What's wrong with being ugly you don't get harassed by moids right?

>>128452
thank-you for informing me. i'll be sure not to spread any cope related to teeth issues then. i'm personally in denial, because my own insecurity about wearing teeth gear discouraged me from going forward with a fix for my overjet and braces to straighten the form got dismissed. oh how fucking stupid i was. to any young s lurking, use anything offered to you for your appearance. do not lean on the comfort of avoiding current-time inconveniences. just plunge into the cold water and fucking save yourself. i do vaguely recall that the top half of the mouth can be fixed through surgery, so that i'll still cling to.

>>128455
You do. I'm sure there's a level of appearance where you're mostly left alone but at a certain level of ugliness moids will react with aggression.

I occasionally have groups of teenage moids who'll come at me and scream shit like "WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOUR FACE" into my face. But zoomers are mostly too socially awkward to do it.

Millennial and boomer men are another matter altogether. Imagine the worst school bully you've ever experienced, this is how these grown men act when they see an ugly woman
I mentioned my coworker in OP and that's how most moids react - mockery best case, violence and contempt worst case.
I've had a junkie run at me waving his fists and screaming "YOU LOOK SO FUCKED UP".

This summer a moid stopped his car on the side of the road and got out to tell me that I "shouldn't wear stuff like this" (pink shin-length dress, cardigan - very basic and nondescript clothing) "while looking like this" (gestured to face). Then laughed like he just made the best joke ever

At my gym there is an elder millennial/boomer regular who makes jabs at me every time he sees me. "still with that face I see hahahaha" "wow you look great, did you change your hair hahahahaha" "this top looks great you just need a paper bag hahahahaha". He has a wife, from what I hear, and works as a doctor.

I have tons of examples of strangers approaching me just to tell me I'm ugly, it happens several times a month. And it's never women. I'm sure they remark on it in private and that doesn't bother me because it doesn't even rank in comparison to the above

>>128455
Bland little comment, but I'll bite. We earn 12% less than attractive people. We're likelier to be estimated as less sociable, less friendly, we're guessed as having worse personalities regardless of our real ones. Being perceived as unattractive is linked to negative health outcomes like disordered eating and poorer mental wellness. We go through systematic bias in education, employment and the legal system. Imagine getting a worse sentence because the judge and the jury isn't charmed by a sweet little face? Absolutely rotten. We receive harsher sentences. "Unattractive is bad" becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy against our will, all because others decide that we're not worth talking to, not worth dating for love, not worth including in plans. Then they complain that we're bitter, and stupidly say that their observation of our grief confirms all their oh so true suspicions that we're not worth anything.
I personally don't care to reduce the suffering of pretty girls. I'm nowhere near hungry for the molesting eyes of men, who are the primary predators of beauty. I also find them gorgeous and want them to enjoy their blessings. But listen, the whole not getting harassed thing is bullshit. Not only because ugly women will get raped and not believed, all to the benefit of the rapist - but because I've been shouted at in the road by a bunch of males simply for being ugly. They include you in their jokes against your participation - i wasn't even looking at them - clawing at my dignity just because they could and always can. All the claims of not being harassed come from people who haven't cared at all to know what any of us unattractive people go through.>>128455

>>128457
what country are you from

i’m sorry i hurt you back. you hurt me so much worse but i shouldn’t have done it.

i’m sorry i made you feel like you couldn’t use your coping mechanism and you had to take the first disgusting thing that would settle down with you. i didn’t mean to ruin your entire life. please don’t kill yourself. go with your friends to japan. go with your dad across the country on motorcycles to colorado. your options are not kill yourself or stay trapped and die slowly. you’re not even as old as her you’ve got at least five years before you need to have this breakdown. don’t kill yourself please. don’t end your life and destroy yourself like this. that was never my goal and i feel sick that it ended up this way. it’s not right that this happened because of me. you would never be in the position you are without what i did. with work and where you live and relationships and friendships and education and money all of it. i ruined your mental health and confidence. i’m sorry. i can fix this. just please don’t end up like your father. you’re on a worse path and it makes me feel sick. your life is so fucked i’m so sorry. i can even help you fix your skin and hair.

i know when you’ve been listening to the end of the beginning it’s been a bad thing. i know you’re saying goodbye to happiness and maybe your entire life.

it’s not the end of happiness and youth unless you choose to close the door on everything good and begin to die. i know that’s the choice you’re making. i know you’ve been left no other options and feel grateful for any support by anyone at all. even if it’s misguided and evil and not love but enabling. even if it supports the most evil crimes committed by man. you’re a villain with an evil advisor.

i’m so sorry i degraded you until you saw yourself as on this level. i’m so sorry.

u probably are cause most ppl are impressionable so just assume ur impressionable and then you can not be as impressionable as most ppl

>>128429
It’s just really uncomfortable for us both physically. He likes the look of a girl in his t shirts with no pants on, gushes about his 4’11” ex looked like that. They’re crop tops on me. He can’t pick me up and he’s into that. I can’t sit on his lap. He can’t spoon me. I can tell both of us are dissatisfied physically.

