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shit bpd people say Anonymous 129397
shit bpd people say
Anonymous 129400
>>129397Yeah I knew one once, its cringe.
Anonymous 129425
>projecting their BPD on literally everyone they encounter
Anonymous 129428
>>129397or the classic "i know i hurt you but its my bpd" as if that excuses everything
Anonymous 129572
I’m sorry my illness inconveniences you in a minor way, but I deal with it all the time :(
Anonymous 129580
>>129397>"When I'm with you I feel so calm">"I love you">"I've never felt like this before :)">"don't worry, I won't leave you like they did">"I'm not using you for your apartment and sex, that's ridiculous. How could you even accuse me of of something like that? It's your friends telling you that isn't it. I told you they're jealous of what we have. I told you and you didn't listen, you never listen to me. You make me feel like shit all the time over things you make up in your head. Acting like this.. It's no wonder he left you. I'm starting to think you didn't tell me the entire story anyway, why would someone just do something like that? Oh, you're sorry. You're sorry after everything you've done. Bullshit. Stop? I'm not saying anything mean, what are you talking about? Stop crying. Stop crying and talk like an adult. If you could control your emotions I wouldn't have to leave. Hey.. Hey.. Okay. It's okay. Just stop crying and come here.. It'll be okay.. Shhhhh.. That's it baby. Stop apologizing. Just come closer. You know I care about you. Cmere"cue sex
Anonymous 129598
>>129572classic BPD (I can't tell if this is a triggered BPDoid or a spot on impression of one)
Anonymous 129623
>>129580that's some Quality Time ass shit
Anonymous 129655
There was a BPD moid I was talking to before he ghosted me kek. For context, we've known each other since we were 11
>some long ass text out of nowhere that was like, "I've been thinking about you ever since I came home from university for summer break. I think you're beautiful and I think there's a chance we're compatible."
>for starters I'm not really into him physically, plus I know he's some type of mentally unstable. It's not like he's a deadbeat either, he's a law student and we get along quite well as friends. I decide to give him a chance
>we start talking and I take hours to respond
>"REEEEEEEE did I scare you off because of my BPD? I'm so attached to you"
>I'm confused as fuck but kek'd because what in the fuck is this mental illness
>cue two weeks later he ghosts me
>thank god
s, never give BPDfags a chance.
Anonymous 129727
I was friends with this BPD guy, he was really nice actually, well, he used to constantly apologize for "insulting" me or something but I'm too retarded to realize when people are being mean like that so we got on well. It was online so. One guy used to constantly tell me he was malicious but I never really saw it, sure he would lash out but I always sort of got why and it didn't effect me because again, couldn't realize when he was a dick. Or he would do something like jokingly call me a thot and then apologize over and over again like it meant anything lol.
BPDs be crazy. Massive drama whores and massively self destructive. They eat themselves up. Kind of sad.
Anonymous 131960
Is BDP just the new "autist" in internet lingo?
Anonymous 131965
i take meds for bipolar disorder and i thank god every day that i do not have bpd, they're just kind of fucked
Anonymous 131982
>>131960No. BPD is mostly associated with drama queens that ruin relationships that an autist wouldn't have even gotten into in the first place.
Anonymous 132007
>>129572your kind should be put in special camps tbh
Anonymous 134219
>>131965Bipolar is equally fucked you’re not special
Anonymous 134801
do they say anything? all i ever hear is incoherent screaming and crying
Anonymous 134805
>>134801youre forgetting door slams nona
Anonymous 314479
>>129727I've been friends with a BPD girl for a long time. Over time the episodes became less and less severe until we were quiet normal friends
Anonymous 314481
>>134219ik this is an old reply but doesn't bipolar respond to treatment better, whereas most personality disorders pretty much do not.
Anonymous 314750
>>314481It does and also has the highest percentage of remissions. These retards just stop taking meds.
Anonymous 316465
"You're so selfish!"
"That's it, i dont care anymore!"
"im never doing anything for you again"
[insert delusion surrounding a very unserious situation paired with daily drug abuse]
Anonymous 316466
Almost forgot about how they claim to attract narcissists and abusers meanwhile they abuse people themselves and think everyone but them is a narc
Anonymous 316469
>>314479Makes sense - the more you show you're not going to leave the less the bpd acts out of fear that you're going to leave
Which is all any of it ever is
Anonymous 316477
“Omg I just looked at the bpd abuse subreddit… I will never be loved.. I’m a monster…”
Anonymous 316478
>>129397ppl with bpd are genuinely insufferable 95% of the time & most of them dont even have it either theyre js retards who self diagnose based on tiktoks theyve seen kek
Anonymous 316481
>>316478Most of the time I see people “diagnosing” others with BPD in spaces like /r9k etc, not so much themselves. It’s a boogeyman like NPD where some people file any behavior by a person they don’t like under a pathology.
