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what is wrong with me am i normal Anonymous 132022[Reply]

ive been with this guy for 6 months now and i’ve never felt so fucking horrible in my entire life because of him. we were dating but then he ghosted me for 5 days because i hung up a call to talk to my friend real quick. i was literally gonna call him back and that call only last 10 minutes. after that everything went to shit. he was saying he didn’t love me anymore out of no where. i felt like i got stabbed in my heart 5000 times. i begged him not to leave, bawling my fucking eyes out on call. and he did. so now we’ve been talking and flirting but to him we’re not official, to him we’re “just friends” despite how fucking much he flirts with me. the love he gives me doesn’t even feel real now. also i don’t know how to time all of this, its a lot, i’m sorry. but also i think i may have bpd or something i don’t know. it’s like all the littlest things he does makes me feel like shit and then i bawl my eyes out and start cutting myself. whenever he doesn’t wanna call i do that. or when he slightly sounds like he thinks another girl is attractive or something even though he’s not directly saying that. but also he views women in a very object way. because of that i cant really see men the same either. he’s told me whenever he saw a girl that he thought that was hot, talked about the porn he watched. i felt horrible. i loved him so much i didnt even think of any other guys i just thought, “wow this guy is so fucking ugly and boring my boyfriend is so much better” whenever i saw other guys. and he doesn’t even feel that way back. and when i told him about how i felt about it he just brushed it off saying it wasnt a big deal saying all men do that. but anyway, me and him just got into an argument because he promised me to call but he said he didn’t want to and i started crying and cutting myself. he didn’t even comfort me. he never comforts me. i feel like if he did i wouldnt even care that he didn’t wanna call. but its the fact that it’s like wow he just doesn’t give a shit about me. i just blocked him. please tell me am i fucking crazy? am i overreacting? i’m also partially asking this because he thinks i’m crazy.

Anonymous 132023

Please stop harming yourself. If this relationship is causing you anguish, it's best you end it. I know it'll be hard at first but you'll agree it was for the best in the long run

Anonymous 132025

>>132023
it’s hard to when i love him so much

Anonymous 132027

>>132025
Is it love or merely infatuation? If he treats you so poorly, what is it you love about him?

Anonymous 132028

>>132027
i guess i’m in love with the old him. i’m keep thinking he’ll go back someday. he used to treat me so good

Anonymous 132029

>>132028
Sometimes people change. The ideas they're absorbing, the experiences they live through, etc. It can all change how someone perceives the world and how they behave. If speaking with him doesn't help, it'll be very difficult to see eye to eye



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Has anyone else given up completely on their life? Anonymous 131845[Reply]

I work a dead end job, no higher education, I'm not saving for retirement, no real plans for the future unless you count Pinterest boards for the future lul, I have health issues I refuse to address, etc. I don't know, I'm just tired of hearing about self improvement everywhere. I genuinely don't care and would be happy just decaying on my desk chair while scrolling on the webs all day. Anyone else like this?
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Anonymous 132008

Wow another female depressed because she's larping as a man in life. What a surprise.

Anonymous 132014

>>132008
theory of mind nowhere to be seen

Anonymous 132016

>>132014
Consider acting like a female for the first time in your life.

Anonymous 132020

>>132016
pray tell, what would you know about "acting female" scrotum, i want an example

Anonymous 132026

>>132020
I'm not telling yet another female for the millionth time how they should live their life, because you should already know what you should do. But instead you insist on pretending to be a man with a job



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need advice Anonymous 132010[Reply]

I'm aware of how retarded I am being but I am deeply in love with a fictional character. From the moment I wake up I am thinking of him to the time I go to sleep. It makes me want to cry since he's not real and would never be able to hold me or speak to me. I am thinking of getting a body pillow or sexo doll modeled after him but I am scared even then that won't be enough. Any Anons struggle with this? I need advice on how to deal with love for fictional husbandos.. Underneath my skin feels itchy when I think of him and my head starts hurting. It hurts physically. I love him so dearly.. I feel so crazy I am literally planning on modeling a sexo doll after him and staging a wedding in the middle of the woods with him.
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Anonymous 132015

it can't be, surely

Anonymous 132017

Based

Anonymous 132018

>>132010
if you feel this way about medic honestly i can't blame you

Anonymous 132019

>>132018
he looks like a monkey, you can't be serious

Anonymous 132024

>>132010
It’s alright nona. I feel the same way about sniper.



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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 132003

>>132001
It's true. I broke up with my ex after I measured her skull shape while she was sleeping and found out her head was one centimeter too wide. Instant turn off and now I hate her

This is how you sound.

Anonymous 132005

>>132003
Your posts will never be funny, indian

Anonymous 132006

>>132005
I'm not Indian but okay.

Anonymous 132021

>>132001
are you sure it's your skull making you unlovable



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Anonymous 130074[Reply]

I am a schizoid woman. I spend most of my time thinking about nebulous stuff in my head and doing solitary activities such as diy stuff, tinkering with computers, trying to make various stuff and all. I do not enjoy talking to other people unless they’re invested in my interests. Usually if I speak with someone I just wait for the conversation to end and for them to go away. I have little clue as to why other people are entertained by what they are. I prefer interactions where I don’t need to adapt to the other persons sense of normal. That’s why I dislike groups and often end up antagonistic towards them unless I have a big presence. I don’t have strong attachments.

