>>132524
disagreeable*

>>132524
oppositional*

>>132524
Well when you're different sometimes it can be hard to fit in but that just means it takes a little more effort to get people to understand you. You know people like it when you help them. Maybe try helping someone you see who looks like they need help

>>132527
in all honesty I still try to be kind to others, but I genuinely hate humans and that's never going to change.

>>132528
I can't blame you for being angry when you feel you've been wronged but you should remember there is light and kindness in humanity. There is strength in rage but there's even greater strength in hope. I hope one day you come to truly understand what that means

>>132464
What's this dichotomy. I prefer relating to the guys who investigate the murder over those two.

>>132463
I think this is understandable, words have meanings and diluting their meaning reduces their utility and can devalue the associated thing the word exists to describe. I think you can distinguish "interpersonal manipulation," which to me seems to be the prior definition I gave and what your image describes from the rhetorical manipulation the video title uses. The root is the same, in the sense that a person is trying to manipulate context and perception to achieve a desired outcome, but one is diffuse and not targeted whereas the other involves direct interference with the victim by the manipulater. Interpersonal manipulation seems to me to be a more significant, damaging, and reprehensible act whereas manipulative rhetoric, while potentially damaging, is not as "personal" or insidious.

I think there are basically common techniques that can be applied across context, medium, and purpose but it's the social distance between victim and perpetrator that seems to be what I'm pulling at.

I do feel I am contradicting myself, however, because you could argue it's not distance but intent. Someone is projecting by accusing someone of doing something they are doing with the intent to truly confound and sow doubt within the victim, whereas a false accusation may simply be to quiet them. Still, both of these FEEL like the end result is manipulation meant to gain some positional leverage over the victim. Is that not manipulation?

The behaviorists liked using rats not just because they were easy to keep and kept the costs and controversies associated with experiments low, but also because they are presumed to be free of contamination by language.

>>132492
>Someone is projecting by accusing someone of doing something they are doing with the intent to truly confound and sow doubt within the victim, whereas a false accusation may simply be to quiet them. Still, both of these FEEL like the end result is manipulation meant to gain some positional leverage over the victim. Is that not manipulation?

I think those specific examples are because they’re instrumental and deceptive on some level. So I do think any action that is used to deceptively gain leverage is manipulative. But the way the picture positions this is stupid. I mean, the manipulative part here is not the projection. If this was darvo I’d agree.

I'm not a fan of how the economy encourages creating retarded shit to make money like selling ass scratchers, labubu shit, protein bar fad, whatever. I can't even find good examples of this right now because they're all so useless they get phased out of the mind immediately
I'm not anticapitalist or anything like this but it is obnoxious.

Yeah, this is something people always say about ecelebs, I know. But I believe the ecelebs actually do have a use, though unethical, as propagandists or something. But imagine working as the guy who comes up with all those useless trinkets. Oh right, and don't get me started on the shit products that barely work so they're borderline useless. And planned obsolence.

And I know there's the obvious objection "but WHO decides what is useful or not". Yeah, a labubu or a protein bar will be be very useful on an individual level for some, no contest here. But most of this stuff will be gathering dust, occupying space and filling a landfill.
The problem isn't really the usefulness or the lack of it, but rather garbage designed purely for profit rather than utility or something. Money is fake, the economy is fake. Oh right, don't even get me started on the speculative debt reselling jobs or something like that, whatever the Wallstreet guys are doing.

my ex bf killed himself because of me

>>132511
Jesus Christ that's terrible

>>132512

i wanted to leave him and he couldn't live with it. in his letter he wrote he had thoughts of killing me instead

he was my best friend and i miss him everyday regardless. the feeling of regret only gets bigger each day

>>132513
you literally dodged the bullet, celebrate your second birthday and never blame yourself for the violent actions of some retard ever again

Join clubs! I went to the board game club and found friends there.
After 3 years I still talk to 0 people in my classes.

>>132499
Go talk to that guy who had a crush on you. It's easy.

>>132504
My college doesnt offer clubs except for singing and dancing, i dont reallly enjoy any of those :(



>>132506
he's a big time retard and wants to fuck me, i donot like him and i can bear his retarded personality he's all about flexing

>>132504
>board game club
Fuuuuuuck no

>>132499
So you expect me to believe there's some conspiracy to hate on you for no reason? I'm not that gullible. There's something you're not telling us

You probably seem harmless and kind, and that type of thug really likes to hit on women. If you dress better, they might think you have more money and want to ask you for more things; the best thing to do is walk around with a serious face, homeless people and drug addicts like to intimidate people who seem excessively kind.

