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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128920

I love you, I don't want to tell you yet but I knew from the moment I met you, I love you

Anonymous 128956

So you sit there silently and what are you waiting for? Did valentines day trigger your loneliness wound?
Are you hoping I still love you? Are you hoping I will be the first to apologize?
Or do you just want the access to me, just in case?

Anonymous 128957

You do not have access to me anymore. Any time I feel like I miss you I remember all the times you hurt me and lied to me and how many days i went not eating and sleeping because of you, cutting myself because of you. All the promises you made that you'll always be here and always love me only to leave me

I'm tired of wasting my time on you. Go fuck yourself. You should die alone

Anonymous Moderator 128961

Some posters have been using this thread to vaguely communicate with others and to spam dozens of one-liners one after the other. Don't use this thread as a chat thread. Your posts will be removed.

Anonymous 129151

>>128961
thank you.



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Commie moids Anonymous 128878[Reply]

Is it a good idea to date a hardcore commie moid? [Sorry for bad English it's my second language]
>met him at a book fair with other friends
>he was in a booth encouraging people to read commie books and even gave digital copies to some
>I'm 23 he is 21
>he is studying medicine and im studying engineering
>we kinda flirted and I have a date with him on Sunday
Is it a red flag for a moid to be a commie? [Pun intended]
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Anonymous 128935

>>128916
only selfish people say it in england too. nobody said america.

Anonymous 128937

>>128935
You can barely speak english, how would you know.

Anonymous 128939

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>So im back from the date
had a great time and learned a lot about him
FYI I like asking about his prior gfs just to weed out red flags
>Pros
>He is kind
>He is attentive
>He is really smart
>he isn't condescending (most smart moids are unbearable)
>I really enjoyed our conversation
>Surprisingly he has a part-time job
>he paid for the date
>told me about his exes when I asked he has had 3 (the first he ended on bad terms, the other two ended on good terms but he maintains zero contact) I like that
CONS
>he confessed to me his prior relationships failed because he is always busy and had very few dates with his past gfs
>didn't talk about his family
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Anonymous 128948

>>128939
It's ok to talk his ex. A bit weird though but tolerable, I guess. Just don't expect him to accept it if he discovers that. Would you be ok if he were stalking all of your profiles on Insta/FB/Whatsapp and talking to your exes, too?

Anonymous 129150

>>128878
They're notorious for betraying their friends and family to conform to the new rhetoric, I personally experienced that.



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Anonymous 128950[Reply]

I've gotten to the point where I've become such a touch-starved femcel, I've started to envy and hate pretty girls who have been SA'd or stalked by men before. Instead of feeling sympathy for for them, I get to the point where I am annoyed and disgusted hearing their stories where they had that one ex boyfriend that just "couldn't let them go" or having had a man in their life obsess over them. That has been the stark opposite of my life. As a femcel I have been ignored by men my whole entire life, and the exes I have managed to have had all wanted to ghost or abandon me, none of my exes were ever obsessed with me. None of them blew up my phone constantly or begged for me. At this point, I see women talking about obsessive exes as nothing more than humble bragging, especially Stacies, complaining about how "oh so hard" it is that they've had an ex obsess over and stalk them. They don't understand that the life of a femcel is much worse. I would take their life over mine in a heartbeat. Being a Stacy where I have men obsessing over me, stalking me, and wanting to grope me versus being the touch starved ignored femcel I am. It's easy to see their life is easy mode of people doting on them all the time (their life) versus a life that is absolute hell (my life).

Anonymous 128953

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>femcel
>"my exes"

Anonymous 128958

Most attractive women get ghosted or abandoned or used for sex. You're seriously delusional if you think being attractive will get you "true love"
In fact what you described it seems like you don't want true love, you want men to be obsessed with you and cry over you. Most men like that lvoe bomb at first only to then discard you. No mad will ever obsess over you for a life time, eventually they will find another one

Anonymous 128959

too many exes to be complaining

Anonymous 129148

So true nona! Staceys will brag about how desired they are, but instead of appearing as grossly vain (which they are), it's societally ok bcuz of the patriarchy (that they feed off of anyway(see: trad gender norms)).



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Anonymous 128788[Reply]

i feel like ill never find true love as a woman partially because men are shit and partially because im also an emotionally unavailable woman who wants very specific things out of a man. im just mad every man ill ever be around is a shithead and men make me feel so mad and evil

Anonymous 128789

What are your standards for a man?

Anonymous 128835

alive and maybe has a job

Anonymous 128863

I used to be a big believer in "true love." But I've come to the belief now that most people are constitutionally incapable of it. I know I am. And I know all the men I'd love or who would love me are too. I don't really care to search for it anymore. I am also emotionally unavailable, and I seem to attract emotionally unhealthy men. It is what it is, you know? But its easier to accept that after experiencing it fail first, which I have. I recommend having one or two disastrous relationships and then maybe you too can accept the futility of love.

Anonymous 128962

I gave up on love a time ago.



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Does anyone have a fear of never finding love? Anonymous 128837[Reply]

It's fine if I never find love or die alone. It's not a fear for me because life is life and I have my books, my cats, and my friends. But sometimes, maybe it's hormones or basic human fears, but I worry that never finding love will prove something about myself, like I am unworthy or a repellent of any sort of love. Around my period these feels worsen as is natural, but sometimes there is a hole in my belly from that fear and I can't let it go and I get anxious.

