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Anonymous 119969[Reply]

Anyone else just accept the fact that they'll never have a husband and kids? How do you cope?
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Anonymous 124079

I have the opposite problem! I never wanted a husband or kids, but back at college all the men REALLY wanted me as their girlfriend!!!! They all LOVED my pikachu hoodie.

Anonymous 124081

>>124079
damn, maybe one of them could have saved you out of your predicament, so to speak?

Anonymous 124168

>>123715
I like your mindset. Would you expand on your personal story with your moid?

Anonymous 124171

People are dying nonas. Getting married and giving a moid babies does nothing but benefit him. You all need to get this through your heads.

Anonymous 124269

>>124168
I've tried typing this out a few times now and it's far too long. Is there anything in particular that you're interested in?



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how to cope w how ugly i am Anonymous 123748[Reply]

what subject says. i'm obese and very likely mentally ill. i could lose weight but i'm not strong enough to not overeat so there's no point in that atp. i've been exercising more lately which has been somewhat motivating but i still know there's kind of no means to an end here.

i know i'll never find love, which sucks, but i guess that's just how it is.

picrel my dream body
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>>124020
>i wake up kind of late (11AM)
That would be early for me at this point I woke up at 11 pm and probably will be around the same again next time

Anonymous 124098

>>124040
i hope thats the case!!
i mostly just do cardio. i have a walking pad that i try to do a mile on every day. i hope to be able to do more than that soon though. i don't do much other than that. though i'm interested in lifting weights

Anonymous 124128

>>124020
18 is way too young to give up. You could be hot by 20. Getting fun workout clothes and and personalized water bottle can make exercise easier (mentally). Meeting friends who are fitter than you can be a cheat code too since you get to parasite off of their experience as you give them an ego boost.
Your cravings might be crossfiring in your brain. When you feel a craving, try chugging some water first and see if it goes away. If you still want the thing, less of it will probably satisfy after the water.

Anonymous 124266

You'll be ok, focus on weight loss until you hit your goal

Anonymous 124268

>>123807
>>124020
Where do you live? I live in Europe, and there are private doctors here who describe not-Ozempic here if you have a somewhat medically justifiable
reason.
Losing weight is important, if you live your life overweight, then by your mid 30s your body will be a wreck.

No offense, buy you're super obese. You need to lose weight NOW. You're way past the 'I don't wanna, I'm not comfortable with asking my doctor'. Besides your doctor is there to help you. Results matter more than niceness at this point



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bf attracted to other girls Anonymous 123128[Reply]

am i supposed to just accept that every guy is going to be attracted to other girls, even while he’s in a relationship with me? people say it’s normal, but honestly, it really hurts. i wish it didn’t get to me, but it does. my boyfriend always follows hot egirls on social media and sometimes even talks about how hot he finds them, celebs or not. it hurts. and yeah, even when it’s a celebrity, it still stings. i don’t really see a difference between him saying that about a famous girl or some everyday girl. it still makes me feel like shit. i’m struggling to come to terms with this ‘norm’, but it feels like i have to. seems like every guy is like this, and there’s no escaping it. it honestly makes me feel sick. what am i supposed to do?
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Anonymous 124248

>>123128
Will your bf have that part of his mind that think a certain girl is pretty? Sure, yeah. You too probably see guys you think are attractive. Cheating is another thing.

Him following those girls on ig is weird asf, especially since I assume he does not know them. It's most likely an insecurity things for him like he wants attention from them in some way for some reason bc maybe he feels less than. There's really no reason for him to follow a girl who just posts hot pics. My bf doesn't follow any girls but me (that's extreme) but just to show u guys who are all about u exist

Anonymous 124258

>>124247
I was in a thread and someone mentioned this is like the 4chan version for girls and I'm taking a look at it rn and just saw this post. Not every single man watches porn, I don't and there is a thread on /x/ called srg (semen retention general), you can check it out and see there's quite a few men, insignificant to the overall % of male population but still, that are in streaks of nofap no porn no nothing etc. lots struggle at first bc kikes have made sure kids are addicted to it as soon as they get a smartphone. I stopped watching porn and jerking off at around 16y, im 21 now and i will just say that you can "feel" as a women the difference between someone who watches porn jerks off etc and someone who doesnt, women get extremely touchy, smiling/laughing for no reason, more flirty etc and even random ppl and kids get more touchy and comfortable around u. If you end up with a loser who watches porn and jerks off that's on you, it's your fault by allowing yourself to be with such fag and because that's what you deserve, low quality men get with low quality women, stop coping by saying all men watch porn, much less monks, I don't agree with them cuz they are extremists who reject women all together and some even chop off their balls but some of them definitely don't watch porn. You will be surprised that there are men that find porn disgusting and if u wanna get a little /x/ about, everytime you open a pornsite you open a portal to "entities" that feed on men energy, they don't on women cuz you all don't generate energy just receive.
I could go on about this but if you are smart you understood what I said already. Op is a pathethic chudette and you a bitter coping whore JFL

Anonymous 124259

>>124258
that's a lot of seething out of nowhere

Anonymous 124261

>>124259
seething at what exactly? if anything just at the saying "all men watch porn". but women are midwits so it is usual from them to make retarded statements with 0 evidence but saying it anyways with lots of confidence

Anonymous 124267

>>124261
>Complains about something done by a woman, in this case it's a generalizing statement
>Does the same thing in the same breath
If this wasn't the most moid behavior I've ever seen



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I Really Wish I Was Tamashii Hiroka Anonymous 124105[Reply]

She has the best Pokemon collection and she's so cute. I really want her body and soul to become part of me.
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Anonymous 124140

>>124133
No, it was Eevee.

