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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 130835

So the one pedo is from alberta the other from texas lmao

Anonymous 130836

>>130832
It is pretty funny you saw the slightly brown hand the other guy posted and immediately thought indian when the guy is from texas and is probably Latino.

Anonymous 130837

>>130836
You're acting too desperate

Anonymous 130838

>>130837
Desperate for what exactly? I just find this situation humorous. It's almost exactly like when I was mistaken for rikkafag multiple times. Evidently you seem unaware just how many men are on this site

Anonymous 130839

>>130838
And?


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I think he’s gay Anonymous 130790[Reply]

He likes pegging, transgender women, and Black male 🌽. A few years ago, he used to tell me transgender women were men, so by his own worldview, he’s gay. I just feel like I wasted my time on a confused man and regret letting him gaslight me. Not sure why I cannot meet a normal heterosexual man.

Anonymous 130791

if he's bi, would you still consider that gay?

Anonymous 130803

average white man in 2026

Anonymous 130804

advanced porn addiction

Anonymous 130805

>>130804
surprised moids haven't invented competitive porn addiction yet

Anonymous 130815

>>130805
don't give them ideas


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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 130718

It's very strange but I feel like online messages are so much more intimate than real life presence? It sounds cringe, but this is how it feels. Lewd and highly emotional texts feel more exhilirating and real emotionally wise, but I guess physical presence actually has a calming effect on the nervous system. It's good for you but not in a way you can easily notice. Meanwhile texting with the same person can excite me so much and suddenly change my mood climate.

Maybe one is just excitatory by nature and the other is calming. Well, if you need excitement in your relationship, like many do, maybe this is the answer…

Anonymous 130735

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Even though it's been 4 years I'm still treated like an annoying freak when I joke around with others online. The difference is I've accepted it and I'm having fun with it now.

Anonymous 130737

Veganism is cringe but I actually respect their determination to deny biological imperatives a little. Control your own destiny typa thing.

Anonymous 130741

>>130718
i understand what you mean but for a different reason. when im texting i can think about my response and phrase my thoughts in a way taht communicates my intent the best but irl i feel so stiffled by anxiety and everything feels to fast and leaves me feeling like im not being my true self

Anonymous 130796

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We are born screaming and crying but dying of natural causes is quietly drifting away into peaceful sleep.


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Anonymous 130074[Reply]

I am a schizoid woman. I spend most of my time thinking about nebulous stuff in my head and doing solitary activities such as diy stuff, tinkering with computers, trying to make various stuff and all. I do not enjoy talking to other people unless they’re invested in my interests. Usually if I speak with someone I just wait for the conversation to end and for them to go away. I have little clue as to why other people are entertained by what they are. I prefer interactions where I don’t need to adapt to the other persons sense of normal. That’s why I dislike groups and often end up antagonistic towards them unless I have a big presence. I don’t have strong attachments.

That is just who I am.
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Anonymous 130752

Test

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Ok here’s the last one
Someone offered to compare us to ow character and here’s mine
I wanted to post this
> You're Sigma, or Sybren de Kuiper. A self-absorbed old man with bare feet. Totally insane. One day, your life's work drove you mad, and music became a permanent fixture in your once-clear head. It might sound creepy, but madness actually suits you. A rather aloof character, it seems he can only truly feel at ease when alone, which, I think, resonates with you. You're comfortable in your own world, pieced together bit by bit, often excluding any unnecessary connections. I think you're a thoughtful and engaging conversationalist, but you have issues that prevent you from opening up to people. But the question is, do you really want to?

Anonymous 130786

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Interesting. I remember being an extroverted, lively, and talkative child, good-humored and sociable, but very naive and easily impressed. I remember being constantly reprimanded by the adults around me, especially my mother and teachers; the other children and teenagers around me were also awful. Because of this, I became increasingly withdrawn, preferring solitary activities similar to those I was interested in. Due to this, over the years I simply lost the habit of interacting with the people around me, I just remain silent, I arrive at places without speaking to anyone, and I've reached a point in my life where I simply don't miss it. I only have my fiancé as a friend, and my younger brother, as he's immediate family. I wonder if I might really have some kind of disorder or condition, or if being completely solitary and unsociable was just a habit I acquired throughout my life.

Anonymous 130787

>>130786
A disorder is really about a state where a person is distressed by their condition. The personality disorders don’t exist physically in your brain as a unit, a schizoid or a borderline does not exist, it’s just a loose group of phenotypes, that are usually pretty idiosyncratic.

