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i have a phobia of female role in sex which makes me dysphoric as fuck and sex repulsed Anonymous 126444[Reply]

anyone else??? i just find the role submissive and humuliating, i dont wanna post it on nsfw board bc i dont wanna see anons talk about wanting to do humiliating sex acts i have a phobia of
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Anonymous 128217

>>128195
Not trying to make her sound like an incel, she's not one, it just happens that her view on sex and sex dynamics align with the majority of incels

Anonymous 128220

thats why you have it with people you love

Anonymous 128221

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>>126444
It's called pegging, then you're equal. And you can pull ahead by insisting on being on top when it's his turn to penetrate.

Option two is to just have sex with other women if you don't like men period.

Becoming trans or declaring yourself NB won't actually help with this.

Anonymous 128229

>>128221
Yea but then I don't feel anything, and the dude gets to enjoy everything. Man bottoms can be greedy asf when it comes to their own pleasure.

Anonymous 128230

>>128221
found the tranny



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Anonymous 106726[Reply]

post yr ideal partner
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Anonymous 127372

>Tall
>Similar culture to me (mediterranean)
>Charismatic and social but also has nihce interests/takes an interest in my hobbies
>Family oriented
>Quiet/more laid back than me
>Goal oriented and driven
>Likes to always touch and cuddle
>High sex drive to match me
>Big thick dick most importantly

Anonymous 127380

>>127372
having a nice one is honestly so important.

Anonymous 128222

Corpse-like in nature and dead like on arrival. Barely there, barely breathing, all mine.

Anonymous 128224

>6'1 and above (I am tall)
>Intelligent, has goals
>Treats me like a princess (not with materialistic things, but in how he takes care of me)
>Similar music tastes (to go to shows together)
>Enjoys art (so I can paint for him)
>Likes nature walks
>Likes small boobs
>Kind of mean
>Will wash my hair in the bath
>Possessive

Anonymous 128228

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>>128224
>>Treats me like a princess
>>Kind of mean



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Is it bad to be skinny fat? Anonymous 127971[Reply]

Boyfriend keeps calling me fat and disgusting even though I'm only 28 pounds overweight. Picrel accurately describes what my body currently looks like right now. I'm basically skinny fat but because he's a short skinny manlet he thinks he can talk any type of way to me and calls me fat and disgusting and it only makes me feel more depressed and want to eat even more. The truth is, before I started dating my current BF this year, I got broken up with this really hot skinny guy that I was seeing and he was like the guy of my dreams. I only settled for my current BF now because the previous guy broke my heart real bad. If I really gave a fuck I could be a skinny sexy bombshell Stacy if I wanted to. I've always been pretty and I already used to be underweight in my early 20's, but I simply stopped giving a fuck about my appearance because even when I was a skinny healthy Stacy I still attracted the most disgusting human sludge ugly male bastards known to existence. It was truly a black pill and made me realize that no matter how pretty and skinny I was, I still attract ugly bastards meanwhile other Stacies could attract actual Chads here simply because they're whiter than I am. It's because my hometown is shit and only ugly weirdos want to come to me with my darker skin color and appearance. I'm just glad that I'm not as far gone as my other friend who looks almost like me, she ended up becoming morbidly obese and trooning out on top of that. I keep telling my boyfriend (we're long distance) that eating my feelings is not as bad as how my other friends turned out but he still doesn't listen to me and only accuses me of being fat and disgusting and stealing away his chance of getting with actual "Stacy me". Well sucks for him because the more he talks shit to me like this the more I'm just gonna eat my feelings. Oh well.
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>>128176
I am pretty good looking. I've even had other drop dead gorgeous Stacies either compliment the heck out of me, flirt with me, or even try to get in my pants, so that pretty much confirms it kek. So it's pretty much just the shitty neighborhood part

Anonymous 128212

Btw overall update to this thread from OP herself:
I've officially started a new weight loss journey for 2026 after being back stabbed by friend group so badly that they triggered childhood trauma. My anxiety has been through the roof and I have barely been eating anything, but I guess I see this as a plus as well because I'm finally shedding pounds again? I just lost 5 pounds over this past week, hope to be losing more soon

Anonymous 128225

>>127971
Or you could just dump the shitstain and have some self respect for once op. Learn to be alone and actually enjoy your life. This is being a beggar. Begging shitstains for anything is shameful.

