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Vent Thread Anonymous 120288[Reply]

Previous thread >>117577
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Anonymous 120767

My boyfriend likes to lick my teeth and I don’t understand why…

Anonymous 120768

>>120762
Divorce him or cheat on him or both. He deserves it.

Anonymous 120769

>>120767
God I see the things you do for others

Anonymous 120783

>>120767
He's a dentist
He's cleaning off the plaque and tartar

Anonymous 120784

>>120769
I’m sorry but what?
>>120783
Nona I love you never change lol



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Anonymous 120771[Reply]

Everyone is doing sm better than me and working hard. I need to do better or I will be left behind. Aaaahhhh enough. The way I can only choose hard work or comfort. I don't think I want a family to much work for life and too much worries.
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Anonymous 120776

This is what trying to go cold turkey on sugar will do to you. Cannot wait for college. I want to lay in arms of a man that luls me to sleep

Anonymous 120777

I need to eat more fruit and more coffee yeah yeah bzbyyyyyy
This world is not your clay anymoreeee stick to the path pleaseeee

Anonymous 120778

I wish I was normal about food. Hmmm I need to wash my eye mask and some other clothes. Cotton is so fuckimg expensive these dayssss I WANT A BAJILLION DOLLARS N0W

Anonymous 120779

I quit listening to music. At max only podcasts. There is something so hypnotic that it leads to me day dreaming.

Anonymous 120782

Manwha_fight class…

Nobody is coming to save me You need to fight your vices on your ownI cannot have a balance I need to leave entirely I need stimulants I need to run in park like its 2014 with heavy raining I never want to see bad things ever again God help me



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i genuinely dont think love, friendship, any kind of human companionship is possible for me Anonymous 120144[Reply]

who relat

Anonymous 120145

i feel chronically empty all the time i feel nothing at all and it is everything at the same time at once . im literally biblical depictions of the devil incarnated into a girl

Anonymous 120164

I used to feel the same. Getting professional mental help helped me.

Anonymous 120209

Me for love. I can't fathom living with someone or not having a bedroom to myself. I want to be in love but I can't imagine myself pursuing a relationship in the way that others do. I get very irritated when around someone nonstop for over a week, even if I care for them. I always joke that I should date a pilot

Anonymous 120244

i fel you nona im considering renouncing any type of relationship ever. its like im in a desert island away from everyone i know and i cant reach anyone, nor anyone can reach me. i tried but im tired of trying.

Anonymous 120781

I can relate I always self sabatoge every relationship I have whether it's platonic or romantic it's horrible



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

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Anonymous 120749

peter, i'm sorry. i miss you so much. i wish you would talk to me. i can't sleep. i want to spend time with you again. please come back to me

Anonymous 120750

Hey, A.

Remember that night we talked near the train tracks? I think about it a lot–your faith in the beauty of life. I hope you still believe your old self, despite everything, because I do. It isn't too late, you know. Let's stop being lonely

-K.

Anonymous 120763

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Dear A.

Years pass. They feed off themselves. Yesterday I looked up your recently published papers despite feeling, most of the time, indifferent towards you. New infatuations come and go. I stalk my crushes online. It feels like the natural thing to do. It's what I've always done. You once told me I'd make a good detective—if only you knew.

My new love doesn't share your name, but his is an anagram of yours. Here, where it is always dusk, all the shadows in my dreams could be your silhouette. I looked up a translation of Unica Zürn's alleged last poem before she committed suicide, but I couldn't find any. I’ll try to translate it myself. You wouldn’t like that, because you enjoy referring to authorities, even if you claim otherwise. I know this because I do the same.

As time separates us, I realize how similar we always were. Everything I despise about you, I have also found within myself. Words always come too late, and one of the last things you told me was that I was never coherent. I fall in love with strangers on the bus and in the library, and they all look the same. Even before you, they have always looked like you. All I needed was for my daydreams to have a name.

You were too real, which is why I could never have loved you beyond the mirror of my daydreams. I've been in love with someone else for a year. Could you believe that? They don’t love me back.

I could never be a good detective. I'm not trying too hard to be coherent these days and maybe it shows. I was young and tried too hard to exercise rigorous semiotics instead of facing the world. I don't think you were entirely wrong. I don't think you're a genius wasting away your talent anymore, either. I think you're just like me. Maybe you told me that once and I forgot. There's a lot of things we talked about. The insults and disagreements I try to forget.

Unica Zürn's last poem begins like this: All of this has existed before / others spoke about it.

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you were an archetype i had to confront at some point and seeing your true colors was all the closure i really needed. im definitely changed i just wish i didnt do anything permanent for you
like get a shitty tattoo of ur initial

Anonymous 120780

You are a pedophile, your "partner" is a groomer.

I wish your cheating ass nothing but misfortune, a miserable life and anyone that you love to betray you the way you betrayed me.

People like you don't deserve love or safety.

You've always said how much you hate pedophiles, yet you abandoned everyone for pedophiles.

Hope you have a miserable life



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one of my friends totally dropped me Anonymous 120770[Reply]

as the title says, one of my friends texted me last friday, and decided that we couldn’t be friends anymore. he said that our friendship was “too intense” and he couldn’t handle it for his mental health. this came out of nowhere, and he hadn’t expressed discomfort any time in the past about our friendship and what we talked about. we’ve only known each other since november but we’ve gotten really close in that time, and tell each other about our mental health, personal, and family struggles. i’m not mad that he did this, if anything im glad he’s prioritizing his mental health. but, it just really fucking sucks that he just,,, decided we can’t be friends anymore. i don’t even know if this is permanent. from the way he spoke, i don’t think it is, but i have no clue when he’ll be stable enough for us to be friends again.

on one hand, he’s kind of right? like, our friendship was a bit mentally draining for the both of us. but on the other hand i really miss him. i miss talking to him from when i woke up to when i went to bed. i miss seeing funny videos and sending them to him. i miss talking to him about literally nothing and everything. i think it’s worse because he still like, looks at my ig stories. he doesn’t hate me, we just can’t be friends for the time being.

