Moid socialization most often starts out like the hunger games and stays that way until social norms dictate a more civilized approach to competition in college and beyond.
For most moids there is no softness and affection outside of the home from anyone except their mother until they are old enough to socialize with women without being made fun of as being girly or gay.
A moid who has not been socialized with women until this point will act like an animal seeking warmth in winter and trying to take up a spot in any car engine, chimney, gas pipe, etc. it can.
It's not inherent to moids as individuals but it's inherent to moids as a group. You take any moid and raise them without stigma in a mixed family environment where they have both male and female friends and they will grow up more normal and less creepy/desperate than a moid raised in an entirely male social group.
I believe this is what drives male desperation and creepiness. I wish there was a way to help them the same way I feel bad for rabid animals and infested dogs, but I can't justify putting a woman at risk for the purpose of healing them from their antics. The only way is for society to start organizing itself differently.
But I doubt that will ever happen because the most dominant group of moids in society (at least speaking in a western context) tend to take joy in the suffering and pain of other men lower than them on the economic ladder. I think it's cultural more so than biological but its just the case of the global corporatist-capitalist world we live in.
They're not like women where even well-off women feel pain and empathy looking at the suffering of poor women.