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/lg/ - lesbian general Anonymous 108545[Reply]

felt like this should be a thread tbh
what's everyone up to? i'm thinking of downloading tinder again
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Anonymous 129999

Is it true that they are better kissers?

Anonymous 130021

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do any of u nonas wanna date ? im 18 yrs and i'll drop my disc. i promise to be good to you

Anonymous 130022

>>130021
Looking for somebody to date on an image board. That's when you know you've hit rock bottom

Anonymous 130023

>>130022
i have. what about it

Anonymous 130027

>>130021
i'm 18 too but happy being single.
although, if you're fine with being email friends that sounds lovely!


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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 130013

>>129800
I'm sick of being the emotionally stable friend that everyone relies on. My friends need to grow up and start handling their shit because I'm not gonna be their mommy.

Anonymous 130014

anyone else noticing the rise in male manipulators?

was waiting for class to start today and overheard a pair of men talking about how they intentionally make their partners angry for entertainment

my dad was acting really weird and provoking my mom constantly at one point last year. i know (dont ask me how) that they were having gross hate sex. theyre not like that anymore but i wanted to shoot my dad in his sleep. i have no idea where he learned this behavior from

i wish male manipulators were constantly ragebaited. i hope their children are beat within an inch of their life and i can laugh about how they were not intelligent enough to avoid it

Anonymous 130019

I phoned Samaritans yesterday and not only did many of my assumptions go unchallenged, my jokes barely got a laugh. I miss my therapist.

Also can I have a job? You, reading this, can you give me money for a job and do so over an extended period of time?

Anonymous 130020

>>130013
dont let em stress u out and just hit them with the dam thas crazy idk what u gonna do bout that if they hit u with smt weird lol

Anonymous 130025

>say something mildly controversial on an imageboard
>profiling tactics ensue


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Unpopular Opinions Anonymous 129936[Reply]

Share any unpopular opinions you hold here.
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Anonymous 130015

I don't find most black men attractive and never have. I find they're often overrated by white women because BBC or whatever but I've only ever been attracted to very few BM celebrities and the ones I've met irl even if "objectively" good looking do nothing for me

Anonymous 130016

>>130015
BBC is a male fetish

Anonymous 130017

>>130015
Considering that they are more likely to punch and beat women like ragdolls, that shouldn't be a unpopular opinion at all, regardless of aesthetics.
It's also ironic we can freely talk about how unattractive short men are but we can't talk about any other physical feature.

Anonymous 130018

A pumpkin is a fruit.

Anonymous 130024

Therapy is useless
I've been to 5 therapists and couldn't find one that was helpful
Tbh I'm in a 3rd world hellhole so maybe nonas from developed countries find it useful


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Anonymous 130028[Reply]

How do you get over body dysmorphia?

>Not feeling pretty enough
>Always feeling too thin or too fat
>Feeling invisible around men
>Trying not to say that looks are everything
>Comparing myself
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Anonymous 130040

>>130039
Well, I dunno. I don’t care about that, for example.
Maybe you should try applying that logic to whatever you’re saying, if you have that self awareness. I don’t know anyone personally who pushes arms up their throat to vomit.

Anonymous 130041

>>130040
That's right, you dunno much at all. It's good I'm here to explain things to you. If you have any more questions feel free to ask me, little girl.

Anonymous 130042

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Garbagemoid’s stupidity is so cute. I guess if he were smarter he wouldn’t wind up picking up others’ trash.

Anonymous 130043

>>130042
I'm not sure what this refers to. But you should probably help your sister OP out, she's going through a tough time and I feel like you haven't really given her much feminine support with your meaningless platitudes about being herself.

Anonymous 130044

>>130043
I’ve already given her the perfect advice of not paying attention to demoralizing content and staying in reality. Seeing how she’s not responding anymore I’m gonna assume that solved her problem in its entirety.


