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NEETs what do you do all day? Anonymous 125667[Reply]

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.
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Anonymous 131182

>>131062
what vidya?

Anonymous 131211

yoga, read, cook, clean, workout, overwatch.

Anonymous 131268

a large chunk of my day is just wasting away, suffering from painkiller resistant chronic pain and fatigue and they still call me lazy

Anonymous 131277

>>131268
Have you tried not being in pain? /s

Anonymous 131558

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I’m living a good life as a NEET right now and I’m pretty productive in my daily life. But seeing other women actually having pretty impressive jobs makes me feel like I need to prove I’m just as good as them. I don’t want to be the less accomplished one in the room, you know? A career isn’t necessary for that but the fact that I sucked at my jobs makes me feel insecure.



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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 131479

All i want is love having such strong need and not being able to satisfy it is the worst feeling. Im literally starving, mentally and there's no cure for that.. im a dead person who has died long time ago from starvation, thats all. Then you start physically starve yourself too because theres no point in carrying a dead mind in a rotten flesh. I was meant to be buried under ground as soon as I born but instead i had to pay for my sins in this hell because i must've been a bad person in my previous life, right?

Anonymous 131525

i got bullied at work by a client and my coworkers laughed about it, he called me ugly and was swearing at me. Ngl he wasn't attractive either, he was behaving like Elliot Rodger and he was probably mentally ill, I got ptsd for no reason. It happened before it was a mentally unstable lady, I didn't get ptsd, i just felt weird vibes aura whatever. I'm not that ugly, I've seen attractive guys blush, even though I'm supposely ugly. People probably think I'm gay, i blush/flush easily, it's just the way i am. Maybe i should bleach my skin so they cant tell.

Anonymous 131535

>>131525
they are just jumping on you because they can sense you are embarrassed. bleaching your skin will make blushing more visible.

Anonymous 131555

God i forget how subhuman i look until i compared myself to white women wtf it's crazy how delusional it can make you. I just remembered why my life sucked and I should get PS asap. My wide ass round face, angular jaw, flat ugly wide cheekbones, weird disgustingg orbital shape, why the fuck my face is this wide and round, my ugly big nose, recessed jaw and maxilla, I hate my subhuman pheno I seriously genuinely want to kill myself, I can't even go outside like this, primitive ass skull shape. Do any of you have any actual tips on how do you go about your days? Because I need help until I can somehow manage to fix this shit face through surgery, until then I'm stuck with this thing

Anonymous 131557

>>131555
Just compare yourself to other browns.



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Anonymous 131526[Reply]

my current bf of a few weeks posted on reddit a while ago an admission to cocsa. there were frequent encounters, mainly against his little sister that’s over four years younger than him from toddler aged to unclear when it stopped. probably around middle school. he would also touch and show his little cousins things like porn and sex toys too. sometimes all in a group. he was the oldest by far. he told me it was funny and not a big deal. he also had a bpd ex accuse him of misconduct and dated underaged girls as an adult, but not a huge age gap and he stopped when he was 22. he doesn’t seem to think any of this is a big deal and says the people angry at him lack nuance. what should i be feeling?

Anonymous 131527

You should break up with him, what the fuck?

Anonymous 131528

He's clearly a user, Nona. Pedos are just human predators who really suck at being human predators, so they go after the most vulnerable of all.

Anonymous 131530

>>131527
>>131528
this for real isn’t my life and sorry for being misleading but the answer is so fucking obvious i’m just posting this and screenshotting responses to the person who needed to hear this. sorry for any unintentional emotional distress it is an actual real life thing that happened but it’s not my life.

Anonymous 131538

>>131530
Post their replies

Anonymous 131554

>>131530
Should've made that obvious???



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Anonymous 131529[Reply]

Fuck it. I'm going to do it. I'm going to quit DBT. I am so sick of being blamed for my reactions to people doing despicable things to me.

DBT is just gaslighting you into accepting abuse at the hands of others. Nothing more. That's it.

My coworker treats me like a literal fucking child when I crash out and tell him to stop abusing the interns who are too afraid to tell him no. He makes them do very dangerous and illegal things that end up with them actually poisoned with immediate and long term health effects, and then blames them for not taking precautions when I finally reported him. And when I finally call him out when he tries manipulating the intern again, he quickly turns it around and asks the autistic intern if what I said was true; and the autistic fucktard starts apologizing because he's afraid of losing his job! A thing I pointed out!

