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Commie moids Anonymous 128878[Reply]

Is it a good idea to date a hardcore commie moid? [Sorry for bad English it's my second language]
>met him at a book fair with other friends
>he was in a booth encouraging people to read commie books and even gave digital copies to some
>I'm 23 he is 21
>he is studying medicine and im studying engineering
>we kinda flirted and I have a date with him on Sunday
Is it a red flag for a moid to be a commie? [Pun intended]
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Anonymous 128927

>>128925
Damn, then i got nothing.

Anonymous 128935

>>128916
only selfish people say it in england too. nobody said america.

Anonymous 128937

>>128935
You can barely speak english, how would you know.

Anonymous 128939

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>So im back from the date
had a great time and learned a lot about him
FYI I like asking about his prior gfs just to weed out red flags
>Pros
>He is kind
>He is attentive
>He is really smart
>he isn't condescending (most smart moids are unbearable)
>I really enjoyed our conversation
>Surprisingly he has a part-time job
>he paid for the date
>told me about his exes when I asked he has had 3 (the first he ended on bad terms, the other two ended on good terms but he maintains zero contact) I like that
CONS
>he confessed to me his prior relationships failed because he is always busy and had very few dates with his past gfs
>didn't talk about his family
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Anonymous 128944

>>128939
>Would it be crazy if I talked to his ex?
Not at all! Men love when their potential lover trusts a stranger over them, especially if that stranger is someone with whom they had a falling out and you can always depend on an ex to deliver reliable information about a person with whom they were/are emotionally invested in, because women are known for not being resentful and manipulative. Generally there is nothing wrong with talking behind someone's back.
Best of luck, you gonna need it, because you're both retarded.


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My boyfriend has ignored me all valentines day Anonymous 128893[Reply]

I even texted him happy valentines day and he didn't even say it back. He only said he couldn't do anything for me and he felt bad.
He just went out with his friends to drink and I feel lonely and sad.
He told me we couldn't meet today because he had to study, I don't know how to tell him how bad I feel so instead I'm drinking cheap whiskey and watching Gilmore Girls
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Anonymous 128897

FUCKING
DUMP
HIM
NOW

Anonymous 128924

>>128893
He probably just wanted to spend Valentine's Day with one of his actual girlfriends, not a side piece like you.

Anonymous 128928

>>128893
Are you guys LDR or do you guys live close to one another? If it's an LDR relationship it may be understandable why he could have been busy that day, but if you guys live close he has no excuse.

Anonymous 128936

free yourself of that moid retard he clearly doesnt love you im so sorry nona but dont keep hurting urself by being with him

Anonymous 128942

>>128896
I know, but he's a really good boyfriend in other ways, I don't know what happened. Tbf I tried to make it seem like I don't think valentines day is a big deal when I do, plus we live 3 hours away from each other. I wish I could be more upfront
>>128928
I guess? Or medium distance more like


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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 128933

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How do you even get a bf? I am 26 and I've never had any sort of relationship although I've been on a few first dates before. I don't want to use a dating app because they seem scary, I don't have nice photos of myself (I'm scared of being photographed) and I don't want to suffer the jaded moids that would be using them.
What do I do? I've got a fairly normal life otherwise, I appear functional in terms of employment and stuff. Boys don't approach me unless they are really really old.

Anonymous 128934

>>128933
from what i can tell, you don't.
dating apps are capitalist scams, ignore them

Anonymous 128938

>>128932
lol
>>128933
>I appear functional in terms of employment
That isn't helpful, you got to trigger a man's instinct to protect and provide.

Anonymous 128940

I left a stressful job back in February 2025 & have been unemployed since. Tbh, I barely applied to jobs until right after new years. The thought of going back to a stressful job filled me wit so much dread. I am 29 years old, I drained all my savings, this is not where I thought I would be in life. I do not want to back to the corporate rat race, but I also cannot just lay on my couch, consoom media and eat snacks forever. I have so much regret. Climbing the corporate ladder was not worth it, I am burnt out. This felt cathartic to type out. Anybody else in the same boat?

Anonymous 128941

>>128940

Is it possible with your credentials to get a high paying part time job? That way, you can figure out what to do with your life and pay bills at the same time?


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Anonymous 128905[Reply]

What is love to you? What does it mean to fall in love?

Anonymous 128910

Love is a lie. Love is what you feel when a moid manipulates you right. Heartbreak is what you feel when you find out.

Anonymous 128931

>>128910
very true. And the truest truth of all is realizing that death is preferable to life


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Hypersexual Issues Anonymous 128879[Reply]

I'm unmedicated bipolar and when I'm manic I get really hypersexual, I don't do hookups atm I just make out with people here and there

Men want me for my body and don't emotionally connect with me the way women do

I can't find a partner to have sex with at the moment and I don't want to get into a bad relationship by being desperate

I get clammy around people that I find attractive, I alternate between staring at them and looking away, I get beyond flustered with cute people

I've been downright creepy towards people I've crushed on, both men and women

Do you ever see someone attractive and get carried away?

