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Vent thread Anonymous 132763[Reply]

Again we need to vent
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Anonymous 134038

>>134029
why do you even want him back nonа? he sounds like a pretty shitty guy honestly. have some self respect, you deserve someone who actually treats you well.

Anonymous 134039

>>134018
Never chase after males, they return when they feel you're done with them
Mine ghosted me for ~2 months and a week passed after I blocked him, and he came bck to me and he's now mentally my slave

Anonymous 134040

>>134029
He's enjoying stringing you along, he likes that you're on your knees at his mercy, stop this bullshit and realize when you're the one running away they start to chase

Anonymous 134054

>>132837

They're called "sneaky fuckers". Its a specific type of white knight man who pretends to have the morals/beliefs that he thinks will get him laid. It's a slimy way to get into your pants. You're better off trusting men who disagree with you because at least they are honest and won't lie.

Anonymous 134057

I'm almost graduating as a pharmacist. While I'm waiting to defend my master thesis i started working in retail pharmacy and fuck I hate this so much what the hell! Customers are a pain in the ass, I probably use 5% of what I learned and technicians that did a 9-month online course are doing the same I do for 100€ less, and have no worries or responsibilities. Can't wait to officially graduate, and move to either hospital or follow the academic route. They're shitty as well but at least I'll be a little happier. Oh well.



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vent/tw!SA/Rape Anonymous 134056[Reply]

men claim femcels dont exist and then refuse to date or have romantic relations with a woman of specific ethnicity. They expect us all to have big tits or something. they get mad at us for saying something terrible about them, and then expect to get away with saying horrid things about women. yeah sorry we think rape and pedophilia is bad. They claim women are the main reason for their suffering and refuse to acknowledge that maybe their methods of living are the bigger problem. pisses me off. especially since i've seen the diabolical posts about women of specific ethnicities being made. slurs, all that. is it really harder being a man? they constantly claim femcels don't exist by offering to date ANYONE. they don't even mean it, they just wanna make some false sort of point. it's stupid as hell. the main cause of male suffering is other men. men clown on eachother much more than women do. women tend to be a lot more supportive with each other while men are just whole-hearted asses. they're the problem, not women. They're the source of each other's suffering. they cause majority of crimes and disgusting cases. They suddenly get all pissy about lindsey clancy and not about the hundreds of other men who've killed their own children. Not out of post partum depression or mental illnes, but from "getting annoyed" by their kids. remind me whos issue it is now? No matter the age, no woman is safe. I was five when my mother would constantly take me to these gatherings. They were mostly her friends and stuff. One of her friend's sons was around college age and would always lift up my skirt or dress to touch me. I was five. and he was in his 20's. I hate men for what they did to me. for what they've done to my sister, who had gotten brutally sexually assaulted in highschool. They made her lick the pee from under the urinals afterwards. They made her piss herself. made me just wanna throw up. Men are the source of all female problems. Misogyny gets women killed, misandry annoys men. fuck every man out there who's done terrible things.


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Long Distance Relationships Anonymous 44204[Reply]

Thread to discuss Long Distance Relationships. The struggles, the pros… meeting the person for the first time… meeting them for the 50th time… vent both sad and happy things. LDRs can be quite a challenge but it's the right thing for some people.
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Anonymous 133817

>>133810
Does he have an equally generous and clingy friend by chance?

Anonymous 134050

I'm about to sponsor my bf of 3 years. Sometimes, I wonder if he's just using me for a visa and a lot of people say he is even without meeting him. We met online but we've also met in person. His only red flag is how secretive he is. He only uses Brave browser on incog and has 0 search history on his phone and his computer. He also does not want to post me on his social media (he claims he's just not active online). I fear he'll use me as a stepping stone into the USA and discard me when I'm no longer of use to him.

best case scenario:
>get to spend forever with someone I love.
>cheap rent

worst case scenario:
>he uses me for a visa
>we divorced
>I might be financially in a hole since I'll technically

even worst case scenario:
>he's a pyshco/ physically abusive

Anonymous 134051

>>134050
He clearly has something to hide. I've met people that aren't active and they've never cared whether or not you post on their socials.

Check his. Do not take no for an answer.

Anonymous 134055

>>134050
>>134051
As much as I hate to agree with this, this is probably true. The mature way to go about handling this is just to tell him how you're feeling about it and ask if you can see it. His reaction will tell you all you need to know. The best outcome is that he shows it to you without a fight, break up circumstance is if he fights over it and it's suspicious if he says yes but tries to make you wait for it.



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Anonymous 132317[Reply]

help i don’t know if this is the wrong place to ask this or if this is gross and tmi but like i genuinely dont know if this normal
so everytime i masturbate by penetration i pee… is that fucking normal ive looked everywhere and it said that it’s just squirting but i don’t know if it’s actually that and i’m fucking scared that if i get boyfriend and we have sex i’ll fucking piss on him
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Anonymous 133870

>>133863
sounds normal, just make sure to put a towel under you

Anonymous 134046

very late to this but - it sounds like you might have a weak pelvic floor . it usually happens post-pregnancy but yours could be genetic or from incontinence from smth else. i'd just put a towel down when u guys have sex , maybe ask your doctor about it if you think it's really concerning.

