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Anonymous 128766[Reply]

Are toxic female friendships common? What are they really like?

As a 25F with literally no friends, I always wondered how bad other women can be.
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Anonymous 128841

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It takes one psychopath in a friend group to turn all the normies against you.

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>>128841
fascinating, but how about trolls?

Anonymous 128847

>>128842
Immoral and emotional

Anonymous 128855

>>128841
>picrel
imagine thinking autists are unemotional

Anyway, some women are fucked up people. They're a bit less ballsy about it than men are and will be more underhanded, cry-bullying, morally justifying their own sadism. But the pathology is the same.

Anonymous 128856

Lots of hypocrisy, people that care more about status symbol rather than their friends happiness.
Lets say your friend has some grievances with her bf, not toxic shit but just some annoyances, the so called "friend" will say dump him immediately.
She doesn't care about the long term happiness of her friend thou, she just wants her to dump the guy because guy.



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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>>128818
Thank you for stating the obvious do they give nobel award's for that out for that, I literally said cities arent perfect, but what there is, I can wager is fine for me. It's fun. I like it. I like the wilderness as well, and visit upstate when I want to experience it. I'm not one note fuckhead like some of you ppl here, I can like both things and see the issues with both things. Nothing is black and white, the city is fun, lively, and enjoyable, it's the thing bolstering ur goddamn economy, so maybe thank it once in a while next time you say shit. thx.

Anonymous 128848

guys who talk too much about epstein give me the ick. everyone normal already looked away. why are you taking such a lasting interest in sex trafficking??

Anonymous 128851

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Anonymous 128852

>>128848
you obviously wouldnt know cause if you did sex trafficking youd know how much fun it is to traffic sex. next question

Anonymous 128854

>>128852
no one finds you funny



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128806

remember when i made that chainsawman drawing for you on the wall at the bonfire? remember kissing me for the first time in the cold? it feels like you already forgot but i think of it every day

Anonymous 128807

and i hope that one day my limbs stretch to their limits, my body cracking open with rage, he sees me and is afraid.

Anonymous 128808

This dumb bitch is too much of a wilting violet crybaby to call the bank. Just do it you fucking weakling you'll only be talking to a chatbot anyway. This is why I can't take your suicide threats seriously, your risk-aversion is so pathological you can't even bring yourself to make a phone call. I don't think you'd even kill yourself if you had a button right in front of you that would give you a painless instant death if you pressed it.

Anonymous 128822

look, no one is saying you arent allowed to schizo post in the unsent letters thread, but PLEASE can you keep it all in one post? im so fucking tired of the 45 posts all clearly written by the same person during a manic episode.

Anonymous 128853

you're so bad at committing that you can't even keep me blocked. stop unblocking me just to check my profile,not say a thing, then block again. you are such a complete and utter faggot that you can't even confess to me because the shame keeps you silent.
the mask of the good, genuine guy is off. so who are you after you deactivate? a moron who's good at pretending he's a good person when in reality you're constantly running from the guilt of your own wrongdoings.
one day it will catch up and eat you alive



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I feel like my boyfriend is trying to avoid seeing me Anonymous 128839[Reply]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a about 3 months but we've only seen each other 2 times within 2 months.
I want to meet every weekend but my boyfriend says he can't meet as much because he needs to study and he says he wants to reward us both with meeting when we've done a good job studying.
The problem is that I work really hard studying but it seems like he doesn't even try and then he tells me that we'll meet when he's catched up on everything.
I haven't told him it hurts my feelings but it really does because I feel like he doesn't want to see me at all when he doesn't even do his school work.
It feels like he's trying to avoid seeing me and it really hurts.
How do I stop feeling hurt by this? Or do I just tell him I am and that I'd rather meet even if he hasn't done anything?

Anonymous 128843

Don't waste your time on someone that don't meet you with reciprocity.

Don't explain yourself, just walk.

Anonymous 128844

>>128843
I don't want to, but it feels like he doesn't even like me back, he's told me before that I like him more
Writing this all down makes me realize I've been acting kinda desperate and pathetic

Anonymous 128846

>>128844
It's ok to want love.

He is not very interested or he is an avoidant, either way it's better to just walk and find someone who meets you.

And I will tell you a little secret about attraction: Whatever quality you like in him is actually a projection of yourself; qualities you have that you project onto this external person.

Look for that in yourself and you will find it easier to walk.

