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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 131607

>>131602
>investment fund
That's when you give some sleazebag your money to pick stocks for you like in The Wolf of Wall Street, right? No thank you.
I just wish i had bought some SpaceX stocks yesterday, because there was no way they wouldn't go up dramatically, i was just too lazy to figure out how to purchase stocks. 21% in a single day, crazy.

Anonymous 131689

Im so alone everyone keeps betraying me im a dirt

Anonymous 131721

You know, I was pretty horrible at school. Now I see my youngest sibling struggling with it, literally freezing in response to questions like I once did. Not that I didn't figure shit out later, but I am worried the same will continue for my children. I wish I could raise them to be really smart.

Anonymous 131724

>>131721
Just teach them how to read and think critically early on. Everything else will fall into place

Anonymous 131725

>>131724
It's kind of funny because I keep seeing just exactly this, that gen alpha can barely read. Is this really just because of Ipads and youtube? When I was a kid the Internet was the reason I could use near perfect grammar as a middle school kid and mogged others at language comptetitions too.



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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 131711

>>131710
I wish

Anonymous 131712

Men can't love you unless you're white

Anonymous 131713

Are you in Russia also

Anonymous 131716

>>131713
No. I just see them around

Anonymous 131723

>>131712
How would you know what men want?



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

Previous thread >>>/feels/115657
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Anonymous 131717

>>131714

>why are you larping as a dark triad personality?


>bullies people to gain status


…. the call is coming from inside the house

Anonymous 131718

>>131717
Wym to gain status. You are assuming that. Status is definitely one of those things I don’t care for. I don’t like people glorifying and justifying the behaviors that had been harmful towards me.

Anonymous 131719

>>131718
1) tf is a vector?

2) what happened?

Anonymous 131720

>>131719
In computer security, an attack vector is a specific path, method, or scenario that can be exploited to break into an IT system, thus compromising its security.
In health and disease transmission, a vector is a living organism that carries and transmits an infectious pathogen to another living organism

Anonymous 131722

>>131720

So nona either broke security protocol or transmitted a disease by bullying someone?

Sounds retarded af



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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 130965

Well it rains and it pours when you're out on your own
If I crash on the couch, can I sleep in my clothes
'Cause I spent the night dancing, I'm drunk I suppose
If it looks like I'm laughing
I'm really just asking to leave this alone
You're in time for the show
You're the one that I need
I'm the one that you loathe
You can watch me corrode
Like a beast in repose
'Cause I love all the poison away with the boys in the band

Anonymous 131038

Sympawny no.4 - in memory of sweet Chubby Cat
Chubby Cat was sweet and playful and the perfect cuddle buddy. With a sprinkle of playful piccolo, a touch of warm strings, and a sweet harmony progression - hopefully, the music sounds just a little bit like him. Rest in peace sweet Chubby Cat

Anonymous 131043

you can go on home, you got what you need
take my heart and put it up on your sleeve
tear it up so they can all sing along
live out your life
i’ll never tell you you're wrong
baby, don't forget, don't forget it's our song
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone

Anonymous 131687

𝒮𝓊𝓃𝒹𝒶𝓎 𝓌𝒶𝓈 𝒶 𝒷𝓇𝒾𝑔𝒽𝓉 𝒹𝒶𝓎 𝓎𝑒𝓈𝓉𝑒𝓇𝒹𝒶𝓎
𝒟𝒶𝓇𝓀 𝒸𝓁𝑜𝓊𝒹 𝒽𝒶𝓈 𝒸𝑜𝓂𝑒 𝒾𝓃𝓉𝑜 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓌𝒶𝓎
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒸𝒶𝓃'𝓉 𝐼 𝒻𝒶𝒸𝑒 𝒾𝓉?
𝒜𝓂 𝐼 𝓉𝑜𝑜 𝒷𝓁𝒾𝓃𝒹 𝓉𝑜 𝓈𝑒𝑒?
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒹𝒾𝒹 𝒽𝑒 𝑔𝑜?
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒹𝒾𝒹 𝒽𝑒 𝓁𝑒𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝓂𝑒?

Anonymous 131688

This Sunday instrumental is goated btw



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 130981

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Finally found that one table that tied schizoidness to historical attitudes towards children. Psychogenic modes are a fringe theory I think but it makes an interesting point.

Anonymous 131004

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To be a hermit is to be holy.

Anonymous 131005

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my face when I accidentally see people I don't like having a good day

Anonymous 131581

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I rejoined “society” and I started noticing something that hasn’t been here before.

I stopped constantly comparing people to each other. I don’t create mental hierarchies where someone is inferior or superior. I don’t evaluate them by asking “how good would being friends with them make me look?”.

I think I started seeing people as ends unto themselves. It is a strange feeling, as if I am a parent that doesn’t have a favorite child - they’re all just… valuable by themselves.

Somehow this feels very liberating. Weird, huh?

Anonymous 131679

I feel like I'm gradually becoming what I imagined normalfags were like.



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I am writing a story Anonymous 131669[Reply]

I am writing a dark fantasy story. I was wondering how do I get people to give me feedback and how do I know if people actually like it? I want to actually be a writer. <3

Anonymous 131670

Well I’m willing to give some feedback though I have no qualifications for that
Maybe a discord for writers?

Anonymous 131671

>>131670
>Maybe a discord for writers?
What if they steal her gems? I wouldn't risk it.

