Just don't have children and it's not that bad.
I still do more than my bf because his job is a non-job and he spends half the day gaming but I like staying at home. Laundry and cleaning takes up a tiny amount of the day. Same for cooking, even if it's something that needs to be cooked all day. We do the shopping together, we handle our own finances separately, and our own appointments separately.
I think what stresses me out the most is when he gets stressed. There's a term or phrase for it but he vents to me and then I end up carrying that weight for a while.
>>133801I tried looking for work for about a year after graduating and my bf just doesn't care that I've stopped.