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Anonymous 128386[Reply]

My intellect is fine or above average (according to evaluation) but somehow I'm still retarded and immature and I don't know why. Is it just the way I carry myself or is it actually the way I think? Or the way my attention works? I don't really know but I'm afraid of just beeing myself anymore because people don't take it well.
It's probably related to the fact I ruminate about stupid shit constantly, whether I'm working or not, I can't get out of my head and I don't know what to do.

Anonymous 128391

damn ur shits fucked up
i genuinely do not know

Anonymous 128393

>>128391
thanks for the reply even if you don't know
It's probably something going on at the neurological level I guess

Anonymous 128396

Read books

Anonymous 128398

>>128396
what do you read?

Anonymous 128399

are there any actual behaviours you can give us as an example? of why you feel retarded?


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128372

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the way your wedding will be worse than this and the one you posed for pictures in blows my mind. is anyone even going?

Anonymous 128373

i appreciate that you’re trying to improve yourself and be a better man. i appreciate you told them to stop. i appreciate you reached out. i appreciate you defended me both privately and publicly and did not defend their actions to me. i appreciate you recognizing the type of woman to say those things is no woman at all and that’s probably why they all looked and acted like men instead of women. i hope you can take this to its logical conclusion and see it to the end. i hope you can really drop everything and move and make some changes in yourself and the people you surround yourself with. you’ve broken things off at this level before and you have a better excuse than last time for ending things. i’m glad you’re not choosing to be that person who believes those things are okay and want to better your life. i hope it’s not too late and you don’t chicken out. everything about the last ten years has been designed to show us how wrong what happened was.

Anonymous 128376

i still feel scared and sad when i think about what you did to me. i often find myself wondering why i feel scared all of the sudden and my mind just always goes straight to you. what might happen in the future. what happened in the past. what you did to me. i hope you know. i’m scared and hurting over it. i dont know if i’m going to be okay. i don’t know how to let people close to me. you did that. i would have been okay. i will never understand why you did this to me. i did nothing to you.

Anonymous 128377

>>128376
you can still heal :'(

Anonymous 128397

>>128377
it felt like i was going to for a while. i don’t know why it stopped. i don’t know why i can never fully get better.


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/rock bottom/ - general Anonymous 76609[Reply]

This thread is for people who have hit rock bottom. Not people who are having a bad day, but people who are living in the depths of despair. Whether you're a nona who is struggling with serious addiction, mental or physical illness that severely precludes your life, constantly feeling suicidal, whether you're being abused, have any other serious life issues or if you are simply unable to function and don't know where else to turn, vent here and let's try to support each other.
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Anonymous 127785

>>127784
Like a month ago I was very motivated to find one as i wanted to feel productive, but now I find myself slipping again. Knowing I'll have to eventually wake up sleep deprived and having to go somewhere early and spend 10 hours there just so I can afford food and pay my bills is kind of daunting.

Anonymous 127786

Last online friend just blocked me and removed me on every platform out of nowhere and now I have no one. I often wonder if I am just so unlikeable or annoying that spending time with me is so miserable, but people seem to generally enjoy my company. The problem is just that I am the last option with every person I meet so they end up ignoring me for long periods of time while I'm sat at my computer feeling too anxious to send a message (until the loneliness becomes so unbearable that I bite the bullet and reach out).

I am dealing with a chronic illness that leaves me housebound and in turn I have developed severe agoraphobia. I haven't gone outside in years so it's hard for me to make real friends. Therapy didn't work and brute force doesn't work so I don't know what to do. I feel very stuck. I am so bored and lonely every single day with no one to talk to and nothing to do, while also dealing with probably the worst physical illness related episode in my life. I'm in pain in every physical way with no comfort or joy anywhere. It's so depressing and I constantly just blame myself because if everyone vanishes then I must be the problem somehow. I'm getting tired of asking myself what's wrong with me every night while trying to sleep. I always try my best to make every friendship work out and go above and beyond, even changing myself completely, for people and they still all disappear.

