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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 131802

>>131801
What's so hard to understand? Are you retarded? I already know enough about body typology systems the problem is my body is exceptional so they don't apply to me. I need someone who is good at it to give me proper feedback

Anonymous 131803

maybe i should post myself in my undies also

Anonymous 131804

>>131803
>>131802
You literally just want attention

Anonymous 131805

>>131802
If you're unironi, have you tried looking at celebrities with similar body shapes to yours? If I understand correctly Cameron Diaz has a similar one.
>>131804
yup

Anonymous 131806

>>131805
She is tall and I have thicker bones


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are women meaner or nicer when you look good? Anonymous 131767[Reply]

Since I've moved to a big city I've had this problem where I'll be minding my business in a grocery store and some crackhead middleaged woman will try and start a fight with me. It happens a few times a year. I never instigate, I always keep to myself and stay far away from people. They'll throw insults usually, but last week a woman tried hitting me with her cart.

I always look like a bum when I go grocery shopping. My friend suggested I dress up when I shop so that these women will feel inferior and leave me the fuck alone. Does that work? I thought they'd get jealous and the opposite would happen.

Idk. Let me know what you guys have experienced.
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Anonymous 131784

Nothing in your examples suggests these women are comparing themselves to you. If anything, it sounds like you’re the one who is preoccupied with looks and social comparison and projecting that onto random strangers.

Anonymous 131789

>>131768
I'm trying to schizo max, any tips?

Anonymous 131791

>>131789
be unkempt, spaced out, behave and dress oddly, doing crack would generally help too i think

Anonymous 131793

>>131778
Yes. /thread

Anonymous 131794

>>131793
No


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there’s always another girl Anonymous 131762[Reply]

i don’t know why men can never just be satisfied with one girl. they always want something more from other girls in one way or another. one girl will never be enough for them. it doesn’t even matter how devoted and loving you are. in my experience that makes them want to do this sort of thing even more. without fail they always do this to me. this man has done this to me with multiple girls. my heart is broken. i am so devastated.

Anonymous 131763

>>131762
I'm sorry to hear someone has broken your heart. Unfortunately the kind of person who will be loyal and trustworthy in a relationship might not be as interesting or fun as the person who might cheat. It's really important to think about the kind of person you're dealing with when choosing a partner. You don't want to overanalyze every little thing they do but you should absolutely be paying attention if they say they're still close with their ex or if they're a person who has a tendency to do drastic spontaneous things. At the end of the day, love is ultimately a gamble and as any gambler will tell you, sometimes you're just going to lose. Keep your head up there are billions other fish in the sea.

Anonymous 131764

I hear a lot of ice cream helps and throw his clothes into the street

Anonymous 131765

i’m sorry nona :( men suck. take the advice sylvia could never follow through with herself.

Anonymous 131766

>>131763
I know what you are.

Anonymous 131792

Typical moid behavior.


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bf clothes smell like ferret Anonymous 131785[Reply]

i love my boyfriend desu
but clothes that hang up in his room smell like ammonia-y ferret droppings. not musky, like cat pee if it was even worse, and without actually coming in contact with the pee. he has to wash his clothes when he comes over. when i go over i have to keep my clothes shut in my zipped suitcase. my dumb ass just hasn't told him that i know the source of it
we're ldr and idk how to broach the topic that it is gonna be me or the ferrets if he wants me to move in with him. i have migraines and my ocd already makes me think i'm stinky
also it's bad for animal welfare i think
wtf i do
(i already am bitey when he doesnt do stuff to my standard in my home, he just says ok and does it tho)

Anonymous 131787

build a decontamination chamber in your house

Anonymous 131788

>>131787
do not worry
there will be no house if this is not dealt with somehow


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bf didn’t follow the three month rule Anonymous 127558[Reply]

