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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 131823

>>131815
I hope you feel better soon

Anonymous 131824

I finally got assaulted by a black nationalist today. Real hotep hours.

Anonymous 131825

>>131824
Is this a joke?

Anonymous 131839

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>bf 173cm
>me 160cm
That tfw feeling when you’re about to bring some new midgets into this world

Anonymous 131844

>>131839
get a 190cm one


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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 131647

stop giving her the attention she craves omg

Anonymous 131648

My body is ugly and I have to deal with mentally ill people gaslighting me on top of that

Anonymous 131709

How can i step out of my house when I see russian stacies with long bodies, long shapely legs, perfect angelic european features, wearing clothes that suit their body type made for them. Women with european features, long legs flat stomachs and perky boobs , seriously there's no cope. This summer is going to be suifuel again

Anonymous 131710

>>131709
Russian nona?

Anonymous 131711

>>131710
I wish


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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 131816

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i miss being single so damn bad
it stresses me out too much to feel like a half of a whole. everything my bf does slightly non-optimally irritates me and i am mean because of it
he never argues or gets upset with me for it either and does everything i ask
on paper i have the perfect boyfriend
but when a friend does something that bothers me, you know, i can calm down easily? i do not feel like they are part of me, even if i may talk to them even more than my boyfriend some days..
being a girlfriend feels like too much a tether to the outside world. i want to sink into my solitude. i love living in my head.
i love living alone and not having anyone in my space outside of the time i allow them in
i'm not sure i'm meant for romantic love

Anonymous 131818

>>131816
>i want to sink into my solitude. i love living in my head. i love living alone and not having anyone in my space outside of the time i allow them in. i'm not sure i'm meant for romantic love
I didn't expect this post to actually hit home so hard. What you're missing is that you rely on other people more than you know. Did you build your own home? Do you grow or hunt your own food? Did you make your own clothing? What about the roads near your home? Did you clear those? Do you maintain them? You exist in a larger social structure and have come to rely on it just as it may rely on you to consume what it produces or pay taxes, etc. Unless you plan on learning many survival skills and living alone in the forest, I suggest you simply learn to coexist with others. An impossible feat you'd say but you don't realize the mountain exists only in your mind. With one thought, it would cease to exist. You control your reality

Anonymous 131827

I miss winter like you wouldn't believe.
>>131816
Break up with him, you'll feel like this until it's unbearable.

Anonymous 131838

>>131818
oh yes, i do rely on many people. especially my parents - they are the only reason i am here - i'm a sick person mentally and physically
however, i also only feel emotionally attached to them, and no one else. i feel thankful for my friends and my boyfriend and everyone else in my life for sure.
i'm an extrovert, actually - or at least i play one in public? i'm talkative and charismatic, but i prefer to only exist to people like this. i maintain a distance where i am only a bright spot in some people's lives that keeps popping up. if you try to reach me when i'm not there, you'll fail, and so most don't try outside of inviting me out. i think they can sense i do not want to me known? maybe?
to an extent, i also don't even let my dad in, and he is the closest person ever to me. my parents are the only ones i can feel in my space without feeling like they're trespassing into something i don't even want them to know exists?
i can rely on them without letting them in, you know?
>>131827
it is hard but i likely will have to. i never want to live with him, or anyone, no matter how perfect. he says he doesn't want that with anyone except me, but, i think he may just be too in love with me to realize i'm not the only special girl. there are girls with more open hearts, more empathy

Anonymous 131840

>>131838
You're fearful and guarded but I can't say I don't understand how you feel. Just remember you CAN change and things don't have to be this way. It is possible I promise you


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Anonymous 128419[Reply]

feels like I'm excluded from womanhood because I have a hormonal condition (pcos) and I'm a tomboy
>Be me
>25 year old female ,who powerlifts
>Have a decent amount of muscle and deep voice due to pcos as well as body hair from the age of 12
>Join a women's only art discord server
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend,I say no
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped and instantly banned
>Had enough because this happens to me everyday,even in the women's bathrooms. Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod ,and get promptly banned again as expected (that's fair enough)

Damn
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>Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod
Nigga why?

