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i hate being short Anonymous 129782[Reply]

i hate being short no one takes you seriously and peopl talk about how "cute" you are as if thats somethinf good and not extremely infantilizing. my self confidemce would be significantly improved if i was at least 5`6. short bodies look like shit in general, if youre skinny you just end up making yourself look even smaller and more fragile if youre fat your body starts to look all lumpy and your proportions seem off, if youre muscular you just look retarded any type of volume on short bodies ends up looking retarded. you cant win
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Anonymous 131642

True

Anonymous 131643

Women under 5'6 should be castrated sorry

Anonymous 131876

>>131595
life is not an anime being treated like a child barely has any benefits

Anonymous 131877

>>131643
i would never willingly reproduce but i agree

Anonymous 131878

>>131643
nope


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¿What can I do if I'm in love with my proffesor? Anonymous 130854[Reply]

First I need to clarify that I'm already eighteen, and that I'm not stupid enough to try anything (I don't want advice to flirt with a middle aged man who is starting to bald a little)
I don't want anything to happen. Even though I feel attracted towards him in a way that I have never felt towards any other man, I know that: A)I don't want to get raped. B)he won't notice me (if he's not a fucking pervert).
But I just NEED to hear it from someone who has been through the same situation. He's kind, walks around with his dog, is confident and well-spoken. GOD I have written a shit ton of poems for this guy.

He doesn't seem to be married or in a relationship, but in some ways, I feel like it's weird how his entire body language shifts when he's talking to a girl (am I going crazy?)
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Anonymous 131020

>>130912

Make a FODA listing all the reasons of why it would not work.

Emotionality is a reaction. React to the reasons it would not work.
Eventually you will start to feel the other way, disgust perhaps even.

Do not force feelings of disgust.

If possible, try to make the disgust for the idea of dating that man natural.

Men know when women like them and treat them better, if not, they use it to treat them badly to feel better.

Do not feel bad for men, if you do, you just will make yourself miserable. Adam was in charge, not eve. Men are not worth your energy.

Most men.

Anonymous 131027

>>131020
>>131020
You're right, noona. I have been thinking of this for the past three months and you have put into words a feeling I was never able to express. Thank you.

Anonymous 131162

>>131027

I am glad you can finally put your thoughts based on your sentimentalism, it is very hard to do so sometimes.

If you can, see about father-daughter relationships.

Older men, if they can see you as a "girl" or "daughter", if they are mature enough they will treat you more as a father figure and authority rather than "flirty" as most old men treat women.

Good men will treat you like a daughter if you treat them like you would treat your father if he was in their place.

That at least, has always worked for me. Old men always compare me to their own offspring, in some sort of way, if I treat them like that. Not in a flirty way.

I hope you can sort this out, have faith in your capacities nona xoxo

Anonymous 131874

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I'm back with some news about this…and nothing has happened. He's just pretty friendly to me, and most of the time when I catch him staring at me from affar, I notice that he's just…tender. He's younger than I thought! (28 yrs old, but stil close to thirty). Now I wish he was my uncle, lol.
If someone ever wondered how he looked like, here it is a cartoon character he reminds me of.

Anonymous 131875

>>131874
I'm glad all's ended well.


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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 131839

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>bf 173cm
>me 160cm
That tfw feeling when you’re about to bring some new midgets into this world

Anonymous 131844

>>131839
get a 190cm one

Anonymous 131868

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I don’t want to do shit today.

Anonymous 131870

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When I was a kid my dad showed me a Nigerian prince scam email he got and I got lowkey excited we will be rich and live in another country.

Anonymous 131873

>>131870
that is cutest goddamn bird ever holy FUCK


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Anonymous 131855[Reply]

Why are 99% of men retarded? There was this long time friend I've known for years who is extremely mentally unstable, he suddenly got really flirty with me and I just decided to be nice to him out of pity, suddenly it spiralled into a huge drama and I got accused of being an unfaithful whore because he started doctoring screencaps and feeding a bunch of people lies about us secretly wanting to fuck. All of my friends abandoned me but I don't really mind, I still have my boyfriend who saw through the retardation and didn't care about turning something like that into some weird soap opera drama. Well I'm pissed off slightly and had a bit of an angry streak anyway, people I've known for years throwing me away despite it being none of their business. I literally told all of them to move on, that I didn't plan on interacting with that guy ever again but instead they started leaking my DMs and questioning me about shit I've said in private, treating my private problems like a youtube drama.
No wonder no one wants to be nice nowadays anyway.
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Anonymous 131866

>>131865
No I just don’t think you’re really an authority on the subject of friendship.

