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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 127530

I wanna go for some McDonald's fries rn but it's 6 AM

Anonymous 127943

>>127479
i listen to audiobooks on my lunch breaks

Anonymous 128345

Back from my psych evaluation
He said I’m likely bipolar and have cptsd
I was fairly certain of cptsd myself, but he said your parents don’t seem to have done anything that egregious
Got me doubting for a sec
But to be fair I know they for a fact distorted my image of social interaction to a point I expected constant verbal attacks and accusations from everyone so idk maybe I was poor at communicating or something

Anonymous 128347

8 months ago I was stealing from the grocery store to make ends meet and now I have a savings account. Keep going anons, it will all work out somehow

Anonymous 128351

>>128347
Good for you, nona.

And thanks, I needed hope today.


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NEETs what do you do all day? Anonymous 125667[Reply]

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.
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Anonymous 128310

Clean, cook food, game or watch yt videos, go on walks with my friend sometimes, torture myself with the fact that I need to start looking for a job because im running out of money

Anonymous 128311

Besides satisfying my physiological needs, not much. I think a lot. From the moment i wake up i start thinking and i don't stop thinking until all my energy is depleted. It is lonely to be a thinker, to have realized things that take long time to realize, because you can't explain to others something that takes long time to realize for the same reason you can't learn a language by having someone explain it to you. It takes time and i have spent a lot of it. Now there is an abyss between me and other humans, it feels lonely, but at the same time i feel fortunate, i regret nothing. There is a way back to people, some day i might start helping them, but my compassion is still lacking.

Anonymous 128312

>>125667
Self study. Free courses online. Laugh at streams. Hobbies. Cloud watching, painting, woodwork. Explore. Go on virtual tours. Plenty of free crap to do online and IRL. Volunteer.

Anonymous 128320

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I'm over 30. It's possible that I have AuDHD but I never got diagnosed, and never will. I just watch useless videos, scroll useless sites, read useless things, argue with useless people online, and do useless stuff. I live with my parents and help around the house, and I watch movies during days where I don't feel guilty about wasting my time.

I have tried many attempts to change my life, but my attempts always crumble because I try to take drastic steps to change. I try to change to take steps that could be as simple as starting to go out for a walk or as drastic as getting an interview but I could never really make it out. The simple changes don't stick for more than a weak and the drastic changes are too overwhelming I just crash out the next days and completely hit rock bottom again.

Anonymous 128350

>wake ups
>feel distorted and scared
>eat
>think about watching an anime, reading a manga, finding a job
>don't
>it feels like I'm forgetting something important
>think about learning something
>don't
>eat
>sleep
>wake ups
>pain
>didn't I have this day already


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

Previous thread >>>/feels/115657
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Anonymous 128337

>>128336
one of the eyes is missing i think it’s AI half chimp/half man not a scan because that looks way too simian (t anthropology student)

Anonymous 128340

>>128323
this better not be who i think it is

Anonymous 128341

>>128338
Down schizo

Anonymous 128348

i hope one day we can finally work it out.

Anonymous 128349

thank you for stopping being friends with the girl who was tormenting me.


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Anonymous 128331[Reply]

I HATE TATTOOS SO MUCH

STOP FUCKING DOODLING ON YOURSELF

IT LOOKS SO BAD

EITHER GO ALL OUT OR DON'T DO IT

Anonymous 128333

sorry you regret your tattoo desu

Anonymous 128339

Why use a mid photo of a tattoo to prove your weak ass point lmao. Anyways none of this shit matters. Get over yourself, other people shouldn't have to center their existence on some bitch that probably can't order at McDonald's without stuttering

Anonymous 128342

>>128339
uh oh the inkling is mad

Anonymous 128343

>>128342
Lmfao

Anonymous 128346

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>>128333
>>128339
IF YOU HAVE ONE TAT FLOATING IN A SEA OF SKIN OR A COUPLE IT LOOKS BAD OKAY. I'M SORRY YOU FELL TO PEER PRESSURE

>>128342
FUNNY POST


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Anonymous 127867[Reply]

I recently stood up to a girl in my friend group who has been treating me like shit all year in private and doing petty mean girl stuff like kicking me out of our group chat, making plans with me and then canceling without explanation as to why, and also ignoring my texts when I asked if she'd be willing to be mature and talk things out in person instead of being passive aggressive to me all the time. It was at a party a mutual friend of ours was throwing and I basically texted her an essay there explaining how she's done me wrong all year and how I hope she learns some maturity for next year. Then, instead of addressing me personally, she ran out of the room crying, acting like a victim and everyone at the party basically turned on me saying that somehow I'm the one who was passive aggressive all along and now they're manipulated by her into thinking I'm the one who was an instigator. I fucking hate being Gen Z and I fucking hate being apart of this generation of crybullies.

