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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 128859

I'm so fucking sick of my pickme coworkers, one pickme from my shift is friends with two guys who hit on me in the past, I refused one of them, I was dating the other one but nothing sexual in terms of genital contact happened between us because a) he turned out to carry a dangerous STD (I asked him to get tested and even after we knew he's carrying the STD, he was still pressing me to give him oral and was guiltripping me and calling me an egoist when I refused to touch his genitals. I still had a health scare though, because I thought I caught something just from him touching me because I got a damn infection. But thank god it was just something bacterial bc the scrote didn't wash his hands before touching me, of course. I tested myself for STDs for my own sanity and thank god I was all clear. I know there's a small risk for transmission through fingers but it's still a risk) and because b) he was toxic and idolized Andrew Tate lol. So I stopped dating him. I'm still a virgin but I bet the scrote either told her he fucked me or that I treated him very badly because she has a strong dislike for me for some reason, and she still claims the scrote is such a "good guy" and women are so pathetic and evil for not giving him a chance. I also dated our mutual coworker but again, nothing sexual happened between us, just kissing. But from the way she treats me I just know she thinks I'm a dirty whore who jumps from one man to another kek. She makes fun of feminists and women who sleep around, and I know she already put me into the second category. I'm not friends with anyone from my shift and the other 2 female coworkers and our shift leader have a very good friendly relationship. They love to gossip about other people's relationships and do pickme shit like calling sex pests "good guys" and shitting on women who don't want to date them. I just know they talk about me. I wonder if this one pickme knows that her male friend carries STDs and wants to give them to women in a fully aware way? I wonder if this is something he gladly tells her, since they're SUCH good friends? People are so pathetic. When I finally decide to quit this job, I have a feeling I'm gonna just call them names on my last day and say everything I had on my mind for this entire time kek. Just so they know they're retards in my eyes before I leave

Anonymous 128862

>>128859
Imagine if you were a politician or famous to some degree, people would talk bad things about you nonstop, if famous people can go unaffected by something like that, then so can you, don't let it get to your heart. NOTHING HAS HAPPENED.

Anonymous 128869

>>128862
Thank you anon, I will try. Still though, rich people have enough money to separate themselves from those who gossip about them and I have to work with them, at least for now lol

Anonymous 128870

I'm so tired
Every other day I have a new type of cancer
I can't calm down even if I suspect that it might not be the case
what if what if what if what if what if

Anonymous 128892

I have such bad anxiety lately over dying, conspiracies, and the afterlife. Genuinely the fact that we know so little causes me so much stress and anxiety. My only copium is knowing I'm still relatively young so I won't be dying anytime soon but still the anxiety is just looming over me



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Does anyone have a fear of never finding love? Anonymous 128837[Reply]

It's fine if I never find love or die alone. It's not a fear for me because life is life and I have my books, my cats, and my friends. But sometimes, maybe it's hormones or basic human fears, but I worry that never finding love will prove something about myself, like I am unworthy or a repellent of any sort of love. Around my period these feels worsen as is natural, but sometimes there is a hole in my belly from that fear and I can't let it go and I get anxious. :(

Anonymous 128891

>>128837
Yeah, I also feel this way. The thought of living my whole life without ever experiencing it because it's kind of plastered all over the media, in books, movies, music, even irl people place such importance on it that if you miss out on it you might feel like there's something wrong with you or you're unworthy or something. But honestly I think most people live without ever finding actual love in general. Most relationships seem to be just out of convenience or hierarchies or shallow shit. Or maybe I'm just trying to rationalize it idk. I mean even if you try to be realistic about it it's still a scary feeling. But at the end of the day I feel like most people feel this way deep down. Its a very human feeling I think



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Moid I had a crush on and then ignored me was dating someone already. Anonymous 128888[Reply]

O! So it wasn’t me, it was her. What a good moid, good moid. Scratch him behind his ear, he smelled a shark in the water and swam out to remain in fidelity. Doesn’t matter to me, I’m just happy it wasn’t because I was weird or anything. :) I actually have a chance with someone else!

Anonymous 128889

schizo

Anonymous 128890

>>128889 O fuck off, let a girl be happy on this wondrous day, I wish I was schizo, they would send me to some rent free facility until my end with free food, water, warmth and all of that stuff.



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Commie moids Anonymous 128878[Reply]

Is it a good idea to date a hardcore commie moid? [Sorry for bad English it's my second language]
>met him at a book fair with other friends
>he was in a booth encouraging people to read commie books and even gave digital copies to some
>I'm 23 he is 21
>he is studying medicine and im studying engineering
>we kinda flirted and I have a date with him on Sunday
Is it a red flag for a moid to be a commie? [Pun intended]

Anonymous 128887

go for it omg



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pros/cons of your bf Anonymous 105405[Reply]

can we please start a pros/cons list of the bf you are dating.

i am sick of seeing bf brag threads, we need a counterbalance with the crappy things your bf does on top of the good things. can be as little as pet peeves!
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>>127480
>marxist
>philosophy student (me too)

Anonymous 128466

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Pros
> very sweet and kind, he plans cutes dates for us and is always nice…
> very cute, extremely out of my league
> smartie pants
> puzzle master
> lets me drag him along because he always gets lost otherwise
> has sex witb me on my period
> good taste in films/kino
> very good kisser
> sensible political views for the most part
> not a big whore
> always nice to talk to, very compatible in that way
> really really funny
> gets really sweaty but in a cyte way during sex

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Anonymous 128470

>>128469
>ctrl + f hot
>photo
>hotdog
>photography
>shots
>hot tempered
….

Anonymous 128885

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pros:
Very attractive, both facially and physically (big muscles and low body fat percentage) though he does have self harm scars(Burning, cutting) which is off putting, but they’re old enough (doesn’t do it anymore, 2 years I think?)

