Anonymous 127510[Reply]
Hi nonas
I really need help
I really like this guy and he really likes me, we spend all of our time together to a downright obsessive degree, and ive never really experienced something like this because i was not very appealing to boys growing up. But now, Im having trouble going forward with him
He is still hung up kn a girl he dated a year and a half ago. Usually this would immediately turn one away from pursuing anything, but he is so tied to my hip that i dont doubt his affections for me. But he does say things that worry me, I fear I cant shape up to this girl that he had a really thrilling romance with, everytime he mentions her I feel like he misses her more and more. He mentions how nice she was to him, and how well they understood eachother, and it is so affectionate. I am so sad, these days, I cry a lot, but he also freaks out if he feels like I’m upset with him or just disappointed with him, I dont doubt he loves me, but i dont think he will ever love me as much as he loves this other girl. I am really autistic and i have troublr understanding other people on a degree like that. They havent spoken in a year but its still like this.
I feel so stupid and dumb and immature, i feel like a failure of a woman, im 22 and I’ve never had a boyfriend, so this is my first time experiencing soemthing like this. Am I desperate? what should I do?
9 posts and 3 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.Anonymous 127561
>>127549i would never want to be the girl someone loses their virginity to. my fiancé lost his by threatening to break up with his girlfriend. they broke up shortly after. he just wanted to have sex and said she was withholding it from him. thankfully she left him.
Anonymous 127610
>>127561>Yeah, I love used goods sluts Anonymous 127611
>>127561Wait, you're engaged to this asshole? Sounds like you may have some screws loosed.
Anonymous 131583
>>127533Fuck. I was with a boy just like on the left. Oh my god, i miss him and I fucked up. My heart aches looking at this and it's so stupid.
Anonymous 131646
be egocentric.
Egocentric women always win. When men say women are egocentric they are right, women need to be egocentric to be happy. Else they will never be happy and find happiness.
Being egocentric, in the best amount. Being a narcissy in the way of having basic respect for yourself, and sacrifice a random man if he does not fit your ideal image of a man.
Treat men how they treat you.