Anonymous 120775

I do this…sometimes because of things at home friendships become too much for me …I know isolation doesnt help but I dont want my foul mood to spoil everybody else having a good time…I hope you guys start hanging out soon!



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I am a lizard person Anonymous 120651[Reply]

I am a lizard person, I am a shapeshifter, and there are many lizard persons out there. We aren’t all the cliche’s many people like to believe where we want to rule the world.. A lot of us suffer with narcissism, and Identity theft / Issues because of this. I sometimes feel alone, and I’ve had altercations when I have shifted on camera, and even I feel really anxious to look back on them because I look foul. I feel sad because every other traumatic event rhag happens to me I shift into a new identity, and face. I do this because I am scared to remain the same identity. I am yet to be apart of the hidden community, but I am not a threat. I’m just a girl
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Anonymous 120661

I once dreamt of meeting a lizard person, she hypnotised me and used her long tongue to probe my brain through my ear and I passed out

Anonymous 120670

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Hi, fellow lizard. What kind of lizard you are by the way?

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Anonymous 120766

Same



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There is not a place in the world, real or virtual, that you can escape to. Anonymous 120761[Reply]

The internet is an oppressed virtual wasteland, with few oases that are already dried up, and no ways of escaping to truly greener pastures. Alienation and isolation are inevitabilities. The less you conform, the lonelier the road you walk is. Once you’ve realized the madness of our current reality, how flawed humanity society truly is, you will understand that to be sane is to be miserable.


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THERAPISTS ARE SHIT Anonymous 120688[Reply]

A lot of therapists are unbearable interpersonally. They learn how to manipulate people by choosing their words carefully when they're in school and completely lose the ability to communicate genuinely with other people.

For most people this isn't a problem, but as someone who knows a lot of therapists, it makes it harder to make friends with them. Out of roughly 20 therapists I regularly communicate with, only 2-3 are capable of communicating without using therapeutic techniques. If I say "I'm going on a date and I'm worried it'll go well and I'll have to make lifestyle changes" these people say "sounds like you're worried about what comes next". No fucking shit, dude. You're supposed to laugh with me about it and say "it'll probably be fine" or something

Most therapists are awful at their job. In this training I was in yesterday, the trainer told the group that asking questions in therapy does not help the client. You're just supposed to manipulate, sorry, motivate them into completing their goals by reflecting stuff they say back to them (but only the stuff you like). Mental health trainings are so funny. Everyone just talks about the most effective ways to manipulate people but if you use the word manipulation everyone will scold you.

Most therapists come from wealthy backgrounds, don't have addiction or trauma experiences, and had the resources growing up to learn coping mechanisms to help them live with their extreme neuroticism. I worked with a lady once, we were doing adolescent substance abuse group treatment, and she would get mad and basically ground the clients for misbehaving. Like she was their mother. She believed her role was to "get them in line". She was afraid of drugs after doing pot once.

Another dude i worked with told me this client was "externalizing" and upset because of his divorce. But the client was actually schizophrenic and actively psychotic, but the clinician believed he was "faking" his delusions "to mess with" him. One clinician stopped seeing a client because the client didn't bathe, even though the client was seeing them for depression for which one of the symptoms was not being able to take care of themselves.

Therapists are deeply self righteous individuals and most of them are crap. People usually see 3-4 therapists before they find one they connect with well and feel cared for by. Therapy can be very helpful to you if you are lucky or if you have the time to shop Post too long. Click here to view the full text.
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Anonymous 120722

>>120716
Good post but it's ne'er do-well shysters

Anonymous 120723

>>120688
The hint is right in the name.
THE-RAPIST.
If you wanna get gaslighted into destroying your own relationships they're perfect.

Anonymous 120724

Got forced to do therapy as a teen, I actually went into it with an open mind but it was such a complete joke it permanently turned me off therapy as a concept.

Anonymous 120753

>>120688
The real cancer are psychiatrists. Wastes of lard the lot of them. they don't communicate. And they're not real medical practitioners. They hear a list of symptoms. they cluster them together and try to categorize, and then they prescribe 10migs of blowuplikeafuckingballoon-titis. And then they don't waste 20 minutes on your case, even though you're shelling out a kidney's worth to be in their presense. And they continuously gaslight you into thinking the diabetes in a pill you're taking to manage the mental midgetry does NOT have any side effects.

Anonymous 120760

>>120753
>They hear a list of symptoms. they cluster them together and try to categorize, and then they prescribe 10migs of blowuplikeafuckingballoon-titis.

Um, that's how medicine works. Not just psychiatry



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Anonymous 120541[Reply]

Would anyone miss you if you died tomorrow?
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Anonymous 120707

My cats. One of them is super finicky and aggressive at times so I think if I died he would probably too. When I adopted him the shelter nearly discouraged it. I can't even imagine him going back as an older cat.

Anonymous 120709

>>120703
Why were you in a coma, nona? Are you okay now?

Anonymous 120721

>>120709
It’s very embarrassing, but I tried to kill myself with pills. I’m doing much better now, thank you for the concern :)

Anonymous 120748

>>120721
(I’m not anon120709 but) My condolences, I’m glad you’re doing better ^^ I’ve had something similar happen to me. Even though it’s been a long time since then it really has made me question if my “close ones” would really miss or be affected by my passing, especially my friends. I would like to think at least my mother and my pets would care :)

Anonymous 120751

nope



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