>>129782
I know this feel. Being short fucking SUCKS. We get fat easier too jfl. And clothing always looks weird. Apparently short people need less calories on average but it doesn't fucking feel like it. Maybe I'm just fat idk

>>129782
Also, it's so true that short people have limited body types that look good. Muscular looks weird, fat looks weird (but fat tall people are even worse tbh, tall fat bitches looks scary asf ngl) the only option is to be skinny which is hard.

i have long legs so it’s fine

>>129785
>(but fat tall people are even worse tbh, tall fat bitches looks scary asf ngl)
i kind of like being scary thats the problem i guess. i have unconventional tastes in women and i apply them to myself. i think it would be cool to be intimidating but its impossible to have any type of scary presence when youre 5`3 it sucks

6 inch heels for you

CC is 18+ so I don't know if you should be here as a teenager. I'm 18 though and I relate, men my age have been gross to me before and when I was 14 they were also like that. It genuinely makes me wonder if there's any point to try and find a man. I'm basically febfem at this point

>>129761
i don't know what work you've done to understand how being groomed changed your feelings about the world and your own safety: but remember that it's naturally impacted your beliefs about vulnerable relationships. it's a- if you go through life thinking everything needs to be hammered, you'll only see nails -type of thing. and by that i mean, if you're nervous even subconsciously about being groomed or tricked again, you're putting too much burden on yourself to hyper-worry about it, which only does yourself a disservice (although it's normal to think about.) caution is warranted, just not to the degree that it sabotages your own plans and desires.
be nice to yourself and those thoughts. you can sit with the worry of the "grooming happening again", and eventually they'll start looking just like thoughts. and only thoughts. they don't represent an actual manifested reality; they're fleeting residue from previous trauma, they can't control your real world. you probably know all of this, so i'm not trying to baby you, but a reminder can't hurt.

hopefully that younger guy will be nice! it's a great idea considering recent data, so good luck
>"Research indicates that older women dating younger men often report higher sexual satisfaction and relationship well-being compared to younger women dating older men. A 2025 study published in Sexual and Relationship Therapy found that women in these reverse age-gap relationships experienced better sexual arousal, lubrication, and orgasm, while men in these pairings reported high relationship satisfaction that strongly predicted their sexual functioning."

>>129737
>they find women in their early 20s (18-25) to be the most physically attractive. desirability peaks at age 21
This is what they're allowed to say.

girl i'm 25 and i'm going to be honest with you i think coming to this website to vent about this is going to make you feel a lot worse about the whole thing than it is in reality. This is a doomer femcel site. Like >>129737 I'm sorry posting the top google ai slop search like actual research was done here is just really fucking embarressing.


I'm 4'10 and look like a little girl, thats just what I look like. Recently I've been dating people with kids and they're really honest about being disintrested in infantalization or ddlg or any of that shit because it reminds them of their children. Men suck but they're not all pedo brained freaks. Most people do actually wind up married. If it is something you want to persue you'll probably be able to do it just fine. Kids are something you don't even need a man for if you have the finances to persue them.

Do you have an older female figure you can talk to in our real life? You will get better answers than the jaded morons on here and I'm saying that as a frequent poster.

>>129780
alot of them are attracted to sexually developed children, teenagers. we know this. but as to whether or not they put these minors in the "have sex with" or "no, that's a child that needs care" box depends on whether they see the subject as a person. issue is, personhood is increasingly being stripped away by the internet, particularly in porn being most boys' first exposure to the female form. and it's always happened in order to drive men's sexual selection and access to their desires depending on when they get the resources to manipulate things the way they want (grown adults.) they know they're not "allowed" to say that they have a physical response or are visually stimulated by teenage girls/boys (post-puberty), because it'd brand them as exclusively attracted to that when they're not. it's a disgusting and grim reality, yes. but a level of attraction doesn't make them all want to fuck kids- and for most that will try, not even exclusively (which would be needed to qualify them as hebephiles, the actual predators rather than "i find that attractive in my head" types.) many are opportunists that lack reasons to care about women and girls as people, so they'd go lower than what they say. but men in general are not looking for children as partners - the quote about desirability seems to be from dating app data, which shows that what they're actually selecting for is grown women. we can come up with assumptions about what they WANT to date/sleep with, but it's better to deal in reality and assume the best rather than the worst (unless we want to encourage op to just give up.)
op was thinking about whether men would want to date her or not. from what we see, their attraction isn't solely locked onto minors. that's what my point was meant to be. if you want, you can assume they're all evil, lying, near-child-rapist scum - i'm personally doing the same. but it's better to give her a realistic view of dating trends imo
>For men aged 25, the preferred partner is 3 years younger (age 22) https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-asymmetric-brain/202501/age-gaps-in-relationships-what-do-men-and-women-prefer

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Come back to me. Come back to me so we can finish what we started. I know you still want to finish it. Don't even lie to me. Don't pretend you don't care. And honestly, I know I still tug at the back of your mind, but you won't admit it to yourself. So come back. Just for a little bit.

>>129616

Ima pretend this is him speaking to me.

I'll keep you around to regulate me but I will never ever be close to you again. I will never be vulnerable around you or allow you to touch me again. Keep thinking I forgave you but I'm actually gonna use you like you use me. And no matter what you promise I know you will run away again but I won't chase

my dear I miss you so much

It's been almost half a year since we last talked. Even longer since we were friends. I know you still like me. I can hear you start to talk louder when I'm around at school. During geography you avoided eye contact while bringing me my test but I could see you smiling. I was smiling to you too. You follow me every so often on spotify. Changed your bio to send me messages. You're so endearing, I wish you weren't so shy.

