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Self-harm Anonymous 131508[Reply]

After a long time (7 years) I found myself back here. Feels weird, I feel even more childish than I used to be when I was a teeanger kid. I think I will always live in here, cutting myself is only one sound of it. I will always be the glitch. I tried, I shouldn't even tried. It took me a long time to accept you either have things in life or not. I can't just sit here pretend to be happy, sipping from my tea cup; watching everything taken away from you, lost of potential that's the second time you die after it's being taken away from you forcibly, third, when you realize it. And fourth is when you dig your own grave to collapse your corpse into it.


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Suicide Anonymous 131507[Reply]

I will never be pretty for the men I like. I want to be white but I don't think I will ever look like how I want to even through surgery. That's why I'm going to do it.

Why do you want to kill yourself? Write down and share


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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 131470

tbh i hate my voice too actually

Anonymous 131471

What's even the point? Attractive men will never love me, desire me care about me. I will never feel what being valuable is like, what being loved is like. I'm so sick, I don't even want to think about it anymore, I'm going to do it, I'm going to overdose. I just want to be loved and desired, I want to be pretty and worthy

Anonymous 131472

I'm in so much pain, i juust want to be loved

Anonymous 131479

All i want is love having such strong need and not being able to satisfy it is the worst feeling. Im literally starving, mentally and there's no cure for that.. im a dead person who has died long time ago from starvation, thats all. Then you start physically starve yourself too because theres no point in carrying a dead mind in a rotten flesh. I was meant to be buried under ground as soon as I born but instead i had to pay for my sins in this hell because i must've been a bad person in my previous life, right?

Anonymous 131506

I want to be pretty i want men to call me pretty i want a bf that loves me and make me feel that im enough and pretty i wish i was dead



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Moving on Anonymous 131495[Reply]

How do i stop thinking about him, its been like 3 months now and the last thing he told me was to leave him alone. When he was distant and pulling away i kept getting closer and closer and it probably pushed him off and annoyed him. He said that he mentally checked out a long time ago and when he called me on the phone that we are over it felt like my whole world is going down, i was legit getting panic attacks at night and i lost my appetite and im too afraid to text him since i dont want to know if he blocked me. I just want him back. We were together for 8 months and around the 1-3 months it was good and it kind of drizzled down around 4-5 month were he has this hot and cold behaviour. For example 1-2 days he is warm and approaching and next 1-2 days he is cold and distant and this attitude alternates. Everytime he pulls away and acts cold and distant i kept asking him whats wrong and he kept responding that hes alright, hes okay and nothing is bothering him. Like how would i know there is an underlying issue if he conceals the problem by refusing to talk to me. Just the idea of him being with another girl and being intimate and having sex kills me in the inside. I just work it out and fix it. I need help. This hurts so much.
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Anonymous 131501

>>131498
How doesnt he like me? Did he just lost attraction out of no where? I do remember when our relationship was hanging by a thread he did mention that i wasnt the girl who he thought i was which made me very confused since i didnt change personas since the day i met him

Anonymous 131502

>>131500
girl…

Anonymous 131503

>>131502
I just miss him so much. Ive been spiralling the entire time and everytime i check his socials he looks fine. What messes me up even more is that he might be with a different girl and the idea of him being intimate with someone else kills me from the inside. I cant tell him to remember me but also i cant bear him to forget me

Anonymous 131504

>>131503
> everytime i check his socials
Stop

Anonymous 131505

what the fuck is to miss about him
he is too retarded to communicate, then he says he "tried giving you the chance" and then literally ignores everything you said to him because he cant be bothered to listen to you
>Like how am i supposed to know there was an underlying issue when he actively conceals it and refuses to vocalize and he just bottles it up and explodes one day
you are not supposed to read his mind, nona. he is supposed to be a functioning human and speak about his issues instead of bottling them until everything goes down the gutter.
you cant change him, he is immature, it would take years of therapy to make him barely functional, its not worth it.
>>131504
this. whats to gain there? you could find nothing there that would comfort you.



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what to do after ptsd diagnosis Anonymous 121782[Reply]

i got physically abused when i was in middle school and i had noticed i was like ‘weird’ after. had a freakout the other day bc some dog scared me and it like finally clicked so i went to the doctor. i feel a lot better knowing that im not just a shitty person but like what the fuck now??? i just feel like im quantifiably damaged. anybody have like any advice on what route i should take? like support groups or medication? thanks :p
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Anonymous 131475

>>131447
i would love to try yoga but I am a fat D:

Anonymous 131478

Also to answer OP's questions even though she's not here anymore
My psychologist that was evaluating me and the psychiatrist who was managing me both told me CPTSD is more about therapy rather than anything else, medication alone can't help.

Psychiatrist suggested EMDR therapy, but it sounded so dubious the way she described it.
>It was pioneered by a woman who noticed moving her eyes around helped her cope with cancer
like, ok

Anonymous 131482

>>131475
if you have limited mobility, you could try just some of the stretches. im sure there's a way. they have chair yoga for elderly people, so im sure someone could do some kind of yoga if they were fat.

Anonymous 131483

>>131447
>>131482
also, i forgot to mention, somatic exercises have been helpful for me! i recommend sheBREATH on youtube. they are easy to do and help a lot.