Anonymous 134048

>>133863
The bladder is close to the "hidden" part of the clit. When it's full, it pushes against it. So when you masturbate with a full bladder you're basically having your clit stimulated from two sides at once.

Anonymous 134052

>>134048
holy shit

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do bad things happen as much as ppl say? Anonymous 120729[Reply]

I have rly low empathy even for friends and I constantly find it very hard to believe that 'bad things' actually happen to people. I've had friends tell me about being assaulted and stuff and even though I don't show it on the outside I am internally thinking 'she is probably lying for attention'. I go through life and people are always really nice to me and they're generally pretty rational, polite, decent, so I find it hard to believe bad things like that actually happen as much as people say they do. Like every person I know seems to say they've been assaulted or something. Is this sort of thing actually normal or am I some kind of sociopath? Or is it just cuz I'm privileged? I can't help but believe people just make this stuff up for attention.
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Anonymous 121556

What do you mean, bad things? Robbery? Battery? Cancer? Rape? Getting felt up in a crowd?

I'm certain sexual assault is way underreported. I'm just an ugly weirdo who never goes out or talks to anyone and even I've been groped, and when I redeemed my free scrotoid thinking a romantic relationship would alleviate my loneliness, he pressured me into sex, held me down, tried to control me financially, all the usual things men do to socialize.

Anonymous 121557

>>120729
My hot and controversial take is that you're not wrong. Who knows what's good or bad?

Anonymous 121572

>>120729
you’re probably not even an actual sociopath, just an asocial neet who never leaves the house. nothing bad ever happens to you because i’m guessing very little at all happens to you.

Anonymous 121573

>>121556
women with male friends and partners, women who go to school, women who go to social events, women who use substances, women are socially naive or shy or easily pushed around, autistic women, any kind of woman who struggles with boundaries or are socially isolated.. like what do you think happens to shy lonely women who hang out with very few people and end up alone with a creep who sees they would lose everything socially for speaking up? do you think most boyfriends are patient when waiting to get laid? men will push women to over indulge on substances or pretend they are more wasted than they are to come on to women inappropriately. it’s fucking constant and most women at high risk have multiple risk factors.

Anonymous 134049

Most people are dumb and naive. They trust people easily and that's why they unfortunately end up being victims a lot. Some do learn from bad experiences and use that to have people pity them for extra attention, it's fucking weird.



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Anonymous 134047[Reply]

i'm tired of being therapisted


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Anonymous 115283[Reply]

Is it normal for friendships to come and go?
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Anonymous 115362

I think so, to a certain extent. Especially when you're under 30. Your lives change, you develop as a person, your interests shift, your needs and wants change or you might move physically away and as a consequence a friendship may no longer be compatible.

Anonymous 115373

>>115283
It’s normal, it happens to me all the time unfortunately. It happens a lot if the other person is too anxious to deal with confrontation and it doesn’t matter whose fault it is, they will just avoid avoid avoid. It gets better after mid 20s

Anonymous 115442

Yes

Anonymous 115609

That’s normal. The average life span of a friendship is seven years. Just keep making new friends knowing they’re not meant to be forever.

Anonymous 134045

Yes, it's normal when it just happens naturally. You just start talking less but you still have each other's contact info. Ghosting however is a sign of immaturity and possibly mental issues.



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Anonymous 134033[Reply]

How am I able to not achieve even a single thing in the past 2 years?
I don't think I've made even one visible change in my life.

Anonymous 134034

maybe you made progress but arent there yet

Anonymous 134042

>>134033
It's men. Men are the problem.

Anonymous 134043

Because you're an average person with no motivation and nothing to aspire to… maybe

Anonymous 134044

procrastinating for 2 whole years? dont feel too bad, just need to start with the little achievable goals as you build up and reward yourself as you go along



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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 131687

𝒮𝓊𝓃𝒹𝒶𝓎 𝓌𝒶𝓈 𝒶 𝒷𝓇𝒾𝑔𝒽𝓉 𝒹𝒶𝓎 𝓎𝑒𝓈𝓉𝑒𝓇𝒹𝒶𝓎
𝒟𝒶𝓇𝓀 𝒸𝓁𝑜𝓊𝒹 𝒽𝒶𝓈 𝒸𝑜𝓂𝑒 𝒾𝓃𝓉𝑜 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓌𝒶𝓎
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒸𝒶𝓃'𝓉 𝐼 𝒻𝒶𝒸𝑒 𝒾𝓉?
𝒜𝓂 𝐼 𝓉𝑜𝑜 𝒷𝓁𝒾𝓃𝒹 𝓉𝑜 𝓈𝑒𝑒?
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒹𝒾𝒹 𝒽𝑒 𝑔𝑜?
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒹𝒾𝒹 𝒽𝑒 𝓁𝑒𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝓂𝑒?

Anonymous 131688

This Sunday instrumental is goated btw

Anonymous 131745

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Oh, won't you lay down with me?
Let yourself be free

Hold your breath, don't breathe
Just believe in me
Trust you're coming with me
We can finally be free

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IcYfWknChuo

Anonymous 131853

>>131687
>>131688
Moby lover <3

Why is all his new music so shit. It started being shit after he quit drugs and alcohol.

Anonymous 134041

someday you will ache like i ache



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