Anonymous 131672

>>131671
She should pick one of those people that never finish their works then



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Anonymous 127510[Reply]

Hi nonas
I really need help
I really like this guy and he really likes me, we spend all of our time together to a downright obsessive degree, and ive never really experienced something like this because i was not very appealing to boys growing up. But now, Im having trouble going forward with him

He is still hung up kn a girl he dated a year and a half ago. Usually this would immediately turn one away from pursuing anything, but he is so tied to my hip that i dont doubt his affections for me. But he does say things that worry me, I fear I cant shape up to this girl that he had a really thrilling romance with, everytime he mentions her I feel like he misses her more and more. He mentions how nice she was to him, and how well they understood eachother, and it is so affectionate. I am so sad, these days, I cry a lot, but he also freaks out if he feels like I’m upset with him or just disappointed with him, I dont doubt he loves me, but i dont think he will ever love me as much as he loves this other girl. I am really autistic and i have troublr understanding other people on a degree like that. They havent spoken in a year but its still like this.

I feel so stupid and dumb and immature, i feel like a failure of a woman, im 22 and I’ve never had a boyfriend, so this is my first time experiencing soemthing like this. Am I desperate? what should I do?
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Anonymous 127561

>>127549
i would never want to be the girl someone loses their virginity to. my fiancé lost his by threatening to break up with his girlfriend. they broke up shortly after. he just wanted to have sex and said she was withholding it from him. thankfully she left him.

Anonymous 127610

>>127561
>Yeah, I love used goods sluts

Anonymous 127611

>>127561
Wait, you're engaged to this asshole? Sounds like you may have some screws loosed.

Anonymous 131583

>>127533
Fuck. I was with a boy just like on the left. Oh my god, i miss him and I fucked up. My heart aches looking at this and it's so stupid.

Anonymous 131646

be egocentric.

Egocentric women always win. When men say women are egocentric they are right, women need to be egocentric to be happy. Else they will never be happy and find happiness.

Being egocentric, in the best amount. Being a narcissy in the way of having basic respect for yourself, and sacrifice a random man if he does not fit your ideal image of a man.

Treat men how they treat you.



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i hate being short Anonymous 129782[Reply]

i hate being short no one takes you seriously and peopl talk about how "cute" you are as if thats somethinf good and not extremely infantilizing. my self confidemce would be significantly improved if i was at least 5`6. short bodies look like shit in general, if youre skinny you just end up making yourself look even smaller and more fragile if youre fat your body starts to look all lumpy and your proportions seem off, if youre muscular you just look retarded any type of volume on short bodies ends up looking retarded. you cant win
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Anonymous 131599

>>130229
Also, less likely to have a heart failure than tall people and wounds heal faster.

Anonymous 131642

True

Anonymous 131643

Women under 5'6 should be castrated sorry

Anonymous 131644

I am 160cm

Anonymous 131645

>>131644
EEEEEEE SHE'S SO CUTE AND TINY I WANNA DIE



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How to stop feeling like a subhuman because I'm a woman Anonymous 126636[Reply]

No it's not because of men that I feel this way, neither porn, but I've seen porn and women act like subhumans in it.
My problem is that I see submission as subhuman and female submission in sex is human and natural and sex is the fundamental part of the reality. So it's like we are subhumans in life. I don't hate myself but I hate womanhood.
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Anonymous 129360

stop thinking about sex so much and you will be less miserable. yes, heterosexual reproduction is fucked up when you really think about it, but you have to ignore that and go on with your day

Anonymous 131025

Don't have sex, the only position where you can kill a man while having sex is straddling him.

It is as well not recommended for men to do it, because of the consequences it can give to their male clitoris.

Female humans are not sub humans. If anything, the vagina evolved as that because it was coherent with pregnancy. Females are in charge of choosing who to mate with, females have never tried to be like males if anything they have desired to not be abused or used and discarded.

The ban of abortion in some countries will just make women more responsible of celibacy, if women cannot be celibate then you can say we are sub humans.

It is hard anyway, socially women are raised to comply and do as told, despite the bible proposing the complete opposite, that men should be the ones that should obey and work.

Females are not submissive by nature, if anything, they are raised to be compliant.

I am ignorant in history, so I cannot tell you since what period of time women started being raised to be compliant.

Anonymous 131449

No thought or act by any human can be inhuman. Subhuman is a nonsense word.

Men will have a mirrored anxiety to what is expressed in OP. The social imaginary does not make the interpretation expressed in OP as available to men as to women. The anxiety about the aggression in male sexuality defining them as people and manhood is still there.

Whatever this is:
>sex is the fundamental part of the reality
it comes from a pathological place.

Our sexuality is a part of our psyche and we can learn to accept the contradictions between it and the rest of our minds. Like a child turning on the lights over and over again to see whether the monster they imagine in the shadows is truly only in their imagination and eventually coming to trust that if they were to turn on the light nothing would be there. So can people look outside the sexual part of their minds to see whether sexuality's relation to the aggression inherent in male sexuality has removed their sexual partner's ability to regard them as whole people beyond the sexual context.

It is likely, and overwhelmingly so in a serious romantic attachment, that you will find that upon exposing their sexuality to their partner a man will be relieved to find that his woman has not replaced the totality of his being with a monster in her mind and a woman will find that her man has not replaced the totality of her being with a slut in his mind. That is unless some pathology hinders the acceptance of these ambiguities. Like the one which produces this:
>sex is the fundamental part of the reality
It may be relevant to point out that psychic health is hard to maintain when spending a lot of time online.

Anonymous 131536

>>131449

This is so based

Anonymous 131547

>>131449
finally someone wrote something to address the stupid meme OP is perpetrating



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