I feel clean and I smell nice.

Whenever I self-talk to myself in a much nicer way, i.e. encouraging myself for small successes instead of berating for not being perfect, I end up kinda doing much better at things. It's hard to switch from one mindset to another sometimes though.

>>124368
No, but i’m planning to go back!

I had a sugary starbucks drink for the first time in years, it was so good.

Feels good to be able to hold a long conversation in the language of the land I live in right now. I'm so glad I chose to take on this job along my studies which gives me the chance to work on my smalltalk, makes all the difference, because I felt very detached until now, finally starting to get what being connected feels like.

>>115657
300 rapists cursed for free yesterday. really feeling the energy.

>>118331
1sad3me

I think of you every day. I have missed you every single day

>>124301
Is M a username or actual name?

>>124678
Any pregnancy I’d have would be high risk, plus I get so exhausted any time I visit the kids for more than a couple days. Plus I really do enjoy the freedom that comes with not having to consistently plan around who has to watch the kids, generally prefer peace and quiet, etc. Probably the biggest thing is having difficulty taking care of myself properly at times, and knowing that by extension I don’t think I could be a good mom. Kids deserve a home environment where they are encouraged to be kids and get the care they need.

>>124680
It’s not just porn websites and even that is dubious. Visiting an adult store doesn’t necessarily come with your information being stored like providing ID online does. Privacy is an important right that protects us all from abuses like retroactively making mundane things illegal, and like I mentioned initially, having your information used against you or loved ones in elaborate scams.

>>124678
>>124696
Forgot to mention my partner is on board with it, not a fence sitter thankfully.

>>124697
Then perhaps those things shouldn't be sold online in the first place? Kids can't just walk into sex shops. Porn sites make money through traffic and add revenue. If some of that is coming from children, then they're breaking the law. If there's no way for them to assure that they aren't profiting on children, then they shouldn't be online. It's illegal to sell drugs online, it should also be illegal to sell smut to kids

>>124696
That's fair, I misread your post and thought you said your partner wants them lol. I've had a lot of similar issues, but I'm glad I had kids none the less. It's kinda like having a pet. Sure, your life would be easier without them, but you love them so much it's worth it

>>124510
Ok well your parents are not the ones who raised you, the state did(through media), they were just the workhorses paying for your upbringing thinking they'll get a reward or at least a 'thank you' at the end. They got played and you're the prank.

>>124700
>parents are not the ones who raised you
So they didn't do shit besides just bringing food home as they would without me (and god knows how much horrible shit to make my life unbearable) and they want to be praised? Cool. I'm glad your parents treated you like a God or however you conjured that innocent image of them.

>>124405 20/20 vision nona. I won't cheat on him but something changed.
So update I'm going to break up with him, he didn't do anything wrong btw. We went to the wake and nothing happened it was just a normal funeral, his ex just thanked the both of us for coming and well it was a calm event. After that I kept searching and searching and I found nothing. But 3 days ago we were eating together and I realized he is really boring. He doesn't do anything exciting. We've been together for 7 months and we haven't fought or anything. He is just plain. He isn't uncaring and does nice things for me but outside of me and our relationship, he has such a boring life. He wakes up, showers, goes to college and job, goes to work out, sleeps. Rinse and repeat. That's my boyfriend a sack of nothing. I'm content ?¿ idk I feel nothing for him now. And I've felt like this for 2 days straight. No excitement when he kisses me or calls my name I fill nothing. I think I'm going to break up with him today. Just because he wasn't a shitty boyfriend, I'll take him to a restaurant and do it there and pay the bill.

>>124690
Good! I hope both you and he get everything you both deserve.

P.S: would it be worse if I took my stuff out of his apartment before we went to the restaurant or should I ask him about it later? Knowing him he will give it to me later at some point. Idk. Also the worst part about this is that I have to cancel the internet service of his apartment and basically make him pay for it from now on.
I really thought he would make me happy. Not just empty

>>124690
jesus. turns out you wanted to find something on him all along, I guess, just to find an excuse to leave him.

>>124692
Take it out beforehand

>>124622
It had been a really long week and there's a lot on my mind. I don't want to talk too much about ir but suffice it to say I talked with the people who I was having problems with and I'm more at peace now.

To all those whom I insulted and was shitty to: I'm sorry. I shouldn't take it out on you all. Harry Potter is fine and there's nothing wrong with liking it.

>>124544
I don't think it's so much about the enjoyment of things, but rather the fact of building one's identity around it

>>124546
Shut the fuck up

>>124639
Sorry I meant you >>124545
You shut THE FUCK up

>>124489
Tbf Rowling is just as obsessed in the opposite direction. I don't get why they take up so much of people's mental energy. OP and her "friends" sound like they deserve each other.

>>124659
I think the reason she talks about it so much is because other people refuse to drop it, she's basically know as "the terf author"

why do you all have empathy with criminals????? did you really argued with your bf just to defend criminals? Girl

>>124558
Luxury belief. When you are not the one affected by crime, it's easy to defend criminals to feel good about yourself.

>>124558
yup, that's also the point I made. >>124237

There are a lot of very stupid replies to this OP.

OP's boyfriend and her are having a fairly meaningless, in terms of their relationship, disagreement. Bf is pretty unlikely to be murdered, so personalising a legal/ethical rift like this is supremely childish.

If you can't have disagreements like this with a partner, you ought not to be in a relationship in the first place. It's not much different to getting hysterically upset because someone doesn't like your favourite band or film.

>>124599
>OP's boyfriend and her are having a fairly meaningless, in terms of their relationship, disagreement.
OP started it

>Bf is pretty unlikely to be murdered, so personalising a legal/ethical rift like this is supremely childish.
You are a retard who must live in a peaceful area. Surprise not everyone lives on Disneyland.

If you don't immediately hate criminals and say they must live a normal life after commiting a crime then you're a sociopath who have no empathy with victims and you aren't afraid to lose your beloved ones at all. Our "female empathy" whatever shouldn't be directed to criminals but the people we love. You don't have a idea the hell that's living in a place commanded by organized crime, you retards must be crazy if you really think some criminals can live in society.

>>123264
no one gives a fuck about sane men. marry insane men and get what you want out of them

>>123265
based

>>123252
thank u for this reminder

>>121601
Its because they're having sex before they get married.
Sex clouds their judgement and they spend less time talking and more time just satisfying themselves.
How can you know if you mesh well with someone if you have sex with them, it's like trying to take make good decisions while drunk.

Get kicked out

>>124646
true

Sauce on the brainrot animal?