it says a lot that the victim didn’t retreat into a fantasy world and you did. you need to escape being a rapist more than i need to escape being RAPED? you literally create characters to pretend to be instead of yourself. you can’t live as yourself. you are living in a constant state of maladaptive daydreaming. you and janelle may as well be doing nitrous 24-7 that’s how little of reality you are experiencing and the way your lifestyle is melting your skin and brains.

and if you stop this, it all comes crashing down. that’s why you need someone who already knows the lines and lives in the same demented state. it probably hurts you even having to do meta set up stuff. it’s unbearable to not be living in a costume as a character that is smarter stronger more interesting and capable than a loser retard manlet. janelle literally has to tell herself she’s pretty for an orc and wear horns and tusks because she can’t look in the mirror as a human woman.

literally trying to go to never never land in a dirty one bedroom apartment between full time shifts at factories. being exposed to fumes all day then coming home and washing the chemicals in your throat down with swill and posting another demented photograph of yourself on the internet for attention because at this point being a lol cow is the only recognition you’ll ever get.

>>126397
you can’t even go on VACATION as yourselves. in florida you were playing star wars. in new york whatever stupid rogue character you’re prancing around as now. you can’t even escape your daily grind and relax as yourself. you can’t be yourself at all. that’s why this relationship is fucking perfect. two delusional retards pretending they can keep this up forever.

branded heifer.

every time nikolas is posted this place gets spammed by moids

>>126209
Just went through his entire instagram… those were all flattering pictures he posted willingly??? Those were the shots he thought he looked good in? These are flattering pictures of this couple??

>>126417
>>126421
These nonas make good points.
Try getting him to argue with or demean you. If that gives the reaction you're waiting for, then you know your issue and can work on it.

I relate, except I made the mistake of marrying him. I thought if I tried hard enough it would get better. I thought it may get better with time. I thought it was just a me-issue. I even thought I may be a lesbian or asexual myself. I thought many things and entirely blamed myself. Now I have come to realise that I am simply not attracted to him and I do not love him romantically. No matter how badly I wish to change my feelings, I just can't. I can't properly express the guilt I feel over this. I really feel terrible for wasting his time. So , my advice to you is honestly break up with him if you can. I know it feels awful, but if you're not very attracted to him just end it. Learn from my mistake!

>>126426
Why can't you be with someone you like just because you don't have romantic feelings? Does it cause any specific issues?

>>126427
one reason is because you will have to see that person every day and tolerate their quirks. meaning, this generally requires a way higher attachment than mere liking or dating out of convenience.
another thing is, what happens once you meet someone you actually like romantically?

>>126426
not trying to be rude but how do you let it get that far? is it just people freak out when they turn thirty and settle for whatever is there?

>>124874
I've had a crush on a guy from my gym for 3 months. I've gotten very fit and lost around 30 lbs, yet my face can't make up for it. I know that if I go talk to him again, it'll be an instant rejection. The only time I talked to him was to ask where he bought his gym water bottle from, and I tried to make conversation, but he wasn't interested. I wish I could change my face.

>>126252
You seem sweet, don't give up!

>>124874
>>126248
i hope u can too bc its so painful sometimes but at least we arent completely alone in feeling like this </3

>>126227

hi nona i have a similar experience to you.

i'm sorry the world makes you feel that way about yourself. i know what it's like to be bigger and uglier than the people around you. i have been made fun of moids my entire life for things i can't even control. i'm darker skinned and i have nappy hair and boring eyes. honestly that's just the way it is, the world was not meant for us to be accepted by other people.

>i've lost 50 lbs

i hope that you're proud of yourself even if you don't look exactly the way you want to. that's something not a lot of people can do and you should be proud of that achievement. i'm proud of you for taking care of yourself.

there isn't much i can say other than i know what you're going through. i hope eventually you find a moid with similar life experiences as you who can relate to you and find beauty in the person that you are. that's a deeper kind of connection that a lot of people will never find in their lives. you deserve to be loved and cherished and seen as greater than just your physical body.

i hope this helps. this is something i wish someone could have told me as a younger girl.