Anonymous 130609

>>128419
God I wish that were me (Revy). I'm weak and skinny

Anonymous 130610

>>130609
same

Anonymous 131438

>>128419
>sending nudes to strangers without consent

Anonymous 131836

>>128419
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped
>send my pussy and tits to the mod
>I posted this photo of this painting I made of my boyfriend who has big honkers
Yeah that happened
anon if any of this is true, I'd look into therapy because none of this is normal behaviour


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are women meaner or nicer when you look good? Anonymous 131767[Reply]

Since I've moved to a big city I've had this problem where I'll be minding my business in a grocery store and some crackhead middleaged woman will try and start a fight with me. It happens a few times a year. I never instigate, I always keep to myself and stay far away from people. They'll throw insults usually, but last week a woman tried hitting me with her cart.

I always look like a bum when I go grocery shopping. My friend suggested I dress up when I shop so that these women will feel inferior and leave me the fuck alone. Does that work? I thought they'd get jealous and the opposite would happen.

Idk. Let me know what you guys have experienced.
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Anonymous 131793

>>131778
Yes. /thread

Anonymous 131794

>>131793
No

Anonymous 131807

You probably seem harmless and kind, and that type of thug really likes to hit on women. If you dress better, they might think you have more money and want to ask you for more things; the best thing to do is walk around with a serious face, homeless people and drug addicts like to intimidate people who seem excessively kind.

Anonymous 131809

>>131808
No milf for canadians

Anonymous 131826

>>131772
Nod and walk away.


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there’s always another girl Anonymous 131762[Reply]

i don’t know why men can never just be satisfied with one girl. they always want something more from other girls in one way or another. one girl will never be enough for them. it doesn’t even matter how devoted and loving you are. in my experience that makes them want to do this sort of thing even more. without fail they always do this to me. this man has done this to me with multiple girls. my heart is broken. i am so devastated.

Anonymous 131763

>>131762
I'm sorry to hear someone has broken your heart. Unfortunately the kind of person who will be loyal and trustworthy in a relationship might not be as interesting or fun as the person who might cheat. It's really important to think about the kind of person you're dealing with when choosing a partner. You don't want to overanalyze every little thing they do but you should absolutely be paying attention if they say they're still close with their ex or if they're a person who has a tendency to do drastic spontaneous things. At the end of the day, love is ultimately a gamble and as any gambler will tell you, sometimes you're just going to lose. Keep your head up there are billions other fish in the sea.

Anonymous 131764

I hear a lot of ice cream helps and throw his clothes into the street

Anonymous 131765

i’m sorry nona :( men suck. take the advice sylvia could never follow through with herself.

Anonymous 131766

>>131763
I know what you are.

Anonymous 131792

Typical moid behavior.


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bf clothes smell like ferret Anonymous 131785[Reply]

i love my boyfriend desu
but clothes that hang up in his room smell like ammonia-y ferret droppings. not musky, like cat pee if it was even worse, and without actually coming in contact with the pee. he has to wash his clothes when he comes over. when i go over i have to keep my clothes shut in my zipped suitcase. my dumb ass just hasn't told him that i know the source of it
we're ldr and idk how to broach the topic that it is gonna be me or the ferrets if he wants me to move in with him. i have migraines and my ocd already makes me think i'm stinky
also it's bad for animal welfare i think
wtf i do
(i already am bitey when he doesnt do stuff to my standard in my home, he just says ok and does it tho)