Anonymous 316489
>>316477person said this to me a few weeks ago and i reassured them. now they are sending me insults and threats. i am not ok rn
Anonymous 316490
>>316489It’s not you it’s them nona. Just imagine you’re dealing with a feral cat. Some people just have a nature you have nothing to do with.
Anonymous 316491
>>316490Thank you so much i needed that. So much whiplash. He felt safe to me and now I’m truly afraid of him.
Anonymous 316492
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>>316491>Thank you so much i needed that. So much whiplash. He felt safe to me and now I’m truly afraid of him.be careful, nona. a lot of people act fake and wear disguises, they make themselves appear nice and safe, only to take off their disguise and show you their real face
it's not your fault
Anonymous 316493
>>316492Thank you nona. Ik this thread is for bpd but it was bipolar and in a matter of days he became someone i dont recognize at all. I will be careful <3
Anonymous 316495
>>316493>and in a matter of days he became someone i dont recognize at allThat's narcissism. They fake love, empathy, they fake it all. They are only there for themselves and only themselves
Empathetic people are the opposite. They're up front front the start, you can see their intentions, there's no BS and no drama, they're empathetic and caring
Narcissists are attracted to empathetic people, like bees to honey, and try to take advantage
Anonymous 316496
>>316493I kinda don’t agree they’re necessarily narcissistic or have evil intentions, some people genuinely have a fucked up affective issue as well as paranoia etc. But the important point is even if they don’t you’re not obliged to help them to your own detriment. At least I hope you’re getting something out of that relationship nona!
Anonymous 316500
“I love you, I only shout at you and tell you I hate you because it’s my BPD making me split…” if you are reading this and are in a relationship with a bippie, take this as your sign to run far away. it will never work out
Anonymous 316511
>>316481Honestly i think its just where u look on the internet bc i am surrounded by ppl on social media who are self diagnosed “borderlines” . its a disease
Anonymous 324702
I have this disorder I think
Anonymous 324731
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>>324702Easy way to find out, you know! This is the actual test they give in psychevals and other such nonsense. It's… not what people think it is. People often get it confused with covert NPD, which is different but can look similar. They're both sociopathic conditions, after all.
https://psytests.org/diag/bpien.htmlI'm, as they say, am absolutely fucked. Been diagnosed something like 5~6 times since I was a teenager. But at least now I know why my life is a mess. Most of us die young. Most of us are in abject poverty. I live with my mom.
Anonymous 324733
>>324732…probably. Be warned. Diagnosis will fuck your life up. I almost died from a flesh eating bacteria, because the ER staff thought I was exaggerating being blind from fluid loss, and then they tried to psych ward me for the trouble. They assume I am drug seeking when I show up. People will ignore you.
It's better to just read up on the subject. I recommend Boderline Personality Disorder Demystified by Robert Friedel.
DBT is a scam. It just prevents suicidal and parasuicidal behaviors. It doesn't improve anything else. Linehan and other cohorts of hers cook their books by removing people from their studies who drop out of treatment. They don't consider it a failure of treatment. So only the people who remain are counted.
And women like us often lie to our therapists specifically to keep them around.
Anonymous 324734
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Psytests? Fuck yeah I love psytests.
Anonymous 324735
>>324733This is honestly true and I have even had a screencap of a shrink explaining why they avoid this diagnosis, it’s because once you get it on paper you are branded as a manipulative liar in the eyes of nurses etc and it’s no good. My friend has this diagnosis and she complained to me how the ER assumed she was taking drugs when she had a panic attack.
Anonymous 324736
>>324735Real. I was raped by my cousins on christmas eve around 20 or so; and I was unaware of my diagnosis at the time. No one believed me. I was told I was making it up for attention. The only person who did believe me was my grandmother, because she found me crying in the bathroom the morning after. I didn't sleep for 7 days, and they had to drug me to make me fall asleep. The psychologist later accused me of being a manipulative liar several sessions in after I couldn't remember something we were talking about early on in the session, and she said I made up the rape for attention.
And everyone wonders why we go ballistic on people.
Anonymous 324738
>>324736girl if we were in pluribus i would hand you an atom bomb and just trust you
Anonymous 324741
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Finally I have an excuse to post this and delete it off my drive
Anonymous 324749
>>324741Yeah, and it doesn't stop at the medical and psychiatrics. They will often tell your parents, and then your parents will read up on it, and find out it's a type of sociopathy with delusional states. Then, suddenly, everything you do will be filtered through the lens of, "she's doing it to manipulate and harm others." Or, if they are being generous, it's just, "oh, what you are experiencing isn't real, you're just delusional and over reacting to nothing, sweetie!"
Anonymous 324773
Libertarians must fight the whole world because everybody hates freedom.
Anonymous 324775
>>324741This is a good thing. Since BPDemons should all be killed off
Anonymous 324776
>>324775it's not so much about bpds themselves as much as it is about the label, you don't have to have the disorder to get it
Anonymous 324792
>>324776Even then, I'm pretty sure most of us channers would get hit with some cluster b diag in therapy if we hung around long enough.