>>126244

there's nothing wrong with you. the world is filled with normies who all have the same boring interests and lack the ability to leave their small box of social rules.

you should embrace being off-putting and just be yourself. drown your self in weird obscure niche hobbies and interests. eventually with time you will attract people based off of those things. there are lots of moids who like autistic women who will find you interesting to talk to.

work also makes it easier to socialize too. the constant forced socialization helps build charisma skills and it'll help you talk to more people. maybe you won't make friends at work but talking will get easier and you will become less off putting to people with practice.

don't give up nona i believe in you.

Where are you going to meet him? Just make sure you're going to a place where you're comfortable, don't let yourself be coerced into doing anything you don't want and have fun. Let him know if you're nervous. Make sure you have similar expectations of how your date will go.

If it helps, think of it this way. Meeting someone IRL instead of talking online indefinitely is a much better idea.

> hi nonas,
Kek, the surviving 1/3 of genuine posts ever posted in this site are trannies, aren’t they?

Yes, when I was 13 I met a moid from discord. I got my virginity stolen from me that day.
met another last year, we got high, and again, in my weakened state, had sex.
met one last week and yet again, it was a hookup.

it made my self esteem plummet and reminder that I am a whore. I don't want to be a whore, I just crave physical intimacy, not even sex, just cuddles or kisses. don't meet up with moids from the internet. but if you do, make sure you trust him and its in a public place.

>>125233
I really want to meet up with an anon moid, hes from Norway and is really sweet. I'm pretty against e dating, but my city is shit and I hate all the guys here. I've met up with 3 different guys from the internet and it all lead to us having sex.
I'm fine with sex, I just don't want it to be dominantly that. hopefully a true relationship.

>>125231

i met my bf when we were 15 on a Discord server. i was very socially inept and depressed and i hated talking to most moids but he was always very kind to me and never made me uncomfortable, always comforted me, never expected anything. one time i got fucked up and really drunk and confessed that i liked him in call, and eventually we started dating.

we were kind of on and off dating when we were younger because we were dumb and stupid. now i'm 22 and graduating nursing school and we're getting married next year and i'm moving in with him. i'm still bad with social stuff and i don't have any friends but he has always been there for me and i'm thankful.

keep looking nona God has a plan for you and he will bring you a wonderful man soon. he will make your life easier and shelter you from all the evilness in the world.

>>126326
isn’t even speaking to anyone considered a bid for attention?

>>126373
I'm neutral on the overall argument and this particular case has zero information to have any opinion anyway, but this is not a good point. It's just not true. A- if someone was hamming up their suicidal urges to receive sympathy, there are much more serious repercussions to doing this in real life under your own name. B- many people on this board have nobody in their real life who cares about them and rely on the internet to experience something passable as human connection.

I may have, slightly, just a little bit, ruined my life. As such I think the only thing I can do to fix it is to become one of those 30+ degree getters, because the alternative, in terms of employment, is so bad I think I'm going to actually kill myself. Despite the drawing of Jar Jar Binks I've attached to this post, I really do mean it. It's either care work or retail hell. I can't even claim to have wasted my twenties in a worthy way. It was just ceaseless NEETism/breadline employment. There was a bit at the start where I almost started a degree, but it didn't pan out.

If it's a degree in something boring it will be less embarassing that I'm so old.

>>126418
Don't believe the lie that money doesn't grow on trees

>>126418
bite the bullet and go back to uni or get a certificate. become an dental hygienist or some sort of hospital tech role, or go an admin route. ive met so many old people in uni, its pretty normal enough. a bunch of teenagers/young twenties aint gonna be thinking about you at all, why would they think about you compared to some other twenty year old? id say go the community college route for a certificate that sounds interesting to you, unless you got a death wish

>>126355
it feels like everything is labeled as coquette now. just say lana del rey fan at this point.