Anonymous 127788

>>127786
It could also be their own issues making them isolate, but I feel you. I don't have the confidence to make online friends in the first place, so I'm lucky to have a stable anonymous community I can generally exist peacefully in

Anonymous 128394

It hurts, it hurts so much but maybe it's time to accept it, not everyone makes it out of the bottom and most people rot right where they started

Anonymous 128395

>>128394
kys


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If I ever kill myself, I am taking everyone down with me. Anonymous 128387[Reply]

I writing this during big girl emotions, but I swear if I ever and I mean ever kill myself, I am ruining everyone’s life with one single note speaking of all the ways they ruined my life, the jinx is these people only spiritually ruined my life because I am insane, mortally it’s corrupt, personally it’s revenge

Anonymous 128388

>>128387
weird, you kinda acknowledge your insanity yet at the same time you still are suffering from it

Anonymous 128389

>>128388
Imo sometimes it’s not enough to acknowledge insanity to fix it

Anonymous 128390

>>128389
mhm didn't think it did, it's just something that puzzles me. then again, thats maybe also the point - we cant understand that situation, or its at least very hard to

Anonymous 128392

I'd to hurt as many people as I can but I'm sure nothing will happen, no one I know will feel this much pain, they weren't the ones to kill themselves after all


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I am so tired of the modern dating world Anonymous 127745[Reply]

I really don't understand. I'm about to cry actually. I am trying my absolute best all the time, I am dating all the time, trying to talk to guys, I meet so many nice and sweet and interesting ones but they are never taking me out on any dates. I always initiate. Is it really that hard. Like I am actually very cute, 6'0, long hair, I take very good care of my looks, clothes, I have an apartment, job, I own property, my mental is semi ok, except I'm clingy, I have a very nice body. I have lots of hobbies and I am well read sort of, I don't spend time on social media. I have everything going for me and even that's not enough. I can't even get a movie date. All I want is to be taken to the movies and to be given some flowers. That's all I want. I think it happened once but only when I suggested to the guy to do that. Why do none of them want to do that with me? Are they really all that lazy and stupid? I have truly lost all hope in men, especially modern men, they have absolutely no idea how to treat people nice. Or maybe I'm too crazy. I hate men so much. I am literally like this against my own will. Female incel. Unlovable
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Anonymous 127764

I went to the gym the other day and i tried to use a barbell after a girl and I asked if she was done and she said yes then I went to pick it up and she said im not done with it and I was like wtf?? And walked away and I was mad because some girls were laughing and I feel like everyone thought I was trying to hit on her and I felt embarrassed

Anonymous 127765

TALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL AND UNDERRATED
RAAAAAAH

Anonymous 127766

>>127746
Wrong

Anonymous 128357

Sad…

Anonymous 128385

Are those men shorter than you? They will tend to be insecure about it. Some exceptions.


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Anonymous 128359[Reply]

I feel so fat and ugly all the time, someone help me fix it…give me a workout routine or a better diet routine…im so tired
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Anonymous 128361

>>128359
walk after you eat, for as long as you can. do jumping exercises and massages to drain your lymphatic system - it helps with fluid retention, which can cause bloating. quit sugar and eat fish with more vegetables. do jaw stretches to erase double chin - it'll take a while, but stretch upwards and say your vowels, or stick your tongue out, face to the side, and stretch opposite to how your arm is placed across your chest.
most of all, don't stress about things that you can't change unless you're actively planning on fixing them with surgery. it's a mental waste, and every time it happens, distract yourself by moving.
manifestation can delude you into a better mental state and perspective if you're willing to do that as well. repeat to yourself daily that you ARE getting healthier, ASSUME that you are getting skinnier - because it is the truth, no matter how long it takes.
good luck

Anonymous 128363

Girl I used to be fat (obese). Start counting your calories (My fitness pal helps). Walk a lot (10,000 steps per day is recommended). Avoid ultra processed food. Cook from scratch. Go to the gym and ask the staff what exercises they recommend. Ask them to demonstrate the exercises and make a routine for you if you're not sure. You're paying them so they'll be happy to help you. If you're really obese and nothing works, you may benefit from Ozempic/Mounjaro.

Anonymous 128364

>>128363
I am like 166 LBS or 75 KG
I have a double chin,hip dips, leg and belly fat to the point it creates a round spot in front of my pants like a pudgy belly…I hate it so much…I’ll take this advice and try a couple things…my biggest issue is being hungry all the time and not having motivation to work out…I’ve started doing squats or wall sits when I’m not doing anything…I just want to be happy with my body

Anonymous 128369

>>128364
"Hip dips" sounds like some terminally online shit. Do you use Tiktok/Instagram a lot? If so you should consider cutting them out entirely, there is almost no benefit to using them aside from if you need it for social connection sparingly. They will make you hate yourself for no reason.