Anonymous 131867

>>131866
>No I just don’t think you’re really an authority on the subject of friendship.

holy kek get fookin rekt m8 >>131865

Anonymous 131869

>>131863
>What kind of fucking friend group is that
An awful terrible one. I can't even describe the mess that was born out of this stupid shit.
That mentally ill retard was a pretty girly bi-fag, so he also flirted with people from that group to get them on their side or whatever retarded garbage, I got really annoyed that people felt sorry for him and started shit talking my friend group behind their backs. Of course I really didn't mean any of those insults and its clear as day that it was just the ramblings of someone that got really mad, somehow people from that group I spoke to started gossiping about my shit talk and then like a bunch of randos joined in and like started treating the thing like a weird YT drama, commenting about what was happening and what should be done, while also leaking my DMs and making a big deal out of it.
Like me and my boyfriend spoke about it and simply decided he was not allowed to interact with us ever again and yet suddenly I got approached aggresively the other day. "How dare you shit talk us during all of this." And well I had to deal with a bunch of retarded aggresive comments, I just left them and decided to never look back.
This entire situation is nonsense and seems like petty HS drama but all of these people are in their 20s some of them like fully employed even. I'm in my mid 20s and my bf is in his late 20s, we are all literally grown ass men and women.
What kind of stunted development they had that they want to live themselves through petty retarded ''dramas''?
I'm glad I distanced myself but it still sucks that I've lost a friend group despite it objectively being for the better, I still have some dumb sentimentality left over.

Anonymous 131871

>>131869
looks like you were a perfect fit for that friend group, what kind of a woman in her mid 20s starts talking shit behind her friends' backs, trying to justify it with "oh, but i didn't really mean it" and expects no drama after that?
also your bf def shittalks about you behind your back, geg

Anonymous 131872

This OP post sounds like the biggest pile of bullshit ever.


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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 131648

My body is ugly and I have to deal with mentally ill people gaslighting me on top of that

Anonymous 131709

How can i step out of my house when I see russian stacies with long bodies, long shapely legs, perfect angelic european features, wearing clothes that suit their body type made for them. Women with european features, long legs flat stomachs and perky boobs , seriously there's no cope. This summer is going to be suifuel again

Anonymous 131710

>>131709
Russian nona?

Anonymous 131711

>>131710
I wish

Anonymous 131860

looks like the thread got nuked


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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 131827

I miss winter like you wouldn't believe.
>>131816
Break up with him, you'll feel like this until it's unbearable.

Anonymous 131838

>>131818
oh yes, i do rely on many people. especially my parents - they are the only reason i am here - i'm a sick person mentally and physically
however, i also only feel emotionally attached to them, and no one else. i feel thankful for my friends and my boyfriend and everyone else in my life for sure.
i'm an extrovert, actually - or at least i play one in public? i'm talkative and charismatic, but i prefer to only exist to people like this. i maintain a distance where i am only a bright spot in some people's lives that keeps popping up. if you try to reach me when i'm not there, you'll fail, and so most don't try outside of inviting me out. i think they can sense i do not want to me known? maybe?
to an extent, i also don't even let my dad in, and he is the closest person ever to me. my parents are the only ones i can feel in my space without feeling like they're trespassing into something i don't even want them to know exists?
i can rely on them without letting them in, you know?
>>131827
it is hard but i likely will have to. i never want to live with him, or anyone, no matter how perfect. he says he doesn't want that with anyone except me, but, i think he may just be too in love with me to realize i'm not the only special girl. there are girls with more open hearts, more empathy

Anonymous 131840

>>131838
You're fearful and guarded but I can't say I don't understand how you feel. Just remember you CAN change and things don't have to be this way. It is possible I promise you

Anonymous 131851

>>131816
either your boyfriend is boring asf (i know that feeling) or you simply can't experience romance. it's okay to only fuck dudes and not want a serious relationship, you'll probably be happier that way in the long run too. even if you loved him, you would fall out of love eventually.

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bagholders of the …

>>131600
>>131607
Don't feel too bad.
SPCX closed today at $154.60. I wonder how many people dumped their retirements into it. But a sucker is born every minute, as they say.


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Mean Girl Predators Anonymous 131854[Reply]

I went to the hair salon and got my hair done. Afterward, the hairstylist started taking pictures of me to advertise her work on Instagram without asking for my permission. It made me feel really insecure, and then she did the typical, “Oh no, sweetheart, you’re so gorgeous.”

I really hate that kind of “baby girl” manipulation some women use with other women, acting overly nice and showering you with compliments while taking advantage of you or dismissing how you actually feel.