Anonymous 128850

>>128846
Thank you, you're so sweet, I needed to hear that



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Anonymous 128849[Reply]

I can’t believe that sex and relationships are a normal part of peoples lives. The older I get the more foreign and farther away those things seem to me. It doesn’t even seem real. For normal people, it seems to just happens to them without resistance. Love, marriage, kissing, fucking, starting a family. It’s so common that they would have a hard time going a few months without it, let alone their whole lives. I wonder what it would feel like to be loved and accepted just for existing. And having things just come naturally for you because of that.
I wonder what being held by a man that’s safe and in love with you feels like. I can’t stop thinking about it


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i h8 my life Anonymous 128690[Reply]

im a fat 18f girl, ive never had a boyfriend and ive been a fucking loner my whole life, people avoid me girls i know are fake and spread retarded rumours about me for no reason other then they just dont like me. i wanna get so skinny and pretty they regret or i can just die.

who tf would wanna be around and ugly disgusting girl like me, i tried to get better but it never lasts, going to the psych ward twice messed it up i wish theyd just let me die. stupid anti psychotics made me gain weight as soon as i was near my goal weight. atleast im off it now i faked adhd symptoms to get on adderall it suppresses my appetite and i lost 5kg in a week. i dont even take the reccomended dose it does nothing if its under 40mg tbh, its great i never feel hungry. i hope i get skinny enough that these stupid people can see im a person too under all the disgusting fat. if i dont lose the weight this year its over lollll
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Anonymous 128757

don't demoralize yourself at all, you can lose weight, get a bf pretty quickly (if you want, you should first love yourself, then get a bf, trust me if you take care of yourself and be happy love will come soon enough) and at 18 you are very young still. It doesn't take that long to revitalize yourself, sometimes even less than a month.

Anonymous 128765

>>128757
i second this. i'm 18 too, you're probably either freshly out of hs or about to graduate. get a part-time job that pays well. go to the gym (or do home workouts if you're self-conscious, calisthenics are great) eat in a deficit, and eat well. you spend money on food only for it to be eaten in ten minutes and later digested into shit, so might as well make that food work for you as much as possible. fiber helps. remember that people who make fun of you (either irl or behind a screen) are the same as you and me, they shit, they fart, and if they're hating on you they probably hate themselves too.

find whatever it takes to get you through the day, even if it's retarded, if it keeps you alive and happy that's all that matters.

Anonymous 128823

fasting is good idea but then also eating zero calorie stuff and not stretching your stomach is

Anonymous 128830

I'm with you, I just graduated high school at 18 and I feel so lost and existentially empty. I dealt with some bullying for my weight and thinking I was ugly no matter what, I still get scared if my shirts are too low cut because I'm that self conscious

Anonymous 128845

To be attractive you must first love yourself, then comes looks.

Don't change to please others, change to please yourself.

Build healthy habits that make yourself feel good and lose weight slowly as a bonus, shortcuts like adderall will hurt you long term.

You are 18, Adult life have not even started yet, you have so much time so don't stress about everything.

Focus on the healthy small things that make you feel good and build those habits slowly.
Write down goals that are reasonable and strive to reach them.

Start easy like a little bit of exercise every day to get your body moving, it can literally be just stretching in the beginning to build the routine, a walk outdoors every day and minimum of 3 eggs for breakfast for nutrition and vitamins.

As you read this, improve your body position by just 5%, stretch something that is stiff, just a little. See, feels better.
Continue like that every now and then. Small habits grow with time.



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Insufferably passive and weak people Anonymous 128809[Reply]

I might just be an asshole but at a certain point you can be so spineless that you're just a completely useless human being. Trying to get them to do anything (or convince them to make any decision by themselves) is like trying to walk on water or containing sand in a sieve. Some people will not stand up for themselves or take any independent action, ever.
How do you guys deal with people like this? Preferably "not at all", but when you actually have to work with them to get things done, how?

Anonymous 128810

>How do you guys deal with people like this?
make them lend me couple bucks and promise ill pay them back though i never will and keep asking them for more and more favors aswell. basically make these fuck niggas my bitches

Anonymous 128811

>I might just be an asshole but
You 100% are. What have you done that's so rebellious and interesting that makes you have a spine compared to these people? You're posting on a loser femcel site. This post is just you sucking your own dick.

Anonymous 128812

>>128811
Oh I'm also not very smart or accomplished, I'm just angry with this one particular idiot.

Anonymous 128838

>>128812
Not really. This post isn't about a particular situation at all, just how you're better than this person we know nothing about. Not sure what you're expecting people to say about a situation you haven't shared. It just comes off narcissistic.



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Does anyone have a fear of never finding love? Anonymous 128837[Reply]

It's fine if I never find love or die alone. It's not a fear for me because life is life and I have my books, my cats, and my friends. But sometimes, maybe it's hormones or basic human fears, but I worry that never finding love will prove something about myself, like I am unworthy or a repellent of any sort of love. Around my period these feels worsen as is natural, but sometimes there is a hole in my belly from that fear and I can't let it go and I get anxious. :(


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Anonymous 128788[Reply]

i feel like ill never find true love as a woman partially because men are shit and partially because im also an emotionally unavailable woman who wants very specific things out of a man. im just mad every man ill ever be around is a shithead and men make me feel so mad and evil

Anonymous 128789

What are your standards for a man?

Anonymous 128835

alive and maybe has a job



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