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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 132005

>>132003
Your posts will never be funny, indian

Anonymous 132006

>>132005
I'm not Indian but okay.

Anonymous 132021

>>132001
are you sure it's your skull making you unlovable

Anonymous 132048

A bimax and nose job would make it possible for me to get loved i think. I can afford them in the future. It would fix my side profile. Then fat transfer for my undereyes and canthoplasty, all of these would at least fix my subhumanity to certain extend. I could wear clothes without worrying about my side profile. Yep

Anonymous 132055

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I saw a handsome guy today and my day is ruined again



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 132047

>>132046
I can give you a hug so you feel better mmkay?

Anonymous 132049

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Maybe this belongs in the vent thread, but it's a happy post, so I'll put it here.

I finally stood my ground with my parents today without over-explaining or getting into an argument. I kindly but firmly explained my boundaries without accusing them of anything, and I told them that since the conversation was heated (as in they were upset and I admittedly was too) that I'd like to continue the conversation at another time when things were less tense. Of course, they were still extremely upset and weren't very mature about it, but I accepted that while I am responsible for my reaction and my tone, I am not responsible for theirs, nor their feelings afterward. There was no need to feel guilt, and I didn't need to explain myself if not requested politely. For the first time in my life, I properly stood my ground and I feel awesome for it! I still need to work on not feeling guilty and not overexplaining, but this is a step in the right direction :D

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>>132049
I am so proud of you Nona!

I am moving for the first time. I just feel so confused. I only have to pack two rooms yet I get stuck staring and looking around at my mess. I can’t deicide what I should wait to pack and what I should pack now. I spent all day today just packing my books… and I have these fragile piggy banks I love but I just don’t know what to do with! Just feeling very stuck… and I know my stepmom will come home soon and yell at me for making a mess! Eep. I need to get my ass in gear but I’m just stuck!!!! Picrel me.

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>>132050
Thank you! I don't mean to sound full of myself but for once I'm proud of me too! And congrats ! Moving is a big step!

I suggest you keep those piggy banks close to you at all times. Keep them in your lap or on the seat beside you in the car/moving van, just so they don't accidentally shatter or crack. All it takes is something sliding in the car or a bumpy ride for things to go south, unfortunately. Make sure your wrapped them up good too, like a box with lots of styrofoam cushioning.

Anonymous 132053

>>131935
There's an entire channel on ridiculous Shabbos practices kek
They had a video where they ironed the countertop but I can't find it



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need advice Anonymous 132010[Reply]

I'm aware of how retarded I am being but I am deeply in love with a fictional character. From the moment I wake up I am thinking of him to the time I go to sleep. It makes me want to cry since he's not real and would never be able to hold me or speak to me. I am thinking of getting a body pillow or sexo doll modeled after him but I am scared even then that won't be enough. Any Anons struggle with this? I need advice on how to deal with love for fictional husbandos.. Underneath my skin feels itchy when I think of him and my head starts hurting. It hurts physically. I love him so dearly.. I feel so crazy I am literally planning on modeling a sexo doll after him and staging a wedding in the middle of the woods with him.
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Anonymous 132036

Honestly you could do a lot worse than Medic.

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>>132034
It's not too weird considering where we are posting she can be very much genuine. There's also the girl who made an engie doll lol. I support them tbh.

Anonymous 132040

>>132038
At first this picture made me sad because she seems lonely but if that doll brings her any comfort, then I can understand why she'd want it.

Anonymous 132045

I was a scout fan myself.

Anonymous 132052

We all been there nonita, you'll get over him. But if you don't go see a psychiatrist



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meds Anonymous 132037[Reply]

I feel so weird about being on zoloft. I ran out and because of my autism and the depression they're supposed to control I haven't gotten it refilled yet. I'm going to try tomorrow. I feel so much better when I'm on it but I feel weird like I start not to be bothered by actual facts of the world that affect me. Like it's turning me into a stupid idiot who just puts her head in the sand, but it hurts so much less when I'm medicated.

