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I fucked up again Anonymous 132606[Reply]

Spent all night talking to a guy and made a commitment that I will struggle to keep.
Do I like him? Yes. Is he everything that I could want? Yes.
But it's ldr. I can't handle another ldr. I don't want to commit. Sure right now I feel like I could spend every evening and night on call with him but I won't always have that energy.
He was going to visit this october before I asked so I have to figure out how to say this before we end up doing anything and making it more difficult. Even if I explain this to him later he'll probably stop hanging out with me and some of our other friends probably will too. I don't understand why I'm so stupid and why I didn't think before I let this happen.

Anonymous 132607

>I feel like I could spend every evening and night on call with him but I won't always have that energy.
I'd like to think that nobody human can handle something like that. Let's say you spend 3 to 4 hours on phone, that's 21 to 28 hours per week which is basically a part-time job. Unless you're a NEET, nobody can handle something like that. There's also this constant pressure to perform. If he's everything that you could want, then he should also understand that you can't do a part-time job babysitting him every night.

Anonymous 132609

>>132607
I don't think he's asking for that. If I told him I was really tired he'd just call me and talk me to sleep or just not call at all. He's understanding.
It's more like at some point I probably won't even have the energy to communicate at all for weeks.

Anonymous 132610

Report him and get his account banned

Anonymous 132624

Do you not have any common interests you could spend time doing together or side by side? I think the term's co-playing but its just two people doing their own thing together. So, example, you could be drawing and he could be playing a video game. You just hang out in a call and get to say "look at this cool thing" then show your art and talk about it a bit. Then later maybe he'll get to a cool part in his game and want to show you. Basically it is just "Lets do our own thing together and show each other the cool parts."

Anonymous 132634

Do you not have any common interests you could spend time doing together or side by side? I think the term's co-playing but its just two people doing their own thing together. So, example, you could be drawing and he could be playing a video game. You just hang out in a call and get to say "look at this cool thing" then show your art and talk about it a bit. Then later maybe he'll get to a cool part in his game and want to show you. Basically it is just "Lets do our own thing together and show each other the cool parts."



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I don't even know what my life is anymore Anonymous 132622[Reply]

I'm 25 and I don't know what to do with my life anymore. I got a CS degree pre-AI but now with a horrible job market, just getting junior roles is really difficult and it feels like I have to grind my ass off just to get a livable wage in my field. I've been doing leetcode and applying soulless tech stacks to my resume that I genuinely don't even care about. My boyfriend of almost two years left me because his avoidant attitude turned every conflict or disagreement into a breakup scenario; which I just put up with, even though it hurt me deeply to feel so disposable in the relationship cus I had nothing else and didn't want to lose the only source of love and warmth I had. Now that he's gone, my life feels like a void again with not much reason to wake up. All I want in my life is to be happy with my family and have someone waiting for me at the end of the day, but with each passing year, that dream just seems more distant. Been feeling really nihilist, thinking if any of it even matters.

Anonymous 132623

Literally you but 30+ and I'm not learning skills that are going to become obsolete in 2 years.

Anonymous 132625

Get a job in a foreign country

Anonymous 132629

I don't think "bad job market" is real. Everyone around me are employed. I don't believe US is in a war with Iran and there is a gas crisis. If there was actually one, why are people still driving and cooking? Same with Ukraine. None of this is real.
It's all a trick to keep us fooled and out of the inner circle.

Anonymous 132630

>>132627
Don't make money, become slave of a moid who would leave me when I get older or fall out of love because I bared kids for him and now it's weird for him. No thanks.



