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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 129301

I told someone that ayatollah khamenei is dead and she said "oh no, that's so sad. i don't know who she is i'll go look her up."
I want to call her a retard but I'm too timid to say that out loud so I'll just shit talk her on here…

Anonymous 129302

>>129301
>oh my god [recent event] just happened!!
if anything, she's the based one here for being completely tuned out of the never ending actuality spiral

Anonymous 129307

I'm actually really upset that /x/ isn't more active

Anonymous 129326

anyone else feel burdened by the (seemingly) irreversible effects of prolonged exposure to the worst corners of the internet?
it’s isolating!!! not to mention the imposter feeling of knowing you are/were immersed in such degeneracy and then attempting to carry out a normal relationship or even friendship without being able to talk about it because they don’t relate/know about these corners.
resisting temptation of visiting the chans and seeing vile content only helps so much, i see it all around me now irl. it’s like it has ruined my brain chemistry LOL.

Anonymous 129343

>>129326
I feel this in a way. It's takes a toll on me to hide my powerlevel when discussing moid degeneracy (so basically any time any local crimes are discussed) as i am simply way too informed on the topic for a normal woman.



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Anonymous 129314[Reply]

this is my worst insecurity but i wish i was small. i mean im thin but i feel so tall. i feel like a planet. i want to be cute and dainty and flat chested. i want to be easy to carry and spin around. i wish i wasnt a giant
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Anonymous 129333

>>129332 Can't agree, I mean how the hell am I gonna know a guy if I can sparse out if he likes ntr enough to make me step on him, or CNC to know if he'll punch me in a wall. If he's into stepsibling shit he hates his mother, and if he likes goblins and tentacles, we can play DND on Sunday's.

Anonymous 129336

>>129331
>>129332
That's a lot of assumptions.
Besides, isn't it statistically true that ability to form a lasting relationship decreases with each new relationship one has?

Anonymous 129337

>>129336
Considering that all we know of OP come from these self-descriptions:
>I compare all the time to other girls that are petite and pretty
>this is my worst insecurity but i wish i was small. i mean im thin but i feel so tall. i feel like a planet. i want to be cute and dainty and flat chested. i want to be easy to carry and spin around. i wish i wasnt a giant
>I think my boyfie watching a certain kind of h3ntai made me think my body type must suck and all men must be borderline diddies
What kind of conclusion do you expect us to take from this? She's certainly not doing a good job of presenting herself as someone who's likely to get into a healthy relationship.

Anonymous 129341

it's OP. please dont let this post escalate. i wrote it feeling insecure as im vulnerable and hormonal right now but most of the time i am OK. this man doesnt do that anymore and has been good to me and he is a best friend to me and he has changed for the better because he is mature and genuinely loves me. people can grow out of their bad habits, even if those habits disgust you. he isnt like that anymore and i was feeling inadequate because im hormonal from pregnancy. these feelings pass and i would never inflict them upon a child. i thought this was a place to vent into the void. i apologize for disturbing anyone

Anonymous 129342

>>129341
i appreciate the honesty, but what i got was mostly assumptions about me. i want to marry the man that takes my virginity and i only felt disturbed/learned more later, to which he said he got rid of the habit about 2 yrs ago. i love him a lot and he's attracted to me the way i am and he's been attracted to me now more than ever because i'm having his child. sorry again..



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Who else here has BPD? Anonymous 129339[Reply]

F20 and was diagnosed with BPD recently, even though I knew I had it for a couple of years.

I have gotten so much better with my symptoms but currently I'm dating a guy that I feel cares more about being right that my feelings whenever he does something that affects me. I don't feel like he also ever takes into consideration the fact that I have BPD and this is something he knew from the start.

I'm tired of having BPD and such overwhelming emotions to the point I can't function properly

Anonymous 129340

I also have BPD, to was sort of annoying navigating symptoms in high school when everything is summed up to hormones and growing, especially when you’re a girl, even when it was obvious that my reactions to things simply was not on par to my fellow students regardless. Not to get too triggering here, but I’ve been on the brink of suicide over the smallest of shit, and almost lost friends over a candy cane. So I get it, it’s exhausting, but the goal is to maintain the self, not to save others from what’s inside, but to save nurture yourself. If he can’t understand, don’t keep him, if he can grow over time and try (bc he is a human being and sometimes we have a hard time understanding) then he’s worth it.

Just make sure that you are okay with yourself regardless, take time for yourself and for your thoughts and give space to fuck up and be a little irrational. Sometimes it annoys me how ppl will give space for things like Tourette’s and autism, but dare you have BPD and you’re a menace.

Hope you’ll start feeling yourself, OP!



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sigh Anonymous 129284[Reply]

found a messed up game on bfs computer. magical girl hentai game with loli, rape, bdsm, bondage and torture. im done and lost. only so much i can forgive and look past. im tired. ijust want a normal guy. this was a mistake. should i leave or should i stay and use him for money.
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Anonymous 129293

>>129284
There are no normal guys. If it upsets you that much leave but don't be surprised when you find out the next guy is also a sexual deviant. Not every dude is a loli freak specifically, but you gotta be realistic, girl.

Anonymous 129303

Does he play genshin impact?

Anonymous 129304

>>129303
girls also play that trash for some reason…

Anonymous 129305

>>129284
Is it Depravia?

Anonymous 129338

Beat him up.



