>My documents
He's protecting you from ICE, sweetie :)

it's all so tiresome nonas

nona you haven't seen a doctor and are 39 weeks? is this for religious purposes or anything like that? if your boyfriend is keeping you from seeing the doctor that is incredible abuse and you need to care for yourself and your baby. i don't know you nona but regardless you and your baby deserve to be happy and healthy.

let him off himself and start a new life with the baby

>>125672
too bad! do it NOW
go to library and do not bring any phone or ordinator and you will have a gay time

>>125672
I like the days where that doesn’t happen to me.

A friend asked me to make a website so thats what Im gonna do now since Im still unemployed

>>125667
I was really depressed when I was a NEET as well.
Watching Osomatsu-san made me feel a little bit better but also worse in a way too.
Do you have hobbies? Any plans on not being a NEET anymore? What's keeping you from pursuing a career and education? Depression? I hope you're seeing a therapist about it… My depression was largely situational, and improving my immediate environment and finding a way to advance my education for the sake of my future career helped me immensely. It's not any special job or anything, but I've found that doing anything is usually better than doing nothing and learning things is actually pretty fun.

>>125900
>Watching Osomatsu-san made me feel a little bit better but also worse in a way too.
for me, it's Juushimatsu.

you can do this anona

>>125858
>Men only want women for sex and the moment they get it, they move on.
This is why good men will wait until marriage.

>>125877
I think having sex before marriage is fine for anyone.
Especially for women, so they know what to compare it to but also for men so they don't get the "What if I'll never experience how amazing sex will be with other kinds of women, I can surely get away with cheating one time" brainworms.
If a man has sex with any woman and doesn't want to settle down after having had sex, he probably won't want marriage anyway. If a man actually does wants to settle down and marry after having had sex before, I'd assume it makes him less likely to cheat. Unless he has a history of cheating ofc. I guess one could ask his ex for a review lol. Jk.

>>125880
The actual observed behavior is the opposite of what you described. Couples who only had sex with their spouse have a very small chance of divorce. Couples who had body count >5 were very likely to divorce.

>>125892
I'm not sure if divorce rates alone are the best indicator for happiness, some people stay in really miserable marriages. I wish my parents had divorced way sooner and one of my friends' parents should really get a divorce as well. But they also had huge age gaps and our mum's got pregnant as teens, so I think those marriages were doomed from the start anyway.
>Couples who had body count >5 were very likely to divorce.
Makes sense tbh. I personally don't think having some sex before marriage is a big deal but more than 5 different people? I know a guy who showed off all his ex gfs, as if proud to be getting around. He was apparently pretty good at sex according to a friend, but she was predictably just another name on his list.
>The actual observed behavior is the opposite of what you described
…Yeah, I think you're right, I just assumed things based on my own predictions and some of the people around me. There are exceptions to any statistics, but I looked it up and…
Yeah, statistically, people do seem to be happier in marriages where both partners have a lower body count or just no sex with anyone but their spouse. So, I take back what I said.
I guess people should wait before marriage after all.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10989935/
Given that it says that there are no gender differences, I guess that does include weeding out promiscuous men…
I'd also add that people shouldn't only get married for the purpose of sex (like someone only doing it to lose their virginity) and should divorce if things take an abusive turn, even if they'll have much worse luck with getting happily married after a divorce like that… My mum managed that last part though. But in a perfect world, she wouldn't have done it with a pedo moid twice her age at 15 in the first place an waited until she found someone worthwhile to marry and have kids with, like, I really wish she'd gotten it right the first time…
One of my friends definitely had partners before her marriage, but they didn't last and she's really happy with her current husband. They've been together for years and have a kid and stuff. I really hope her happiness will last, theyPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

My parents don’t act like real parents and I hate them for it.

I can’t sleep, but I gotta work in the morning. I know I should just turn the lights off and try but I can tell I’ll just be tossing and turning for hours. A joint might fix it but I feel shitty for using it as a crutch. It’s too late for me to make tea cause I might wake someone up. Insomnia kicking my ass the past few days, what gives? Hashtag lame

Someone I know IRL is making fun of me on reddit. Sigh.