>>128443
Treading carefully in a reasonable response but I think he should learn to princess carry you

>>128443
is it really that bad? i have a crush on a guy 4 inches shorter than me and this is my worst fear

>>128471
it was BRUTAL in high school and college people my bff was 5’11 and she would get ghosted and have the boy she dated pretend he didn’t know her when his friends started taunting him about the height difference. idk how it is with adults. i will say she said the same thing about being even a little larger than the man sucked for cuddling and she wasn’t big enough he could be a good little spoon so it just sucked overall. she likes dating much taller men now.

>>128473
>idk how it is with adults
Adults are just older highschoolers these days.

OP again, embarrassed that I'm still posting here. Things have been crazy. I'm heading to a manga cafe tonight and meeting with my welfare manager tomorrow. I hope she can help me make a plan. I'm suddenly feeling really scared about everything.

>>128440
I cant even believe this thread is still here…..but four years later here we are.

OP here. I'm going to a shelter. I feel weirdly calm about it.

OP again. I started second-guessing myself. Husband keeps calling and threatening to call the police (what?) and show up at my workplace (I'm not there). Suddenly I'm worried the shelter won't take me. I don't know what the shelter will be like, which worries me. I don't know how I'll find another job.

But at least I won't be abused any more.

On my way to the shelter. My husband showed up at my workplace so they're filing a police report.

>>127480
>anger issues as a child that were never resolved
>very bad reputation on campus
>our college had to move us into seperate houses
Clearly they are seeing something you are blinding yourself to. Please be safe nona.

>>127492
hell no never

Pros
> very sweet and kind, he plans cutes dates for us and is always nice…
> very cute, extremely out of my league
> smartie pants
> puzzle master
> lets me drag him along because he always gets lost otherwise
> has sex witb me on my period
> good taste in films/kino
> very good kisser
> sensible political views for the most part
> not a big whore
> always nice to talk to, very compatible in that way
> really really funny
> gets really sweaty but in a cyte way during sex

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>>128469
>ctrl + f hot
>photo
>hotdog
>photography
>shots
>hot tempered
….

I miss him so fucking much nonas. Fucking bipolar.

I slept 11 hours and then took a 2.5 hour nap and I'm still so tired. Stress exhaustion is real. Coffee only helps a little.

Other women (dumb) love me, men (dumb) hate me.
Other women (smart) hate me or just kinda generally stay away, men (smart) love me.

i truly have no one. i’m so painfully sad.

I gave myself a hangover.

lol what, I think it’s just them being permanently online. Is there anything that makes your art look masc in particular? Seems like a very odd comment from them

>>128422
I'm not really sure ,I posted this photo of this painting I made of my boyfriend and they thought he made it. Even tho I explicitly said I did. They banned me because of my voice ,which I have a deep voice especially now since I'm going through premature menopause ( due to the pcos )

This gotta be fake nobody's this retarded
Then again… i have been wrong before
If true they knew (and were just being malicious)

>>128424
I wish it was ,but it's not. I'm very lonely and wish I had some female art friends. But women hate me because they think I'm trans

>>128423
Is your boyfriend Jasper？

Besides satisfying my physiological needs, not much. I think a lot. From the moment i wake up i start thinking and i don't stop thinking until all my energy is depleted. It is lonely to be a thinker, to have realized things that take long time to realize, because you can't explain to others something that takes long time to realize for the same reason you can't learn a language by having someone explain it to you. It takes time and i have spent a lot of it. Now there is an abyss between me and other humans, it feels lonely, but at the same time i feel fortunate, i regret nothing. There is a way back to people, some day i might start helping them, but my compassion is still lacking.

>>125667
Self study. Free courses online. Laugh at streams. Hobbies. Cloud watching, painting, woodwork. Explore. Go on virtual tours. Plenty of free crap to do online and IRL. Volunteer.

I'm over 30. It's possible that I have AuDHD but I never got diagnosed, and never will. I just watch useless videos, scroll useless sites, read useless things, argue with useless people online, and do useless stuff. I live with my parents and help around the house, and I watch movies during days where I don't feel guilty about wasting my time.

I have tried many attempts to change my life, but my attempts always crumble because I try to take drastic steps to change. I try to change to take steps that could be as simple as starting to go out for a walk or as drastic as getting an interview but I could never really make it out. The simple changes don't stick for more than a weak and the drastic changes are too overwhelming I just crash out the next days and completely hit rock bottom again.

Smoke ciggies like a real woman
But in all honesty I just do art all day and lift with my husband , I clean he cooks so it's a good dynamic