Anonymous 127869

when did this start and why?

Anonymous 128344

>>127867
That would have happened in other generations as well, don't worry.

Other than that, find better friends. You don't want drama in your social life.


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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 128252

I've had the same best friend for 9 years and I've been in love with him on and off the whole time. We talk every day, do stuff together, he has gotten me expensive thoughtful gifts, we talk about everything. I knew he'd sometimes use apps and go on a few dates but nothing was ever serious, he was mostly focused on his work. I thought of confessing my feelings a few times but I genuinely can't imagine my life without his friendship and decided against it every time in case that could ruin it. He randomly started dating someone like two months ago and only started to notice a difference in his behavior towards me during the last month. Talks a bit less, takes longer to reply (he'd always do it immediately). He has told me about her, which is weird since I never really heard from any of the other girls before. She's ugly (he's attractive), sounds uninteresting, larping as the same religion as us, doesn't share any interests with him… I feel so hurt and sad and like I've lost him. I don't know if it would hurt less if she seemed like a better option for him, but I guess he really likes her for whatever reason. I want him to be happy but we always said we'd be friends no matter what and I'm starting to panic. I know when we first meet someone we get extra excited and this might change for him eventually, but seeing how things that were a given to me change is so painful.

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>>128237
What makes you say? I am struggling a lot because of the things he has done. I would love to see him from another perspective.

Anonymous 128316

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I'm so scared of being watched and exposed it's terrifying
I can't even explain it

Anonymous 128334

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idk if im lazy or just super depressed. nothing sounds fun or appealing, not even tv or games. I can manage to drag myself to work but I come home to a hoard of trash and unwashed dishes. i cant do something as simple as clip my fingernails T.T

Anonymous 128335

I picked up the third book in the series instead of the second on accident and the prologue spoiled the end of the second book. And everyone says the second book is the best one in the series. I want to fucking KILL MYSELF.


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Is it bad to be skinny fat? Anonymous 127971[Reply]

Boyfriend keeps calling me fat and disgusting even though I'm only 28 pounds overweight. Picrel accurately describes what my body currently looks like right now. I'm basically skinny fat but because he's a short skinny manlet he thinks he can talk any type of way to me and calls me fat and disgusting and it only makes me feel more depressed and want to eat even more. The truth is, before I started dating my current BF this year, I got broken up with this really hot skinny guy that I was seeing and he was like the guy of my dreams. I only settled for my current BF now because the previous guy broke my heart real bad. If I really gave a fuck I could be a skinny sexy bombshell Stacy if I wanted to. I've always been pretty and I already used to be underweight in my early 20's, but I simply stopped giving a fuck about my appearance because even when I was a skinny healthy Stacy I still attracted the most disgusting human sludge ugly male bastards known to existence. It was truly a black pill and made me realize that no matter how pretty and skinny I was, I still attract ugly bastards meanwhile other Stacies could attract actual Chads here simply because they're whiter than I am. It's because my hometown is shit and only ugly weirdos want to come to me with my darker skin color and appearance. I'm just glad that I'm not as far gone as my other friend who looks almost like me, she ended up becoming morbidly obese and trooning out on top of that. I keep telling my boyfriend (we're long distance) that eating my feelings is not as bad as how my other friends turned out but he still doesn't listen to me and only accuses me of being fat and disgusting and stealing away his chance of getting with actual "Stacy me". Well sucks for him because the more he talks shit to me like this the more I'm just gonna eat my feelings. Oh well.
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Anonymous 128250

>>128048
Nursing definitely sounds like a good option. Not for me, but I volunteered at a hospital at some point and I liked it.
Find something that suits you.

>>128212
Ugh. doesn't sound like a good method for me, I would recommend a healthy diet and regular exercise, otherwise you'd just be bullying your body.

Anonymous 128251

>>128247
u cant water fast out of nowhere
the day before a water fast theres gotta be iron and potassium rich foods like bananas and spinach before u try it. think the first day of a water fast is easy, the second is hard, the third gets easier again but i myself havent gone beyond a fourth (ate on the fourth)
dont think water fasting is THE way but its A way just bit radical. trying alone cant hurt just dont be afraid to quit if its getting too much. but dont overwork urself during it tho!

