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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
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Anonymous 131037

finally worked up the courage to go to a con in cosplay for the first time in like three years and got sexually harassed twice by two different guys. i wish i would've reacted to it better than i did when it happened. i completely regret going and i'll probably never do it again. i just feel so gross and it won't go away. i don't know how to make myself feel even a little bit better.

Anonymous 131045

>>131037
Can't you just talk to event supervisors and get them kicked out?

Anonymous 131046

>>131045
Um you’re missing the point. She’s clearly just venting about how awful and gross she feels about being harassed. And when women keep running into this behavior in spaces that are supposed to be fun and welcoming, it gets exhausting. “Why not report them?” Doesn’t really address any of that. Reading comprehension is dead.

Anonymous 131047

>>131046
Well I'm sure female only cons exist don't they?

Anonymous 131048

>>131046
>Reading comprehension is dead.
So true.



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Anonymous 131040[Reply]

How do I build confidence and make friends? I get anxious and easily exhausted talking to people, but I feel lonely.
I'm an adult, and it feels like it's too late to find friends or people like me. I want to post about the topics I find interesting on social media and see if I attract like-minded people, but then I feel cringy (I don't think people who do it are cringe, it just feels stupid when I do it). If I start putting significant effort into posting my views, I start getting paranoid thoughts about never actually making friends, just having my posts incorporated into a LLM, eventually seeing some soulless influencer regurgitate my statements word-for-word because AI gave it to them and seeing other people comment "Wow, that's a great point! Followed!".

Anonymous 131044

Stop worrying about being cringe. Who gives a fuck? Are you going to deny yourself a potentially better life because some retard felt uncomfortable for half a second? Fuck em and just be your weird self



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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 130699

- What are you doing?
- Just watching the world.

this is definitely one of my all time favorites

Anonymous 130948

Kiss me 殴るように唇に血が滲む程
Hold me あばらが音を立てて折れる程
好き好き大好き 好き好き大好き
好き好き大好き
愛してるって言わなきゃ殺す

Kiss me like a punch until the blood oozes from my lips
Hold me until my ribs make a sound as they break
I like you, I like you, I love you!
I like you, I like you, I love you!
I like you, I like you, I love you!
Say you love me too, or I’ll kill you!

Anonymous 130965

Well it rains and it pours when you're out on your own
If I crash on the couch, can I sleep in my clothes
'Cause I spent the night dancing, I'm drunk I suppose
If it looks like I'm laughing
I'm really just asking to leave this alone
You're in time for the show
You're the one that I need
I'm the one that you loathe
You can watch me corrode
Like a beast in repose
'Cause I love all the poison away with the boys in the band

Anonymous 131038

Sympawny no.4 - in memory of sweet Chubby Cat
Chubby Cat was sweet and playful and the perfect cuddle buddy. With a sprinkle of playful piccolo, a touch of warm strings, and a sweet harmony progression - hopefully, the music sounds just a little bit like him. Rest in peace sweet Chubby Cat

Anonymous 131043

you can go on home, you got what you need
take my heart and put it up on your sleeve
tear it up so they can all sing along
live out your life
i’ll never tell you you're wrong
baby, don't forget, don't forget it's our song
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone



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boy problems Anonymous 130934[Reply]

hi girlies i feel like me and he are drifting apart he made me really upset the day before yesterday so i ghosted him for like a day and even when we were talking i was giving him the cold shoulder i didn't know he was in manic episode he acted on impulse and made some mistakes i feel so guilty for ruining his life he doesn't blame but he said that i deserve better than him and that it's over for him now :(
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Anonymous 130992

>>130975
tysm luv we talked last night it's all good for now he doesn't really blame me and still wants me so im glad and ig im gonna be more understanding towards him these days

Anonymous 130994

>>130990
How did you trigger him to making a mistake and what was it?

Anonymous 131007

they always come back

Anonymous 131041

>>131007
i meannn that's a good thing right?

