill get all these surgeries to fix what ive got going on, but in this economy i wont. being a 4/10 lanky, socially inept teen was a traumatic experience.

Anonymous 129629

no matter what, I never seem to look put together ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ Worst part about having shit genetics

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Anonymous 129671

>>125396
moids love tall women. this is shortie cope.



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 129633

I hate people who are condescending in a cheerful and friendly way. It shrivels my soul.

Anonymous 129635

I see a therapist and she’s very nice and understanding. I’ve never been really into therapy much (only started to go into it about a year ago). Even now, I don’t really buy into it. I don’t think it does much for someone unless they truly want help and I think it only really helps people who suffer from things like PTSD. But I can’t get over how I think she must be annoyed by me or put off especially when I pull my weird “poor attempt at larping as a normal person” bullshit once I get uncomfortable in any capacity. It’s weird because she was just telling me that I’m a very nice and pleasant person to speak with, but it’s like there’s this voice in my head that tells me otherwise when I notice that I’m being slightly awkward, and my perspective immediately goes 180. I think I might have this weird form of autism where I’m like overly neurotic and have to walk on eggshells when talking to every single person or else they can see how weird fucked up and awkward I am. But it just makes me behave even more strangely ironically. It’s like the opposite of autists who are socially unaware and can come across as rude and too blunt. I also do this shit where I’ll just say words for the sake of saying it just to fill in the awkward silence when talking to others. I had to embellish details in my life or else I wouldn’t have had anything to say to my therapist during our 40 minute session. I’ve basically done this in every social interaction I’ve ever had in my life. It’s the equivalent of trying to hit the word limit on a school assignment. I can’t just be fine being myself and not having anything to say, I must always have something to say or else the social situation becomes too much for me to bear. This probably makes people perceive me as either someone who’s talkative and ditsy, or as someone with some kind of mental disability. I feel like I’m in this never ending negative thought loop. I wish I could have somebody in my life where an awkward silence between us wouldn’t be considered awkward, and where I wouldn’t have to put on this front of pretending to be something I’m really not. I just want to be comfortable with the silences that happen and not having anything to say all the time, while still enjoying their company.

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Anonymous 129661

>>129635
the solution to this is basically just to resign yourself to the idea that people can and often will see you as awkward or stupid or whatever. it's much more effective than trying to dissuade yourself from the fear that people are judging you, and more effective than trying to learn to be more cool.
that goes whether they really are or are not in reality.

Anonymous 129662

He is angry! Poor little fella, he almost killed me and his child by driving so badly but his feelings are hurt! so sad



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Anonymous 129611[Reply]

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't make me happy anymore. He does but he also doesn't. It feels like he's never doing what he says he will, or he's letting me down somehow. I love him. But I'm slowly starting to not enjoy being around him anymore. I think I can fix this but I'm too tired to bring it up. I don't want to hurt him.

Anonymous 129612

Fixed it with one conversation because I forgot my boyfriend is an autist that needs me to be direct with my wants and needs 👍

Anonymous 129618

>>129612
Any reason to not be direct? Maybe the autist is you.

Anonymous 129621

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We did it s, we saved her relationship!

Anonymous 129654

dopamine spikes when you first meet, then you get comfortable with each other and see the flaws. the question is will you stay, or leave to find someone new and chase that high



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Anonymous 129638[Reply]

Why do so many women chase toxic relationships? Toxic men have a different energy, vibration, aura whatever you want to call it. They are exciting somehow?

I think it's about the chase. There is some sort of intrigue towards someone who seems unavailable and who isn't needy/has their own life.

Most "bad boys" are great charmers…they charm and then they leave and then call in a week or two. The hot and cold game. Why would anyone so unreliable like that?

Anonymous 129640

>Why would anyone so unreliable like that?
It's like slots. Winning is addictive.

Anonymous 129647

Start with love bombing then trauma bond and keep up with intermittent reinforcement

Anonymous 129649

Personally I like a bit of edge, not full on delinquency though. Usually "bad boys" are associated with high energy thrills, being buff or having kind of a messy aesthetic that some people like

Anonymous 129652

feels like a moid typed this



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 129576

It's been a month since I've stopped flushing the toilet. I hope you get the message

Anonymous 129616

Come back to me. Come back to me so we can finish what we started. I know you still want to finish it. Don't even lie to me. Don't pretend you don't care. And honestly, I know I still tug at the back of your mind, but you won't admit it to yourself. So come back. Just for a little bit.

Anonymous 129630

>>129616

Ima pretend this is him speaking to me.

Anonymous 129632

I'll keep you around to regulate me but I will never ever be close to you again. I will never be vulnerable around you or allow you to touch me again. Keep thinking I forgave you but I'm actually gonna use you like you use me. And no matter what you promise I know you will run away again but I won't chase

Anonymous 129650

my dear I miss you so much

It's been almost half a year since we last talked. Even longer since we were friends. I know you still like me. I can hear you start to talk louder when I'm around at school. During geography you avoided eye contact while bringing me my test but I could see you smiling. I was smiling to you too. You follow me every so often on spotify. Changed your bio to send me messages. You're so endearing, I wish you weren't so shy.

I know it is kind of my fault things ended but I couldn't keep waiting and only texting online. I want real contact. I think you understand that too. I was always planning efforts to talk to you, for example before exams. A shame you kept coming in late and had to sit in the front.

I miss your humor. You were so fun to talk to. Sometimes I read back our old, now ancient, conversations and find myself smiling. Somewhere I also think I might've took you for granted. I didn't see your spirit at the time. Now I see how sweet you were to me.

I wonder what I have to offer to you though? Looking back on our messages you were mostly carrying the conversations. I feel like I am too,, mentally ill. You are shy and have no experience while I've been in too many toxic relationships- though you don't know that yet. I'm afraid you might not be able to handle it, and support me right. I don't want to "infect" you either. Sometimes you skipped school after I did and it felt really shitty because I don't want to influence you like that. And what if you are just in love with the idea of me or the idea of having a girlfriend? Would you be okay not having sex? It is my greatest fear. I am too afraid to share all of my history with you- but that should be a part of having a partner.

I don't know. I also don't want myself to keep making excuses and not try anything due to my fear of abandonment and pushing people away. I mean, I'm not (yet) scared you'll leave me but more so, that we wouldn't work out and both end up very hurt. There's lots of "practical" reasons why we are "too" different to work but I still feel so strongly about you- that I wonder if I should just give it a shot.

I am planning on making more contact with you- just you wait. But you need to stop being shy. I hope that if you see I like you too- you have more courage to be direct.

When I can't sleep at night I think of you. I fantasize about us finally talking, going on a date. I want to hug and kiss yoPost too long. Click here to view the full text.



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