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>>229976
Did this really need its own thread and couldn't you just continue the discussion in the thread this is originally from

>>229985

I am talking about regular men, the ones who get married to regular women.

>>229976
>>229992
>>Is it just low value scrotes who cannot get women their own age.
Unfortunately no…
>https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/what-is-the-best-age-difference-for-husband-and-wife/
>https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/mar/31/women-marrying-younger-men-dying-earlier-research
From an evolutionary and personal comfort standpoint this makes perfect sense.
Their wives stick around with the kids long after they're gone (a 30 year old woman having kids will be 55 when their child is finished with their studies, that doesn't leave much time to get to know grandchildren), and there is someone with more vitality to take care of them in old age and failing health.
For the vast majority of tribal history, it wasn't actually the young people who took care of the children after having them. It was the elders who could no longer do manual labor. If there are no grandparents accessible it all falls to the woman on average unfortunately.

Well, as moids are petty and like women they can manipulate it makes sense. Well, women shouldn't base their lives on pleasing scrotes. It's good for a girl looking to get a dowry from an old man.

>>229992
The only difference between regular men and celebrity men is in the resources available. What politicians and celebrities go for tells you the revealed preferences of all men.

>>229976
dunno, i suspect many women fucking lied. at one point (new year, too much wine) most of my female relatives confessed they "love their husbands, but men look best in their early 20s".

>i need the internet to inform me on what the average relationship is like
Perhaps leave the house?

men are fucking creepy, 50 still has his wrinkly eyes on 22.

>>230039
The only thing that a girl with that age could see in a mummy like this is money and these pricks still complain "oh waman are so petty only want our money" or course retard why the f would a young gal want a hag like you have some dignity

>>229999
>Well, as moids are petty and like women they can manipulate it makes sense.

No, it is about physical attraction. Not about manipulation. I hear a lot about men going for younger women because that women their own age don't want them. This is not it.

>>230042

Only men with no money complain about gold diggers. Men who have money love to spoil women.

>>230044
Tbf there is a difference between gold digging (having a relationship exclusively with someone because they are rich) and just spoiling your SO. This is true though, the amount of paranoia men have about muh gold digging isn't justified by the amount of actual golddiggers there are. And yes my boyfriend loves to spoil me, he doesn't even have very much money but he likes buying me things and making me happy and being the "provider".

I’m 35 and married. My husband is my age and says 20 year olds (men and women) are basically children and are annoying lol.

>>230053
There are several factors that lead to men dating women their age despite evidence that says they find women younger more attractive:
1. Because like you said, they are immature. They are largely incompatable as life partners, but this does not mean he does not find 20 somethings more physically attractive.
2. His conscious morals override his unconscious desires; he may secretly like 20 somethings but because he knows such a relationship is inappropriate he sticks to women his own age.
3. Men who meet their partners young, grow and bond with their partners and so obviously even when they are in their 30s, 40s, and 50s, they will love their wives and choose them over the 20 somethings they would otherwise find mor3 attractive.

>>229985
if a moid is targetting young women, id consider him a "low value scrote". he probably has predator (pedo) psychology.. so, if you marry him, he'll touch your children, or eyefuck your daughters as they grow into teens. dating younger is a symptom of a predatory mind, which puts my children in danger, so no amount of money or fame could make me consider him "high value".

also, if hes your scrote idea of "high value" such as being a billionaire, celebrity, theres a high chance he has whore tendencies and sleeps around.

overall, retarded post. kys moid

>>230100
you do realize young women have cellulite too?

>>230100
are you retarded? im 20, scrotenigger. even young women like me can see the degeneracy that goes through the minds of men who target younger women. if you cant see it, youre an ignorant fool. or even better, the same coping predator scrotes i describe.

why do you think conservatives get associated with pedophilia the most? lowering the age of consent, taking away abortion rights so teenagers can get pregnant. its simply because the purity they push for on women and pedophilia go hand in hand. age of consent laws are the only reason they dont chase after younger girls.

even the most libfemmy women know this instinctively. saying "copium" is your own cope against coming to terms with the degenerate truth of those belonging to your gender.

>>229976
How would I know I really don't want to get married. The idea of marriage makes me violently ill and I'm in my 30s yeah. This will never change.

