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Anonymous 128950[Reply]

I've gotten to the point where I've become such a touch-starved femcel, I've started to envy and hate pretty girls who have been SA'd or stalked by men before. Instead of feeling sympathy for for them, I get to the point where I am annoyed and disgusted hearing their stories where they had that one ex boyfriend that just "couldn't let them go" or having had a man in their life obsess over them. That has been the stark opposite of my life. As a femcel I have been ignored by men my whole entire life, and the exes I have managed to have had all wanted to ghost or abandon me, none of my exes were ever obsessed with me. None of them blew up my phone constantly or begged for me. At this point, I see women talking about obsessive exes as nothing more than humble bragging, especially Stacies, complaining about how "oh so hard" it is that they've had an ex obsess over and stalk them. They don't understand that the life of a femcel is much worse. I would take their life over mine in a heartbeat. Being a Stacy where I have men obsessing over me, stalking me, and wanting to grope me versus being the touch starved ignored femcel I am. It's easy to see their life is easy mode of people doting on them all the time (their life) versus a life that is absolute hell (my life).

Anonymous 128953

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>femcel
>"my exes"



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Commie moids Anonymous 128878[Reply]

Is it a good idea to date a hardcore commie moid? [Sorry for bad English it's my second language]
>met him at a book fair with other friends
>he was in a booth encouraging people to read commie books and even gave digital copies to some
>I'm 23 he is 21
>he is studying medicine and im studying engineering
>we kinda flirted and I have a date with him on Sunday
Is it a red flag for a moid to be a commie? [Pun intended]
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Anonymous 128927

>>128925
Damn, then i got nothing.

Anonymous 128935

>>128916
only selfish people say it in england too. nobody said america.

Anonymous 128937

>>128935
You can barely speak english, how would you know.

Anonymous 128939

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>So im back from the date
had a great time and learned a lot about him
FYI I like asking about his prior gfs just to weed out red flags
>Pros
>He is kind
>He is attentive
>He is really smart
>he isn't condescending (most smart moids are unbearable)
>I really enjoyed our conversation
>Surprisingly he has a part-time job
>he paid for the date
>told me about his exes when I asked he has had 3 (the first he ended on bad terms, the other two ended on good terms but he maintains zero contact) I like that
CONS
>he confessed to me his prior relationships failed because he is always busy and had very few dates with his past gfs
>didn't talk about his family
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Anonymous 128948

>>128939
It's ok to talk his ex. A bit weird though but tolerable, I guess. Just don't expect him to accept it if he discovers that. Would you be ok if he were stalking all of your profiles on Insta/FB/Whatsapp and talking to your exes, too?



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new relationship not actually being toxic for once Anonymous 128947[Reply]

im 18yo lesbo9000 and ive had terrible relationship issues my entire life, usually being a mixture of both me & the other person being the problem

ive got insane mental issues but i recently got a girlfriend (although we were basically dating for a long time now). shes really nice to me: she doesnt randomly ignore me, and doesnt suck at communication. shes really happy to see me and doesnt mind me texting her a lot (She even likes it WTF?). she also has issues but works hard to be the best she can be

but its crazy feeling so fucking normal for once. no more three-times-a-day mental breakdowns and cutting myself over stupid bullshit. being in a healthy relationship feels so fucking weird in a Nice way. im really not used to it and i feel like a stray cat being randomly picked up on the street and given a domestic home. but its something i want to get used to. is this what relationship issues/attachment recovery feels like? Cool…


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128883

it’s genuinely obvious and i enjoy it. have fun thinking of me.

Anonymous 128884

>>128880
Really chuckling at the idea of opening the post one day to find a hand written, unsigned letter reading "Jesus, what a faggot…", and nothing else.

Anonymous 128909

Stop spamming your bullshit everywhere, retard.

Anonymous 128920

I love you, I don't want to tell you yet but I knew from the moment I met you, I love you

Anonymous 128946

>>128920
Thanks



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Does anyone have a fear of never finding love? Anonymous 128837[Reply]

It's fine if I never find love or die alone. It's not a fear for me because life is life and I have my books, my cats, and my friends. But sometimes, maybe it's hormones or basic human fears, but I worry that never finding love will prove something about myself, like I am unworthy or a repellent of any sort of love. Around my period these feels worsen as is natural, but sometimes there is a hole in my belly from that fear and I can't let it go and I get anxious. :(

Anonymous 128891

>>128837
Yeah, I also feel this way. The thought of living my whole life without ever experiencing it because it's kind of plastered all over the media, in books, movies, music, even irl people place such importance on it that if you miss out on it you might feel like there's something wrong with you or you're unworthy or something. But honestly I think most people live without ever finding actual love in general. Most relationships seem to be just out of convenience or hierarchies or shallow shit. Or maybe I'm just trying to rationalize it idk. I mean even if you try to be realistic about it it's still a scary feeling. But at the end of the day I feel like most people feel this way deep down. Its a very human feeling I think

