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Anonymous 238004
Why do you simp for virgin men?
You do know that the reason they're still one is most likely because they're assholes and don't give much of a fuck about anyone besides themselves, right?
Anonymous 238006
>men
The cases of virgin-male thirst that looked most legit on these boards seemed to be aiming below the age of majority.
Anonymous 238008
chainsaw-man--maki…
because virgin men are not always virgins because they lack chances with women.
some virgin men are virgins because they chose to be and are waiting for the right person to lose their virginity to (this is rare, but i've met some men like that before).
that is way preferable to both incels and fuckboys. i think it shows integrity, a similar sex drive to mine (low and/or very dependant on feelings and emotional connection, coomers are disgusting) and lack of societal brainwashing so he's probably someone who thinks for himself and isn't influenced by peer pressure and stupid media.
also the thought of being the first time of a guy i love is both hot and reassuring to me, and i prefer being the more experienced and dominant person in the relationship.
Anonymous 238009
>>238004I don't think being an asshole is any real impediment to getting laid
Anonymous 238011
The single biggest problem with targeting any seemingly or superficially healthy adult male virgin is that the emotional and social coping mechanisms they develop to avoid killing themselves will always be too much.
Imagine getting into a relationship with a guy who seems sweet, focused on his studies, didn't play too many videogames or use porn (real porn, not Ao3 literotica or hentai or whatever else). And then you find out he's a VTuber fan who spent the past two years with an actual part of his food budget dedicated to spending literal actual money to text a goddamned anime girl livestream avatar so he could hear a woman's voice addressing him by his internet handle.
Anonymous 238013
Why do you simp for slutty men?
You do know that the reason they're not undefiled is most likely because they're assholes and don't give much of a fuck about anyone besides themselves, right?
Anonymous 238016
>>238013So in short, men are assholes, and slutty men just hide it better?
Anonymous 238018
>>238016Slutty men frequently seem worse at hiding it if anything. Neuroticism and anxiety seem like they make virgin men overcompensate for sexual deficiency and that overcompensatory masking up is offputting.
Anonymous 238020
slutty men are the worst. but so are incels. sluttiness is in spirit not in actions. an incel is a slutty man who hasn't had the chance to slut around.
give me a voluntarily virgin guy.
Anonymous 238024
>>238020Where would voluntarily virgin guys hang out
Anonymous 238026
>>238011>real porn, not Ao3 literotica or hentai or whatever elseThat is real porn? Porn is bad because it objectifies women, creates unrelistic expectations for relationships, and isolates the consumer. Hentai and erotica do both.
Anonymous 238027
>>238016Exactly
>>238024Their rooms or a serious church
Anonymous 238028
>>238026It doesn't do that it brings people together
Anonymous 238029
>>238028What do you mean? Men don't approach women now because their sexual desires are satisfied through porn (thank God). Erotica and hentai satisfy sexual desires ergo I'm not desperate for a boyfriend if I can just read about my perfect man.
If you mean the media producers hentai is drawn and erotica is written, both are not social activities.
Anonymous 238035
>>238024I would expect to find them in Linux User Groups and traditional gameshops.
>>238026Malebrained argument.
"Oh if you wanna censor porn then we ought to ban 50 Shades of Gray and Ao3 and scrub the internet of all omegaverse content because it mkes men insecure and women happy"
porn causes real and specific harms by involving real and specific nonconsentual sex and inflicting that on real women.
Even the dreaded "MPREG + dubcon" tag duo on Ao3 can't do that.
Anonymous 238040
>>238032It's about risk and reward, you could have been killed a century ago for having premaritial sex but people still did it.
Now that there's a risk free way of satisfying their libido they don't talk to women. If for example porn suddenly was banned you would see more men approaching women because it would be easier than tracking down a stray porn website.
>>238035It was one point of a larger argument, erotica isolates people and creates unrealistic standards for both sexes. Nobody is saying people don't get trafficked and abused but what about onlyfans girls who make porn voluntarily? Would you be okay with your boyfriend consuming that since nobody was hurt?
