Are you more like your mother or your father? Anonymous 138934
My father. He's pretty fuckin shy and quiet but we don't talk alot and don't see eye to eye on alot of things. I kinda wish I had a different dad though.
I'm very much like my mother, and I hate it tbh.
I have the personality of both and yet look like neither
my father ig, even physically
also my mother keeps saying im too different from her
My father, who is better than my mother, but still not great
I thought I wasn't like either of my parents, until I found out my mom cheated and I'm exactly like my biological father.
I'm nothing like my parents, looks or personality. If I didn't inherit medical issues from them I would be sure I was adopted.
I think I got the worst of both worlds. My mom is very hardworking and conscientious but very high-strung, whereas my dad is impervious to stress but very lazy. I'm a depressed neurotic mess who finds it difficult to clean up after myself.
Wow, how did you find out? Did your bio dad know you were his?
physically: my mom
personality: 70% my mom, 30% my dad
100% like my mom thank god
My father and I hate it, not only do I literally look like a female version of him (which means I'm fucking ugly), but I have all his negative traits, from the extreme laziness to the sudden anger outbursts, everything.
my sister inherited all the good traits from my parents, while i inherited the bad and inconvenient traits, including the health issues. a lot of them from my dad's side.
Personality-wise the worst of both. Looks-wise, I have features from both. Hate that my brother got the tanning gene where I just tirn into a lobster.
Much like a couple of other nonas, I got the worst from both worlds
my personality is 90% my dads. we both yell when angry, same humor, introverted, night owls and are persistent. The 10% from my mom is My avoidance and impulsiveness.
looks wise i have my dads face but white. My dad looks like Michael Jackson before he bleached his skin and i look like Michael Jackson after he bleached his skin.
From what people told me, I'm more like my dad. My mom seems to think so too since after her divorce she started berating me like she berated my dad.
Now that I'm older, I think I'm mellow, try to help when I can and I can be manipulated like my dad. But I'm more hot blooded and I can change mood really fast like my mom.
I also have a weird mix of extrovert (my dad) and introvert that value her alone time. Which is not something I got from my mom since she crave human contact.
So with time I developed my own thing
Mainly my dad both in personality and looks which I don't mind. He's hard working and optimistic. I've noticed I've started acting a bit more like my mum recently which I hate- she's an incredibly negative person so I'm working on trying to stop that.
Like my mom, but more quiet. She raised me so it makes sense that I find myself speaking and acting like her. Around a year and a half ago, I caught myself nagging a friend in a way very reminiscent of my mother and it made me stop and think. My old coworkers also said we use a similar vocabulary haha.
I look like a paler female version of my dad, and for a time I did emotionally reproduce his approach to relationships. This was horrible so it's good that I outgrew the volatility. He was very, very borderline.
Long story short, I realised I looked significantly different to my brothers, got very different ancestry results on a test and it all came out my mother groomed my eldest brother's best friend when he was kid and I resulted from that. No one officially "knew", but he strongly suspected and my mom was obviously pretty sure because she let me spend entirely too much time alone with a boy 12 years older than me.
My mother says I am like my father.
My father says I am like my mother.
>>141166>because she let me spend entirely too much time alone with a boy 12 years older than me.
>12 year old dad
jeez… your mom is a rapist sis
Lmao keep telling yourself that
i'm sorry to hear that nona, that must have been tough on you to learn your mom did something like that.
They're not even measurably close to the same amount, you can't even fucking compare them
Why are you defending a pedophile? Also get a better fucking vocabulary
I look like my mommy but I guess personality-wise I am a mix. It's hard to tell because my mother died when I was a month into being 14 years old and it probably fucked me up and stunted me throughout my teenage years, but I do have a lot in common with my dad too. More than I thought I did, though again maybe it'd because now I have to spend all my time with him though after taking SSRI's he's a lot better.
I am like my mom, which makes sense because she's the one who raised me. But I do have OCD and writing affinity from my dad's side. (My dad himself is a loser but I still keep in touch with my grandpa on my dad's side and we're similar in a lot of ways). My grandpa on my mom's side also had OCD though so who knows. I also found out my mom was a contrarian sigma female in her younger years so although I didn't know that side of her I definitely inherited some of that
>Worst of Both Worlds Hannah Montana theme starts playing
But I think I lean more towards my father. Very slightly.
I told her that to her face when it all came out, and immediately he jumped to defend her, trying to soften the accusation. The fact she groomed him so thoroughly that years later he still defends her makes me fucking sick.>>149595
Honestly, most days I wish I never found out so I could at least stomach to look at her.
My mother is very stacy feminine, but I am not. My dad likes to be a laidback jokester, so I would say I'm closer to my dad in that regard. Although he can be very uptight too, just not usually about the same kinds of things my mom is (Example: Mom prioritizes looking "properly", dad prioritizes "acting" properly - like being anal with how we eat with utensils when we were little.) . Unfortunately I've also inherited my dad's hairy genes too and I hate it. I have to deal with very dark, long body hair on very pale skin now.
My mom, and I hate it. I'm so self-aware of how moody I am because of her. It's likely I'll end up just as alone as her. She's horrible, disgusting, diseased, and I smell like just like her.
Physically and the personality of my father
Neither I am completely different from both of them. We're from different planets.
What is your relationship with them like?
Dad I talk to one a Month, mom I get along with. Living with her though.. makes it a completely different story though because she is a hoarder and just generally pissy. I am not a neat freak but I hate a messy house. Growing up was crazy I was the black sheep in the hoarder house and /I/ was the one everyone thought was mad. It did make mental to be gaslit all the time.
my parents are both extroverts who hate sitting still at home. they always have to be out and about, hiking, skiing, kayaking, horse riding, golfing, going out with friends, visiting friends house, visiting concerts, reading on the beach, site seeing, going on vacation, etc. they criticize me for staying indoors too much and pester me to contact ex-roommates whom they wanted me to befriend. they also pester me to go hiking and delivered hiking guides.
i'd rather just be indoors all day after a stressful day of work , that's how i relax and restore my energy levels. i don't understand extroverts and they don't understand me. it's hard relating to them and talking to them cuz i never have anything to tell them and they always have so many stories to tell me since they are always on the move