>>126590
I used to get frozen pizza only on birthdays..

>>126675
the way i started nodding before i realized what you weirdos were on about. how is a woman loving another woman DEVIANCY? go ask the men in your life hard questions and leave wlw alone? go bother a fucking coquette age player? literally there are entire reddit communities of pedos and people who molested children to harass. you could get this energy out any other way and instead you’re being homophobic because a girl will hold another girls hand. you sound crazy. literally there are men in your life who have harmed women and have crazy internet footprints. where is this energy for them?

>>126681
i will make you a frozen pizza daily my princess. i would make you REAL pizza.

>>126590
This is so chronically online. Half of the things you mentioned don't even exist in the real world. You are spending so much time and energy being negative,, no wonder women don't like you lol. And then you use this fictive rejection to blame and generalize other groups. No way you just made me defend moids among others…

The way you're expressing yourself sounds like someone who's hurting, but not someone who's beyond hope. I can recognize how badly you want a relationship, a connection with another woman. I struggle with the same thing, with not being able to find women who are into other women. Perhaps also because I am femme4femme. But I don't think it's as impossible as you make it out to be.. because if you don't even try to reach out to women then what do you expect?

I hope your concert goes well, but also don't lose hope if something doesn't work out. You deserve a good relationship and I wish you the best in pursuing one.

>>126590
I'm not a lesbian , but in some ways you're right.

I agree that lesbians in third world countries have no rights (women in these countries typically have no rights), but judging by how you write, I don't think this applies to you.

It also grinds my gears when trans """women""" call themselves lesbians or faggots, because they aren't. I don't browse the internet half as much as I used to and I have still heard trans """women""" say such things in public with their mouths. I live in Australia, and this year I heard about the "Tickle v Giggle" case, which involved a trans woman who sued a "girls-only" app owner (the troon won $20,000 AUD). Funnily enough, if the owner had just said "she was excluded for being ugly" it probably would have been ok and the app would still exist.

Where I disagree is where you say that lesbians are the most oppressed. I don't know if it's possible to quantify which group is the "most" oppressed, but if I had to pick one, I'd pick poor people. I'd say ugly people are the second most oppressed. I say this because there are no laws for discriminating against SES, nor are there laws for discriminating against how attractive someone is, at least here. Race, gender, sexual identity, and religion are protected, but your income and your face are fair game it seems. Even if people don't overtly discriminate against poor and ugly people, they definitely act more nicely towards rich and pretty people. Most people who talk about oppression never bring this up, maybe because we've been conditioned to think it's "bad" to acknowledge that some people are poor or ugly. Being ugly isn't bad though, it says nothing about who you are as a person. Same with being poor. idk, just ramblin'

>>133964
Tbh I get it my job was the only place where I felt treated normal compared to the life I spent at home or school

>>133964
Real af. I was suffering years ago too but at least I was fit, employed and not a raging alcoholic lmao. The highs of life would be meaningless without the lows to highlight them. Hang in there babe

I want the stupid cunt who lurked the unsent letter thread and made it to where any message that isn’t like two paragraphs long gets deleted. Fuck you .

>>133431
Felt that in my soul. My dad also used my credit card, but it was completely nonconsensual. I just found out one day nearly all of the money I had on there was gone, and it was used to pay off some debt he owe or something. The whole story is fucked up because despite him saying he'll pay me back, all the factors surrounding his situation tell me he will never pay me back. I worked overtime to earn what I had at that point. What really gets me is that it could've all been avoided had I just put it into savings sooner. I planned to, but didn't get around doing it, so it was all my fault I'll never get it back unless I work for it again… I've contemplated reporting him too, but there's also a lot to consider with that regarding his situation, so I don't know. I'm still fucked up on it.

>>133978
The unsent letter thread got purged?

>>133910
I guess I just treat life like normal other than this, but it’s something ive never felt like i could share with anyone.

>>133852
i was suicidal for some time and even did some fucking stupid shit because of it, but now im mostly fine, even though recently i've been rethinking about it with no apparent reason.

I've always coped by distracting myself, either with the vidya, tv or movies and it has always worrked out.

I think that the best thing though is getting into an hobby that involves creating things, when i got into sewing i got wayyy less shitty thoughts and lived more happily, seeing your work improving is source of immense satisfaction.