I also used to be fat af. What is your current diet like? You won't be able to reduce your calorie intake sustainably if you're hungry all the time.

Doing diet/exercise will make you happier with your body as long as you're not doing it as a way of dealing with some other major life stressor/self hatred/negative self beliefs, which you probably have considering you're using this website. I used to be fat af and lost a lot of weight and I wasn't able to do shit about it until I started working through past trauma.

You'll be fine, ily

Anonymous 128384

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>>128359
Put down the fork fatty.


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I have whiplash'd myself and don't know how to feel Anonymous 128378[Reply]

Growing up, I was a really bad student. I had a bad home life so I would just smoke weed in parks and get drunk and shit during the day until I had to go to court for my absences. Eventually just dropped out of high school and got my GED. I actually managed to get an associates in a technical field and did that job for awhile but it was so boring I started daydreaming about getting cancer and dying lol.

That brings us to the modern day. I ended up quitting my job and going back to college for "a useless degree". This time around I'm actually making straight A's, after making straight C's and D's my first run through college. The program is incredibly strict, like, if you miss 2 appointments in a semester, you're out.

The only thing that has changed is that I have developed an attachment to a professor. I'm not sure if I'd call it a crush. Perhaps it's some weird Freudian thing where my creative energy is unfocused. This has caused me to become completely addicted to academic achievement. It gives my life direction and meaning. I have nothing to look forward to besides lectures and homework. When we get breaks in between semesters, I fall into a deep depression. I am so driven, I no longer recognize myself. I went from being a juvenile delinquent to this. I'll probably get my master's in a few years.

My future is so uncertain. I'm worried that I won't have an identity outside of school and will just kill myself after graduation. Life feels like a dead end. But for now I'm very happy, and my professor is proud of me. I feel an extreme amount of guilt over how limerent I am for this man. He's married with kids. But at the same time, I know the limerence is partially to blame for my excellent grades. Oh well. Whatever.

Anonymous 128380

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Ma'am, this is a wendy's.

Anonymous 128381

>>128380
no this is /feels/ on the idiot loser femcel website

Anonymous 128383

It sounds like you're making good progress in school. If you're thriving in that ecosystem, you'll probably do well in the corporate system if you can find a good boss. Don't worry aboutit.


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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 128335

I picked up the third book in the series instead of the second on accident and the prologue spoiled the end of the second book. And everyone says the second book is the best one in the series. I want to fucking KILL MYSELF.

Anonymous 128365

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My life fell apart unexpectedly and I'm between homes at the moment, couch surfing for the 3rd… maybe 4th time? It seems like every time I get my feet on solid ground something devastating comes along and sweeps it right from under me and I'm on the run again or back to a bad place. I've been going to work with the same two pants and shirts for two weeks and it's embarrassing as hell. I might not even have a job in a month cause of a change in company ownership and drastic changes/budget cuts they are making to top it all off. I'm starting to resent the people around me for having relatively stable, good lives while I'm constantly only just barely keeping my head above water. I try and keep a pretty good attitude despite it all but I'm losing the willpower to keep it up.

Anonymous 128366

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chugging down a berry flavor vodka bottle while snacking like a fat bitch rn. nobody loves me and i'm a nuisance to everyone around me. every year i hope this is the year, but it never is.

Anonymous 128375

>>128365
How did you lose all of your things

Anonymous 128379

I miss him so fucking much nonas. Fucking bipolar.


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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

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Anonymous 128024

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Friday night, time to get drunk
Go, go to the party, time to get drunk
Arrive in the Clio, get driven by a hunk
Straight to the bedroom, driven by a hunk
Plenty of boys in the yard
One look at me and they get hard

H-Hard as stone, ready to bone
Like Medusa on a party throne
DJ, DJ, DJ DJ DJ
Slow it down for an epic BJ
Thanks, man, so glad you came
I think I love you, what's your name?
Don't leave yet, we're having fun
Friday night, number one
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Anonymous 128306

sing for me my sweet acolyte

Anonymous 128370

Data trails like fingernails scratch across the sky

Anonymous 128371

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[Chorus]
She's a naughty girl with a bad habit
Bad habit for drugs
She's a party girl with a bad habit
Bad habit for drugs

[Post-Chorus]
Ecstasy, ecstasy e-e-e-e-ecstasy
Ecstasy, ecstasy e-e-e-e-ecstasy

Anonymous 128374

a drag path
etched on the surface
as evidence
i left there on purpose


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