>>126370
oh i really like how u put this. i agree 100%, i feel like almost any actual subculture u can name has been completely watered down for tiktok and fast fashion buzzwords. even ones that i’ve personally been a part of i don’t like to interact with anymore bc of that. everything feels cheap and disingenuous!!!! it’s all reheated nostalgia shit

>>126370
"Aesthetics" can't be countercultural in any way that actually matters anyway. Only the underlying philosophy associated with an aesthetic can be countercultural, and those could have almost any visual aesthetic attached.
>>126353
I recommend you stop caring about the sanctity of your identity label and for that matter stop melting your brain on douyin. Unlike eg. lesbianism, literally nothing will happen if the term "femcel" gets co-opted by whores on the internet.

>>126404 there's no spaces for actual outcast women to discuss their feelings together without being mocked now. look at r/foreveralonewomen's reception for instance. a lot of these self-proclaimed "femcels" are fucking HORRIBLE anyways. there's a pattern of them using their self-diagnosed mental illnesses to justify abusing others.

>>126399
BASED

>>126400
>>126392
she’s such a good person because i could literally never. i’m rude to his face constantly. he’s a former incel and everything but he’s “changed”. yeah. because a woman is funding your entire lifestyle!! i think he makes her feel good because she “fixed him”. she deserves more.

>>126402
nona you’re based for treating this gross leech how he needs to be treated. she is so brainwashed by society into believing being overly self sacrificing and being an unpaid caseworker to ‘rehab’ a neurotic man makes her some sort of angel. and this man had money yet is making her fund his lifestyle..oh my god girl she’s a victim. i predict that he’s going to become emotionally abusive or he already is.

>>126368
Lol is he being satirical, sounds like he's trying to out-retard people in an ironic way or maybe it's natural, I want to try it

>>126411
in what way would being unemployed be ironic

>>126412
Oh my fauci he's literally killing poc babies by depriving mothers of ebt by not paying income taxes

>>126390
Even if it's about the same guy - kinkshaming is out, fetishes are weird. Droping somebody bc of that (and then proceed to fall into depression) is asinine.

Cutting him out and be cool about it is one thing, cutting him out and fall into depression another.

The tactical question arises: what was the point of this whole exercise? Apparently to make you miserable and show him that his likings are not okay. Both people sad, nobody won.

>>126405
you sound like you're really into suits

>>126406
Just a tourist checking out femcel 4chin, everything as expected.

Create problem -> whine about decision. Typical woman moment.
You girls need to chill

>>126407
femcels aren’t real

>>126408
Archons pushing new, meaningless words for goyim to use as weapons in culture war against each other.

unfortunately i'm very prone to being jealous of other people, so yes that extends to specific aspects of their appearance. the one trait i've been consistently jealous of, in both women and men, are small frames. slim necks, hips, and shoulders. otherwise I'm jealous of people who are smarter than me, especially if they're sufficiently knowledgeable on several areas/fields. i try not to be jealous of people i'm close with because it deluges into one-sided hatred

>>126201
the way you look isn't "everything" but your whole life will be shaped by what your body reflects to others and the way they treat you because of it

Only thing that'll make me jealous is if someone has more money then me or a attractive moid that I want.

Both are easily fixable by locking in and shaping up to be the kind of woman to attract either or both things.

I'm jealous of girls with clear skin, especially really fat girls who eat like shit. I cut out so much of my diet (white carbs, dairy, I eat minimal sugar and fats), bought so many skincare products but my face is still acne riddled.

I'm jealous specifically of fat girls with a ton of potential because even though I've basically done all I could to improve my appearance esp. with diet and fitness my highest potential is ugly while all they have to do is literally put in like half the work I do to be a 10/10.

i’ve never felt jealous of another woman.

Damn imagine wasting your time thinking about how pretty you are in relation to other women.

You know what's so much more interesting than that, look at this awesome bowl of oyster dipping noodles.