Anonymous 131042

>>131007
no they do not lol



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I think he’s gay Anonymous 130790[Reply]

He likes pegging, transgender women, and Black male 🌽. A few years ago, he used to tell me transgender women were men, so by his own worldview, he’s gay. I just feel like I wasted my time on a confused man and regret letting him gaslight me. Not sure why I cannot meet a normal heterosexual man.
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Anonymous 131016

>>131014
it's all a feminist psyop to make you believe the disparity between male and female crime rates

Anonymous 131017

>>131016
the Big Fem's influence stretches far

Anonymous 131018

>>131014
I'd imagine that's because female sex crimes tend to receive more lenient punishments so there's less of a push to secrecy as well as the much much higher likelihood that men are technologically literate enough to even access the darkweb. In any case, I can sense you have strong feelings on this subject and I, with all due respect, personally couldn't care less about it outside of making a few offhand comments on the subject. So I'll retire from this conversation now if you don't mind.

Anonymous 131019

>>131018
>In any case, I can sense you have strong feelings on this subject
no, not really. i just thought it's funny you'd bring up dark web of all things

Anonymous 131039

>>131018
> female sex crimes tend to receive more lenient punishments
women don't really rape, torture and dismember then rape their victims again like men do so yeah, less severe crimes get less punishment



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How to stop feeling like a subhuman because I'm a woman Anonymous 126636[Reply]

No it's not because of men that I feel this way, neither porn, but I've seen porn and women act like subhumans in it.
My problem is that I see submission as subhuman and female submission in sex is human and natural and sex is the fundamental part of the reality. So it's like we are subhumans in life. I don't hate myself but I hate womanhood.
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Anonymous 129360

stop thinking about sex so much and you will be less miserable. yes, heterosexual reproduction is fucked up when you really think about it, but you have to ignore that and go on with your day

Anonymous 131025

Don't have sex, the only position where you can kill a man while having sex is straddling him.

It is as well not recommended for men to do it, because of the consequences it can give to their male clitoris.

Female humans are not sub humans. If anything, the vagina evolved as that because it was coherent with pregnancy. Females are in charge of choosing who to mate with, females have never tried to be like males if anything they have desired to not be abused or used and discarded.

The ban of abortion in some countries will just make women more responsible of celibacy, if women cannot be celibate then you can say we are sub humans.

It is hard anyway, socially women are raised to comply and do as told, despite the bible proposing the complete opposite, that men should be the ones that should obey and work.

Females are not submissive by nature, if anything, they are raised to be compliant.

I am ignorant in history, so I cannot tell you since what period of time women started being raised to be compliant.

Anonymous 131034

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>>126636
Men are stronger than women, yes.

Not because of physical differences - with technology its not even worth mentioning
Not because men are more intelligent (on average its around the same)
Men are stronger because fundamentally we are insane. Or rather, women have groomed us to be this way.

Women realized that, rather than deal with the horrors of the wild themselves, itd be better to gaslight some horny ape into doing it for them. Because women are responsible for childbirth, tribes of humans who did this were more successful than tribes who didn’t. It worked out well, especially considering how much harder the human animal is to properly birth and raise.

In the process though, women always ran the risk of creating a weapon too powerful for them to control. So they needed other concepts beyond overt strength. Morality and sexuality to begin with. Early religions were both very matriarchal and very sexual. And outside of purely ascetic systems of thought, most world religions remain dedicated to the same objectives.

This has worked very well. In fact what makes it work the best is the final lie - that men are superior to women. Thus every man views women not as their employer, but their waifu, their pet, their one little source of warmth. When in reality, women are the reason we have suffered to begin with.

Only in modernity are the lies beginning to crumble. Now that the wild has been tamed, the wildness of men is equally obsolete. Yet men still seek to be rewarded by women, only to realize women now enjoy their wildness as an amusement rather than a necessity. Men have begun to realize that they were the factory workers all along, and they never had any value beyond what they could bring to the real favored gender - women.

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Anonymous 131035

>>131034
>In the process though, women always ran the risk of creating a weapon too powerful for them to control
Woah… It's just like that one Jewish myth about a golem…

Anonymous 131036

>>131035
>Judaism
Yes, exactly



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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 131029

>>131028
It's going to depend entirely on the chemistry you have with the other person but you yourself also need to let go of your insecurities a bit when having sex or you'll ruin it for the both of you. Be confident, I mean somebody is willing to fuck you which means they clearly like something you have going on. Show off a bit

Anonymous 131030

>>131029
I am confident and I enjoy it with my one and only partner I've ever had. Just that I find it pretty mundane, and have since the very beginning. Like masturbation I guess.