Anonymous 128226

>>128212
You haven't actually lost 5 pounds in a week. Thats 3500 calories of deficit for each pound.
Instead, since you're dieting, your salt content, water retention and empty intestine are doing that. 4 of those pounds will bounce back immediately. Be ready for that "devastating" blow once you break your diet.

Anonymous 128227

>>128212
Try water fasting. Guarenteed results.



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Anonymous 128191[Reply]

How would you describe the feelings and differences of

>Young love

>Love at first sight
>"Just Dating" / "Seeing each other"
>Loving a friend
>Someone who you genuinely appreciate and feel grateful for being able to meet, and can make you emotional because of how they make you feel
>Being "in love"
>Long term love
>Falling out of love
>Settling

Anonymous 128219

>Young love
When you're in high school or college and you date for the first time. Exciting but doesn't last long. Just don't endup with a child at this age.
>Love at first sight
Happens when you have an unhealthy attachment style. Usually avoidant. Avoidant feel intense love at first,which leads to lovebombing, and eventual discard, when those intense feelings subside
>"Just Dating" / "Seeing each other"
This is what i would say if i was deeply afraid of commitment
>Loving a friend
This is actually not that bad if the feeliings are reciprocated. you get to be love someone you're actually bonded to
>Someone who you genuinely appreciate and feel grateful for being able to meet, and can make you emotional because of how they make you feel
See above
>Being "in love"
First 2-3 years, when the relationship is still new and in honeymoon phase. if you're avoidant/commitment issues that can be 1 year or less
>Long term love
Both people have a stable attachment style, and don't stop loving each other after the honeymoon phase ends
>Falling out of love
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Anonymous 127725[Reply]

I cannot stand the political climate that exists today. As a leftist, I’m told to hate Republicans. I live in a very Republican area and these people are not bad people. I have a very bad cold and I can’t really breathe and I had to go pick up medication and it was like $100. I didn’t have enough money and I had to call somebody to ask to borrow some money and while I was calling, this old lady overheard and paid $100 for my pills. How can I hate these people when I know that they’re good at heart?
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Anonymous 128189

Leftists are the real Nazis

Anonymous 128197

>>128163
I approve of Trump kidnapping Maduro.
All the other great powers are doing whatever they want whenever they can get away with it. Invasions, Island building, endless territory disputes. We should remind them that the U.S. is more constrained by these rules than they are. And that their guarantees are worth less than ours.
Quickest way to get them back to the table. Either they can have rules and predictability or no.

Anonymous 128208

politics is people trying to achive good through diferent means, even if those means are retarded, that doesnt make them evil, love your republican and democrats neigthbours nona

Anonymous 128210

>>128208
This good isn’t always universal though

Anonymous 128218

>>128208
No it's just men power tripping



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Positivity. Anonymous 116556[Reply]

Share any positive feelings or positive things.

Garden your soul garden.
Every focus is infinite multiverses.
Keep watering the ideas/plants that make you feel the loveliest love


Here’s a thing that has made me feel so good and is important to me:
Thousands of Polska girls and Belarus girls are covering my NorthAmerican city with graffiti. They’ve somehow clearly gotten the idea to all become collectively like a splatoon. It has changed the energy immensely and really improved the omnipresent feminism quality~level vibe. These girls have religions about ancient euro queens and it really shows, lots of ethereal stuff.. I see so many soulful girls are more comfortable loitering around and making anywhere a party! That’s SO important! Sovl
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Anonymous 127581

I bought Christmas cookies on sale today! I'm excited to eat them this week.

Anonymous 127586

>>127581
I ate some of the cookies with tea. They were really good.

Anonymous 127588

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Anonymous 128213

A coworker gave me coconut crackers today!

Anonymous 128214

I have been feeling more confident recently!



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 128204

I just want to feel clean and free and normal. Sometimes I do for short flashes of time and it makes me realise how rare it is now.
OCD, not even once. I wish what's going on with my head was a person so I could punch it to death. I'm fucking sick of living inside this incredibly uncomfortable mind.

Anonymous 128205

>>128204
do it for your sake

Anonymous 128206

>>128205
Do what?

