I love public transport and going to the cinema, that's all I have to say.

money money money money damn it i wish i was rich

>>128821
Reading comprehension goes a long wayyyy. As I stated, there is a taxi service that’s essentially free.
We have a bus in town for seniors or disabled individuals. We have a cinema in town and you can go to a cinema about 40 minutes away if you want a bigger one. I love getting fresh eggs for $5. There’s a beekeeper in town and you can get fresh honey for really cheap. Yeah I’ll take that over expensive groceries and homeless people

>>128820
I feel like I live in stardew valley when we start having farmers markets in the summer

>>128825
There's no need to be patronising. And I know, as an American, you're fundamentally incapable of true empathy, but not every small town on Earth is like your picturesque little idyl. I also don't even know where I'd find eggs that expensive over here.

I wasn't having a go at you for liking towns with no career or education options, I was just saying something I prefer about being somewhere people know how contactless payments work. Liking what I like doesn't mean I hate what you like - most people over the age of 18 understand that.

run everyday
hit the gym everyday
only eat whole foods
the only sugar you get is from fruits (1 per meal) (AND AN ACTUAL FRUIT LIKE A WHOLE BANANA NOT FAKE BULLSHIT)


win

don't demoralize yourself at all, you can lose weight, get a bf pretty quickly (if you want, you should first love yourself, then get a bf, trust me if you take care of yourself and be happy love will come soon enough) and at 18 you are very young still. It doesn't take that long to revitalize yourself, sometimes even less than a month.

>>128757
i second this. i'm 18 too, you're probably either freshly out of hs or about to graduate. get a part-time job that pays well. go to the gym (or do home workouts if you're self-conscious, calisthenics are great) eat in a deficit, and eat well. you spend money on food only for it to be eaten in ten minutes and later digested into shit, so might as well make that food work for you as much as possible. fiber helps. remember that people who make fun of you (either irl or behind a screen) are the same as you and me, they shit, they fart, and if they're hating on you they probably hate themselves too.

find whatever it takes to get you through the day, even if it's retarded, if it keeps you alive and happy that's all that matters.

fasting is good idea but then also eating zero calorie stuff and not stretching your stomach is

I'm with you, I just graduated high school at 18 and I feel so lost and existentially empty. I dealt with some bullying for my weight and thinking I was ugly no matter what, I still get scared if my shirts are too low cut because I'm that self conscious

Don’t capitulate

i really do love you. i don't understand how you went from loving me to being disinterested at best within a day. my selfish hope is to prove myself to you. i want to marry you one day. you're the only person who has ever even claimed to love me.

remember when i made that chainsawman drawing for you on the wall at the bonfire? remember kissing me for the first time in the cold? it feels like you already forgot but i think of it every day

and i hope that one day my limbs stretch to their limits, my body cracking open with rage, he sees me and is afraid.

This dumb bitch is too much of a wilting violet crybaby to call the bank. Just do it you fucking weakling you'll only be talking to a chatbot anyway. This is why I can't take your suicide threats seriously, your risk-aversion is so pathological you can't even bring yourself to make a phone call. I don't think you'd even kill yourself if you had a button right in front of you that would give you a painless instant death if you pressed it.

look, no one is saying you arent allowed to schizo post in the unsent letters thread, but PLEASE can you keep it all in one post? im so fucking tired of the 45 posts all clearly written by the same person during a manic episode.

Burn every bit of clothing he has, and force him to go and get wearable stuff. Or idk, wash the most crappy stuff “accidentally” with bleach and take him shopping as a date.

So I have good news and bad news. The good news is he's trying to learn about clothing already, so he's already on the right path. The bad news is >>128787 has given you terrible advice, because using trickery, subterfuge and ultimatums to influence your loved ones is a very silly idea. He'll only resent you for forcing him out of his comfort zone.

You could try finding some mensware bloggers, writers, YouTubers, etc. so he can educate himself further. Also it's worth remembering that the men's section of any highstreet clothes retailer is full of badly fitted, uninspiring, and either way-too-on-trend or years behind items. This is why today you can see public wonders, like 40 year old men wearing skinny jeans, or whatever the hell pic related is. He has probably never had any guidence on how to not dress like a 16 year old, and if he tried bringing it up around other men, there's a high chance they'd just call him gay. He's basically learning Chinese without ever having so much as overheard a Chinese person actually speak the language, so it's going to take him a while before he doesn't look like Chris Chan at a disco.