>>125893
Keep Trazedone for nights like this, but do not take it every night or you'll build a tolerance

>>125893
foods high in fat make me extremely sleepy (like smetana), literally sedative tier, maybe it's just me idk

>>125770
Then when they are remotely young / attractive their personalities are intolerably manipulative and opportunistic in this cavalier way. They still act like everyone owes them everything, they can do no wrong even when their personalities are insufferable

>>125770
This post screams that your only exposure to men is through imageboards. Most men irl are very stupid but mostly normal.

>>125807
This cope is always so hilarious to me. Normie women feel this way about men too. It’s why we have a “male loneliness epidemic”.

>>125807
So ugly while demanding women to be hot ? Or attractive with a horrible personality ? You don't have to go far to find normal like that

>>125883
we have loneliness epidemic in general.

honestly i was kind of floored by that dream.

>>125815
was i there?

it was four people in an uneasy peace

if he’s sorry he can still send flowers to my moms. no one is calling the cops on him.

still not me writing that.

>>125848
that's true fren :'( im just coping because i was a retard who did not lie and have NO opsex skills >_<

>>105405
pros:
>smooth and deep voice
>tall, slender, great hair, very attractive
>incredibly sweet, says nice things about me and my friends
>has amazing taste, we recommend things to each other and its always golden
>likes to cook, does housework, has a steady job
>very creative, hobby artist with a western artstyle, draws and sculpts
>very funny, likes to dance and dress up
>even more leftist than I am, doesn't discriminate, cares about people
>avoids porn, drugs and piracy
>he likes my hair and fashion
>loves animals, keeps fish
>he has super cute vibes, he's so damn cute
>can be kind of girly but I see that as a pro
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pros
>handsome
>sweet
>overwatch pro
>funny
>loving
>hottest guy ive ever dated
cons
>listens to radiohead

>>125875
>could be closeted trans
if it makes you feel better that could immediately kill all the pros points

>>105407
Pro
>Tall
>Really tall
>His feet are really far from the top of his head
>He is most likely to be struck by lightning
>Attractive
>Cute
>Hot
>Like the hottest guy ever
>His face is extremely symmetric and with pleasing ratios

Cons
>Could be taller and hotter

>>125867
It really isn't and honestly if they're just some strangers they should not be lecturing you on anything. And if they're not they should have some empathy for you anyway.

>>125868
My parents 😭

>>125870
I'd say it's pretty normal to not want to get up in the morning if it means having to deal with some assholes who berate you all the time and don't even want to listen to you. Some people are just incapable of dealing with a human they have power over. And some of them are parents. Best of luck nona.

>>125860
I've been there. I promise, it can get better, even if it's a slow process…
But yeah, you're not "making excuses", you're struggling and those people could help you instead of pointlessly complaining about what you're actively suffering from.
But some people simply don't get it. It can be so frustrating, I've had breakdowns over this before with different people. It's a special kind of hell when people don't understand you and you try to express it in different ways and rather than just taking you by your word, they pretend like they can relate somehow and totally get it but by what they're saying, you can tell that they really don't…
I hope you have a therapist you can talk to at least… And that you're getting support, even from the people who don't fully understand. I'd hope they're trying to help at least, even if they're apparently quite bad at it.

>>125860
They don't understand because they never had something like that happen to them. Unfortunately depression is something very few people can actually understand or even sympathize with, people always think there are worse things in life etc etc Trying to explain to them is useless because they will always try to rationalize it when it's not something to rationalize.
Give yourself time, try read things online, self help and care can help a lot

While the FDS subreddit had a nasty reputation for being misandric (and having a lot of nasty posters), I think they actually give some good protips for dating in their handbooks. Check out their wiki and the sidebar.
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/el5gse/7_signs_hes_a_fckboy/ these aren't too bad for example

>>125851
>a nasty reputation for being misandric
…You know where you are, right?

>>125861
No.

>>125779
Monday's come and gone so how was it?

>>125779
Tell him you won't have sex before marriage.