Anonymous 131787

build a decontamination chamber in your house

Anonymous 131788

>>131787
do not worry
there will be no house if this is not dealt with somehow


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bf didn’t follow the three month rule Anonymous 127558[Reply]

i was proposed to but there are a lot of red flags and i’m really having some doubts. for starters it was an impulse proposal and i wouldn’t have wanted my engagement photos where i was dressed the way i was. he let me leave the house looking like absolute shit and only posted the ugliest photo. the other photos i don’t have a double chin. other girls have best friends that take them to do nails and secretly get them ready. a female friend was there and knew and didn’t do anything to help me with my appearance beforehand. he bought the rings there. i don’t know if he thinks i’m fat but my ring is sized so poorly i can’t wear it and we’ve been turned down so far at the shops we’ve taken the rings to because they don’t work with cheap metal or rings they didn’t sell there. like it’s not a size too big it’s dangling off my finger and i have no idea why he thought my finger would be so huge it makes me want to cry. my friends are all furious for me. he doesn’t make that much money it’s true but he could have gotten me a real ring. and then i came home. and i found out his ex got proposed to the same day. the same. day. and she had been aware of it and had a spa day with her friends and a gorgeous engagement shoot and party with loved ones. and it’s not even her real engagement party. hes talking about whether or not i think she’ll send him the announcement “to rub it in”. they have mutual friends and i can’t help wonder if my engagement was a last minute response to her engagement so he could post ours first? she had a professional photographer and mailed out announcements before she posted online about it. my engagement photo shoot was also an impulse - we were on a walk with a friend and he snapped some pictures and we called it an engagement shoot. my ex had been talking about his exes prissy snobby etc engagement and i think our friend felt bad for me. since then, he’s disappeared inside himself. he’s on the computer all day. he wouldn’t even pay attention to me right after at my dads birthday party, just sat in a lawn chair in his stupid yellow shirt drinking beer after beer scrolling on his phone occasionally hiding his phone screen trying not to make eye contact with me. we had a talk about it and i said i wasn’t insecure and my friends have been supportive and game with me when he won’t. he got jealous and has been making an effort to join in now and NOW he has a problem with screen time and wants to go out. to places he used to go with his ex or placePost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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Anonymous 127773

>>127769
after a certain point of having so little in my relationship to talk about i started making content about how we eat different foods from each other even though we both have ARFID because there was literally nothing else in our relationship to make content about, including both of us gaming but none of that ending up as usable content because of his personality. maybe i deserve an affair where it feels like there’s blood in my veins again. the sitting around watching a man unable to eat vegetables rotate through the same five junk food meals that make his cum taste like battery acid has me thinking maybe there is more to life than meal prepping for a 30 year old toddler and watching him fart and disassociate staring at a screen.

Anonymous 127942

>>127773
What the fuck do you mean an affair. Run away ASAP nona, nothing will fix him. It will only get worse, get out before it's too late.

Anonymous 130648

HERE LIES NONA
???? - 2026
she died as she lived; in a relationship with an awful man

Anonymous 131598

>>127773
Nona what the fuck what is making you stay with him

Make a book and monetize or something because I rarely see people actually experiencing this crazy stuff, you know? I actually think, that if you made a book you would sell it asap. Really fast, like Colleen Hoover but you are writing something real.

I actually desire you the best for your future writer career.

Anonymous 131779

when I read shit like this I can only wonder how the hell did you end up with a guy like this in the first place


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NEETs what do you do all day? Anonymous 125667[Reply]

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.
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Anonymous 131211

yoga, read, cook, clean, workout, overwatch.

Anonymous 131268

a large chunk of my day is just wasting away, suffering from painkiller resistant chronic pain and fatigue and they still call me lazy

Anonymous 131277

>>131268
Have you tried not being in pain? /s

Anonymous 131558

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I’m living a good life as a NEET right now and I’m pretty productive in my daily life. But seeing other women actually having pretty impressive jobs makes me feel like I need to prove I’m just as good as them. I don’t want to be the less accomplished one in the room, you know? A career isn’t necessary for that but the fact that I sucked at my jobs makes me feel insecure.

Anonymous 131747

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>>130256
After like a month I notice I probably do much better when I dedicate all my time to one project at a time. My mind is just naturally way too dedicated and tunnel vision. I am not sure if that's a good thing or a bad one. But I get some stuff done.


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