>>131808
No milf for canadians

>>131772
Nod and walk away.

Update: maybe it hasn't been long enough to make a real observation. But it seems like people are ghetto around me and not toward me lmao. I also got a job. Have had zero crackhead encounters or middle aged women try and fight me. My theory is that I look rich enough to sue them.

>>131767
ladies are nice to me because they can tell that i am kind of autistic by my penetrating brown-eyed gaze and don't feel threatened by me. i also have a baby-face.
in general, i think most people are nicer to you when you look better. in my country i have high trust features (i am pale) so that makes people trust me quickly and be nice to me.
i think you should fight those ladies back. show them how a real schizo fights.

>>132452
I feel like that when i run out of weed too.

you can quit, I promise. it took mea really long time to taper down until I finally stopped but I successfully did and I feel like a different person now.

>>132456
i stopped doing weed a while ago
but i am deeply destroyed on the inside there's no recovery
going to delete myself from the earth server eventually too much shit haunting me

>>132452
I used to feel like this a lot of the time when I was younger. I'm not much older now, but somewhere between 22 and 23 my brain finished developing and I decided that suicide wasn't an option. That made me consider how everything else was possible. I had recently survived a suicide attempt around that time, too. I've also struggled with pill addiction, and I still will do most pills I get my hands on… I can tell you that the pain will stop, and not only when you die, but it can stop now while you are still alive. I tell you this because I was once you. I think I also got some slight brain damage from pills and I don't remember a lot of things. It's not too bad. Is your mom supportive of you?

build a decontamination chamber in your house

>>131787
do not worry
there will be no house if this is not dealt with somehow

If they're not spayed and neutered, then doing so should help a lot. If they already are and they stink that much… they are susceptible to human illnesses; you could try to give them the flu.

>>131785
kill yourself bf haver

Bullied kids are taken seriously. That is why people who bullied you will never straight out admit what they did to you, it may sound obvious yet it's not.

People often expect others to change, to admit their mistakes. See mouthwashing, Jimmy straight out admitted what he did in the end of the game. Yet despite what he did admit, he did it in front of the consequences of his actions despite admitting it when the current thoughts happened through his mind.

What Curly experienced bullying from Jimmy was for the fact he instead of dealing with thoughts of helplessness, was the feelings of lacking more than what he had. Returning to a home, having a wife and kids and not spending his whole life on the jet.

If you think about it again, you are practically expecting them to admit the responsability of their acitons, something women often are not teached about because society expects women to bother about other things depending on where you live. Yet most of the times as I might add as well, women are not expected to fully mature and thus in consequence, they raise improper children most of the times. Or to the contrary, they are expected to be as mature as possible since children to justify abuse and labors against their will, which they might as well use irresponsability as a way to escape those chores.

The best you can do is do the same they did to you, without making it noticeable. I would recommend you to directly overcome it.

Sometimes women are taught to not be responsible because since children we are taught women should not be responsible about the consequences of their actions.

To mature is to be responsible most of the time, it's part of growing up. And it comes with judgement from others about your past all the time. Currently bullying is seen as something not cool, it's popular to defend others. If they do what's popular they will not let others know they remember what they did and even justify it.

Leave things there and if possible make them feel guilt, make them feel irresponsible, learn manipulation if you want.
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>>132442
>join the retards
>take the L
Nice options, reddit.

>>131717
Wym to gain status. You are assuming that. Status is definitely one of those things I don’t care for. I don’t like people glorifying and justifying the behaviors that had been harmful towards me.

>>131718
1) tf is a vector?

2) what happened?

>>131719
In computer security, an attack vector is a specific path, method, or scenario that can be exploited to break into an IT system, thus compromising its security.
In health and disease transmission, a vector is a living organism that carries and transmits an infectious pathogen to another living organism

>>131720

So nona either broke security protocol or transmitted a disease by bullying someone?

Sounds retarded af

Why do you have to keep showing up in my dreams? Not only that, my subconscious humanizes in a way that isn't true to you, setting me up for disappointment again and again.
It's like I miss something that has never existed.