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My father. He's pretty fuckin shy and quiet but we don't talk alot and don't see eye to eye on alot of things. I kinda wish I had a different dad though.

I'm very much like my mother, and I hate it tbh.

I have the personality of both and yet look like neither

my father ig, even physically

also my mother keeps saying im too different from her

My father, who is better than my mother, but still not great

I thought I wasn't like either of my parents, until I found out my mom cheated and I'm exactly like my biological father.

I'm nothing like my parents, looks or personality. If I didn't inherit medical issues from them I would be sure I was adopted.

I think I got the worst of both worlds. My mom is very hardworking and conscientious but very high-strung, whereas my dad is impervious to stress but very lazy. I'm a depressed neurotic mess who finds it difficult to clean up after myself.

>>138998
Wow, how did you find out? Did your bio dad know you were his?

>>138934
physically: my mom
personality: 70% my mom, 30% my dad

100% like my mom thank god

>>138934
My father and I hate it, not only do I literally look like a female version of him (which means I'm fucking ugly), but I have all his negative traits, from the extreme laziness to the sudden anger outbursts, everything.

my sister inherited all the good traits from my parents, while i inherited the bad and inconvenient traits, including the health issues. a lot of them from my dad's side.

Personality-wise the worst of both. Looks-wise, I have features from both. Hate that my brother got the tanning gene where I just tirn into a lobster.

Much like a couple of other nonas, I got the worst from both worlds

my personality is 90% my dads. we both yell when angry, same humor, introverted, night owls and are persistent. The 10% from my mom is My avoidance and impulsiveness.

looks wise i have my dads face but white. My dad looks like Michael Jackson before he bleached his skin and i look like Michael Jackson after he bleached his skin.

From what people told me, I'm more like my dad. My mom seems to think so too since after her divorce she started berating me like she berated my dad.
Now that I'm older, I think I'm mellow, try to help when I can and I can be manipulated like my dad. But I'm more hot blooded and I can change mood really fast like my mom.
I also have a weird mix of extrovert (my dad) and introvert that value her alone time. Which is not something I got from my mom since she crave human contact.
So with time I developed my own thing

Mainly my dad both in personality and looks which I don't mind. He's hard working and optimistic. I've noticed I've started acting a bit more like my mum recently which I hate- she's an incredibly negative person so I'm working on trying to stop that.

Like my mom, but more quiet. She raised me so it makes sense that I find myself speaking and acting like her. Around a year and a half ago, I caught myself nagging a friend in a way very reminiscent of my mother and it made me stop and think. My old coworkers also said we use a similar vocabulary haha.

I look like a paler female version of my dad, and for a time I did emotionally reproduce his approach to relationships. This was horrible so it's good that I outgrew the volatility. He was very, very borderline.

>>139025
Long story short, I realised I looked significantly different to my brothers, got very different ancestry results on a test and it all came out my mother groomed my eldest brother's best friend when he was kid and I resulted from that. No one officially "knew", but he strongly suspected and my mom was obviously pretty sure because she let me spend entirely too much time alone with a boy 12 years older than me.

My mother says I am like my father.
My father says I am like my mother.

>>141166
>because she let me spend entirely too much time alone with a boy 12 years older than me.

>12 year old dad

jeez… your mom is a rapist sis

>>145400
Women can't rape you pickme

>>145412
Lmao keep telling yourself that

>>141166
i'm sorry to hear that nona, that must have been tough on you to learn your mom did something like that.

>>149592
They're not even measurably close to the same amount, you can't even fucking compare them

>>145412
Why are you defending a pedophile? Also get a better fucking vocabulary

I look like my mommy but I guess personality-wise I am a mix. It's hard to tell because my mother died when I was a month into being 14 years old and it probably fucked me up and stunted me throughout my teenage years, but I do have a lot in common with my dad too. More than I thought I did, though again maybe it'd because now I have to spend all my time with him though after taking SSRI's he's a lot better.

>>138934
I am like my mom, which makes sense because she's the one who raised me. But I do have OCD and writing affinity from my dad's side. (My dad himself is a loser but I still keep in touch with my grandpa on my dad's side and we're similar in a lot of ways). My grandpa on my mom's side also had OCD though so who knows. I also found out my mom was a contrarian sigma female in her younger years so although I didn't know that side of her I definitely inherited some of that

>Worst of Both Worlds Hannah Montana theme starts playing
But I think I lean more towards my father. Very slightly.

>>145400
I told her that to her face when it all came out, and immediately he jumped to defend her, trying to soften the accusation. The fact she groomed him so thoroughly that years later he still defends her makes me fucking sick.

>>149595
Honestly, most days I wish I never found out so I could at least stomach to look at her.

My mother is very stacy feminine, but I am not. My dad likes to be a laidback jokester, so I would say I'm closer to my dad in that regard. Although he can be very uptight too, just not usually about the same kinds of things my mom is (Example: Mom prioritizes looking "properly", dad prioritizes "acting" properly - like being anal with how we eat with utensils when we were little.) . Unfortunately I've also inherited my dad's hairy genes too and I hate it. I have to deal with very dark, long body hair on very pale skin now.

>>138934
mixed to be honest

>>149806
I love this picture.

My mom, and I hate it. I'm so self-aware of how moody I am because of her. It's likely I'll end up just as alone as her. She's horrible, disgusting, diseased, and I smell like just like her.