I know it is kind of my fault things ended but I couldn't keep waiting and only texting online. I want real contact. I think you understand that too. I was always planning efforts to talk to you, for example before exams. A shame you kept coming in late and had to sit in the front.

I miss your humor. You were so fun to talk to. Sometimes I read back our old, now ancient, conversations and find myself smiling. Somewhere I also think I might've took you for granted. I didn't see your spirit at the time. Now I see how sweet you were to me.

I wonder what I have to offer to you though? Looking back on our messages you were mostly carrying the conversations. I feel like I am too,, mentally ill. You are shy and have no experience while I've been in too many toxic relationships- though you don't know that yet. I'm afraid you might not be able to handle it, and support me right. I don't want to "infect" you either. Sometimes you skipped school after I did and it felt really shitty because I don't want to influence you like that. And what if you are just in love with the idea of me or the idea of having a girlfriend? Would you be okay not having sex? It is my greatest fear. I am too afraid to share all of my history with you- but that should be a part of having a partner.

I don't know. I also don't want myself to keep making excuses and not try anything due to my fear of abandonment and pushing people away. I mean, I'm not (yet) scared you'll leave me but more so, that we wouldn't work out and both end up very hurt. There's lots of "practical" reasons why we are "too" different to work but I still feel so strongly about you- that I wonder if I should just give it a shot.

I am planning on making more contact with you- just you wait. But you need to stop being shy. I hope that if you see I like you too- you have more courage to be direct.

When I can't sleep at night I think of you. I fantasize about us finally talking, going on a date. I want to hug and kiss yoPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

nothing was for me but now everything you do is for me. you were born dead. you do everything backwards.

Progressively apply for jobs and you will meet more people

>>129775
ive been trying for the past two years, i live in a small town with a shitty job market. Even getting a job in retail or fastfood is hard

>>129774
I just drink and try not to think about it

I feel you anon. All friends I had in school I fell out of contact with after a while (mainly because of us being put in different classes) and now I don't have any friends left from school. My only current friends are online friends but I know even those friendships are very shaky and could collapse at any time

I'm 22 and I have no friends.

It gets better, learn to become your own best friend and that warm glow will bring other people close to you. Im 30 and only in last couple years have i made genuine friendships, and even have a bestie now! I used to be miserable and lonely but i learned to accept things about myself and my situation, and found confidence within myself. Have self respect and don't let awful people steer your life in ways you do not want it to go, its better to be alone and calm than being around people that keep stressing you out and draining your energy. Find people who love, care, and want to grow, help them and theh will help you
♡

I was 20 and I had a friend, then I met more people later in life

Pretend you have a lot of friends. When you want to make friends be casual and pretend you're inviting her to your circle rather than inviting yourself to her friend group.

Manifest.

>>129715
In that case, I can be an activist for any cause and says that it's feminism. A movement need a general direction.

>>129727
>I can be an activist for any cause and says that it's feminism
That's pretty much what happens

>>129700
Men need to have their sexuality controlled, women don't. Men should not have easy access to women's bodies through porn, prostitutes, social norms, etc. etc. but it's fine if people have easy access to men's body. These things need to be regulated for men, not women. The ONLY time a man should see a woman naked is if she decided to let him.

The amount of fandom spaces I've been in that got infested with child groomers and other sexpests is insane so I feel your pain nona. Seems like almost every online group is full of these types of insane people

>>129736
The crazy thing too is that this has always been the case, it's just got exponentially worse since I was a kid. Like I was super groomed online as a kid, surrounded by pedo lolicons, and I still managed to find fandom spaces that didn't have porn obsessed weirdos despite this. The Vocaloid fandom in particular was pretty chill when I was younger, because most people in it were kids, and kids at that time weren't as porn-obsessed (unless you were like me and groomed like crazy). Nowadays, almost any time I try to find a Vocaloid spot, it's just chock full of porn or fetish references. I've seen more weird fetish content of Miku and Teto than I have new songs in the last year.

>>129376
It depends who the man is and who the woman is but if a woman is unhappy with me I do sometimes take it personally

>>129376
Yeah, same for me. When men insult me I dont really care as much unless it's something extremely important to me. But with women are mean it makes me so sensitive for some reason. I'm not sure why this is tho. Maybe I'm just used to men being rude and bitchy but when women are rude to me I do take it more seriously and introspect more when it happens

>>129376
Same for anyone who owns a brain. Women are honest, more emotionally mature, smarter and not brain rotted from porn and red pill.
And most importantly, women are humans, males are subhumans.
Opinion of subhumans doesn't matter to humans.

When i started dating a guy, my bestie called me a "traitor straightie" and it made me cry

holy fuck you're a mess lmao

>>129708
yeah this is what shitty boyfriends and having BDD/former anachan does to u lol

>>129689
advice to you or anybody that has problems with their bf that they feel they couldn't resolve.
Break up.
Simple.
Never ever ever cheat, you immediately lose your argument if you do. Why cheat and stay in a relationship anyway if you don't like him anymore? Break up and finish it.

>>129689
they’re all booing but im clapping. you don’t ever gotta feel bad about cheating on cheaters.

Do both of yourselves a favor and leave him. If hes lying about porn usage what else is he lying about? cheating is not good either and if youre vernting your frustration that way, why not just cut off the source of it rather than "dealing" with it?