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Anonymous 131463[Reply]

What's your dream bf like?

for me:
>16-66 years old
>in severe debt
>incel, never had sex
>bald
>173cm tall exactly
>widely considered to be a schizo
>has a number of congenital diseases
>has brain damage
>no friends
>might be missing a finger or two
>speaks Mongolian
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Anonymous 132620

>heavily armed
>hates the Antichrist
>financially independent
>hates the Antichrist
>excels at crafts
>hates the Antichrist
>deep knowledge of physical chemistry
>hates the Antichrist
>property owner with working vehicle
>hates the Antichrist

Anonymous 132621

>>132620
Do you actually hate the anti-christ or did you vote for and fully support him (Trump)?

Anonymous 132628

I would add
>not on pills
>not schizo

Anonymous 132631

>>132621
>did you vote for and fully support the generative ai candidate
I have been rendered utterly mentally incoherent with rage at this suggestion, 10/10 holy fuck I can't even reaction image at this



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Cool facts about women! Anonymous 132063[Reply]

1. During pregnancy, cells pass back and forth between a mother and her baby. What is truly amazing is that these baby's cells can stay active in the mother's body for decades after birth—a phenomenon known as fetal microchimerism.
If a mother’s heart, liver, or other organs suffer an injury later in life, these lingering fetal cells will actually migrate straight to the site of the damage. Once there, they can transform into the specific types of cells needed to help repair and heal her body.

2. A surprising number of life-saving and everyday inventions were born purely out of women looking out for others. In 1902, a woman named Mary Anderson was riding a streetcar during a freezing sleet storm in New York City. She noticed that the driver had to keep opening the front window to manually wipe away the ice, leaving him shivering and delaying the passengers.
Feeling bad for the freezing driver, she went home and sketched out a lever-operated rubber blade that could clear the window from inside the cabin. She patented the very first windshield wipers a year later, entirely because she wanted a stranger to stay warm and dry.

3. In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, a brilliant group of women known as the "Harvard Computers" completely revolutionized astronomy. At a time when women weren't allowed to operate the university's telescopes, they were hired to analyze thousands of photographic glass plates of the night sky by hand.
Despite being barred from the actual observatory equipment, their mathematical precision unlocked the universe. Annie Jump Cannon created the star classification system still used by scientists today, and Henrietta Swan Leavitt discovered how to measure distances in deep space—the exact "cosmic yardstick" Edwin Hubble later used to prove the universe is expanding.

4. Biologically, some women possess an actual superpower when it comes to perceiving the world. While the average person has three types of color-sensing cone cells in their eyes, a genetic variation allows some women to possess four distinct types of cones.
This condition, called tetrachromacy, allows them to see up to 100 million different colors—roughly 100 times more than the rest of us. Where a standard eye sees a basic green leaf or a gray concrete wall, a tetrachromat can perceive an incredibly rich, shifting gradient of entirely distinct shades and tones that most people simply cannot detect.

Women are amazing!
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Anonymous 132390

>>132389
You are agreeing with my view of the world so I’ll take this as a win in the broader thread.

Anonymous 132391

>>132390
I care about facts not what some stupid transvestite takes as. The privilige of being male to complain about nothingburger is annoying

Anonymous 132393

>>132392
Kek go back to /lgbt

Anonymous 132396

>>132391
>The privilige of being male to complain about nothingburger is annoying
Ain't nothing wrong with complaing on how even basic human interaction does not work anymore. You should feel concerned because if men does not have anyone to provide for, they will not work as hard as they used to, and then there will be a lot less material wealth in the world.

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Anonymous 132401[Reply]

I need to know if loosing your virginity to a moid is really worth it. I'm afraid to be thrown and dispossed like an used tissue after gifting my virginity to someone…should I consider having my first time with another girl?, ¿Do you regret losing your virginity?
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Anonymous 132414

>>132407
There is no guarantee, and there is never a guarantee that even the sweetest memory won't turn sour in case of a messy break up or something
Just, indeed, make sure you're on good two way terms with your partner - male or a woman, beware of red flags, love bombing especially, because it's those types who usually "dispose" of their partners afterwards

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>>132401
Don't because you'll regret it

Anonymous 132433

>>132401

Have dry sex, you basically rub with men until you both get wet from pleasure. No penetration, no pregnancy involved.