Anonymous 238045
>>238035>linux user>MPREGare you trans?
Anonymous 238047
>>238040>Would you be okay with that?Gut reaction, "no." I think that no's probably because the sheer amount of due diligence required to actually ascertain zero harm is monumental in OF and conventional porn and would itself indicate a massive investment on all terms. Not 100% sure though.
>>238045Funny joke, but maybe Ao3 might do some harm on that front now that I think about it, since about half the users of that site are fakebois and another quarter are full blown TIFs.
Anonymous 238050
>>238047>since about half the users of that site are fakebois and another quarter are full blown TIFs.lmao what. that's not true.
Anonymous 238051
>>238047>conventional pornDo you consider a single woman taking topless photos conventional porn? I've known women who did that sort of thing just for male attention and I would never be okay with my boyfriend looking at that while we're dating.
He would be getting off and devoting time to another woman. Regardless of if she wants his attention or "consented" I don't like it. A man should be devoted to his wife, and that means no porn and I'm not sure why that doesn't cut both ways.
All I'm asking you to do is think about it.
>>238050My sister went TiF and casually talks about omergaverse fic with her coworkers, yes it is.
Anonymous 238058
>>238051>My sister went TiF and casually talks about omergaverse fic with her coworkersand how did you infer 50% of the international multi-million ao3 user base are trannies from that? where i live it's regular normie girls who write degenerate gay omegaverse rape porn.
Anonymous 238060
>>238027>a serious churchWhat would be a silly church?
Anonymous 238066
>>238051fanfic's always been like that, before tifs it was butch lesbians. I miss those days
Anonymous 238068
>>238064I've read the study. Trannies = 8.9% of the twitteroids surveyed, and remember they are the terminally online demographic so both ftm and mtf are over-represented. Women = 75.7%. Men = 5.4%.
Anonymous 238069
Shut up I have the right to rip the virginity from a sweet virgin male
Anonymous 238074
>>238069have you done this before, could you see yourself doing this? I'm not saying you can't but be honest with yourself. Incels are alone because they're picky, unpleasant, and hypocritical. I wouldn't want someone with a potential to end up the same way.
Anonymous 238075
>>238074nta not all virgin men are incels
Anonymous 238078
>>238075The term no longer just means sexless, men who can't get dates or misogynists are called incels all the same. I've seen people on fauxmoi call Henry Cavill an incel
Anonymous 238079
>>238078exactly. a virgin guy who lives his condition in a peaceful, sometimes even willful way, wouldn't be an incel rn. non-virgin scrotes that are misogynistic and can't have as much sex as they want while still getting it are often the new incels.
Anonymous 238080
>>238079>exactly. a virgin guy who lives his condition in a peaceful, sometimes even willful way, wouldn't be an incel rnno, the term expanded and some meaning it's that simple.
Anonymous 238081
>>238080a virgin who is willfully one isn't an "involuntary" celibate lmao
Anonymous 238082
>>238074I dont want an incel just a virgin
Anonymous 238104
Or maybe they are virgins just because they went to engineering or business schools that had no girls, they work from home etc.
Anonymous 238152
>>238004lol is this really a thing? simping for males because they are a virgin is synonymous to men who only want a virgin girl solely because she is a virgin. thats so creepy you should like people for who they are and not what they represent. maybe because men who chase after virgin females like them due to their own insecurity and inability to perform else she is not a virgin.
Anonymous 238172
>>238152>for who they areThey are virgins. That's why I like them.
Anonymous 238176
>>238152>who they areLike someone who sees relationships and physical intimacy as something special and not just something you have with a girl at a party?
Anonymous 238178
>>238004 i like the implication of frustration and docility. They may react strongly to any innuendo, it's cute — and yeah they don't all exhibit these traits. I thought it was obvious that 'virgin' is just part of a larger type
Anonymous 238252
Non-virgin men are also assholes.