Anonymous 132039

Could it be you’re less apathetic now? Shit is supposed to bother you to a healthy degree
I guess if it’s that distressing you need to tell your doc



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Has anyone else given up completely on their life? Anonymous 131845[Reply]

I work a dead end job, no higher education, I'm not saving for retirement, no real plans for the future unless you count Pinterest boards for the future lul, I have health issues I refuse to address, etc. I don't know, I'm just tired of hearing about self improvement everywhere. I genuinely don't care and would be happy just decaying on my desk chair while scrolling on the webs all day. Anyone else like this?
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Anonymous 131850

you have a job so it's not so bad, you can always get a higher education and find your passion, maybe in 5, 10, 15 years, half of the population under 25 is in your exact same place. i'm in the same boat but with no income lol. you should start motivating yourself by doing little things, like skincare, painting, easy stuff, i've found a lot of interests that way that made me a bit less miserable. i'd also love to just bedrot and doomscroll forever but then the guilt hits

Anonymous 132007

>>131850
Thank you for the advice it makes me feel less alone. And yeah I do little things for myself. It makes me feel a bit better until I remember how horrible my life actually is kek. Still, I hope things get better for you too
>>131849
I'm sorry you are going through that :( I am proud of you for still going through with it and following your dreams still! That takes a lot of willpower and strength even if you realized it's not what you actually want at least you tried in the first place
>>131848
You have a very good mindset lol im jealous. I wish I had as much energy as you but I am just tired all the time x0 Ehh I could sleep forever if I was allowed to

Anonymous 132014

>>132008
theory of mind nowhere to be seen

Anonymous 132020

>>132016
pray tell, what would you know about "acting female" scrotum, i want an example

Anonymous 132032

>>132026
you’re too thick to understand what i asked you



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what is wrong with me am i normal Anonymous 132022[Reply]

ive been with this guy for 6 months now and i’ve never felt so fucking horrible in my entire life because of him. we were dating but then he ghosted me for 5 days because i hung up a call to talk to my friend real quick. i was literally gonna call him back and that call only last 10 minutes. after that everything went to shit. he was saying he didn’t love me anymore out of no where. i felt like i got stabbed in my heart 5000 times. i begged him not to leave, bawling my fucking eyes out on call. and he did. so now we’ve been talking and flirting but to him we’re not official, to him we’re “just friends” despite how fucking much he flirts with me. the love he gives me doesn’t even feel real now. also i don’t know how to time all of this, its a lot, i’m sorry. but also i think i may have bpd or something i don’t know. it’s like all the littlest things he does makes me feel like shit and then i bawl my eyes out and start cutting myself. whenever he doesn’t wanna call i do that. or when he slightly sounds like he thinks another girl is attractive or something even though he’s not directly saying that. but also he views women in a very object way. because of that i cant really see men the same either. he’s told me whenever he saw a girl that he thought that was hot, talked about the porn he watched. i felt horrible. i loved him so much i didnt even think of any other guys i just thought, “wow this guy is so fucking ugly and boring my boyfriend is so much better” whenever i saw other guys. and he doesn’t even feel that way back. and when i told him about how i felt about it he just brushed it off saying it wasnt a big deal saying all men do that. but anyway, me and him just got into an argument because he promised me to call but he said he didn’t want to and i started crying and cutting myself. he didn’t even comfort me. he never comforts me. i feel like if he did i wouldnt even care that he didn’t wanna call. but its the fact that it’s like wow he just doesn’t give a shit about me. i just blocked him. please tell me am i fucking crazy? am i overreacting? i’m also partially asking this because he thinks i’m crazy.
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Anonymous 132027

>>132025
Is it love or merely infatuation? If he treats you so poorly, what is it you love about him?

Anonymous 132028

>>132027
i guess i’m in love with the old him. i’m keep thinking he’ll go back someday. he used to treat me so good

Anonymous 132029

>>132028
Sometimes people change. The ideas they're absorbing, the experiences they live through, etc. It can all change how someone perceives the world and how they behave. If speaking with him doesn't help, it'll be very difficult to see eye to eye

Anonymous 132030

>6 months
This is not worth it
Please block him or something he’s manipulating you

Anonymous 132031

>>132028
>he used to treat me so good
This is exactly how it starts. It is also a pattern with moids from conservative culture that I’ve noticed. They treat women like queens but then also like shit because of how they objectify us or something. So he really doesn’t love you even though he fills some sort of unfulfilled emotional need.



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Anonymous 130074[Reply]

I am a schizoid woman. I spend most of my time thinking about nebulous stuff in my head and doing solitary activities such as diy stuff, tinkering with computers, trying to make various stuff and all. I do not enjoy talking to other people unless they’re invested in my interests. Usually if I speak with someone I just wait for the conversation to end and for them to go away. I have little clue as to why other people are entertained by what they are. I prefer interactions where I don’t need to adapt to the other persons sense of normal. That’s why I dislike groups and often end up antagonistic towards them unless I have a big presence. I don’t have strong attachments.