i was proposed to but there are a lot of red flags and i’m really having some doubts. for starters it was an impulse proposal and i wouldn’t have wanted my engagement photos where i was dressed the way i was. he let me leave the house looking like absolute shit and only posted the ugliest photo. the other photos i don’t have a double chin. other girls have best friends that take them to do nails and secretly get them ready. a female friend was there and knew and didn’t do anything to help me with my appearance beforehand. he bought the rings there. i don’t know if he thinks i’m fat but my ring is sized so poorly i can’t wear it and we’ve been turned down so far at the shops we’ve taken the rings to because they don’t work with cheap metal or rings they didn’t sell there. like it’s not a size too big it’s dangling off my finger and i have no idea why he thought my finger would be so huge it makes me want to cry. my friends are all furious for me. he doesn’t make that much money it’s true but he could have gotten me a real ring. and then i came home. and i found out his ex got proposed to the same day. the same. day. and she had been aware of it and had a spa day with her friends and a gorgeous engagement shoot and party with loved ones. and it’s not even her real engagement party. hes talking about whether or not i think she’ll send him the announcement “to rub it in”. they have mutual friends and i can’t help wonder if my engagement was a last minute response to her engagement so he could post ours first? she had a professional photographer and mailed out announcements before she posted online about it. my engagement photo shoot was also an impulse - we were on a walk with a friend and he snapped some pictures and we called it an engagement shoot. my ex had been talking about his exes prissy snobby etc engagement and i think our friend felt bad for me. since then, he’s disappeared inside himself. he’s on the computer all day. he wouldn’t even pay attention to me right after at my dads birthday party, just sat in a lawn chair in his stupid yellow shirt drinking beer after beer scrolling on his phone occasionally hiding his phone screen trying not to make eye contact with me. we had a talk about it and i said i wasn’t insecure and my friends have been supportive and game with me when he won’t. he got jealous and has been making an effort to join in now and NOW he has a problem with screen time and wants to go out. to places he used to go with his ex or placePost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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Anonymous 127773

>>127769
after a certain point of having so little in my relationship to talk about i started making content about how we eat different foods from each other even though we both have ARFID because there was literally nothing else in our relationship to make content about, including both of us gaming but none of that ending up as usable content because of his personality. maybe i deserve an affair where it feels like there’s blood in my veins again. the sitting around watching a man unable to eat vegetables rotate through the same five junk food meals that make his cum taste like battery acid has me thinking maybe there is more to life than meal prepping for a 30 year old toddler and watching him fart and disassociate staring at a screen.

Anonymous 127942

>>127773
What the fuck do you mean an affair. Run away ASAP nona, nothing will fix him. It will only get worse, get out before it's too late.

Anonymous 130648

HERE LIES NONA
???? - 2026
she died as she lived; in a relationship with an awful man

Anonymous 131598

>>127773
Nona what the fuck what is making you stay with him

Make a book and monetize or something because I rarely see people actually experiencing this crazy stuff, you know? I actually think, that if you made a book you would sell it asap. Really fast, like Colleen Hoover but you are writing something real.

I actually desire you the best for your future writer career.

Anonymous 131779

when I read shit like this I can only wonder how the hell did you end up with a guy like this in the first place


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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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>>131755
Fuck what the boss thinks. You've only been there a month. Most new hires are trash at their jobs for like 6 months to a year, and that's even if you really care about doing a good job. I know this from experience.You will get better at it.

At least consider staying a year or so to get experience, network, and if you really hate it, make an exit strategy.

Anonymous 131758

>>131752
>vent over failing to buy stock in vent thread
>get accused to be against buying said stock
Sadly all the money in the world can't get you reading comprehension.

Anonymous 131759

>>131755

what about project management? or social related jobs like human resources? I saw a reddit post with the same issue

Other idea is that you apply for something completely different (cooking, baking, cleaning bathrooms) and experiment with jobs

Since we are all nonas and there are no trannys here (I assume) I recommend you to be careufl about men if you will go to jobs related to cleaning, cooking for example there are some people who cook for you for a week. It costs a lot, they earn an awful bunch from just cooking for people who can afford it and pay a good bunch. I recommend you to see what you can explore right now, what are your abilities, a foda can be good.

Else, then you could stuck with your job and have a hobby to relax that is different. I recommend you to act fast since the earlier you act upon those desires the easier it will be to act upon them. If you wait you might wait for too long and you might just get used to it or be too tired.

Anonymous 131760

my family just compared me to an ugly girl and it's making me genuinely want to kms. i know this is an ugly feeling and beauty is subjective etc etc i truly wouldn't care if someone told me "this girl is prettier than you" but if i woke up and saw her in my mirror i'd want to tear my skin off i can't help it. i wonder if really look like this and i'm just delusional. she looked so fat too, why tf am i starving all day if i'm going to be told i look like a chubby girl. they specifically pointed out her arms as similar to mine. oh? her huge fat arms spilling out to the side???
genuinely kill me

Anonymous 131761

>>131760
No I think it's better if you keep living. Yeah that sounds good to me let's do that


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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 131581

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I rejoined “society” and I started noticing something that hasn’t been here before.

