the NEET life chose me Anonymous 128860[Reply]
I'm jobless,and uneducated.I'm held back.
I lack in-person adult school. My attempts at net school and mail courses failed due to them emulating the lack of support,and proper education I recieved. Brick and mortar adult school is necessary because it provides community. Not to mention, I'm exhausted from self-teaching without guidance or feedback. Relocation to attend an adult-school is necessary.
I live online. I lack solo-hobbies, such as reading physical books, or embroidery,as doing anything my family does not approve of feels risky.There is lots of activites I want to participant in, but my family holds me back.When I go outside, I am accused of doing something weird. Hence, to avoid conflict, I stay in my room. Given they do not participate in casual sports,or volunteering,doing so would make me ostracized.
I'm unemployed.I'm a caregiver. My sibling has an illness, and my parent is scared for them to be alone. Hence, I cannot work. I am also in the process of geting my ID. My parent lacks consistent hours, so working around their schedule would be challenging.
I love my family. But this is unfair. I'm unable to pursue a social life, and work towards my career goals. I feel an obligation them. I do not have in me to go out and do the activities I want to anyway, ignoring them. I do not want to come home to accusations,and be yelled at for defying them. I expressed my concerns to them, and they claimed I have everything I want. That is false:I want a job, and an offline life. I want independance. I'm ashamed of being a NEET.
Anonymous 128868
>>128860I am neet and I relate to all of this too. I truly believe that some of us are ment to be neet and unemployed forever because that's what life chose for us. it isn't a choice. Maybe you can try faking being a retard so you can get neetbux from the government
Anonymous 128876
You have to do everything in your power not to be held back by your family. It doesn't mean you don't care about them, it just means you are exercising your right to make yourself happy. It's not your job to give up your life for your siblings illness.
>doing anything my family does not approve of feels riskyThey're not showing up for you as you are for them. You already recognize that that's not right. You're in the right to leave. Leave and never look back… get a wagie job, learn how to drive, get certified in something so that you dont have to rely on your family to provide for you….
Ngl, what
>>128868 said is valid too. If you can manage it, go for it. It'll only be a temporary fix, cause ssi/ssd doesn't cover rent, but it'll help with getting your own money at least??