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>>131447
>>131483
Thanks for recommending trauma-informed yoga and exercises, will try it. On eating healthy regular meals and sipping water help me with the feeling of throat constriction and nausea around heightened anxiety and panic attacks, it's difficult to eat but reminds you you're still human



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advice on talking about self harm to doctor Anonymous 131488[Reply]

hello, i wanted to make a post on here asking anyone’s experience talking to a doctor about their self harm.. im 20 and wanting to look for treatment and i bite myself extremely hard and have been for months. i just am scared and feeling anxious it will mess things up for me in the future, are there any nonas that can give advice to a super anxious girl please

Anonymous 131490

why do you bite yourself?

Anonymous 131491

I'm 20 and also used to self-harm, I can also get quite anxious. You should try some fidgetting toys or trying to release that anxious energy on something else. Exercise, art, writing, music. It will be hard at first and you'll have to force yourself to not self-harm. The more you practice eventually you'll condition your brain to express it in whatever other way you choose and it'll get easier.

I don't recommend talking about doctors on self-harm unless you're 100% sure you cannot control yourself. They could send you to a mental ward if they consider you a threat to yourself, and that place is more often than not a worse experience. Cheers nona, good luck

Anonymous 131494

>>131490
probably the same reason parrots pluck their own feathers out when stressed out



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 131486

>>130869
He’s right tho, all the people here are unfunny and like the nona he was replying to, she is literally like a female mtf tranny. the fact his post is still there with all the 15 yo male threads means this site is dead.

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i have retard fatigue

Anonymous 131492

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I wish I was rich god damn it. I can only imagine the beautiful universe in which I have fantastic piles of money.

Anonymous 131493

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>>131492
tfw multi-billionaire

Anonymous 131499

My brother that's in an abusive relationship (again) messaged me after 5 months of no contact just to tell me he was going no contact because I'm the only one in our family willing to be open about the fact I won't tolerate what's going on with him. I know social isolation is a big thing with abuse. But it really is hard on my end to be sympathetic after all the resentment built up, too. This motherfucker kicked me out of our house 2 months after he started dating his partner. He never speaks to me unless to ask for money or some favor. He never used to do that. I know that's shitty of him, and maybe just him. But he barely talks to anyone else in the family and we all have the same thoughts about this situation. He let her call me incestuous because I was worried about this relationship for him, when he had just gotten out of another abusive relationship. He didn't defend me. I heard every word of that argument. I haven't forgiven him. She tracks his location, he has to lie to even visit our mother. I know a shit relationship when I see it. I say I don't care, and literally nothing changes, because he didn't talk to me anyways. But I still tear up about it. We used to be super close.



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Anonymous 131463[Reply]

What's your dream bf like?

for me:
>16-66 years old
>in severe debt
>incel, never had sex
>bald
>173cm tall exactly
>widely considered to be a schizo
>has a number of congenital diseases
>has brain damage
>no friends
>might be missing a finger or two
>speaks Mongolian

Anonymous 131480

>19-26
>brunette, light eyes, fair skin
>tall but no too tall 184cm is ideal
>shy and sensitive
>confident
>smart
>is politically right leaning and laid back, doesn't gaf
>not feminist
>romantic and enjoys companion
>avoidant with nurturing personality
>doesn't use stuff like skincare or gay parfums, i like natural masculine men
>has a good facial structure: jaw, cheekbones, browbone but not too robust and is fleshy
>pink nipples
>doesb't mind me being shy and weird
>has humour
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Anonymous 131481

>>131480
>>pink nipples
good taste.

Anonymous 131484

>>131480
>Right leaning + not feminist
extremely cringe

>>131463
>bald
cringe

>21-25 or not stupid

>does not really identify with anything, cares about humanity as a whole (dutiful and self-sacrificing like a male feminist)
>can survive and make peace in any situation (such as being trapped in a basement)
>good fat storage, slightly fat because he takes care of his needs
>promiscuous and easily charms others to have homosexual relations (“my husband’s bf”)

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>>131484
>cringe
assassinates you



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Moid rant Anonymous 131476[Reply]

Why can't guys be consistent?

I haven't had a lot of relationships but the two I had ended on the same thing, guys act a certain way at first and once they have you they slowly stop doing the small gestures, the romance, the flirting, the effort, they stop being as compassionate and understanding. They slowly become meaner and ruder.

You will eventually find yourself having to discuss with them the fact that they aren't acting the same way, I don't believe there is a man out there that can keep consistent without being told to do so. Either that; or, they just tell you you're being dramatic and that they haven't changed.

What is the scientific or psychological reason for this besides selfishness? Who are they fooling and do they really think we are that stupid to think that "nothing has changed"?…

Anonymous 131477

>>131476
The scientific reason is when they met you dopamine flooded their brain every time they were with you so it was easy to do nice things and be romantic. after a while the novelty wears off and there is less dopamine so it's like watching a movie you have already seen 500 times and you just want to be done with it.

a mature man knows that doing genuinely nice things and serving they ones they love will bring them joy, even if it doesn't seem like it will.

also porn has rotted men's brains so good luck finding a good one.



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