That is just who I am.
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Also this
>As long as you don't break any of the rules, you're good to go.
Turned out to be a lie, kek

At least these days

Anonymous 131159

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Think making one of those animation channels about my lyfe would be pretty epic like Jaiden

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>>130441
>I started simply getting everything I didn't get before, it's like emotions were a sense no less than smell, taste or vision. I don't know how to describe it, things suddenly started making sense.
Found this pic while purging my downloads folder and it made me think of this
Big if true

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Humans are beasts of narrative. This sentence alone can explain so much. Humans can't be expected to be the consistently rational agent in economics or politics. Nowadays, we try to reject irrationality a lot, like religion or astrology. You can fedora tip all you want but these things aren't pure delusion - they're covering some sort of immaterial need that humans have.

I spoke earlier how lacking emotions made me duller >>130441 , almost as if I couldn't see the full picture of whatever's going on. I also now remember realizing that I had no internal self-narrative. I believe this is why most people failed to read me or found me creepy. I didn't see myself much beyond a body that is capable in some ways and incapable in others.
Most people around me had some idea about themselves they tried reinforcing. Oh, that one is trying to look above it all, that one is always describing herself as narcissistic and a main character, almost as if trying to convince herself. Maybe this is why my true self never really felt seen by those mostly narrative driven individuals.

Apparently from what I found science confirms some of my ideas.
https://academic.oup.com/scan/article/12/1/1/2823712?login=false - The theory of constructed emotion: an active inference account of interoception and categorization by Lisa Feldman Barrett
>In other words, an instance of emotion is constructed the same way that all other perceptions are constructed, using the same well-validated neuroanatomical principles for information flow within the brain

https://www.nature.com/articles/nrn894 and https://arxiv.org/abs/2112.12290 - on Interoception.
>Recent functional anatomical work has detailed an afferent neural system in primates and in humans that represents all aspects of the physiological condition of the physical body. This system constitutes a representation of 'the material me', and might provide a foundation for subjective feelings, emotion and self-awareness.

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Anonymous 132012

>>130077
>A lot of games have unnecessarily expensive graphics because the corporate demands that

a lost art in video games is allowing the audience to fill in the gaps with their own imagination. I think squaresoft perfected this in the late 90s before the PS2 ruined everything.



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Why are moids so fucking retarded Anonymous 131985[Reply]

Is it because of porn addiction?
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Anonymous 131995

>>131994
Spoken like a true moid. Like a filthy moid. Disgusting moid can’t get its mind out of the gutter as expected. Visualizing me masturbating in vivid detail probably. Actual subhuman monkey behavior you don’t even know what I look like all you want to do is fuck without any regard for what you’re even fucking.

Anonymous 131996

>>131995
Just cum already this is silly

Anonymous 131997

>>131993
>nature needs to patch them out already
This is already happening to an extent. Coomers and gooners aren't breeding, so their degenerate genes aren't passed on.

Anonymous 131998

>>131997
This will only fully work if you make the sex as unpleasant for them as humanly possible, otherwise the coomerism will reawaken in their offspring even if your mate is only attracted to you

Anonymous 131999

>>131998
they cant have sex because they cant stay hard during it. self-fixing problem



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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if my laptop screen ever falls off I'll just buy a monitor and connect it via the hdmi cable or something. I got a bunch of ports in the back. yeah, that's a good plan

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I have noticed people on this site tend to interpret my statements very creatively. You know who you are (probably)

Anonymous 131982

>>131981
What did they mean by this?

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Anonymous 131984

>>131983
y-you're scaring me



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Anonymous 130433[Reply]

I broke up with my boyfriend today. It feels like the right decision, he works too much so he isn't available a lot, but i feel upset that all my plans are gone. i wanted to move in with him and get married. get a cat and live comfortably with the love of my life, it all feels quite bittersweet. and now i have to spend a considerable amount of time scrubbing him from my life. deleting all the photos of him, taking off my necklaces with his initial, removing our playlist we made together and all the lovey dovey nicknames i gave to him on various apps, it's a lot of work. and the worst part is it is exam season which is why i was hesitant with breaking up with him, i know it will distract me majorly from it all.

Anonymous 130435

>>130433
its okay nona, it feels bittersweet because it freshly happened. try to focus on your education for now, it will be important for your future.

Anonymous 131977

I guess you can break up with someone for any reason, but breaking up with him for simply being busy is retarded. Focusing on exams and studies sounds right though

Anonymous 131979

>>130433
He should fuck black men

Anonymous 131980

yea, breaking up with someone you love makes sense, especially if they are busy. you meet the love of ur life a thousands of times but you only have one education in ur life so make the most of the latter



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 131971

I saw that. Thank you.

Anonymous 131972

>>131969
i did, i find them worth replying to. i sometimes report & sometimes don't. if you want them deleted, i did report these ones since they come across as unpolished & ugly. i am curious about all the anime girls in the picrel of >>131959 though. do you know their names?

Anonymous 131973

>>131971
sorry, i replied to the wrong post so redid it

Anonymous 131974

>>131972
Top left - Bernkastel, Umineko
Top middle - Sumika, Muv Luv
Top right - Hikaru, Muramasa
Middle left - Alice, Black Souls
Middle - Junko, Danganronpa
Middle right - Mephistopheles, Crystar (highly recommend it is very feminist)
Bottom left - Saya, Saya no Uta
Bottom middle - Yuuka, Touhou
Bottom right - Yuka, Gore Screaming Show

Anonymous 131976

>>131974
thank-you



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