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Positivity. Anonymous 116556[Reply]

Share any positive feelings or positive things.

Garden your soul garden.
Every focus is infinite multiverses.
Keep watering the ideas/plants that make you feel the loveliest love


Here’s a thing that has made me feel so good and is important to me:
Thousands of Polska girls and Belarus girls are covering my NorthAmerican city with graffiti. They’ve somehow clearly gotten the idea to all become collectively like a splatoon. It has changed the energy immensely and really improved the omnipresent feminism quality~level vibe. These girls have religions about ancient euro queens and it really shows, lots of ethereal stuff.. I see so many soulful girls are more comfortable loitering around and making anywhere a party! That’s SO important! Sovl
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Anonymous 124369

I feel clean and I smell nice.

Anonymous 124383

Whenever I self-talk to myself in a much nicer way, i.e. encouraging myself for small successes instead of berating for not being perfect, I end up kinda doing much better at things. It's hard to switch from one mindset to another sometimes though.

Anonymous 124455

>>124368
No, but i’m planning to go back!

Anonymous 124636

I had a sugary starbucks drink for the first time in years, it was so good.

Anonymous 124706

Feels good to be able to hold a long conversation in the language of the land I live in right now. I'm so glad I chose to take on this job along my studies which gives me the chance to work on my smalltalk, makes all the difference, because I felt very detached until now, finally starting to get what being connected feels like.



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

Previous Thread >>2119
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Anonymous 124601

>>115657
300 rapists cursed for free yesterday. really feeling the energy.

Anonymous 124609

>>118331
1sad3me

Anonymous 124648

I think of you every day. I have missed you every single day

Anonymous 124689

>>124301
Is M a username or actual name?

Anonymous 124705

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Vent Thread Anonymous 120288[Reply]

Previous thread >>117577
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Anonymous 124696

>>124678
Any pregnancy I’d have would be high risk, plus I get so exhausted any time I visit the kids for more than a couple days. Plus I really do enjoy the freedom that comes with not having to consistently plan around who has to watch the kids, generally prefer peace and quiet, etc. Probably the biggest thing is having difficulty taking care of myself properly at times, and knowing that by extension I don’t think I could be a good mom. Kids deserve a home environment where they are encouraged to be kids and get the care they need.

Anonymous 124697

>>124680
It’s not just porn websites and even that is dubious. Visiting an adult store doesn’t necessarily come with your information being stored like providing ID online does. Privacy is an important right that protects us all from abuses like retroactively making mundane things illegal, and like I mentioned initially, having your information used against you or loved ones in elaborate scams.

Anonymous 124698

>>124678
>>124696
Forgot to mention my partner is on board with it, not a fence sitter thankfully.

Anonymous 124703

>>124697
Then perhaps those things shouldn't be sold online in the first place? Kids can't just walk into sex shops. Porn sites make money through traffic and add revenue. If some of that is coming from children, then they're breaking the law. If there's no way for them to assure that they aren't profiting on children, then they shouldn't be online. It's illegal to sell drugs online, it should also be illegal to sell smut to kids

Anonymous 124704

>>124696
That's fair, I misread your post and thought you said your partner wants them lol. I've had a lot of similar issues, but I'm glad I had kids none the less. It's kinda like having a pet. Sure, your life would be easier without them, but you love them so much it's worth it



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Anonymous 124510[Reply]

I want my parents fucking dead and I've been in no contact for a year

Anonymous 124700

>>124510
Ok well your parents are not the ones who raised you, the state did(through media), they were just the workhorses paying for your upbringing thinking they'll get a reward or at least a 'thank you' at the end. They got played and you're the prank.

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>>124700
>parents are not the ones who raised you
So they didn't do shit besides just bringing food home as they would without me (and god knows how much horrible shit to make my life unbearable) and they want to be praised? Cool. I'm glad your parents treated you like a God or however you conjured that innocent image of them.



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Is the first love theory true in moids? Anonymous 124190[Reply]

Been dating a guy for 6 months, he is really sweet isn't a man child but honestly I think he has been too good to be true. He isn't perfect but he really listens and changes when I communicate discomfort. So well I asked for his phone password and he gave it to me without hesitation, this kinda made me go mad and I started looking for something wrong. And I haven't found it, he told me I am his second girlfriend, the text messages with his best friend corroborate that story, but idk I feel like his first girlfriend was his first love. From what I can gather her surname is literally good day in Spanish, and in his apartment he has two sun ornaments and he wears a golden necklace with a small sun everyday. I asked about her a week ago and he told me she cheated on him (checked his dms with his friend and he is telling the truth) should I tell him how I feel? I am insecure that he is just using me to relive his ex, I have zero proof for this but idk maybe I'm crazy. (Srry for the bad English it's not my first language)
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Anonymous 124690

>>124405 20/20 vision nona. I won't cheat on him but something changed.
So update I'm going to break up with him, he didn't do anything wrong btw. We went to the wake and nothing happened it was just a normal funeral, his ex just thanked the both of us for coming and well it was a calm event. After that I kept searching and searching and I found nothing. But 3 days ago we were eating together and I realized he is really boring. He doesn't do anything exciting. We've been together for 7 months and we haven't fought or anything. He is just plain. He isn't uncaring and does nice things for me but outside of me and our relationship, he has such a boring life. He wakes up, showers, goes to college and job, goes to work out, sleeps. Rinse and repeat. That's my boyfriend a sack of nothing. I'm content ?¿ idk I feel nothing for him now. And I've felt like this for 2 days straight. No excitement when he kisses me or calls my name I fill nothing. I think I'm going to break up with him today. Just because he wasn't a shitty boyfriend, I'll take him to a restaurant and do it there and pay the bill.

