smth smth relationships Anonymous 130847[Reply]
why are guys so indifferent and aloof? by that i mean, why do most guys not even try to put up a front that they care about what you’re saying?
im honestly so tired of the dudes who claim to “want an autistic girl” and shit, but then act completely uninterested when you want to ramble about your interests. i know this is a thing for a lot of ppl, not even just moids and you can’t force someone to be interested in what you say, but i just think it’s stupid when you’re actively trying to get into a relationship. personally for me, i’m schizoaffective, not autistic, but i tend to latch onto my interests and they consume most of my time.
im the kind of person who likes talking about random stuff, so the conversation doesn’t have to be centered around what i like, but why claim in the first place that you care when you really don’t? i know why, it’s just frustrating— especially when you have less typically “feminime” or cool interests. as a girl i feel like it’s only cool to guys if you like their shitty taste in music or you pretend to enjoy rlly niche films to put on your letterboxd. ik that sounds hateful, and i dont dislike anyone who genuinely enjoys that stuff, i just wish guys tried to be interested in what their gfs liked as well. it’s really easy for me to talk about it with girls, most of them care beyond having a specific self-serving reason to listen, and some nerdier guys as well. but 90% of men won’t even try, unless they can pivot the conversation to something sexual or about themselves. if anyone has experienced the same or has advice, pls lmk. i enjoy reading replies anyways.
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>i just wish guys tried to be interested in what their gfs liked as well.
I honestly write a lot and even show it to my bf but he doesn't care to read it and then complains that I don't tell him much… but tbh I cannot express myself irl quite the same as I do on paper… but he doesn't want to read…
Anonymous 130850
>>130847honestly I got bored halfway through this boring ass rambling post so i can't blame other guys for tuning out when you speak
Anonymous 130851
>>130848awesome!!!! ive been sorta inactive on here for finals but i saw your thread literally today while i was making this, haha. super cool to see another schizo, i dont see many ppl talking about their experiences on the schizo / psychotic spec!
also yea, even though it’s a slop pov video made for engagement, she’s just borderline ageplaying and nobody in the comments is saying anything 💔
my interests r pretty underwhelming; mostly into transformers, modding and emulating, newgrounds and old Internet forums/sites, and im trying to look into linux… one of my friends has been encouraging me to make the switch but i honestly dont know too much about it rn. there’s plenty of other girls in all of these but my point still stands!!
Anonymous 130852
>>130851Oh that's cool I also made one mod too. What ws your mod like? I want to study this stuff a bit further because I simply enjoy learning and this relaxes me. Anyways nice to meet you nona
Anonymous 130870
They don’t like autistic girls because of their neurodivergence, but because they perceive them as naïve. They can’t maintain relationships with neurotypical women because they miss social expectations that have nothing to do with neurodivergence and everything to do with being poorly raised, emotionally immature, and unwilling to take responsibility for being a decent person. So they prey on you instead, hoping you’ll be gullible enough to take on all the domestic and emotional labor while they ignore you until they want sex. In their ideal setup, you stay occupied with your hobbies, ask for very little, and only exist when it’s convenient for them.