You'll get better !

>>133852
Bad advice, but I just go full automated and I ignore what I feel until I explode and cry my eyes out.

>>133852
So, I don't actually know how to cope in a healthy way, so my advice is bias and only works for me because it's what I've adapted to. I'm not able to go to therapy because it's expensive (and I'm not even sure if I could convince myself to go anyway), so what I do is just reflect on my own suicidal thoughts and why I am the way I am. But that can drive me insane, so most of the time, it's really just me venting, and nothing productive is done about it.

But I would suggest journaling or keeping a digital diary so you have a way of getting your thoughts out of your head. It sounds cliche, I know, but I find that it works really well when you feel isolated as you bottle up these feelings and don't reach out to anyone. Please, please keep talking about your suicidal thoughts. Talk about why you feel the way you do, how it came to be. Write about the way you feel. It doesn't matter however you do it, just get it out there. This significantly helps and it will also make you feel lighter. Distracting yourself only works temporarily and will make you feel worse, if you only distract yourself.

Unironically find a hobby. If youve had suicidal thoughts for so long its become part of your identity. In my peak (or actually lowest of lows) i could only describe myself with physical characteristics because there was nothing more to my soul than the wish for death. Deciding to do anything remotely productive (such as studying) was extremely scary to me because it implied a future; which went against my whole identity!

Ive picked up a few hobbies. I can do my hobbies alone in my room, doesnt require me to go out or interact with people since that can be difficult for me when im feeling low. It not only distracts me but calms me and subconsciously makes me have the future in mind: i have a project to finish, i have to go to the store to buy x, etc.
The best hobby is when you create something, not passively consume.
Im not saying its going to fix everything but try it and see where it brings you. If you have difficulty thinking of something is there anything you used to do which you enjoyed? Or something youve always wanted to learn? Something that might be laying around that youve never used, etc. Lmk if you decide anything am curious

Also , you dont have to share your whole inner world with someone. “superficial” friendships are also good. If we were always talking about deep stuff with everyone that would get pretty tiring. Find some thing you can bond over with people and dont stress it tm

everyone replying is retarded. this isn't actually OP's list, it's obviously screenshotted from instagram. I'm guessing it's a moid who saw this and got mad and wanted to post this to see that we'd agree so it'd affirm his beliefs that 'women le bad' . DNI

>>133961
theres like 1 or 2 people who actually thought this is ops list lol

>>133939
Icks are never valid
If they were they would be red Foags

>>133970
I don't find red flags valid anymore
because they are communist. and I associate that with airheads and animal abusers.

>>133939
All of this reads like mental illness and I hope it's a joke.

Which game are you playing right now ? What's your team?

>>133747
Oof ouch owwy my feelings. I've barely posted here in the last 3 months though.

Been getting very into emergency preparedness again. I’m building up supplies and have a very useful bag to keep things in. Is it making me feel a little like a schizo? Yes, but I believe my concern is valid, and there’s a very big difference between anxiety and just mental awareness. Burying my head in the sand is no good, and being prepared can help me live life more comfortably with the knowledge that if things get bad, I am prepared for it. Any other s into emergency preparedness/prepping? I’ve thought about making a thread for it but I don’t think it would be a very good one. I highly encourage anyone reading this to stockpile, you don’t need a basement full of jars of musty food that you’ve had for years, just think about what your household would need if things got bad for at least 72 hours. When you go grocery shopping, pick out non-perishables. You can build it up over time. I think it’s a very useful thing to do

Does anyone else remember the shitty deep fried and "abstract" meme era
I hated them at the time

>>133906
That makes no sense, like the person doesn't know what irony is

I had to go to a government services center yesterday. They were supposed to give me an updated passport, but they lost all of the documents I gave them, including the old passport. The woman explaining the situation to me was so apologetic and assured me it's like the only time this ever happened. Right. At least they did as much as possible on their end so I only had to submit some papers to get the restoring procedures going.