I stopped constantly comparing people to each other. I don’t create mental hierarchies where someone is inferior or superior. I don’t evaluate them by asking “how good would being friends with them make me look?”.

I think I started seeing people as ends unto themselves. It is a strange feeling, as if I am a parent that doesn’t have a favorite child - they’re all just… valuable by themselves.

Somehow this feels very liberating. Weird, huh?

Anonymous 131679

I feel like I'm gradually becoming what I imagined normalfags were like.

Anonymous 131726

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If there's one thing that lowkey sucks about relationships (and having a family in general) it's the fact that you have an obligation to act with some sense of self-preservation, and to not be so insane, retarded and antisocial publically. I mean, as long as you want a good relationship.

Anonymous 131743

My partner seems kinda depressed or low self-esteemy and I don't know what to do.

Anonymous 131749

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You will die. All the experience you got, all that you have built will go for naught, unless… You create the successors for it.

People have always made fun of those who want to leave a "legacy". It's always, a legacy of what? Hardly any property or assets to your name, which isn't even any lordly name or anything.

Well… If I'd die today without a legacy, it as if I have never existed at all. I am not famous, nor have I achieved anything of significance. My parents would've effectively spent all these resources on me for nothing. You've been surviving for nothing, and nothing of you will remain. This is a terrifying fate that awaits most of us faceless people… unless we leave a living and breathing successor, a new mirror of oneself.

Maybe that is why people keep having children even when the world seems hopeless. Not because they are blind to suffering, but because they are refusing to let the story end with them. Likewise, this is why being a part of a community is worth more than just practicality - you are a part of something greater, and you serve it, and it will supercede you.
Hell, I was just watching those zombie survival shows recently, and I felt as if there's not point in surviving unless you pass down all the fruits of your effort to someone.

I remember how I used to sometimes imagine what it'd be like if I died in a sudden, unexpected fashion. What would people who knew me feel? That was a time when I was very sad and needed something to make me feel significant. Like I was looking for potential proof of my existence. But really, that a memory is such a transient proof compared to succession… That's what I was kinda thinking there… I don't know. Thinking of death, thinking that I could die next year, tomorrow, just makes my head move all kinds of priorities around.


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NEETs what do you do all day? Anonymous 125667[Reply]

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.
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Anonymous 131211

yoga, read, cook, clean, workout, overwatch.

Anonymous 131268

a large chunk of my day is just wasting away, suffering from painkiller resistant chronic pain and fatigue and they still call me lazy

Anonymous 131277

>>131268
Have you tried not being in pain? /s

Anonymous 131558

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I’m living a good life as a NEET right now and I’m pretty productive in my daily life. But seeing other women actually having pretty impressive jobs makes me feel like I need to prove I’m just as good as them. I don’t want to be the less accomplished one in the room, you know? A career isn’t necessary for that but the fact that I sucked at my jobs makes me feel insecure.

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>>130256
After like a month I notice I probably do much better when I dedicate all my time to one project at a time. My mind is just naturally way too dedicated and tunnel vision. I am not sure if that's a good thing or a bad one. But I get some stuff done.


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i hate living Anonymous 131053[Reply]

>wake up
>get dressed
>go to work
>deal with male co workers harassing me for 7 hours
>go home
>shower
>wash clothes
>brush teeth
>sleep
again and again and again and again and again and again
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Anonymous 131074

>>131070
I mean I don’t really know what else you want me to say. I work in an office for a company and spend my day sorting through emails and replying to stuff.

Anonymous 131076

>>131075
Lol the CIA definitely has you on some list somewhere next to the Unabomber

Anonymous 131220

>>131057
Extremely male post but good if true

Anonymous 131346

>>131053
Nona your job sounds like it sucks ass. Have you considered getting a new one?

Anonymous 131746

>>131053
You gotta gross them out by acting like they do.
Lie about how many guys you fucked during the weekend or how you are a homewrecker.
They only get a rise out of taking advantage of perceived innocence and your socially passive/weaker position.


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