Um, what’s my point… I think we’re both the same. And whether we’re disordered by the DSM or not, that may be beside the point. My goal in this thread was to share my experience of what it is like to be me and how I came to be. Do I have a disorder? I don’t know. But I had serious issues with functioning. I know my environment caused this in some way. I still don’t know what I am, but I can describe the phenomenon of myself.

Um, thanks for replying. Sorry I just woke up so I may be incoherent

Anonymous 130788

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Oops meant to say egosyntonic not idiosyncratic


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Does this make anyone else mad Anonymous 129315[Reply]

This ugly swede made a YouTube video whining and e-begging about how he couldn't get a gf, and ended up marrying a 7/10 woman that saw his videos and fell in love with him. Imagine if it was an ugly woman that made a video like that. She probably wouldn't have gotten as popular as he did and definitely wouldn't have got a cute bf to wanting to marry. I fucking hate moids. They have the easiest lives ever
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Anonymous 129745

You're not alone. Ugly man psyop is fucking real. Men love seeing women suffer.

Anonymous 129753

>>129745
If you have an ugly man all the others wil look at you and you get all the attention and you are the more attractive of the two in the couple

Anonymous 129768

>>129753
dating someone as a comparison tool is foul

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Anonymous 130758

I don't mind because I like that he looks like a rodent


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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 130655

>>130654
Reading the mental illness on this site daily is genuinely exhausting. If I were your bf I'd seriously just tie you to the bed and tickle you until you peed yourself and cried for shit like this. Then I'd reprimand you as you sit there in your own piss. There's no other way to reform somebody like you

Anonymous 130663

I don't know why that cunt cow normalfag that dislikes me for no reason and that fake Stacy that likes men's attention and gets pissed if other girls get more attention from other guys. On top of that shes a nepotist and is friends with those cow cunts

Anonymous 130664

>>130663
I've been told people like when you affirm their feelings. So I'd like to tell you those other women sound unpleasant and you're right about them!

Anonymous 130716

I wish I could have a fervour for life again. Trying to force myself to do new things never brings out the enjoyment that people say it will.

I feel so fucking lonely in every room, yet interacting with other people feels exhausting, if not completely disingenuous. I wish I could have friends, but human interactions feel so alien I can't even describe it. People stare at me like they don't know what to do with me. I'm at a point where I'm wondering if reading about/watching characters interact in the media I consume would suffice for human interaction.

It goes either one of two ways. Either I meet someone who has no interest in me whatsoever, or someone who treats me like a wall they talk at. The only people who talk to me are people who love those who they can talk their ear off at, those who are always available because they don't have anything better to do. Cucks who crave attention from someone else and come to me instead because they're not getting it from someone else.

Worse thing is, that in some way or another, it's my fault for being so insecure in the first place.

Anonymous 130742

>>130716
Damn you're the version of me, i think I have stopped caring about that now. As you start observing the way people behave, it shows you why it's better not to have friends


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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 130669

[Kertosäe]
Kuule mun toive, mä haluan pois
Eikö aikani täynnä jo ois?
Olen jo nähnyt tämän elämän
Kaiken sain ja vielä enemmän
Kuule mun toive, mä haluan pois
Eikö aikani täynnä jo ois?
Tahtoisin lähteä kuin sotilas
Terveisin, tuntematon potilas

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Anonymous 130699

- What are you doing?
- Just watching the world.

this is definitely one of my all time favorites

Anonymous 130733

Zaproś mnie do swego domu, nie powiem nic nikomu
Będziemy robić to na sposobów różnych sto
Ze mną będzie ci jak w raju, więc siebie mi nie żałuj
Ja zrobię z tobą to, czego inne tylko chcą

Anonymous 130734

Now its time to dance
The discoteque is far, but i can hear the rhythm
So now i stop my car
Im going to the bar
And finally start
Dancing all around


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i think my ex is gonna take his life Anonymous 130574[Reply]