Anonymous 128207

>>128206
look after urself i guess

Anonymous 128223

I hate my schizophrenic father and wish he would just die



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I’m just so annoyed. Anonymous 128028[Reply]

Honestly it seems like nobody knows how to socialize anymore. Everyone around me is just likes to sit in the corner and scroll on their phones. I tried texting some people and barely any of them responded. The ones that did respond only responded to me with one word replies. Tried carrying the conversation and they just read my messages and never bothered to respond. Last time i met up with someone IRL they decided to scroll on their phone the whole time instead of talking to me. Honestly this just makes me feel lonely. Why is everyone around me like this?
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Anonymous 128058

>>128028
ur scrolling ur phone right now

Anonymous 128193

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>>128028
>if everyone is autistic, no one will be

Anonymous 128196

i know it's not that easy but if you're walking out on them anyway, tell them to keep their phones in their bag or smth while you do. one friend 5 years after we left that school i'm still talking with only because i told them off on their phone usage while trying to socialise

Anonymous 128199

it's the mRNA I put in you

Source I'm bill gates

Anonymous 128200

>>128043
If that is true, you have impressed me. I have wanted to know this for a long time.



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i am getting more autistic as i age Anonymous 121894[Reply]

22yo autistic girl diagnosed at 16. up until last year i never thought anything of it. that it was just some stupid label given by the doctors to label me as difficult and stuck up.
but now it seems my autism diagnosis wasn't actually a lie. i never had friends that i could get along with like other kids since i was 5 until now. people talking hurts my ears. i didn't really like any of my peers, they were always too outgoing and bright for me. they always did unsoliticed physical contact that made me so uncomfortable i ended up not leaving the house for the next few days. for some reason i cannot handle theatre audio systems anymore. i have to wear ear plugs just so i can watch movies on a big screen in film quality. everything sounds too sharp, like nails on a chalkboard. i cannot maintain eye contact with my psychiatrist and my therapist while talking. i talk staring at my hands while i fold and unfold the paper with my queue number on it (i bought a fidget cube so i can stare at my hands doing useless shit for as long as i need, paper degrades too easy). making exaggerated facial expressions like other people has gotten impossible. (people have gotten worried because my face is unmoving while i interact with them)
i feel like myself in high school where i hated everyone because i couldnt understand them for being so excited and so loud. now im in college and i can understand them more due to reading more philosophical/psychological topics on the human mind. but no matter how much i fucking "nerd out" i can never be truly human and day by day i feel more and more detached with humanity.

i'm turning into a sociopath. the more i have to make myself acceptable to society the more i feel like i am disappearing. this sucks. what if i really disappear and when i do have a chance to be a mother to a daughter, my rhetorical daughter will hate me for being so emotionally flat/empty/dead inside?

say that my dreams of raising a daughter better than my parents raised me will never come to anything. it'll hurt and i'll cope with that but, there are some days i feel so detached and not myself i have this slight unease if i murder family. i already hate my parents so i feel like they'll be the victims foremost if i do lose myself. but what i'm scared of is being so far gone. i commit murder in catatonia and get assessed in court in a catatonic state. no longer human, no different than an animal.

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Anonymous 125303

>>125209
People like you want to exclude and outcast people lower than you on the social ladder, but eventually you'll outcast all the people lower than you and you'll be at the bottom.

Anonymous 125426

is that james spader

Anonymous 128096

>>121894
I am 30 and my autism symptoms got worse I got diagnosed at 30. I always knew but it was never official, and I also have ADHD.
I feel like I did get more sensitive, but I know these conditions don't "get worse". Instead, I think we just get better at understanding our limits. Which you are, too. I don't ever leave my house without ear plugs, and have done so for only 2+ years as I thought I just need to deal with that.

I had a bisalp since I don't ever want to raise kids or spread autism and ADHD; consider if you can raise a disabled kid by yourself. If you have doubts, it's a NO.

Anonymous 128105

You're not turning into a sociopath. In terms of personality disorders the symptom you seem to be experiencing the most is not dissociality but rather detachment.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ICD-11_classification_of_personality_disorders
But there's a less concerning explanation for what you're going through, it's called autistic masking and I also experience it. What helps is to have some autistic friends and have a place /activity where you feel comfortable taking time to yourself. Having these moments with other autistics and having alone time to be yourself are extremely helpful in terms of not feeling like you're losing your mind about it, it also helps with depression and the like.

Anonymous 128198

>>121894
loop engage earplugs help me so much in loud environments



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