Anonymous 128272

>>128251
>water fasting
the way you y'all talk about starving yourselves is frying me idk what else to say lol.

Anonymous 128273

>>128251
So what's the point of water fasting if the day before you're just gonna… eat enough for another day ahead?
Sounds silly tbh, like, fasting never madesense to me. I guess for some people, it feels like a sport or a hobby. But i you want to lose weight and not gain it back reducing daily calorie intake seems more viable

Anonymous 128274

>>128251
>>128273
Butalso… spinach as iron source is not very great, spinach has oxalates which hinders iron absorption plus a bunch of other vitamins/minerals, that's not counting in the fact that nonheme iron is poorly absorbed to begin with.
So you're better off eating a steak, with fruits like oranges to help absorption


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Anonymous 128299[Reply]

Why is making friends so hard as an autistic woman? I have ptsd from past female friendships

>Women who used me for emotional labor when she was upset/lonely, then totally disappeared until she needed advice or comfort again. She never asked how I'm doing
>Women being fake
>Women when they make fun of people passing by, whether it’s another girl wearing pants that they don’t like or a disabled person who can’t control their disability, their snide comments, make me instantly uncomfortable
>Women always trying to find validation from 'hot guys'
>Women making comments about your style or how to appear more beautiful
>Women want to vent about their various men, who are pumping and dumping them, constantly
>Dating men who she knew was toxic for her. Ruining her mental health over them (like intentionally hurting herself and sending herself to the hospital to see if they cared enough to show up) and dumping it all on me
>Women want to complain about their day constantly, the conversation is just an exchange of complaints
>Being thin is like blood in the water, especially to female secretaries. they diminish you to your looks, and when you're also smart they get offended
>They only talk to you to share trauma or trauma dump you or try to make you feel responsible for their life choices
>Putting down other women. and then being nice to those women to their face
>Be cautious around woman who become your best friend really fast
>Even childhood friends being jealous towards any accomplishments and goals that I have. It comes from insecurity
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Anonymous 128301

>>128299
It has nothing to do with being autistic. Most of them are desperate for some kind of approval. So you should immediately dismiss any kind of judgement or rejection from them, Especially if youre in a higher place and didnt initially come in looking for that kind of chaos. When i was younger i would try to understand them but its better if you dont. If theyre coming from a place of harrassment of any kind theyre like starved dogs already. I honestly dont think most women are any better than men because theyre brainwashed as hell and begging for scraps because of social conditioning when they dont even have to. Even the prettiest women on earth act like this. (Well honestly i think theyre even more brainwashed to behave desperate, because they have to act the part to please the man that already expects them to behave like this.)

Anonymous 128321

most women are male centered and don’t want to be saved. i don’t think women are as bad as men but i don’t think most women are “good” either. they will stop at nothing to actively uphold patriarchal norms and cater to men.

Anonymous 128327

>>128321
This is true tbh. The amount of women I met that forgive anything shitty their husband does just to not end up divorcing is sad. That being said, it's mostly women in their 40s, the younger generations seems to have better bundaries but are still melow af and 4b is definitely not that popular here except not having children (which is more due to financial issues anyway)


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Anonymous 127725[Reply]

I cannot stand the political climate that exists today. As a leftist, I’m told to hate Republicans. I live in a very Republican area and these people are not bad people. I have a very bad cold and I can’t really breathe and I had to go pick up medication and it was like $100. I didn’t have enough money and I had to call somebody to ask to borrow some money and while I was calling, this old lady overheard and paid $100 for my pills. How can I hate these people when I know that they’re good at heart?
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Anonymous 128257

>>128256
not just a retard, but a child rapist retard. I won't be surprised if a law passes that lowers the age of consent to 14

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>>128159
It's not about left or right. Right wingers have a lot of batshit insane stuff but it doesn't make them bad.
People are imperfect and make mistakes all the time even if they are good willed like >>128208 said, society would be much better if people weren't as tribal whether based on lineage or political persuasion like >>128232 said

>>128167
Please be trolling

Anonymous 128286

Lets get priorities straight. Political systems don't matter, only genetics matter. Genetics determine all human culture.

Anonymous 128287

>>128286
Interesting way to sell national socialism and eugenics

Anonymous 128322

You are right. Hating the other side achieves nothing and makes you easier to manipulate by the bad people on your own side.


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