>>220061>him avoiding me if I ask directly or show I like him
Nice people don't do that. If he gives you the cold shoulder after you suggest a date, he would be the asshole in this scenario. I've been asked out and as long as the guys where civil afterwards, I've never felt a reason to ghost them. Of the guys I asked out, only one has declined and politely told me he sees me more as a friend. But as long as the feeling is mutual, it doesn't matter how nervous you are when you ask him out, it will be perceived as endearing. If he is weirded out by your nervousness, you never had a chance with him to begin with.