i am 20 he is 24 he wanted to break up with me yesterday and i agreed, he then switched up and wanted to get back together and has apologised. i have ignored because he has done this before and i am really worried because he tried to force himself into my house whilst i was sleeping but my mum came to the house and she told him politely to go away so he gave her gifts for me. i did not want to break up with him but he never listens to my boundaries and has done loads of things to break my trust like reaching out to his ex and although ive moved on from certain situations because i am forgiving i have overtime built up resentment against him which is why i agreed to him breaking up. he is extremely emotional and is manipulative/gaslights when he wants to get his own way but i checked his twitter today and he has posted self harm on my tattoo i made of him and all over his arm and he has told me if i broke up with him he woudl take his life and so i am really worried because i still love him but he is destroying me mentally and draining me, the reasonwhy i didnt want to see him is because last time he flipped out he came tomy house and took this £600 mirror we both paid for but it was partially a gift to me and i took it badly as i wanted that mirror for over a year i am so worried for his wellbeing because recently he has completely changed his mentality and i am scared i told him i am worried to see him because i am scared he is going to harm me because he told memany times he could kill me and i believe him because he shares the same mentality of someone that would kill a girl because the girl has broken up with him and i love him a lot so sorry if i am not typing normally i am just really worried for him and for me too and im scared hes going to take his life wether intentional or not because he has done heroinin the past to try and kill himself im so fucking worried man
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Anonymous 130578

>>130576
he is basically your wartime enemy with how much he hurts you, so him dying should be a good thing

I mean he's just exploiting you fuck that guy

Anonymous 130580

Post hands, this whole message is so tranny-coded

Anonymous 130688

>>130574
his life and deaths are absolutely not your responsibility. if he threatens suicide, thats just a manipulation tactic. he has hurt you before and he will hurt you again when he has the chance. fuck this guy.

Anonymous 130696

>>130574
his life and deaths are absolutely your responsibility. if he threatens suicide, thats a genuine cry for help. he has hurt you before but he definitely will not hurt you again when he has the chance. save this guy.

Anonymous 130712

>>130696
What the fuck are you talking about. This faggot moid needs to get over himself and stop manipulating this poor girl. Did you not read the part where he threatened to kill her before? Handmaids like you should stay quiet.

>>130574
Any updates?


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I hate how invasive troons are. Anonymous 129459[Reply]

A few days ago I was contacted by a troon asking to be friends, I thought it was okay since I don't have any female friends.
I talked to him for a while until he asked me to do VC, his voice was that of an effeminate man.
The worst part is that I can't even stop talking to him or ghosting him because he could expose me as "transphobic".
I feel stupid for not noticing it sooner; it was so obvious. He was acting very "feminine" in a forced and performative.
If I don't answer he starts spamming me, also he asked me if he could do "yuri" with my character and his (I'm an artist btw).
I have to live with this torture if I want to live, I hate modern society.
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Anonymous 129489

Just stop talking, if they or others whine then you can tell them you're not comfortable with the things theyre saying and leave it at that. Don't let others run your life for you, spend time with people that add to your life and want to be around

Anonymous 129519

>>129459
Just admit that you don't want anything to do with them and who are if they use a word against you?
They want to gain power over you, you don't have to respect them.

Anonymous 130624

>>129519
last year my gay dorm RA tried to stay in my bedroom while I changed tops because he's gay and that apparently makes it ok
i got really anxious because i'm socially awkward and it was really hard to get him to leave in a way that sounded like friendly banter and not like i was extremely uncomfortable because literally all my friends and everyone around thinks he's a great guy, and i didn't want to seem homophobic or make things awkward
so, i think i can understand where OP is coming from here, if this person actually can create social consequences for her

Anonymous 130649

>>130624
Is this an NA thing? In my region gay men never stay in the room when you are changing even women leave, what in the lack of privacy you all have going on?? Your nakedness is your own to share with who you choose. It is one thing if you are in an area where nudity is common, we do have such areas but seriously??? In YOUR bedroom??? Know your rights. You have the right to personal space it is in UN rights of a child and an adult. You also have the right to have relationships or the lack thereof. Don't be letting people talk you out of your rights as a human or call you evil for exercising them.

Anonymous 130653

>>130649
same poster as
>>130624
it's a virtue signaling thing, i think anyway, at its root, maybe the influence of social media and tv as well, the idea that girls and gay guys are on the same team or smth and that they're automatically good people because of oppression
for example, the girls' bathroom on my dorm floor was literally declared "girls and gays" in the first week of first semester, they even put up a sign on the door lol
and kept letting the guys use it even after the two gay guys on our floor continually left the toilet seat up, left pubic hair on the seat and even left the toilet unflushed a few times, and left the sinks a mess, and that's not to mention the shower situation
obviously i wasn't comfortable at all and i started showering at like 5 am to be as sure as possible there wouldn't be guys in there. at least there were no trannies, thank god
and i think girls (like me) who are actually made really uncomfortable with gay men overstepping boundaries still cooperate because of social pressure. i'd love to say that i stood up for myself and said something, but if i had that kind of self-confidence i probably wouldn't be posting on crystal cafe


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