Do not take pills. It does not matter how many women take them, do not do it unless you are not in a safe enviroment or have a very very active sex life.

Condoms do not promise "no pregnancy" instead they should be used to prevent certain diseases and for pregnancy it can break, leak, and other kinds of awful things no one wishes for when using them. If you want sex? have dry sex. You are basically a virgin, since virginity is based on if a man has introduced himself inside you.

If you really really want sex, you are just ovulating or practically bery horny. Just tell the moid to pleasure you by dry sex. Keep your panties, he keeps his boxer, you do it dry and if he wets he has to change of clothes.

If what bothers you if he will discard you, discard him first. The first moment you feel you care for him too much, find other man that is more interesting than him in ways he will never pleasure you, in mind, in affection, in companionship, etc.

I hope you can be happy and healthy, xoxo, best wishes.

Anonymous 132608

>>132401
Pretty much just regretted it, mostly because the relationship didn't work out and the guy I lost it to wasn't a virgin either. It leaves me bitter knowing I've shared something private with someone who I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with. They'll likely forget about and associate this as one of his many attempts at finding love. I regret being a sensitive trusting faggot and letting my guard down. They weren't that bad of a person. I miss feeling more naive and optimistic about life. I hate the feeling of deja vu of attempting the same thing with someone else, it feels dirty. If none of this bothers you, go ahead.

Anonymous 132616

>>132608
> It leaves me bitter knowing I've shared something private with someone who I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with

You figured it out, no amount of shallow platitudes about ah it's just sex, have fun,
will ever tell what you know now.
I hope you can find your love soon thou, good luck nona.



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Anonymous 129167[Reply]

Anyone here autistic with ADHD?
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Anonymous 132538

Newly diagnosed with ADHD, and was just looking for somewhere to vent as a . Being undiagnosed for my whole life (30f) I want to say has in many ways ruined aspects of my life. I guess I should be happy that Im not saying it ruined my WHOLE life but I'm still grieving what could have been so much earlier. I failed out of university (already starting a new school tho I was at least able to do that in the process of getting diagnosed) and it was due to untreated ADHD symptoms. And then all of the other aspects of my life I have spent so much time feeling life a complete failure, or lazy, or unmotivated, or as though I simply dont have interest in things or hobbies thst I try to start and actually enjoy, but then drop abruptly because I cant make myself do it and nobody ever understood when I said I cant do something. But now… I'm on Adderall that I take almost every day, except I give myself breaks here and there when I plan to rot and relax. But when I tell you its such a rollercoaster of emotions in the difference between how I was and how I am now. Anyone else go through this? I'm so happy and my days are so much better, I even feel like I may someday get off my Celexa even because I'm feeling mentally so much better about myself and life, but that grief and guilt are still so strong. Like why didnt I fight to be tested sooner? Why didnt I do something about my failures sooner? Is it true what they say about women with ADHD masking better and getting diagnosed later because of if? Is that why I never did anything about it? Idk s, I'm just trying to not live qith regret for the past. But its hard. Thanks for reading my vent.

Anonymous 132539

>>132538
That sucks. You've been playing life on hard mode. Do tell more about those improvements when you're on meds.
Perhaps i should get officially diagnosed too, i want to be able to read a page of text in one go, without getting distracted by my own thoughts a hundred times.

Anonymous 132540

>>132539
I'm on i think week 4 of Adderall XR. I started on 15mg and needed a small bump to 20mg which seems to be the sweet spot for me. Honestly? My head has never been so quiet, all of the background noise and racing thoughts and absolute dread is gone. I dont freeze up anymore when I have tasks, I dont feel overwhelmed, emotionally I am more level headed than ever and dont get overstimulated anymore. I have linear trains of thought and I can actually focus on whaf I'm doing. Start a task and see it through to the end without dropping it or going off on another task in the middle of one. And as for reading, I finally picked up my books again and my focus has never been better when I'm reading. I start school again in September and I'm really looking forward to seeing everything i can achieve with the proper tools to do it. If youre thinking about getting diagnosed, do it! I truly, truly wish I did sooner. I spent the first few days on Adderall crying because I cant explain it any other way than I felt SO normal. Not euphoric or hyper or anything like that, but just… capable. I wish you well with your own journey, its so worth it to get treatment.