Very physically fit, can do anything. Goes to the gym everyday.

Very smart. Great grades (we’re in uni), native level fluent in 3 languages, can remember many details, can learn anything, immense creativity and imagination, one of the smartest person I’ve ever met.

Very affective (also a con sometimes but it’s not deranged level). Constantly saying "I love you", asking to hug me, kiss me, lick( yes he really likes licking me there) me. It’s not lovebombing (I think) cause I can feel that he enjoys(?) "worshipping" me? he doesn’t ask for the same amount of devotion back even though it kinda forces me to reciprocate. He always wants to hug and cuddle. He himself told me he "loved loving me" (?)

He’s pretty good at acting, not top tier actor but he can be really funny with it. He likes impersonating crazy characters, which is REALLY funny sometimes.

He’s really into cunnilingus

He’s a likable person on the outside and the inside. He sometimes can just go into crowds and talk to people, (harmlessly) prank them in many different ways. and start conversations and make friends.
He can vent a lot about his emotions. He loves sharing moments with me. I love when he looks at me with puppy eyes. 🥺
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Anonymous 128886

>>>128885
Also I found out he’s autistic (did a little digging) but he never told me. I also think he might have some sort of other mental illness here and there.



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128874

oh god gaming alone on tonight of all nights and listening to that soundtrack and tycho and toy boy and lord huron all in a row… the lavender marriage of all lavender marriages. i know what he was doingggggg.

Anonymous 128875

friend of my friend.

Anonymous 128880

Jesus, what a faggot…

Anonymous 128883

it’s genuinely obvious and i enjoy it. have fun thinking of me.

Anonymous 128884

>>128880
Really chuckling at the idea of opening the post one day to find a hand written, unsigned letter reading "Jesus, what a faggot…", and nothing else.



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Broken Computer - Please Help Me!! Anonymous 124156[Reply]

It's broken in a weird way. One day, out of the blue while I was typing code in Visual Studio, the monitor turned to grey static all of a sudden and the computer wouldn't respond to any inputs. Then, next time I tried to turn it on, it made a weird buzzing sound and wouldn't show anything on the screen. I have worked with lots of computers but never seen anything like this before.

Technical specifications:
- HP Desktop Slim 2021 Model
- 16 Gigabytes of RAM
- 1000 GB m.2 drive with Windows 10
- 500 gb m.2 drive inside a PCIE16 adaptor with Linux Mint Cinnamon
- I was on Linux when it crashed

Please let me know if you have further questions or solutions. I use this computer for professional purposes and need it for a programming project.
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Anonymous 124183

^
Try taking out your OS and running through the components one at a time until you get to BIOS. Start with the RAM. That sounds like it would be the culprit. Take one out and try booting, if the problem persists try the other one. If that doesn't fix the problem start replacing components one at a time until you get some signs of life. I doubt it has anything to do with the CPU, those things are super durable. Just my process, you're on linux so you almost definitely know more about these things than I do.
Good luck and please give updates!

Anonymous 124186

>>124183
I tried to boot into the bios in all sorts of ways but it didn't do anything. I tried swapping out the drives too, same thing.

Anonymous 124187

Additionally I scanned the whole system for malware but didn't find any. I ended up wiping the Linux drive just in case.

Anonymous 124201

I fixed it! I ended up reseating the ram and fixing the Linux system and it works like new now!

Anonymous 128882

what a dumb, surreal thread



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Hypersexual Issues Anonymous 128879[Reply]

I'm unmedicated bipolar and when I'm manic I get really hypersexual, I don't do hookups atm I just make out with people here and there

Men want me for my body and don't emotionally connect with me the way women do

I can't find a partner to have sex with at the moment and I don't want to get into a bad relationship by being desperate

I get clammy around people that I find attractive, I alternate between staring at them and looking away, I get beyond flustered with cute people

I've been downright creepy towards people I've crushed on, both men and women

Do you ever see someone attractive and get carried away?

I feel so guilty about this all

Whenever my mania goes away so does my sex drive, I'm worried that it makes dating me difficult
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Anonymous 128881

>>128879
I should add that I'm 22 and don't have any stds

I've only slept with women, I'm afraid to go the full way with a guy

I identity as bisexual but I'm sexually confused, I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian

I live in a town of sorts so there's not really a local lesbian scene for me to explore

I feel creepy for being attracted to women, the majority of women I've crushed on weren't interested in me at all and I easily obsess

How do I tell which women are lesbians without asking?



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Anonymous 128766[Reply]

Are toxic female friendships common? What are they really like?

As a 25F with literally no friends, I always wondered how bad other women can be.
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Anonymous 128847

>>128842
Immoral and emotional

Anonymous 128855

>>128841
>picrel
imagine thinking autists are unemotional

Anyway, some women are fucked up people. They're a bit less ballsy about it than men are and will be more underhanded, cry-bullying, morally justifying their own sadism. But the pathology is the same.

Anonymous 128856

Lots of hypocrisy, people that care more about status symbol rather than their friends happiness.
Lets say your friend has some grievances with her bf, not toxic shit but just some annoyances, the so called "friend" will say dump him immediately.
She doesn't care about the long term happiness of her friend thou, she just wants her to dump the guy because guy.

Anonymous 128858

>>128856
This shithole examplefies it nicely

Anonymous 128877

>>128856
And to add on top of that, this female friend of yours all along is waiting on the sidelines and shouting , encouraging you to break up with your boyfriend to leave you all alone. Only for the friend to use it to her advantage to bring along her own boyfriend and rub their relationship in your face while you're at your lowest point. It's all about dark triad and her having the most power in your friendship dynamic.



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