I feel so guilty about this all

Whenever my mania goes away so does my sex drive, I'm worried that it makes dating me difficult
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Anonymous 128881

>>128879
I should add that I'm 22 and don't have any stds

I've only slept with women, I'm afraid to go the full way with a guy

I identity as bisexual but I'm sexually confused, I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian

I live in a town of sorts so there's not really a local lesbian scene for me to explore

I feel creepy for being attracted to women, the majority of women I've crushed on weren't interested in me at all and I easily obsess

How do I tell which women are lesbians without asking?

Anonymous 128902

sure ya are not of the troon tribe

Anonymous 128903

>>128902
wow women aren't allowed to be horny?

Anonymous 128904

>>128902
People irl think I'm a ftm pretty often

I like dressing in suits and stuff

I have very mixed feelings on trans people, I've had some really bad experiences with trans people

most of them unattractive to me

Anonymous 128922

take your pills yuck


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128880

Jesus, what a faggot…

Anonymous 128883

it’s genuinely obvious and i enjoy it. have fun thinking of me.

Anonymous 128884

>>128880
Really chuckling at the idea of opening the post one day to find a hand written, unsigned letter reading "Jesus, what a faggot…", and nothing else.

Anonymous 128909

Stop spamming your bullshit everywhere, retard.

Anonymous 128920

I love you, I don't want to tell you yet but I knew from the moment I met you, I love you


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pros/cons of your bf Anonymous 105405[Reply]

can we please start a pros/cons list of the bf you are dating.

i am sick of seeing bf brag threads, we need a counterbalance with the crappy things your bf does on top of the good things. can be as little as pet peeves!
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Anonymous 128886

>>>128885
Also I found out he’s autistic (did a little digging) but he never told me. I also think he might have some sort of other mental illness here and there.

Anonymous 128898

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pros:

>helps me with everything I need, I never have to lift a finger if I need information or if I need something done
>he calls me sweet things like sweetheart, baby, etc
>he's beautiful, he has crystal blue eyes and the most beautiful eye shape
>he's okay with me liking childish things like sanrio, LPS, stuff like that
>he has the softest lips, his hugs are so warm and nice and he smells so good
>his kisses are amazing
>he holds hands with me when we're out together
>he lets me talk about my special interests freely
>we could talk for hours everyday and never get bored
>he's super smart and funny and nice
>very nerdy but in a cute sexy way
>looks at my pictures when he's doing stuff to himself
>is okay with my fetishes
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Anonymous 128901

>>128898
Keep him.

Anonymous 128914

>>128898
>>128901
He seems neither unusually good or seriously bad of a boyfriend. Not much to brag about, but not really to complain about either.

Anonymous 128919

>>128901
I was planning to ^_^ he's really sweet


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Anonymous 128849[Reply]

I can’t believe that sex and relationships are a normal part of peoples lives. The older I get the more foreign and farther away those things seem to me. It doesn’t even seem real. For normal people, it seems to just happens to them without resistance. Love, marriage, kissing, fucking, starting a family. It’s so common that they would have a hard time going a few months without it, let alone their whole lives. I wonder what it would feel like to be loved and accepted just for existing. And having things just come naturally for you because of that.
I wonder what being held by a man that’s safe and in love with you feels like. I can’t stop thinking about it

Anonymous 128864

tbh sex/fucking =/= love in 99.999999% of cases and a lot of guys pretend to love you because they know you'll give them access to your body so they can use and discard you and probably cheat on you.

romance media is all BS and if you speak to a lot of women irl they'll tell you that they've had to endure a lot of disrespect and subtle infidelity, while also performing sexual acts they don't want to do in order to keep their partner.

men aren't all they're chalked up to be and i honestly wish i could go back in time to before i dated anyone/was sexually intimate with anyone. don't feel too bad nona

Anonymous 128867

you will have to understand that normies are sociopaths
anywhere from 25-50% of people have ADMITTED to cheating on their partner
the normie libido is sky high
you will have to date autistic christian men to have something like what you want

Anonymous 128871

Same, but I've gotten so used to being by myself that I don't think I'd actually enjoy sharing my space with someone else, maybe if it's for brief periods it might be tolerable

Anonymous 128899

Love isn't real. There's just sex and there's manipulation.

Anonymous 128900

>>128867
autistic men have the same libido as normal, so do Christians and Christians sin more because christ forgives then


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Does anyone have a fear of never finding love? Anonymous 128837[Reply]

It's fine if I never find love or die alone. It's not a fear for me because life is life and I have my books, my cats, and my friends. But sometimes, maybe it's hormones or basic human fears, but I worry that never finding love will prove something about myself, like I am unworthy or a repellent of any sort of love. Around my period these feels worsen as is natural, but sometimes there is a hole in my belly from that fear and I can't let it go and I get anxious. :(

Anonymous 128891

>>128837
Yeah, I also feel this way. The thought of living my whole life without ever experiencing it because it's kind of plastered all over the media, in books, movies, music, even irl people place such importance on it that if you miss out on it you might feel like there's something wrong with you or you're unworthy or something. But honestly I think most people live without ever finding actual love in general. Most relationships seem to be just out of convenience or hierarchies or shallow shit. Or maybe I'm just trying to rationalize it idk. I mean even if you try to be realistic about it it's still a scary feeling. But at the end of the day I feel like most people feel this way deep down. Its a very human feeling I think


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