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my bfs porn addiction makes me want to cheat Anonymous 129689[Reply]

my boyfriend’s porn addiction is making me lose my mind. I first found out about it in early August but I keep finding out things he’s lying about. At first he framed it as just watching a random video then closing. Then, I found out he used to pay for OF while we were together. after this, I found out that he was doing this shit the entire time before I found out and he had a twitter account for OF egirls + bought an anime porn game. He first blamed his problem on our relationship issues before I found out he was doing it the whole time.
He said that what I sent him wasn’t “enough to look at” compared to porn despite him literally being overweight with a receding hairline (quickly apologized but still).

After I found out about the OF stuff, I started cheating on him online. I was a very popular cosplayer and used to make lots of money off of my looks, so it feels weird and makes me feel resentful because I feel like he doesn’t admire my looks like this. Flirting with girls/guys online feels like an escape from feeling like I’m ugly + feels like a gotcha. It makes me want to show off my body and for a while I even thought of doing gravure work when I move back to Japan. I feel horrible for doing this. I used to hate male attention, but I feel relief when a cute moid hits on me. it’s like a “atleast someone appreciates my looks”.

He’s been a great partner and has been treating me amazingly since but I still feel this way sometimes and I feel like a horrible person. What should I do? Am I a bad person?
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Anonymous 129770

Do both of yourselves a favor and leave him. If hes lying about porn usage what else is he lying about? cheating is not good either and if youre vernting your frustration that way, why not just cut off the source of it rather than "dealing" with it?

Anonymous 129814

If you're as skinny and pretty as you say you are, then what are you doing dating a balding fat porn addicted, erectile dysfunction having moid? I don't even feel sorry for you at this point because from what you say you apparently have the access to get a much more decent moid who's actually handsome and doesn't jerk off to porn all day. Skinny women should never settle for fat men, they're disgusting, smell bad and have ED. Plus you're in the cosplay community, there are tons of model looking men who are in the cosplay scene. The world is your oyster when you're a skinny woman and you can have access to 90% better looking moids. You're only shooting yourself in the foot.

Anonymous 129914

strawman^strawman type thread

Anonymous 129971

>>129689
men will never give up porn. no matter which moid u get they will always want porn so if youre not ok with it you will never have a moid.

Anonymous 130011

Go to therapy?
Porn addiction is an addiction, you can't stop it by wishful thinking and just saying "no stop that".
Think of it like training a dog, if a dog shits on your carpet or steal food from the kitchen you can yell all you want or even be abusive to the dog… but that's not how you make the dog stop, it needs conditioning and training.
Just talk with him, make him admit he has a problem and look for practical ways to end this addiction, maybe through therapy, taking part in some programs, joining some groups and whatever, he'll be extremely embarrassed but accountability can help dealing with this shit by using this embarrassment as a way to stop doing it.

The real question is if you actually love him or not, because dealing with an addict of any kind is an ordeal.


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Anonymous 129990[Reply]

my groomer is a popular artist in a fandom space i'm in. i've tried to escape him so many times but he keeps somehow being interested in the same shit as me, posting his art, and then getting popular. it drives me insane and the one time i tried to tell people who he was (because i noticed he was following a lot of teenagers ) it did practically nothing. in fact, many people were defending him: "i don't understand people who now are all up in arms that ____ is a groomer…" and trying to get into contact with him. this specific person ended up seeing a repost about what he did with all the proof and made fanart for him, also found his contact information to message him. someone in the comments tried to tell her that he was a terrible person but she knew and didn't care, i wish i didn't feel so sensitive about this but i get SO upset seeing this happen.

i've seen at least three people find out what he did and then mention WANTING to contact him after finding out, or just being blasé about it. i've tried just blocking and leaving whatever fandom but i'm not going to let myself be pushed out of my own interests because of some asshole. i just figured nowadays people would have more empathy, but i don't have many friends besides from two who believed me about it, all the rest of my friends were also my groomers friends who chose him over me. at some point his ex girlfriend contacted me and told me she tried to report him to the police so they could get a warrant to search his device or whatever, but i never ended up hearing from her again about that.

i'm not sure what to do, ppl aren't listening to what happened anyways. i just wish i could live my life and ignore him but he's everywhere. i rlly needed to vent about this but advice would be nice too, i thought i had moved on completely from him but seeing this stuff still bothers me.