Anonymous 128945

this summarizes my feelings perfectly



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My boyfriend has ignored me all valentines day Anonymous 128893[Reply]

I even texted him happy valentines day and he didn't even say it back. He only said he couldn't do anything for me and he felt bad.
He just went out with his friends to drink and I feel lonely and sad.
He told me we couldn't meet today because he had to study, I don't know how to tell him how bad I feel so instead I'm drinking cheap whiskey and watching Gilmore Girls
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Anonymous 128896

>>128895
No I get it. I don’t mean to insult, you’re allowed to vent, vent all the way. I just wished young women would just stop with these moids as soon as possible. You sound hurt, and tired, and I don’t think love or relationships should be like that. Love is supposed to bring you life, even its difficulties should, I just don’t want anyone to torture themselves for a moid. You shouldn’t be drinking Whiskey and watching Gilmore Girls, it’s more him im annoyed at, not you, but I wrote it to sound like you.

Anonymous 128897

FUCKING
DUMP
HIM
NOW

Anonymous 128928

>>128893
Are you guys LDR or do you guys live close to one another? If it's an LDR relationship it may be understandable why he could have been busy that day, but if you guys live close he has no excuse.

Anonymous 128936

free yourself of that moid retard he clearly doesnt love you im so sorry nona but dont keep hurting urself by being with him

Anonymous 128942

>>128896
I know, but he's a really good boyfriend in other ways, I don't know what happened. Tbf I tried to make it seem like I don't think valentines day is a big deal when I do, plus we live 3 hours away from each other. I wish I could be more upfront
>>128928
I guess? Or medium distance more like



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 128933

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How do you even get a bf? I am 26 and I've never had any sort of relationship although I've been on a few first dates before. I don't want to use a dating app because they seem scary, I don't have nice photos of myself (I'm scared of being photographed) and I don't want to suffer the jaded moids that would be using them.
What do I do? I've got a fairly normal life otherwise, I appear functional in terms of employment and stuff. Boys don't approach me unless they are really really old.

Anonymous 128934

>>128933
from what i can tell, you don't.
dating apps are capitalist scams, ignore them

Anonymous 128938

>>128932
lol
>>128933
>I appear functional in terms of employment
That isn't helpful, you got to trigger a man's instinct to protect and provide.

Anonymous 128940

I left a stressful job back in February 2025 & have been unemployed since. Tbh, I barely applied to jobs until right after new years. The thought of going back to a stressful job filled me wit so much dread. I am 29 years old, I drained all my savings, this is not where I thought I would be in life. I do not want to back to the corporate rat race, but I also cannot just lay on my couch, consoom media and eat snacks forever. I have so much regret. Climbing the corporate ladder was not worth it, I am burnt out. This felt cathartic to type out. Anybody else in the same boat?

Anonymous 128941

>>128940

Is it possible with your credentials to get a high paying part time job? That way, you can figure out what to do with your life and pay bills at the same time?



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Anonymous 128905[Reply]

What is love to you? What does it mean to fall in love?

Anonymous 128910

Love is a lie. Love is what you feel when a moid manipulates you right. Heartbreak is what you feel when you find out.

Anonymous 128931

>>128910
very true. And the truest truth of all is realizing that death is preferable to life



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Hypersexual Issues Anonymous 128879[Reply]

I'm unmedicated bipolar and when I'm manic I get really hypersexual, I don't do hookups atm I just make out with people here and there

Men want me for my body and don't emotionally connect with me the way women do

I can't find a partner to have sex with at the moment and I don't want to get into a bad relationship by being desperate

I get clammy around people that I find attractive, I alternate between staring at them and looking away, I get beyond flustered with cute people

I've been downright creepy towards people I've crushed on, both men and women

Do you ever see someone attractive and get carried away?

I feel so guilty about this all

Whenever my mania goes away so does my sex drive, I'm worried that it makes dating me difficult
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Anonymous 128881

>>128879
I should add that I'm 22 and don't have any stds

I've only slept with women, I'm afraid to go the full way with a guy

I identity as bisexual but I'm sexually confused, I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian

I live in a town of sorts so there's not really a local lesbian scene for me to explore

I feel creepy for being attracted to women, the majority of women I've crushed on weren't interested in me at all and I easily obsess

How do I tell which women are lesbians without asking?

Anonymous 128902

sure ya are not of the troon tribe

Anonymous 128903

>>128902
wow women aren't allowed to be horny?

Anonymous 128904

>>128902
People irl think I'm a ftm pretty often

I like dressing in suits and stuff

I have very mixed feelings on trans people, I've had some really bad experiences with trans people

most of them unattractive to me

Anonymous 128922

take your pills yuck



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