My therapist told me that our last session was the first session where I was open enough to cry in front of her. But I've cried in front of her many times. She flat out said that I was faking crying before! I don't fucking fake that shit, what the fuck?!

People act like there is something wrong with me for being upset at their shitty treatment of me and their behaviors. They act like I am broken when I break down crying.

Fuck that bitch, I am going to push back at group and be the fucking problem for fucking once. Fuck her.

At least I'm not paying for the sessions, it's all government money. Fuck them too.

Anonymous 131534

>>131529
girl what is actually going on in your life. like hang on. people are being poisoned? let’s talk about it.

Anonymous 131553

>>131534
I work in industry as a machinist and TIG welder. He has, to date, ordered the apprentice to machine raw lead (illegal as fuck), grind hardwood without PPE, and attempt welding on galvanized steel (creates poisonous gases). This man has laughed when I was walking around dazed nauseous with welder gal, poisoned by the gasses from lack of PPE. He thought it was funny. And he became upset with me when I refused to do a job where I had gotten arsenic poisoning twice before, and told him to do it himself.

But, apparently, I'm the problem.

I can't exactly quit either, very few other places would put up with my emotionally erratic ass.



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How to stop feeling like a subhuman because I'm a woman Anonymous 126636[Reply]

No it's not because of men that I feel this way, neither porn, but I've seen porn and women act like subhumans in it.
My problem is that I see submission as subhuman and female submission in sex is human and natural and sex is the fundamental part of the reality. So it's like we are subhumans in life. I don't hate myself but I hate womanhood.
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Anonymous 131536

>>131449

This is so based

Anonymous 131547

>>131449
finally someone wrote something to address the stupid meme OP is perpetrating

Anonymous 131549

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Anonymous 131551

>>131550
can you send me some money

Anonymous 131552

>>131551
For what exactly



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 131537

Omegle is gone and one of my sources for socializing and processing things is gone.

I used to use omegle all the time for basic decision making by asking strangers online, then I would eventually make statistics and decide on my own based on that data like a machine.

Now I have to think about how I feel about stuff. And process things, and when I do exercise I have to do it on my own for my own.

Not because I have to keep an image for others or compete with others.

Most of what used to keep me up was basic competence to compete with others and keep up with others, it sounds very moidy yet it's the truth.

Now I'm alone in my early 20s, just two friends (my boyfriend and one girl friend) and my boyfriend is still a man.

Even if men are friends they eventually end up liking me, so I cannot really keep them as friends only for so long.

I don't know what to do.
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Anonymous 131540

>>131537
That’s fucking crazy if you’re not joking
There are other Omegle like services I’m pretty sure tho (I know of one but it’s not in English)

Anonymous 131541

Your post also kinda feels like something I’d write. Crazy.

Anonymous 131543

>>131540


Yes nona I found one now and got banned because i rejceted a moid and he reported me saying I shared my social media :(

And I am so bored of books I used to read 3 to 5, in book chats I used to not be able to fit in because they were talking about stuff and I was too autistic to fit in and say "yeah uh pride and prejudice is very interesting" even with feminists.

I just cannot seem to find friendship with women easily as they do because I am too autistic to keep friendships with other women in general T-T

should i just make a book list? Should I text my old friends? I just am tired of trying to fit in and if I don't fit in it's hard because I don't know where to find other women into stuff I'm interested

Like I found another woman around my age into tanks? But she's russian. I remember I spoke to a girl here but she found me too weird.

Then I met another woman around my age, she toldm e something I said something and she said I was too cold and insensitive.
I don't really know how to socialize and this is starting to show off just now.
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Anonymous 131544

>>131543
Are you young?
I think you’re probably not hanging out with the right people for you. You sound like you need someone to relate to right now instead of just trying to force friendship with random folk. I may be wrong of course but that was true for me personally. I wish you good luck nona.



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Lifelong depression Anonymous 131513[Reply]

Not even a wish could fix me. I have been depressed since I was a kid, and at first the reasons for the depression were pretty concrete and specific (body and family issues mostly). Yet now I cannot even tell you why I am depressed anymore. Even in the wonderland in my head where all my problems are gone I am still depressed. The apathy has shaped me so profoundly that I cannot imagine a version of me without it. I can only hope that this stay at earth wont be particularly long and that the next try will be better.

Anonymous 131516

I understand you, nona. I have depression too and antidepressants don't really help with it. I only have hope that one day it will disappear for one reason or another. Stay strong. I am with you.