Anonymous 129991

Kill him

Anonymous 130007

>>129990
you need to visit different spaces that is new for you, something you didn't try before. Popular guy having defenders isn't uncommon, they rely on him for their niche 'crack'. He'll have his comeuppance

Anonymous 130010

Had a somewhat similar thing happen to me. The only thing that helped me mentally was unfortunately giving up our similar interests, since we were both chronically online so I decided to get into outdoor extroverted hobbies. Or enjoy what you both like but offline or in a different space. I still like some of the video games/movies he liked but now I'm on different social medias for them that he isn't on, and I try to get my other friends into them so I have people to talk to that I know aren't associated with my abuser


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Anonymous 129954[Reply]

Do you guys think it's weird and gross that for a woman, sex is about the guy dumping a load into your body?
I don't understand why more women don't think it's weird and gross. Like it's fully accepted that it's normal. Imagine spitting in somebody's mouth or peeing into their mouth. GROSS!!
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Anonymous 129961

>>129960
Based

Anonymous 129963

>>129957
Other ways to have sex?
>penis in mouth
>penis in the pooper
Sounds equally disgusting.

Anonymous 129964

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Anonymous 129965

>>129963
Lesbians

Anonymous 130006

Think of it more like a blood transfusion. You're draining him of his life essence.


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Long Distance Relationships Anonymous 44204[Reply]

Thread to discuss Long Distance Relationships. The struggles, the pros… meeting the person for the first time… meeting them for the 50th time… vent both sad and happy things. LDRs can be quite a challenge but it's the right thing for some people.
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Anonymous 118920

>>118889
Right time right place. You also gotta do background checks and search for their discord handle in the archives before adding. If you see him posting in sexting threads and shit like that, don’t add him

Anonymous 119168

my gf and i have been long distance for a bit over 3 years now. im getting frustrated because every time i ask what our long term goals will be i get a vague non answer ("well when i graduate…" etc)

thankfully both of us have the income to afford multiple trips a year to see eachother but it's definitely affecting my life since i feel like all the time in between visits is just like… the void. like im standing around in an elevator waiting to get to the next floor. i almost feel like i'm wasting my life on this but that's hard to admit.

i want to make it work and i feel like we can but man this is so taxing. at least its gone better than my last LDR where the first time we met up she immediately dumped me and we had to spend the rest of the trip awkwardly being friends only lmao.

Anonymous 121925

I see my post about him from a long time ago was deleted. Much to think about.

Anonymous 127271

I know this thread is pretty dead but has anyone gone through the CR1 process without a lawyer? I'm worried my fiance is about to piss away thousands on something we can file for ourselves.

Anonymous 127299

>>127271
post on reddit maybe?


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Anonymous 129918[Reply]

>They like it when you're available for them or talk about things that personally interest them
>They like it when you make an effort
>They like it when you try to make it special for them
>They like it when you bring energy, passion, enthusiasm, effort, etc

But…

>They aren't interested in you
>They don't even like being with you
>They get bored and find other people who they like more than you
> They don't bring any energy, passion, enthusiasm, effort, they just don't care unless it's about them

Why does dating often feel like being an entertainer for other people?

Anonymous 129970

Have you thought about being more interesting?

Anonymous 129986

>>129918
Relationships are tough. Frankly people need to realize functional and healthy relationships are the exception and not the norm. You need to find somebody who you can not only tolerate being around but who is actively interested in things you're interested in. Not only that but they need to be attractive enough that you don't wince every time you look at them. They also need to know or at least be willing to learn how to fuck properly. They also need to be responsible in their daily lives and supportive when things are difficult. There's a metric fuck ton of stuff that can go wrong here so it's really unsurprising so many people these days view casual sex as the better alternative. Without cultural norms, laws, and religion keeping people in relationships, there's almost no reason to be in one unless you've literally found your super special unicorn soulmate which is incredibly unlikely.

Anonymous 129987

>>129986
>Without cultural norms, and religion
If this is what holds together relationship for you why do you bother? It sounds like willingly sticking your arm in acid.

Anonymous 129988

>>129987
We collectively bother as a society because these relationships lead to families and those families are the backbone of a nation.

Anonymous 130000

If they have other options, of course they won't commit. The male mating strategy is to spread their sperm.


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