Anonymous 124691

>>124690
Good! I hope both you and he get everything you both deserve.

Anonymous 124692

P.S: would it be worse if I took my stuff out of his apartment before we went to the restaurant or should I ask him about it later? Knowing him he will give it to me later at some point. Idk. Also the worst part about this is that I have to cancel the internet service of his apartment and basically make him pay for it from now on.
I really thought he would make me happy. Not just empty

Anonymous 124694

>>124690
jesus. turns out you wanted to find something on him all along, I guess, just to find an excuse to leave him.

Anonymous 124695

>>124692
Take it out beforehand



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How do we save female socialization? Anonymous 124400[Reply]

I'm tired of making female friends only to end up being ignored or excluded because I don't share their political opinions. Female friend circles seem to be built on fear, and I'm done with it. I made a decision not to pretend anymore—but now, I don't have any female friends left, just because I don't believe that anyone who identifies as a woman is necessarily a woman.
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Anonymous 124624

>>124622
It had been a really long week and there's a lot on my mind. I don't want to talk too much about ir but suffice it to say I talked with the people who I was having problems with and I'm more at peace now.

To all those whom I insulted and was shitty to: I'm sorry. I shouldn't take it out on you all. Harry Potter is fine and there's nothing wrong with liking it.

Anonymous 124639

>>124544
I don't think it's so much about the enjoyment of things, but rather the fact of building one's identity around it

>>124546
Shut the fuck up

Anonymous 124640

>>124639
Sorry I meant you >>124545
You shut THE FUCK up

Anonymous 124659

>>124489
Tbf Rowling is just as obsessed in the opposite direction. I don't get why they take up so much of people's mental energy. OP and her "friends" sound like they deserve each other.

Anonymous 124682

>>124659
I think the reason she talks about it so much is because other people refuse to drop it, she's basically know as "the terf author"



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Anonymous 124217[Reply]

>talking about brian kohlberg
>don't believe in the death penalty, don't believe in SA
>bf mad at me
>says i should, mad that if someone did something to him i wouldn't argue for the death penalty
>thinks that means i don't care
>tell him i want the best for him
>says i love everyone/want the best for everyone so it means little
blood just isn't a good way to show love
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Anonymous 124558

why do you all have empathy with criminals????? did you really argued with your bf just to defend criminals? Girl

Anonymous 124576

>>124558
Luxury belief. When you are not the one affected by crime, it's easy to defend criminals to feel good about yourself.

Anonymous 124577

>>124558
yup, that's also the point I made. >>124237

Anonymous 124599

There are a lot of very stupid replies to this OP.

OP's boyfriend and her are having a fairly meaningless, in terms of their relationship, disagreement. Bf is pretty unlikely to be murdered, so personalising a legal/ethical rift like this is supremely childish.

If you can't have disagreements like this with a partner, you ought not to be in a relationship in the first place. It's not much different to getting hysterically upset because someone doesn't like your favourite band or film.

Anonymous 124613

>>124599
>OP's boyfriend and her are having a fairly meaningless, in terms of their relationship, disagreement.
OP started it

>Bf is pretty unlikely to be murdered, so personalising a legal/ethical rift like this is supremely childish.

You are a retard who must live in a peaceful area. Surprise not everyone lives on Disneyland.

If you don't immediately hate criminals and say they must live a normal life after commiting a crime then you're a sociopath who have no empathy with victims and you aren't afraid to lose your beloved ones at all. Our "female empathy" whatever shouldn't be directed to criminals but the people we love. You don't have a idea the hell that's living in a place commanded by organized crime, you retards must be crazy if you really think some criminals can live in society.



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Anonymous 121601[Reply]

Why do people get married only to cheat or divorce? Shouldn't they know if they're happy to be together BEFORE they get married?
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Anonymous 123265

>>123264
no one gives a fuck about sane men. marry insane men and get what you want out of them

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Anonymous 123643

>>123252
thank u for this reminder

Anonymous 124641

>>121601
Its because they're having sex before they get married.
Sex clouds their judgement and they spend less time talking and more time just satisfying themselves.
How can you know if you mesh well with someone if you have sex with them, it's like trying to take make good decisions while drunk.



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Anonymous 124645[Reply]

what to do when you should leave but you don't want to leave

Anonymous 124646

Get kicked out

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Anonymous 124651

Sauce on the brainrot animal?



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