That is just who I am.
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Anonymous 131147

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Also this
>As long as you don't break any of the rules, you're good to go.
Turned out to be a lie, kek

At least these days

Anonymous 131159

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Think making one of those animation channels about my lyfe would be pretty epic like Jaiden

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>>130441
>I started simply getting everything I didn't get before, it's like emotions were a sense no less than smell, taste or vision. I don't know how to describe it, things suddenly started making sense.
Found this pic while purging my downloads folder and it made me think of this
Big if true

Anonymous 131545

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Humans are beasts of narrative. This sentence alone can explain so much. Humans can't be expected to be the consistently rational agent in economics or politics. Nowadays, we try to reject irrationality a lot, like religion or astrology. You can fedora tip all you want but these things aren't pure delusion - they're covering some sort of immaterial need that humans have.

I spoke earlier how lacking emotions made me duller >>130441 , almost as if I couldn't see the full picture of whatever's going on. I also now remember realizing that I had no internal self-narrative. I believe this is why most people failed to read me or found me creepy. I didn't see myself much beyond a body that is capable in some ways and incapable in others.
Most people around me had some idea about themselves they tried reinforcing. Oh, that one is trying to look above it all, that one is always describing herself as narcissistic and a main character, almost as if trying to convince herself. Maybe this is why my true self never really felt seen by those mostly narrative driven individuals.

Apparently from what I found science confirms some of my ideas.
https://academic.oup.com/scan/article/12/1/1/2823712?login=false - The theory of constructed emotion: an active inference account of interoception and categorization by Lisa Feldman Barrett
>In other words, an instance of emotion is constructed the same way that all other perceptions are constructed, using the same well-validated neuroanatomical principles for information flow within the brain

https://www.nature.com/articles/nrn894 and https://arxiv.org/abs/2112.12290 - on Interoception.
>Recent functional anatomical work has detailed an afferent neural system in primates and in humans that represents all aspects of the physiological condition of the physical body. This system constitutes a representation of 'the material me', and might provide a foundation for subjective feelings, emotion and self-awareness.

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Anonymous 132012

>>130077
>A lot of games have unnecessarily expensive graphics because the corporate demands that

a lost art in video games is allowing the audience to fill in the gaps with their own imagination. I think squaresoft perfected this in the late 90s before the PS2 ruined everything.



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Why are moids so fucking retarded Anonymous 131985[Reply]

Is it because of porn addiction?
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Anonymous 131995

>>131994
Spoken like a true moid. Like a filthy moid. Disgusting moid can’t get its mind out of the gutter as expected. Visualizing me masturbating in vivid detail probably. Actual subhuman monkey behavior you don’t even know what I look like all you want to do is fuck without any regard for what you’re even fucking.

Anonymous 131996

>>131995
Just cum already this is silly

Anonymous 131997

>>131993
>nature needs to patch them out already
This is already happening to an extent. Coomers and gooners aren't breeding, so their degenerate genes aren't passed on.

Anonymous 131998

>>131997
This will only fully work if you make the sex as unpleasant for them as humanly possible, otherwise the coomerism will reawaken in their offspring even if your mate is only attracted to you

Anonymous 131999

>>131998
they cant have sex because they cant stay hard during it. self-fixing problem



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Anonymous 130433[Reply]

I broke up with my boyfriend today. It feels like the right decision, he works too much so he isn't available a lot, but i feel upset that all my plans are gone. i wanted to move in with him and get married. get a cat and live comfortably with the love of my life, it all feels quite bittersweet. and now i have to spend a considerable amount of time scrubbing him from my life. deleting all the photos of him, taking off my necklaces with his initial, removing our playlist we made together and all the lovey dovey nicknames i gave to him on various apps, it's a lot of work. and the worst part is it is exam season which is why i was hesitant with breaking up with him, i know it will distract me majorly from it all.

Anonymous 130435

>>130433
its okay nona, it feels bittersweet because it freshly happened. try to focus on your education for now, it will be important for your future.

Anonymous 131977

I guess you can break up with someone for any reason, but breaking up with him for simply being busy is retarded. Focusing on exams and studies sounds right though

Anonymous 131979

>>130433
He should fuck black men

Anonymous 131980

yea, breaking up with someone you love makes sense, especially if they are busy. you meet the love of ur life a thousands of times but you only have one education in ur life so make the most of the latter



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