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Anonymous 118787[Reply]

In your own words, what does falling in love feel like to you? How do you know there's a connection, a spark, a vibe?
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Anonymous 118829

It feels more self destructing and dangerous than taking drugs of questionable quality.

Anonymous 119008

>>118829
It is also the most sublime drug known to man. Better than an entire drug cocktail

Anonymous 119057

I knew for sure when I realized I only want to marry and have kids with him.

Anonymous 121955

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It’s a hunger a need for someone. When I love someone I need them for my life to have any meaning

Anonymous 121965

One side bliss, one side worry.
Every moment with him is wonderful. Laughter, passion, pleasure. I can open up and be myself with no facade.

Without him is anxiety. Did I mess something up? Is he okay? He’s depressed, so will he leave me? Did I hurt him? Is he eating? Did he get drunk? Is he okay at work? It tears at my heart.



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Anonymous 121961[Reply]

My dad broke my phone because I said I hated living with my fam. Then he accused me of trying to kill him and my mom for some reason while threatning to light the house on fire if I did not open my room's door. My mother came home and refused to talk to me. I love my life. I will now work more hard for moving out.
Also when the fight "ended" he said why did I not stop him from breaking the phone and that he was sorry for saying anything mean. Um mean does not cover the things you said to me. I'm the same nona that talks about my cheating piece of shit dad. I hope he knows karma is coming for him. People that hurt me know that things never end well for them. I will now go workout.

Anonymous 121962

perhaps you could report him for this? threatening you, damaging your belongings

Anonymous 121964

>>121962
He will just act more aggressive and try to harm my sister and me. He knows people that own guns etc etc.



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one of my friends totally dropped me Anonymous 120770[Reply]

as the title says, one of my friends texted me last friday, and decided that we couldn’t be friends anymore. he said that our friendship was “too intense” and he couldn’t handle it for his mental health. this came out of nowhere, and he hadn’t expressed discomfort any time in the past about our friendship and what we talked about. we’ve only known each other since november but we’ve gotten really close in that time, and tell each other about our mental health, personal, and family struggles. i’m not mad that he did this, if anything im glad he’s prioritizing his mental health. but, it just really fucking sucks that he just,,, decided we can’t be friends anymore. i don’t even know if this is permanent. from the way he spoke, i don’t think it is, but i have no clue when he’ll be stable enough for us to be friends again.

on one hand, he’s kind of right? like, our friendship was a bit mentally draining for the both of us. but on the other hand i really miss him. i miss talking to him from when i woke up to when i went to bed. i miss seeing funny videos and sending them to him. i miss talking to him about literally nothing and everything. i think it’s worse because he still like, looks at my ig stories. he doesn’t hate me, we just can’t be friends for the time being.
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Anonymous 120918

>>120911
meet someone who is equally as mentally ill as you, talk from literally when you wake up to when you go to bed, develop complicated feelings for him, "confess" but make it clear that you're not sure if you actually like him (or men at all), tell each other your worst secrets, profit

Anonymous 120950

op here again. i texted him earlier and he left me on read. i sent him another text after that which he didn't read. i hate my life.

Anonymous 121645

>>120950
Learn not to rely on him.

Anonymous 121717

>>120918
pretty much the same happend to me
for 2 year we sorta dated but i told him we couldnt be with him because im a lesbian
when he got over me and started seeing another girl i realised im probably just bi and stupid
but the coodependency hit really good while it lasted

Anonymous 121963

op here again bumping this thread!! it's been a while since this all happened, but i talked to him a couple weeks ago and i got some form of closure. he basically told me that we got too close, and that he was telling me things about him that he shouldn't, as well as thinking that we were too dependent on each other.

i'm doing better now! i still feel sad about our friendship not working out (especially since i couldn't do anything about it) but i'm not as worried. i just hope he's doing okay. he's a good guy, even if he doesn't always feel like it. sometimes i come across a tweet or tiktok and i'm like "lol toby would like this" and then i remember. oh yeah. can't send it to him because i have him blocked on instagram and imessage. i'm in therapy now (thank god) and hopefully i'll start changing for the better. :)



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Anonymous 121398[Reply]

Every moid in this world is disgusting, they are all pedophiles or rapists.
They're all disgusting and boring, their social skills are zero, and I'd have a better conversation talking to my own shit than talking to a man.
They are the only "people" who would spend hours explaining why it is okay to impregnate 14 year old girls.
It's not worth being nice to any dangling penis, since I treat every XY in my life badly I'm happier.
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Anonymous 121434

Daddy issues?