>>133881
>i don't think that is wise.
But taking a random medication, despite having no idea what your "problem" is, or how that medication will ultimately affect your body, since you have no medical or psycho-therapeutic know-how whatsoever, is?
>doctors will either prescribe you a pill, prescribe you a surgery or some kind of therapy
You realize you don't actually have to do whatever it is the doctor recommends you to do if you disagree with him, right? The point is just to get a basic idea of what the problem actually is, from a person that has a professional understanding of the human body / mind / hormones / psyche. And even then you can still disagree with the doctors results, if you have reasons to do so, but it will almost certainly give you some degree of insight or at least perspective on what's wrong with you, some degree of information that you can use to evaluate the problem. Again, my point is that identifying what it is that is causing you anguish is the number one priority, once you know what the problem is, you can choose how to deal with it as you see fit (be it with medication, therapy, taking a different approach to life, etc).
>what if there isn't a problem? what if what appears as a psychological problem is completely reasonable behavior given the situation.
Then your therapist / doctor will tell you as much. And even if they try to ""sell you on being mentally ill"" because they are ""greedy and in cahoots with big pharma"" (I'm not american, so I don't know in how far these sorts of claims are based in reality or if they're just a popular superstition. I can say for certain that it's untrue for my european home country) you can just tell them no (but I've already explained this concept of getting a 2nd opinion and then still making your own decisions beforehand). But this is irrelevant to the OP regardless, because the OP already identified there being a problem with her life. As long as the OP feels there is a problem, there is a problem with how she feels. Technically she could "get rid of the problem" by ceasing to view it as such: she could just "stop caring". However, as she has described "making the lives of those around her way worse" due to what she perceives as a problem, stopping to treat it as a problem would entail an abandoPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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s, i really dont know how to thank you all, every time i wrote something here you've all been extremely helpful and kind, even now!
I Will treasure all of your suggestions and try to get something good from my days that doesnt involve getting on the meds, i'll also try to get in contact with my uni for cheaper therapy.

Really don't know how to thank y'all, have a wonderful night! (Or day!)

>>133889
I absolutely don't want to invalidate the others that still have me really nice suggestions, but thank you so much especially to you !! Will treasure everything you and all the others said

random passer-by here, but i've suffered from anxiety/compulsion stuff, there's a supplement (N-acetyl cysteine) that really helped ease it. Also cured my gfs severe nailbiting habit. Cheap and good safety profile, only issue is it smells like sulfur.

>>133938
that's interesting! Can you get it without prescription?

>>133917
op here
does anyone else feel like this?
if you so, how you manage these feelings?
i'd like to know.

>>133926
Yes. I can't believe how old I am now. 2019 hs grad and I feel so behind in life. Many things that were meant to happen to me were delayed. I feel like people who are younger are more experienced and I realized its because I actually couldn't learn things I was meant to because I was stuck inside. I mean, I couldn't go out on my 21st birthday to drink ffs so I'm learning that stuff in my mid 20s and I feel like a jackass.

Sounds like life will pick up for you again the moment you get a job or have less of that sort of idle time.
Uni sometimes feel like the wrong kind of busy, specially these days where you don't even know if that degree will account for something.

>>133667
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>>133673
> I just feel sickened by how she's treating her boyfriend, I would've never expected this from her, and this is just from what I've seen and what she has told me so I have to imagine the real thing is even worse.
I don't understand. This is your own friend. Someone you're supposedly very close to. Don't you think it's possible that she could just simply be getting carried away?
Sorry Nona but if she's really your friend you'd have a little faith in her. You'd feel comfortable talking to her about your feelings. You're failing her by not coming forward.

>>133676
Yeah how old is the OP and her friends? This sounds so immature. Either they are very very young, or not as close friends as OP says.
>>133673
I hope my friends would approach me if I was in a period of my life where I'm doing something questionable that goes against my typical character.
>I've never seen or heard about a woman in a relationship rejecting someone because she had a boyfriend and and then trying to claw the guy back in while escalating things
Please tell me how old you all are. This is bog standard emotional cheating/monkey branching.

just talk to her wtf. it makes no sense to be scared of her reaction. you don't have to come at her with an accusatory tone, you can approach this sensibly and with empathy. ask her what she is doing. she might just be bored/passive/stupid idk. tell her how this looks and what her bf would think. don't talk to her bf first unless you want to throw shit on fire. it also might backfire on you if it turns out to be different from what it seems or if the bf doesn't see it the same way as you
talk to her

Femcels have gotten to be so fucking lame. You feel bad for a moid. Like actually?? Men cheat all the time. I love women and male orientated fields.