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Jealous of other women Anonymous 129306[Reply]

I’m jealous of other women.
All of them. It feels like every woman in the world has something I don’t. Something I’m missing on a fundamental level. Not just looks. Not just personality. Something deeper. Like they were given a manual on how to exist as a woman and I wasn’t. I don’t measure up. Not in my appearance. Not in how I act. Not in how I talk. I feel like I missed whatever makes someone naturally normal. I feel like a failed version of what I’m supposed to be. Like some kind of glitch. Being around other women makes it worse. I don’t feel like I belong. I feel awkward and wrong, like they can sense that I’m different. I compare myself to every little thing, their confidence, their ease, their femininity, and I always come up short. What makes it worse is that I actually want connection with women. I want female friendships. I want that closeness. But I feel like my jealousy and insecurity just poison it before it can even start. I’m scared I’ll ruin it or that they’ll see through me and confirm what I already believe. That I’m not enough. The only people I really talk to are men, and I’m exhausted by it. Men only end up hurting me. But somehow I feel more comfortable there than with women, even though it’s not healthy for me. I’m just tired of feeling like a failure as a woman. Tired of feeling behind. Tired of feeling like everyone else got something I didn’t.

Anonymous 129313

Femininity is lame, so you're doing something right.
Anyway, connection and closeness is not something so mystical and wonderful. I think if you got what you wanted you'd realise it's just "okay" and you'd be just as fine on your own.

Anonymous 129335

i love you, internet stranger



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i wish i was cute Anonymous 128827[Reply]

f19 and ive been bored recently and want to make an online presents with my face tied to it, im not gonna lie im pretty ugly, fat, and retarded LOL im abt 190 lbs and 5'9 so im gonna become a lolcow if i tried anything now but anyways does any one have advice, im already working out i know i need to stay consisent but its hard to stay motivated when i have such a slow metabolism

Anonymous 128828

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Don’t capitulate

Anonymous 129278

keep going! you'll not only look better, but feel better too. :3

Anonymous 129279

>im not gonna lie im pretty ugly, fat, and retarded LOL
Same ;_; ive thought this exact same thing lmao.
But I mean just stay consistent with working out and I would say just try to make content you never know, your profile /might actually blow up so shit y not try. And people that make fun of people and lolcows on the internet are sad as fuck, so just ignore

Anonymous 129334

>>128827
metabolism doesnt factor into the equation at all. you eat too much



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Does this make anyone else mad Anonymous 129315[Reply]

This ugly swede made a YouTube video whining and e-begging about how he couldn't get a gf, and ended up marrying a 7/10 woman that saw his videos and fell in love with him. Imagine if it was an ugly woman that made a video like that. She probably wouldn't have gotten as popular as he did and definitely wouldn't have got a cute bf to wanting to marry. I fucking hate moids. They have the easiest lives ever

Anonymous 129320

im p sure if a woman did that she'd also find smb cause the internets a place with lots of ppl, ur bound to find others you click with but also lots you do not

Anonymous 129327

Real. But honestly, it's probably a pity fuck. If there wasn't an online audience to watch this and gush over how humble and real she is, she wouldn't have done it. She just saved a kitten out of a tree and knows she'll get everyone to think of her as mother Teresa because she allowed igor between her legs. It's strange how people will do such drastic measures in their life just for a little 5 degree fame.

Although a woman would probably find someone, maybe not who she wants, but there are people who want to fuck corpse and be a fucked-out corpse, everyone quite literally has someone dead or alive.

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I am sad ill never have him Anonymous 129232[Reply]

I'm so sad I'll never have a boyfie like Sheldon Cooper. He is so perfect. I love his aspie mannerisms, his intelligence, his facial expressions, his mischievous smile, his flat affect, I mean even when he is flirting he is still innocent and spergy. He is so charming to me I love him so much. The fact that he is not real and I'll never have him makes me feel hopeless. I can't imagine being with anyone else. When I am sad I imagine him holding me and telling me cool science facts, or helping me research historical shit I'm into at the moment. I love him so much, he is perfect and I would feel so safe with him. Him and Amy are my hopefuel too, it's the only show where an ugly autist girl gets a happily ever after with a moid that actually loves her. I so badly want a romantic aspie love with a moid exactly like Sheldon Cooper. My heart hurts
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>>129260
I've never met a man like him in person before. I wish I had nerdy stuff around me so I could have more of a chance doe. But tbh I don't think men like him exist irl. He is so perfect real men could never compare. I mean he is quirky and cute, like and manic pixie dream boy. Too perfect to be real

Anonymous 129267

You don't actually like emotionally unavailable men, you just think you do

Anonymous 129274

nophono

Anonymous 129296

I want to hit him with hammers

Anonymous 129325

The Hindu code of Manu is very clear on these matters: any woman who disobeys him will be reborn in the womb of a jackal and tormented by diseases



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Anonymous 129294[Reply]

Why are so many American women posting on Instagram about wwIII like it's funny. They defend it by saying they're coping as though they would ever truly be effected by it. you can't run a mile, you're psychologically unfit, and you aren't smart enough to be put into any specialized roles. You're about as safe as you can be.the worst I can think of in terms of us civilians being targeted in war is 9/11 and the reaction to that was sensationalized and turned into a bigger deal than it really was.
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Anonymous 129297

>>129295
That's Ukraine though. I'm talking about the United States.

Anonymous 129298

>>129297
Yes, it's just an example of how things could turn out. United States is not invincible.

Anonymous 129299

Agreed, with the caveat that men are absolutely making the world war three memes also.

Anonymous 129300

>>129299
Oh yeah I know about them I just don't pay a lot of attention to them, so it's a gripe I specifically have towards people I follow. I see now what it seemed like lol

Anonymous 129312

United States won't be invaded because it's so far away, but it will lose all its power, its money will be worth as much as a Zimbabwe dollar, it won't be able to get any food.



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