Anonymous 121438

And yet I can't help but love some moids sm

Anonymous 121456

>>121405
It did massively well for it's budget and still retains a huge cult following and the ED is one of the most notorious EDs of all time

Anonymous 121953

I hate how true it is. My ex is a lolicon on twitter. I hate him I hate him I hate him. I want to ruin him. I want him to beg for mercy as I stab him.

Anonymous 121960

>>121953
my ex was a lolicon too and I absolutely destroyed him kek. he's still yearning for me



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

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Anonymous 121889

at times there's a very moot line (ha ha!) between an observation, an exaltation, and a confession. mine could land here, tonight: at times, more than i'd like to admit, i read your poems again and try to… not copy them necessarily, but to internalize their structure so that maybe someday i'll write a verse that you could've thought of. it's the only way i can feel closer to you, pathetic as it is.

i love you. i want to bask in your light. even if you think of yourself as a cool-toned, lichen-y green, everything that surrounds you blooms in fateful silence. yesterday i overheard someone asking what a sound is. i thought of you. i always do.

Anonymous 121947

Don’t ever reach out to my precious friends again, you vicious, soul-sucking demon. It’s been about four months since I checked out, and you need to realize it’s completely over. I feel nothing but animosity for you now. Leave me the fuck alone.

Anonymous 121948

I know it's been close to a year, and I know we didn't last long and that what you did to me was fucked up, but it kills me that I'll never feel again the way I felt when I fell in love with you. Sometimes I see you in my dreams and you look at me the way you did when you first said you loved me and I wake up feeling empty. You've probably been through several other girls since then and you probably broke them the same way. I almost wish it never happened and that I just stayed a femcel forever. Getting a taste of how other people live was bad for me. I find myself craving things I know I can't have again. I need to accept that some things aren't meant for me. The worst part is that sometimes I miss you even though I know you're scum. I met your ex before me and you literally dumped us with the same bullshit story. It kills me that you changed my brain forever and I'm just a footnote to you, if that. I hope that my replacement is smarter than i was and that she recognizes what you are and leaves you before she gets hurt. And I hope that I can stop feeling the hollow space where you were. I hope one day barley tea stops tasting like you.

Anonymous 121956

Dear A
I should hate you. You cheated on me despite a year of love and loyalty together. You’re 20. You call me immature but your ex is still wrong you’re not unloveable,I still love you even if it hurts. I hope my Australian underage replacement understands that deep down you’re a monster with the facade of a cute innocent boy and leaves you for another older man. I hope you kill yourself and your last thought is of your broken promises to me. I need you and I hate you and I love you. We can never be together now but I will always remember you and how you made me feel like a princess rather than a smelly useless femcel. I’ll be a femcel forever to remember you by. No one was able to pretend to love me like you did.

Anonymous 121959

>>121956
ruin his reputation



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Vent Thread Anonymous 120288[Reply]

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Anonymous 121946

Physically and mentally tired. I need a week to myself but it's not possible.

Anonymous 121951

My boyfriend let his tranny friend get really close and touchy with me during a hang out, and when questioned later he told me he thought I was okay with it despite him knowing I do not like troons and knowing I am a quiet and private person. He even straight up told me that it was different than if his friends who weren't trannies would have done it. It happened a few months ago and he's apologized for it but I can't get over this because this sort of behavior was exactly what my parents would do when I told them boys were sexually harassing and molesting me in elementary school; just a total brushing off and avoiding it. They never cared about what happened to me and now I'm dating someone who still doesn't care. Nobody ever fucking cares and all my life it just feels like I will never matter and my feelings will never matter and I should just fucking kill myself.