Anonymous 132574

adhd + bpd with bipolar tendencies. its fucking hell on earth i dont think i could ever experience anything worse living with this. but at least im smart

Anonymous 132605

>>129167
Right here I got autism and adhd, I am getting screened for ocd soon. Id say that my autism effected me more since it gave me years of alienation and the pandemic made it worse when everyone was locked inside. It made me even more of a social retard.



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 132517

And I know there's the obvious objection "but WHO decides what is useful or not". Yeah, a labubu or a protein bar will be be very useful on an individual level for some, no contest here. But most of this stuff will be gathering dust, occupying space and filling a landfill.
The problem isn't really the usefulness or the lack of it, but rather garbage designed purely for profit rather than utility or something. Money is fake, the economy is fake. Oh right, don't even get me started on the speculative debt reselling jobs or something like that, whatever the Wallstreet guys are doing.

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Made blueberry pie, can't wait to share it with my bf and parents!!

Anonymous 132598

>>132597
Cute doll

Anonymous 132599

Hello guys, am I the only one tired of the beauty standards? I don’t fit in any of them and I’ve tried my best to change that, I don’t know what to do. This is my first post.

Anonymous 132600

>>69765
today I had some nice ice cream, a donut filled with vanilla flavored cream, and a little pastry. I shared most of these with my dad (he didn't want the donut, he thinks eating sweets will KILL him)
All of these 3 things were really good!!! I also bought nails for my dad.



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Being an ND, black woman is a curse Anonymous 132518[Reply]

I've come to terms with the fact that I will forever be alone. Being forced to move as an expat and sheltered ruined all social skills (that I never even had) and detached me from my birthplace, breaking all connections I had. I'm not a likeable person, even online, and I don't even know why. In a group full of people, I always have a notion that I am hated and nobody likes me. I swing from being very proud to ashamed in interactions. My family doesn't like me either. I've been made a lolcow on several occasions. I haven't had a real friendship since I was 13. I'm about to go to university and I genuinely feel like ending it to save myself from the suffering ahead of me.
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Anonymous 132585

>>132584
Isn't LC enough for you?

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Anonymous 132587

>>132586
Why do you have to announce you're black wherever you go? Even on an anonymous website? I just don't get why you can't stay in your dedicated spaces for blackcels if you want to talk about racism or whatever. The only reason this post is here is because OP wants attention and knows libfems here will give her that.

Anonymous 132588

kek it's the schizo posting racist memes on img isn't it

Anonymous 132590

>>132587
>>132583
This is so mentally ill and weird, kek. No one's "announcing they're black wherever they go", you just have a hateful fixation on black people like the other incels who sperg about and project on other races. You can hide the thread, no one here has ever (or will ever) reach out to talk to you personally. Also, you have no place to call anyone a "libfem", because feminism isn't for you, and you know exactly why.



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 132562

>>132561
exactly hence why i implied your twt clout is not real, pls stop projecting on me

Anonymous 132569

>>132562
I don't use /pol/ adjacent websites like you. Go back stupid handmaiden.

Anonymous 132572

>>132554
wait what? who is she jfc

Anonymous 132573

>>132550
im so fucking sorry my god, this is exactly why im a misanthrope, humans are so fucking disgusting and it's even worse in a patriarchal world ran by evil, sadisticly perverse wicked m*n. i really hope things get better 4 u

Anonymous 132591

>>132573
Thanks, life does really suck in this scrote realm. I hope you're safe too anon.



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