>>229976
>Do you feel that men your age would date younger women if they could?
I'm 21, so I think that at this stage, it might get side eyes, but scrotes can get away with dating younger like 17 unforch. I always get discouraged because I'm focusing on building my career first and haven't dated at all, but I hear dating in your 30s is hard/men want younger women/etc. It makes me sad ig. Looking at online dating profiles, I see dudes 30+ looking for women my current age, but I'm just not ready for that yet, and I'm worried nobody will be there for me once I am. Honestly, I'd prefer to be alone then.

>>230144
I think it's great that you're focused on your career at the moment. A healthy and fulfilling personal life is really important, but so is being able to find your feet in your career and feel good in what you're working towards.

>>230145
Thank you, Nona. I appreciate your encouragement.

>>229976
I have seen many beautiful women in their 40's. I Can't say the same for moids.

>>230250
Uh oh

>>230250
Ah, the Ben Franklin advice.
I'm sure that doesn't serve young moids at all…

>>230259
Much more fun than dealing with old scrotes, so yeah. Duh.

Young men are everything. In your old age forget about marriage though. Make money for yourself and be single. Love is temporary wealth and happiness are what really give you the means to ennoy life.

>>230259
I mean, it's not a competition. Benefitting moids is only bad when it's at your expense. If you can find a relationship that benefits you both, that's a good thing.

preferring much younger sex/relationship partners is always a sign of mental illness. usually it's BPD, but it's also often narcissism or psychopathy.

>>230053
>muh husband isn't like the others
lmao is like when my friends tell me their bfs promised them that they will stop watching porn

>>230333
They're rare, but there are men who are not coomers with a youth fetish nona. NTA

>>230324
But men are going to try to weaponize dating young against women anyway. What's the point of protecting their egos letting them think we won't and cant and that they gdt special privelege for being male ??? Its profoundly gross Nona. Simply deciding that is living a better existence, period.

>>229976
Outlier here to say I like younger men so this chart isn't accurate for me, but the trend is accurate in that scrotes are picky chooser pedos and women usually like a male that is around her age, give or take.

It’s all men. They’ll sleep with your niece, the nanny the baby sitter you name it.
They only go for older when the young ones they want don’t want them. So they get mad and settle.
Fine do what you want but real problem is when they go to Thailand and chase literal children

>>229976
Marriage is a scam and men over the age of 40 just end up becoming an overbearing sex pest and overbearing and demanding at home. I dont want to get married period.

If youre a woman. And you want or be married after 35 you're out of your damn mind. It's nothing but slavery and being chained to someone. For a woman happiness comes in the form of blissful solitude.

>>230335
This exactly.

>>249232
so do men

>>249217
I've been thinking more and more about this because I'm mostly a loner. I don't mind ending up single anymore. The problem is I want a kid. But I guess I can go to artificial route now that I think on it.

>>229976
Just creepy scrotes do. It's true people naturally find those in their 20s most attractive look-wise and women are the same, lets be honest plenty of women prefer the appearance of a young man not an old wrinkly man, but only creepy scrotes act on that urge. Also don't listen to scrotes who say women cannot find love after their fertile years, this is a lie. I know divorced moms and widows in their 50s to 60s who have found men in their 50s to 60s to date them and they make very lovely couples. Most good men prefer to date around their age group, imo a high value is just a genuinely good and virtuous man who does his best to be a decent person and has positive relationships with others.

>>249235
You can also adopt, there's lots of kids out there who would love a nice home.

>>249250
This is true. Women don't find older men "attractive" unless he has money. Male beauty peaks around 18-24. Thing is, most young beautiful men know this and will not commit to you. Still, you will rarely see the average 50 yearold big Ed looking ass with a beautiful young woman

>>230335
>>229976
I am 37, I come on here from time to time because I miss gender critical and pinkpill on Reddit.

>>249217
>>230335
This is my sentiment exactly.

I really don't know where I'm supposed to post ever since reddit became unbearable and have been looking for a community for ages. I just don't exactly feel like I belong here either. Most anons here are in their 20s… So I guess I have to have conversations with 20 year olds. In truth I'm tired as fuck of Reddit. Can we have a 30+ thread on cc?