Anonymous 131517

>>131513
I went to a rave and i got better and realized i need friends and sunlight

Anonymous 131542

Depression is a catastrophe in the chemistry of the brain which is connected to the chemistry of the whole body. It is subject to chance. The healthiest person can get unlucky and suddenly ienxplicably lose their brain health. A depressed person can get lucky and inexplicably gain health. You can get lucky with the right medicine. You can get lucky with the right therapy (in the broader sense where both nature walks and talk therapies are therapy). You can get lucky in a way which you cannot articulate or imagine at this point in time. In so far as you can I wish you will believe and act upon the truth that even when things are very bad they can still be slightly better or worse and that despite it feeling small it is significant to try to make things very bad but slightly better rather than very bad and slightly worse. Luck may appear in that difference one day.

I'd like to recommend the book Radical Hope by Jonathan Lear. It's a philosophical book about having hope while having no concept of what a bearable world would look like.



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Moving on Anonymous 131495[Reply]

How do i stop thinking about him, its been like 3 months now and the last thing he told me was to leave him alone. When he was distant and pulling away i kept getting closer and closer and it probably pushed him off and annoyed him. He said that he mentally checked out a long time ago and when he called me on the phone that we are over it felt like my whole world is going down, i was legit getting panic attacks at night and i lost my appetite and im too afraid to text him since i dont want to know if he blocked me. I just want him back. We were together for 8 months and around the 1-3 months it was good and it kind of drizzled down around 4-5 month were he has this hot and cold behaviour. For example 1-2 days he is warm and approaching and next 1-2 days he is cold and distant and this attitude alternates. Everytime he pulls away and acts cold and distant i kept asking him whats wrong and he kept responding that hes alright, hes okay and nothing is bothering him. Like how would i know there is an underlying issue if he conceals the problem by refusing to talk to me. Just the idea of him being with another girl and being intimate and having sex kills me in the inside. I just work it out and fix it. I need help. This hurts so much.
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Anonymous 131512

>>131505
He said that it was hard for him to talk and he said he tried telling me but it just went from one ear to another and he didnt bother telling me because it would lead to an argument to will go no where. Im like how am i supposed to know if you didnt tell me. How would it go from one ear to another if you havent physically vocalized and communicate. He also said that he always felt alone when we were together meanwhile i put all of my attention to him.

Anonymous 131521

was this your first bf?

Anonymous 131522

>>131521
I had 2 "bfs" in high school but this was the first time i had something serious. Im 27 now

Anonymous 131523

>>131512
everything you posted so far is just another iteration of "he is a useless, non-talkative piece of shit who blames you for his communication problems". Like he didnt even talk to you and then said he was sure you wouldnt have listened anyways or that you would have started a fight? He cant even take accountability for his inablitity to speak normally to you. Fuck this guy.

Anonymous 131524

pathetic



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Anonymous 131463[Reply]

What's your dream bf like?

for me:
>16-66 years old
>in severe debt
>incel, never had sex
>bald
>173cm tall exactly
>widely considered to be a schizo
>has a number of congenital diseases
>has brain damage
>no friends
>might be missing a finger or two
>speaks Mongolian

Anonymous 131480

>19-26
>brunette, light eyes, fair skin
>tall but no too tall 184cm is ideal
>shy and sensitive
>confident
>smart
>is politically right leaning and laid back, doesn't gaf
>not feminist
>romantic and enjoys companion
>avoidant with nurturing personality
>doesn't use stuff like skincare or gay parfums, i like natural masculine men
>has a good facial structure: jaw, cheekbones, browbone but not too robust and is fleshy
>pink nipples
>doesb't mind me being shy and weird
>has humour
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Anonymous 131481

>>131480
>>pink nipples
good taste.

Anonymous 131484

>>131480
>Right leaning + not feminist
extremely cringe

>>131463
>bald
cringe

>21-25 or not stupid

>does not really identify with anything, cares about humanity as a whole (dutiful and self-sacrificing like a male feminist)
>can survive and make peace in any situation (such as being trapped in a basement)
>good fat storage, slightly fat because he takes care of his needs
>promiscuous and easily charms others to have homosexual relations (“my husband’s bf”)

Anonymous 131485

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>>131484
>cringe
assassinates you

Anonymous 131519

>16-20
>white, skinny, has glasses and a full head of hair
>above 5’7” at least
>showers
>baldness does not run in the family
>shy and awkward
>virgin
>cute
>christian, ideally lutheran
>doesn't watch IRL porn (written or drawn is fine)
>an otaku like me :3



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