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Fuck it. I'm going to do it. I'm going to quit DBT. I am so sick of being blamed for my reactions to people doing despicable things to me.

DBT is just gaslighting you into accepting abuse at the hands of others. Nothing more. That's it.

My coworker treats me like a literal fucking child when I crash out and tell him to stop abusing the interns who are too afraid to tell him no. He makes them do very dangerous and illegal things that end up with them actually poisoned with immediate and long term health effects, and then blames them for not taking precautions when I finally reported him. And when I finally call him out when he tries manipulating the intern again, he quickly turns it around and asks the autistic intern if what I said was true; and the autistic fucktard starts apologizing because he's afraid of losing his job! A thing I pointed out!

My therapist told me that our last session was the first session where I was open enough to cry in front of her. But I've cried in front of her many times. She flat out said that I was faking crying before! I don't fucking fake that shit, what the fuck?!

People act like there is something wrong with me for being upset at their shitty treatment of me and their behaviors. They act like I am broken when I break down crying.

Fuck that bitch, I am going to push back at group and be the fucking problem for fucking once. Fuck her.

At least I'm not paying for the sessions, it's all government money. Fuck them too.

my current bf of a few weeks posted on reddit a while ago an admission to cocsa. there were frequent encounters, mainly against his little sister that’s over four years younger than him from toddler aged to unclear when it stopped. probably around middle school. he would also touch and show his little cousins things like porn and sex toys too. sometimes all in a group. he was the oldest by far. he told me it was funny and not a big deal. he also had a bpd ex accuse him of misconduct and dated underaged girls as an adult, but not a huge age gap and he stopped when he was 22. he doesn’t seem to think any of this is a big deal and says the people angry at him lack nuance. what should i be feeling?

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How do i stop thinking about him, its been like 3 months now and the last thing he told me was to leave him alone. When he was distant and pulling away i kept getting closer and closer and it probably pushed him off and annoyed him. He said that he mentally checked out a long time ago and when he called me on the phone that we are over it felt like my whole world is going down, i was legit getting panic attacks at night and i lost my appetite and im too afraid to text him since i dont want to know if he blocked me. I just want him back. We were together for 8 months and around the 1-3 months it was good and it kind of drizzled down around 4-5 month were he has this hot and cold behaviour. For example 1-2 days he is warm and approaching and next 1-2 days he is cold and distant and this attitude alternates. Everytime he pulls away and acts cold and distant i kept asking him whats wrong and he kept responding that hes alright, hes okay and nothing is bothering him. Like how would i know there is an underlying issue if he conceals the problem by refusing to talk to me. Just the idea of him being with another girl and being intimate and having sex kills me in the inside. I just work it out and fix it. I need help. This hurts so much.

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What's your dream bf like?

for me:
>16-66 years old
>in severe debt
>incel, never had sex
>bald
>173cm tall exactly
>widely considered to be a schizo
>has a number of congenital diseases
>has brain damage
>no friends
>might be missing a finger or two
>speaks Mongolian

Not even a wish could fix me. I have been depressed since I was a kid, and at first the reasons for the depression were pretty concrete and specific (body and family issues mostly). Yet now I cannot even tell you why I am depressed anymore. Even in the wonderland in my head where all my problems are gone I am still depressed. The apathy has shaped me so profoundly that I cannot imagine a version of me without it. I can only hope that this stay at earth wont be particularly long and that the next try will be better.

i got physically abused when i was in middle school and i had noticed i was like ‘weird’ after. had a freakout the other day bc some dog scared me and it like finally clicked so i went to the doctor. i feel a lot better knowing that im not just a shitty person but like what the fuck now??? i just feel like im quantifiably damaged. anybody have like any advice on what route i should take? like support groups or medication? thanks :p

hello, i wanted to make a post on here asking anyone’s experience talking to a doctor about their self harm.. im 20 and wanting to look for treatment and i bite myself extremely hard and have been for months. i just am scared and feeling anxious it will mess things up for me in the future, are there any nonas that can give advice to a super anxious girl please