Anonymous 131031

>>131030
Well this almost makes it seem like you've never had an orgasm before. It's a pretty intense experience. When I would go down on my ex, she'd basically crush my head with her thighs as she came

Anonymous 131032

>>131031
I guess not during sex. I'll work on that.

Anonymous 131033

>>131032
Maybe ask your partner to try some new positions. There are a few positions I've noticed girls tend to like but maybe that's a bit too graphic for this board. Damn these posts make me seem like I've fucked a shit ton of women but I swear it's only been a handful!



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¿What can I do if I'm in love with my proffesor? Anonymous 130854[Reply]

First I need to clarify that I'm already eighteen, and that I'm not stupid enough to try anything (I don't want advice to flirt with a middle aged man who is starting to bald a little)
I don't want anything to happen. Even though I feel attracted towards him in a way that I have never felt towards any other man, I know that: A)I don't want to get raped. B)he won't notice me (if he's not a fucking pervert).
But I just NEED to hear it from someone who has been through the same situation. He's kind, walks around with his dog, is confident and well-spoken. GOD I have written a shit ton of poems for this guy.

He doesn't seem to be married or in a relationship, but in some ways, I feel like it's weird how his entire body language shifts when he's talking to a girl (am I going crazy?)
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Anonymous 130898

>>130895
You still did not explain why you consider late 20's and early 30's moids "ancient."

Anonymous 130899

>>130897
That's what you get for picking moids with shitty genes. Do you go for moids with autism, too? Would probably more matched for a shotafucker because spergs have the mentality of a child.

Anonymous 130912

I'm a little tired of repeating myself, but I really want to clarify (once more) that I don't want anything to happen between me and him.
CAN SOMEONE TELL ME HOW DO I MAKE THESE FEELINGS GO AWAY INSTEAD OF FIGHTING EACHOTHER?!

Anonymous 131020

>>130912

Make a FODA listing all the reasons of why it would not work.

Emotionality is a reaction. React to the reasons it would not work.
Eventually you will start to feel the other way, disgust perhaps even.

Do not force feelings of disgust.

If possible, try to make the disgust for the idea of dating that man natural.

Men know when women like them and treat them better, if not, they use it to treat them badly to feel better.

Do not feel bad for men, if you do, you just will make yourself miserable. Adam was in charge, not eve. Men are not worth your energy.

Most men.

Anonymous 131027

>>131020
>>131020
You're right, noona. I have been thinking of this for the past three months and you have put into words a feeling I was never able to express. Thank you.



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Anonymous 129602[Reply]

i hate seeing girls like the same things i like i feel like im always out for male validation even though im not interested in men… i feel like my life as a woman has no worth because im fat and ugly. im relapsing into bulimia and my mouth is rotting away. im out of school, i cant get a job and my friends always exclude me in selfies when we hang out because im so ugly. everyone i talk to is a transgirl i have no cisgirl friends and im scared of them all. when im done reading, playing games or watching anime for the day i realize how sad my life is and i want to kill myself.honestly im afraid of anyone that isnt a tranny. i hate seeing pretty girls i hate seeing cosplayers. i really want them to all die someday. i always forget im autistic until i speak to real people and then i realize theres just no hope for me.

Anonymous 129603

haah even posting this i feel like im close to a panic attack . im so scared of everything

Anonymous 129606

maybe be happy on ur own before you can be happy with someone else. and then you can find the right person for you to enjoy life with

Anonymous 129607

um for what it's worth i like the picture you posted do you have more cute images like that

Anonymous 129615

sammmee im ruining my already ugly appearance with bulimia wooo! I relate to everything ye said so at least ur not alone. Is there a place in this world fr people like us I wonder

Anonymous 131024

>>129602

List your best memories.
List your worst memories.

Bulimia will make you more ugly.

Men who like kids do not like kids. They just like the idea of abusing someone, being stronger, smarter or older enough to manipulate them.

Being autistic just makes you be avoided because you are not happy, you are not healthy, and autism is socially acceptable only when you meet those two criteria (happy, healthy) because most people (who are not autistic) often are not honest enough because of social reasoning. And end up in consequence, being unhappy and miserable.

Live your best life, nona, there is still hope



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