I call it the “baby girl” act because it reminds me of a certain YouTuber who has that exact performative personality (rhymes with Yasmin Fan)

Anonymous 131856

>>131854
Is that supposed to be you in the picture? If it is I think you look nice but I could certainly understand the frustration with this. Given they're effectively using you as advertising without paying, you could likely sue them if you're in the US. I'd ask them to take it down if they posted it already


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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 131043

you can go on home, you got what you need
take my heart and put it up on your sleeve
tear it up so they can all sing along
live out your life
i’ll never tell you you're wrong
baby, don't forget, don't forget it's our song
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone

Anonymous 131687

𝒮𝓊𝓃𝒹𝒶𝓎 𝓌𝒶𝓈 𝒶 𝒷𝓇𝒾𝑔𝒽𝓉 𝒹𝒶𝓎 𝓎𝑒𝓈𝓉𝑒𝓇𝒹𝒶𝓎
𝒟𝒶𝓇𝓀 𝒸𝓁𝑜𝓊𝒹 𝒽𝒶𝓈 𝒸𝑜𝓂𝑒 𝒾𝓃𝓉𝑜 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓌𝒶𝓎
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒸𝒶𝓃'𝓉 𝐼 𝒻𝒶𝒸𝑒 𝒾𝓉?
𝒜𝓂 𝐼 𝓉𝑜𝑜 𝒷𝓁𝒾𝓃𝒹 𝓉𝑜 𝓈𝑒𝑒?
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒹𝒾𝒹 𝒽𝑒 𝑔𝑜?
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒹𝒾𝒹 𝒽𝑒 𝓁𝑒𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝓂𝑒?

Anonymous 131688

This Sunday instrumental is goated btw

Anonymous 131745

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Oh, won't you lay down with me?
Let yourself be free

Hold your breath, don't breathe
Just believe in me
Trust you're coming with me
We can finally be free

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IcYfWknChuo

Anonymous 131853

>>131687
>>131688
Moby lover <3

Why is all his new music so shit. It started being shit after he quit drugs and alcohol.


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i think my ex is gonna take his life Anonymous 130574[Reply]

i am 20 he is 24 he wanted to break up with me yesterday and i agreed, he then switched up and wanted to get back together and has apologised. i have ignored because he has done this before and i am really worried because he tried to force himself into my house whilst i was sleeping but my mum came to the house and she told him politely to go away so he gave her gifts for me. i did not want to break up with him but he never listens to my boundaries and has done loads of things to break my trust like reaching out to his ex and although ive moved on from certain situations because i am forgiving i have overtime built up resentment against him which is why i agreed to him breaking up. he is extremely emotional and is manipulative/gaslights when he wants to get his own way but i checked his twitter today and he has posted self harm on my tattoo i made of him and all over his arm and he has told me if i broke up with him he woudl take his life and so i am really worried because i still love him but he is destroying me mentally and draining me, the reasonwhy i didnt want to see him is because last time he flipped out he came tomy house and took this £600 mirror we both paid for but it was partially a gift to me and i took it badly as i wanted that mirror for over a year i am so worried for his wellbeing because recently he has completely changed his mentality and i am scared i told him i am worried to see him because i am scared he is going to harm me because he told memany times he could kill me and i believe him because he shares the same mentality of someone that would kill a girl because the girl has broken up with him and i love him a lot so sorry if i am not typing normally i am just really worried for him and for me too and im scared hes going to take his life wether intentional or not because he has done heroinin the past to try and kill himself im so fucking worried man
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Anonymous 130696

>>130574
his life and deaths are absolutely your responsibility. if he threatens suicide, thats a genuine cry for help. he has hurt you before but he definitely will not hurt you again when he has the chance. save this guy.

Anonymous 130712

>>130696
What the fuck are you talking about. This faggot moid needs to get over himself and stop manipulating this poor girl. Did you not read the part where he threatened to kill her before? Handmaids like you should stay quiet.

>>130574
Any updates?

Anonymous 131596

>>130696

Not really, depressive men who kill themselves do it.

Men who tell women about it want something in exchange.

It's about time that if she does what he wants, unless she actually acts like a sane person and contacts a ward or his parents (if possible) to care for the problem. If she acts like if he deserves her time after being, what she described, then she would end up being manipulated if she does as you say. Obviously.

A handmaiden would take the matters as her responsability to care for the emotional needs of man who hurt her, as to feel a person.

A woman as a proper adult, will just contact the proper adults for this situation as a mentally ill man is not acting properly.

Anonymous 131742

>>130574
hey op i hope you are safe.

Anonymous 131852

Woooo!!!! Let him die! Let him die! Let him die!
Come back to us with an update in a few months. Of course, guys like this are histrionic attention whores, so I won't be expecting much of anything interesting to happen.


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