Anonymous 124145

>>124140
That does sound more real

Anonymous 124148

>>124145
No es fake

Anonymous 124188

>>124140
It's well known that it was originally going to be Clefairy liar.

Anonymous 124265

She's an odd little dork, I know someone who met her IRL and said she's really awkward. She's also only remotely attractive cuz she got that rhinoplasty. I think you're fine being you.



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Holy Ship?! Anonymous 124264[Reply]

When I was 5 or 6, my stepgrandfather came to my house to paint my room. He said "holy shit" and I repeated him, but I said "holy ship" because that's what I thought he said. Anyone else make this error?


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tech in america in the big 25 Anonymous 124044[Reply]

I hate it
fresh outta HS
Tech careers look screwed
Dream job is ruined cause of market oversaturation
Years of fucking code experience wasted cause of AI, though ig I have some experience with major AI corpos too
I don't wanna apply to a CS major and murder myself financially
I hate everything else
What do I do

I'm not a regular here sorry
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>very attainable low 6 digit salary rolling through!
yes women do this job aswell

Anonymous 124139

>>124044
Idgaf im learning how to code from scratch though i dont want a corporate job

Anonymous 124149

>>124073
truck companies with dangerous goods like to hire women because they are less risky drivers

Anonymous 124262

>>124149
I drove trucks and can second this, It's great money if you're okay being alone most of the time and putting in effort to eat proper food that isn't from the truck stop. I fought hard to resist all the ready made delicious slop kwiktrip/Loves/FlyingJ had to offer, if you don't you'll look like a greasy man after a year.

Anonymous 124263

>>124262
Forgot to mention stay away from armored trucking, that whole industry is a shitshow and you will be misreble from the horrible working conditions if you go into it.



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

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Anonymous 124182

>>124181
I want the tea

Anonymous 124189

As I read Jane Austen's Sense and Sensibility, I think of you then I think of writing to you to talk about it. Then I think I have been doing well for the past 2 months not gnawing my teeth doubting and hurting. You say your faith in your love could move mountains, but in truth, it did not-it still does not- for if it really could move mountains, it should've moved mountains to get you to traverse to me. There were chances and they were all chances you did not take and what helped me move is knowing they were chances that were handed over to you in silver spoon, all you had to do was to take them. I receive a love now that I do not question, a love that I know comes from true yearning. I feel actions and great sacrifices and compromise. I still believe that you are my soulmate but unfortunately for me, my soulmate cannot love me as how I'd like to be loved. Your inaction pained me more than leaving you. I am not in so much pain anymore and I hope knowing this eases you. We were not meant to be. Goodbye.

Anonymous 124244

>>124182
not snapping at you at all but part of the point of that was when someone is going through a hard time and a scary life change, sometimes even an opp will think it’s weird when people try to kick that person while they are down. someone thought i was gonna start drama when they messaged me stirring the pot but i’m mostly just judgmental of the kind of friend who would choose now of all times to betray a new mother. like even if it’s out of love for the baby and not the mom, why destabilize an unstable person while pregnant or newly post partum. that’s disgusting.

Anonymous 124251

I hope that you get cheated on you disgusting individual.

You are a pedophile, just like your "Partner".

You're life is miserable and will only get worse and worse. It's exactly what you deserve.

You don't deserve me, you deserve a shitty life and a "Partner that only sees you as an object and cheats on you.

End yourself, whore.

Anonymous 124260

ten years ago i was spending my final hours with you and saying my goodbyes. i remember knowing what you were going to do to me next but hoping you wouldn’t. i’ve always wanted to be wrong about you. ten years is a long time to hurt. ten years is a long time for you to feel no remorse for your crimes. i wish i knew back then that that was only the beginning and i dread the things you will do in the next ten years. this will never end.



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Anonymous 124256[Reply]

trying when the other person doesn't

Anonymous 124257

>>124256
tldr sometimes your not the problem



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I cannot stop eating sugar and sweets Anonymous 124125[Reply]

it is a PROBLEM. I love chocolate and anything with sugar, but its becoming concerning at this post, if i dont eat a sugary sweet at least once a day i will become moody and sad.
Im not overweight or anything, i have a pretty lean body but i need to stop eating sugar all the time, how to stop with the sweet treats,,, nonas help,,,

Anonymous 124129

A daily piece of quality chocolate is probably fine, maybe even beneficial

Anonymous 124135

Sugar and sweets are one of the hardest addictions to break. It is a slow-acting poison that makes connections in the brain’s reward center, usually from childhood. I suggest trying to eat whole fruit

Anonymous 124137

Honestly I didn't drop sugar until one day I drank a bit too much sweet drinks. Straight up made me feel the worst I've ever fucking felt for a week.
I can't consume too much sweet stuff ever since. I tried a milkshake and a cake piece yesterday and it still made me feel super shitty…

But seriously though, OP, maybe you just need to eat different things like the other Nona said. You're not overweight, and if you're on the lighter side, maybe you're not getting enough carbs, protein or fiber from elsewhere?
On the list of other potential reasons: too much stress, not enough sleep, not drinking enough water, etc…

Anonymous 124254

Had to quit sugar myself because I got too close to diabetes. It was hard at first but eventually your brain rewires itself.



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