Physically and the personality of my father

>>138934
Neither I am completely different from both of them. We're from different planets.

>>162878
What is your relationship with them like?

My dad. Yuck.

>>162909
Dad I talk to one a Month, mom I get along with. Living with her though.. makes it a completely different story though because she is a hoarder and just generally pissy. I am not a neat freak but I hate a messy house. Growing up was crazy I was the black sheep in the hoarder house and /I/ was the one everyone thought was mad. It did make mental to be gaslit all the time.

>>138934
my parents are both extroverts who hate sitting still at home. they always have to be out and about, hiking, skiing, kayaking, horse riding, golfing, going out with friends, visiting friends house, visiting concerts, reading on the beach, site seeing, going on vacation, etc. they criticize me for staying indoors too much and pester me to contact ex-roommates whom they wanted me to befriend. they also pester me to go hiking and delivered hiking guides.
i'd rather just be indoors all day after a stressful day of work , that's how i relax and restore my energy levels. i don't understand extroverts and they don't understand me. it's hard relating to them and talking to them cuz i never have anything to tell them and they always have so many stories to tell me since they are always on the move

My mom is sweet and has lots of friends and she is always happy and loves animals and helping the lesser fortunate peoples. My dad is angry and very serious but he's still a good person mostly. I don't think I'm like either of them since I'm a lot more deranged but if I had to pick I'd say my mom because I look more like her.

Like my father. He is pretty quiet and only talks when it's necessary. Hates small talks and awkward. And my mother hates that.

Mother:
>type A, well-adjusted, organised, responsible, hardworking
Father:
>intellectually disabled, paranoid psychotic, cries all the time, family quietly resents him
That said I am the spitting image of my mother.

i'm more like my infantile father whom i really really despise
that's why i started therapy

but looks-wise i'm a literal clone of my mother so that makes things a little bit better

why

evil thread btw
makes you sad

>>265814
What disability does he have? Autism, downs, etc.

>>265829
Brain injury. I'm not exactly like him. Why?

Grandma (in appearance) :D
In personality my father, but we aren't that similar. Though I picked some of his traits.
I don't look that much like my mom but I look like her more than my dad

I am more like my dad.
>calm
>antisocial
>autistic

i look like a female version of my father and nothing like my mother, and my mother loves to remind me that i'm nothing like her, that i'm a failure unlike my siblings who resemble her, and she wishes i would have died when she cracked my skull open as a baby.

Hm, I am short like my mom (wish I was tall like a dad), but I don't closely look like neither her, nor my father.
Personality-wise, I'd say, I am a mix of both. On the inside, I am angry and impulsive like my dad, but I manage to somehow control my emotions (unlike him) and come off as calm and kind person like my mother. She also passed down her neuroticism on me, while father passed down his analytical thinking and sense of humor on me.

I have my father's face and I hate it. My mom divorced him when I was 3, he did a lot of terrible things to us when he was drunk. I saw him in a wedding picture and our resemblance has haunted me my whole life. I'm so close to coming in terms with my ugly manly face but every time I see a photo of myself - he's looking back at me. He's been gone my whole life but he still manages to hurt me, this is so unfair.

Personality wise I'm the opposite of both of them.
Looks wise I look a lot more like my mother

I am more like my father unfortunately. Both looks and character wise. I've got that absolute manjaw and jewshnoze that makes people on the net accuse me of being a tranny. I am very rational, somewhat coldhearted in my life approach and pretty autistic. I really love my mom, but how she is constantly so considerate of others seems extremely exhausting but since she also constantly tries to make " a proper woman" out of me she drags me into all this shit. It is hard to explain to her that no, men are not that perceptive, you need to stop worrying about all this trivia.
I feel though mostly as someone completely different from my parents. Like it's my duty to break their circlejerk of mental illness. My parents both are workaholics and very neurotic and depressed, they mostly hate humanity, struggle with sleep and overthinking. I do suffer from inherited depression (basically some physiological issues making serotonin) but I reject their state of mind ideologically. I am very heavily just going with the flow and I love this world. I don't let myself wane in fear and pity.

>>295927
you sound very cool and hot

>>141143
your parents are exactly like mine

I didn't meet my father until much later in life, so I just naturally drew parellels with my mother. Once we did meet I realised we're exactly alike and that's why my mother resents me so much. I don't know if it's an inheritable condition, but we're both quiet, latched into stoicism as teenagers, and neither of us is particularly emotional, yet we're both prone to melancholy and depression, and we're both unerringly calm during stress. Neither of us processes sadness or grief well, though in different ways, and we both fail to be romantic/intimate enough to keep a longterm relationship. We're both naturally good at science, math and technology, chose to pursue a pure-science career and transitioned into more humanitarian-focused fields around 30 years old. We think the same way about moral, ethical, social and even political issues, despite growing up in completely diametrically opposing environments. While we might not look alike, I inherited his hair, eyes, skin tone and height against the odds.

I look exactly like a lanky version of my grandma on my dad's side when she was my age. Personality wise I am nothing like either of them.
My dad's very perfectionist who can redo things 20 times without satisfaction and my mom is extremely opinionated on everything. They're also extremely extroverted and I'm shy as a mofo. I am just a moron who sort of goes with the flow.

like my mother, overall she is a mess so i think i rather just have to accept that im a bit fucked so yes