Finally, this sounds really dumb, and I am both that and tired, but watch some earlier Michael Mann films with him. Every man in those films is very well dressed*, and even though the clothes are 30-40 years old, any man wearing them would only look out of place today because his contemporaries are wearing polo shirts with low-rise drain pipe trousers. You could actually employ some trickery here and casually comment on how well dressed the likes of Will Graham are.

*This doesn't apply to The Last of the Mohicans or The Keep, fyi.

>How do you guys deal with people like this?
make them lend me couple bucks and promise ill pay them back though i never will and keep asking them for more and more favors aswell. basically make these fuck niggas my bitches

>I might just be an asshole but
You 100% are. What have you done that's so rebellious and interesting that makes you have a spine compared to these people? You're posting on a loser femcel site. This post is just you sucking your own dick.

>>128811
Oh I'm also not very smart or accomplished, I'm just angry with this one particular idiot.

>>128775
Nowhere in OP was it specified what country's army he joined.

>>128777
doesn’t change anything

>>128775
>>128777

lol he did join the us army, most people from my town do cuz theres nothing better for them here. Also 'muh free college'

You got two options.

Either get neet bucks from your parents and get on that unemployment lifestyle…. or at least get a part time job to fund your interests and get out of your small town. You could also get a full time gig or go to college, but baby steps are better. The last thing you need is to circle through a bunch of degrees because you're trying to find yourself or worse- get a degree only to find out nobody hires people with your degree OR EVEN WORSE THAN THAT you gotta sink money into a masters degree to be taken seriously in the field you choose.

Best of luck adulting Nona!

>>128782
Many countries mandatory conscription for all moids. They'll die either way if war breaks out

What are your standards for a man?

As a 28 F who recently had to become friendless after being backstabbed and bullied out of a friend group, I can tell you firsthand just how toxic female friend groups can be. Being in one feels like being stuck in a vacuum with others who are narcissistic, Cluster B, male centered, delusional, cry-bully fake inconsiderate pieces of shit where the only fulfillment they can ever really get out of each other is to make enemies and fake alliances within the group on a rotational weekly basis. One minute one girl in the group hates another girl and needs you as their "safe friend", the next day she and that girl are total soul mates and now you are their number one public enemy that they'll snicker at and constantly talk shit about behind your back. I used to consider myself a Proud TERF and Radfem, but now I can only consider myself gender critical at this point because I don't even want the feminist label, women's behavior has disgusted me so much I don't even want to be associated with a movement that uplifts other women anymore. I've even seen the most religiously radfem and TERF discord servers totally crumple to ashes over the most juvenile puerile woman to woman bickering that boils down to nothing more than schoolyard insults the likes of what teenage girls would think of. All of this to say women have a long way to go in terms of social improvement and we don't do anything to help ourselves being this completely fucking stupid and bitchy towards one another. How are we gonna ever expect moids to respect us when we can't even respect one another without some childish bullshit?

>>128772
Once a feminist - always a feminist, you can try to hide it, but people will find out and you will carry that stigma for the rest of your life.

25F and also currently have no friends, but it's mostly because I refuse to get close to people after toxic friendships, especially with women. My last female friend literally left me because I tried to kill myself after being sexually assaulted. She was always pretty weird about the assault to begin with, weird about the grooming of one of her other friends too. Generally speaking, women will side with moids, and this chick was even gay. I woke up to her not wanting to be my friend on the hospital bed. I shit you not. I was looking out the window kind of hopeful, looking at the sun and the feeling of hope faded in me so fucking fast like you wouldn't believe. Sometimes you really are better off alone. I am truly happier without friends like this.

>>128772
This is the reason why so many women who others deem a 'pick me' befriend men over women. I can say from my personal experience nearly every female friend i've had has treated me like i'm profoundly retarded, or like i had some kind of disease. Like i wasn't even human to these girls. Men aren't the greatest but at least they'll be honest with you if they think you're fat, ugly, retarded, etc.

My ex's best friend tried to hit on me, a classic female move