Anonymous 121952

>>121951
Samefag and the worst part is how I can feel myself become bitter and mean when people talk about being sexually harrassed and being upset about it. I just think about how it's not a big deal at all and it's only because nobody ever acted like they cared about me during my vulnerable times. I don't know how to change, I just feel like I'm becoming a "hard", bitter person. I don't like it.

Anonymous 121957

I can only bond with people online. I’m an adult who lives at home and I wish my parents could understand. My online relationship was real to me.

Anonymous 121958

>>121957
just because something happened online doesn’t make it any less valid. some of us never find that level of closeness in our physical lives, so when we finally do. even online. it means something. it’s real. it matters. and no one gets to define that for us, nona. people who dismiss that don’t understand that connection isn’t about physical proximity. it’s about feeling seen, understood and emotionally safe.



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Anonymous 120388[Reply]

What would your ideal man, ideal date and ideal relationship look like to you?

Anonymous 120390

Fit, Makes enough , ambitious

Anonymous 120392

fat and retarded

Anonymous 121954

Tall and blonde British accent. Smart and ambitious
Ideal relationship: he’s dominant and possessive of me I play mommy to him. Lots of handholding and kissing.
Ideal date: lying in a forest together watching the sunrise and making out as we discuss books and baby names.



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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

>>>/feels/34633
Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 120945

>>120944
Some errors here use this in place of number 2.
http://www.nwsnet.or.jp/

Anonymous 120946

>>120945
https://nwsnet.or.jp/
Sorry the 's' was missing

Anonymous 121922

op Here. I let my husband convince me I was the problem again. I convinced myself if I did better he would treat me better. I stopped fighting. I went along with everything. We had more good times, but he would often just turn cruel without warning. And when I didn't give into his baiting he would punish me.

Tonight I agreed to throw out some "contaminated" trash and do extra cleaning. I followed all his instructions. While I was cleaning he was watching tv, eating, and drinking. He kept accusing me of not cleaning and lying. When I finished a task he told me I didn't actually do it. Then he told me I finished too fast. This happened repeatedly until he set a timer and told me I had to spend 2 hours cleaning the entry way ( about a 1meter x 2 meter space including the genkan). All the while calling me a bitch and a liar. He was using headphones so I quietly put on some dirty clothes from the hamper and ran away. I turned off my phone. Bought food because I wasn't allowed to eat until I finished cleaning. Now I'm at a manga cafe. I feel a lot lighter even though I have no plan. tbh the thread of that girl who was groomed and kidnapped who had first made a thread about how to fix herself was running through my head.

>>120944
Sorry for not replying earlier. Thanks for the support. I've spoken with the shelter in my area and they will take me but I have to quit my job which I can't do right now.

I have no plan and I have a medical test and have a big work thing this week but I7ll manage.

Anonymous 121950

>>121922
How often are you going to crawl back to your husband and then come here to cry about how he abused you again.

What's your home country?



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Anonymous 120345[Reply]

Does anyone else feel like they are too sensitive for the internet? Like I cant handle being on it for too long lol. I went on 4chan once and was sad at how everyone talked to eachother.
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Anonymous 120436

you’re not too sensitive. without a face or voice you can say whatever you want without disregard for others. it gives people a pass to vent out any horrid and baseless thought and encourages it.

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Anonymous 121932

>>120345
i used to frequent 4chan, but then i took a look at this place and i never want to set foot in there again

tldr; its not you, its 4chan

Anonymous 121935

Nothing on the internet feels like it affects me or is even directed at me.
Instead I feel like I'm too sensitive for social interaction. Knowing people and having them know me in return feels far too intimate and overwhelming, I'm always anxious and insecure because there is so much at stake. The internet protects me from all that. Even if I have to talk to someone 1 to 1 I can hide my face and my life and remove myself from the situation instantly and permanently any time I like.

Anonymous 121949

>>120355
>it's a very small percentage of people on websites like 4chan
hmm, not really, now it's the norm, you easily could see it on twitter or tiktok



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