Anonymous 128891

>>128837
Yeah, I also feel this way. The thought of living my whole life without ever experiencing it because it's kind of plastered all over the media, in books, movies, music, even irl people place such importance on it that if you miss out on it you might feel like there's something wrong with you or you're unworthy or something. But honestly I think most people live without ever finding actual love in general. Most relationships seem to be just out of convenience or hierarchies or shallow shit. Or maybe I'm just trying to rationalize it idk. I mean even if you try to be realistic about it it's still a scary feeling. But at the end of the day I feel like most people feel this way deep down. Its a very human feeling I think

Anonymous 128945

this summarizes my feelings perfectly

Anonymous 128954

Same, nona. I think I've resigned myself to the fact that I'll be alone, because I'm afraid of being broken again after several failed attempts, and I believe that genuine love is hard to find these days.

Anonymous 128955

It's pretty much certain at thi point real love isn't possible, only infatuation. Most men and a lot of women can't commit to one person for too long, are afraid of emotional availability and responsibility. People want a lifetime long honeymoon phase where you can also see other people and your partner won't be mad about it.



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new relationship not actually being toxic for once Anonymous 128947[Reply]

im 18yo lesbo9000 and ive had terrible relationship issues my entire life, usually being a mixture of both me & the other person being the problem

ive got insane mental issues but i recently got a girlfriend (although we were basically dating for a long time now). shes really nice to me: she doesnt randomly ignore me, and doesnt suck at communication. shes really happy to see me and doesnt mind me texting her a lot (She even likes it WTF?). she also has issues but works hard to be the best she can be

but its crazy feeling so fucking normal for once. no more three-times-a-day mental breakdowns and cutting myself over stupid bullshit. being in a healthy relationship feels so fucking weird in a Nice way. im really not used to it and i feel like a stray cat being randomly picked up on the street and given a domestic home. but its something i want to get used to. is this what relationship issues/attachment recovery feels like? Cool…


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My boyfriend has ignored me all valentines day Anonymous 128893[Reply]

I even texted him happy valentines day and he didn't even say it back. He only said he couldn't do anything for me and he felt bad.
He just went out with his friends to drink and I feel lonely and sad.
He told me we couldn't meet today because he had to study, I don't know how to tell him how bad I feel so instead I'm drinking cheap whiskey and watching Gilmore Girls
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Anonymous 128896

>>128895
No I get it. I don’t mean to insult, you’re allowed to vent, vent all the way. I just wished young women would just stop with these moids as soon as possible. You sound hurt, and tired, and I don’t think love or relationships should be like that. Love is supposed to bring you life, even its difficulties should, I just don’t want anyone to torture themselves for a moid. You shouldn’t be drinking Whiskey and watching Gilmore Girls, it’s more him im annoyed at, not you, but I wrote it to sound like you.

Anonymous 128897

FUCKING
DUMP
HIM
NOW

Anonymous 128928

>>128893
Are you guys LDR or do you guys live close to one another? If it's an LDR relationship it may be understandable why he could have been busy that day, but if you guys live close he has no excuse.

Anonymous 128936

free yourself of that moid retard he clearly doesnt love you im so sorry nona but dont keep hurting urself by being with him

Anonymous 128942

>>128896
I know, but he's a really good boyfriend in other ways, I don't know what happened. Tbf I tried to make it seem like I don't think valentines day is a big deal when I do, plus we live 3 hours away from each other. I wish I could be more upfront
>>128928
I guess? Or medium distance more like



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 128933

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How do you even get a bf? I am 26 and I've never had any sort of relationship although I've been on a few first dates before. I don't want to use a dating app because they seem scary, I don't have nice photos of myself (I'm scared of being photographed) and I don't want to suffer the jaded moids that would be using them.
What do I do? I've got a fairly normal life otherwise, I appear functional in terms of employment and stuff. Boys don't approach me unless they are really really old.

Anonymous 128934

>>128933
from what i can tell, you don't.
dating apps are capitalist scams, ignore them

Anonymous 128938

>>128932
lol
>>128933
>I appear functional in terms of employment
That isn't helpful, you got to trigger a man's instinct to protect and provide.

Anonymous 128940

I left a stressful job back in February 2025 & have been unemployed since. Tbh, I barely applied to jobs until right after new years. The thought of going back to a stressful job filled me wit so much dread. I am 29 years old, I drained all my savings, this is not where I thought I would be in life. I do not want to back to the corporate rat race, but I also cannot just lay on my couch, consoom media and eat snacks forever. I have so much regret. Climbing the corporate ladder was not worth it, I am burnt out. This felt cathartic to type out. Anybody else in the same boat?

Anonymous 128941

>>128940

Is it possible with your credentials to get a high paying part time job? That way, you can figure out what to do with your life and pay bills at the same time?



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Anonymous 128905[Reply]

What is love to you? What does it mean to fall in love?

Anonymous 128910

Love is a lie. Love is what you feel when a moid manipulates you right. Heartbreak is what you feel when you find out.

Anonymous 128931

>>128910
very true. And the truest truth of all is realizing that death is preferable to life



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