Anonymous 238281
>simp for moidNever
>virgin menIf I'm a virgin, he better be a virgin. Those are just my standards. Like
>>238008 said, they may just be waiting for the right person or for marriage or something. Just because most men are coom addicted degenerates who cannot control themselves doesn't mean that all of them are. I have a romantic view on things for sure, but I can easily wait to get that 'fairytale' romance that I've always wanted, which is basically a stable relationship where two people genuinely love and appreciate each other even through disagreements and hardships.
Anonymous 238291
>>238287R9k is full of virgins though.
Anonymous 238309
Well, because not all virgins are incels. In my experience they had values and views similar to mine, specially in sex, that was nice. I didn't try anything with them for my lack of confidence.
>>238006>aiming below the age of majorityHow old are you nonas posting ITT?
From the replies it seems that some of you are very young. So I'm close to be 30 and it would be nice to be in a relationship with one of them. However this idea seems really silly at this age, I might need to let go my little bit of hope.
Thanks for reading my blogpost.
Anonymous 238321
i don’t like incels but with virgins i prefer them because i am also a virgin and i would like for him to be attached to me. also cute kpop looking guys are usually virgins in the west
Anonymous 238337
>>238321>cute kpop looking guysThey don't exist in the west
Anonymous 238339
>>238321I never understood the appeal of k-pop
Anonymous 238340
>>238339i dont understand the appeal of kpop either but the guys sure are hot as hell lmfao
Anonymous 238347
>>238339The only appeal of k-pop is fangirling over cute boys under the guise of enjoying the music.
Anonymous 238349
>>238321>cute good looking guys are usually virgins in the westI don't think so.
>>238339Some are attracted to aggressive, thug looking guys. Not everyone.
Anonymous 238352
>>238349>cute good looking guysShe said
>cute kpop looking guys Anonymous 238353
>>238309>>238321How would you even know if he's a virgin?
Anonymous 238358
>>238353If you ask him "Are you a virgin?" and he says "Yes" he's probably a virgin.
Anonymous 238361
>>238358You actually think a moid isn't capable of lying about that if he knew you prefer virgins?
Anonymous 238363
My friend is dating a formerly virgin man (who lost it to her) and he constantly shits on her, compares her to other women at his workplace who aren't interested in him, gets mad at her for not cleaning his garbage and whines about gold diggers while making her go 50/50 on everything (he works at Google and makes $200k+ a year - she makes $80k) - but that's not the worst of it. He has bad breath and it's because of tonsil stones. She complained about it and got him a tongue cleaner and mouthwash which he refuses to use - when she asks why he's like 'well it's not like it bothers me'. Then eventually she started getting tonsil stones (which has never happened in her life before).
So uh yeah - depending on how old you are (think 25+) a virgin man 100% has something wrong with him. You don't want a guy with a high body count or who has ever dumped a woman, but you certainly don't want a virgin either unless you're maybe younger than 25.
Anonymous 238374
>>238004Idk, where I am from virgin men my age is normal. Dating culture is broadly conservative, though more casual compared to the past.
Anonymous 238376
kyon embarrassed.g…
>>238353If he gets embarrassed when something sexual is mentioned, then he's a virgin.
Anonymous 238386
I don't want some incel scrote who desperately wishes he could manwhore but can't. Those are much more morally corrupt than the regular male bimbo who goes with the flow and get laid on accident.
I just want a low libido man who's awkward, shy and malleable in bed.
Anonymous 238391
>>238321you don't know how wrong you are nona. these guys are literally desired by any woman who uses the internet and they are NEVER a virgin
Anonymous 238431
>>238361Moids will lie about having sex, but I have never heard of one lying about being a virgin - especially if they're older. It's about as likely as lying about having a tiny penis. Their super toxic culture basically teaches them that if they're still a virgin into their twenties or thirties they should pretty much just kill themselves and there's enough movies and shows and manga mocking virgin guys that it's practically a subgenre. Some of them definitely are complete fuckups, but some have probably just been unfortunate in their relationships and haven't found the right person yet - which I can relate to.
Anonymous 238433
>>238431NTA but
>if he knew you prefer virginsThey will 100% lie about it if they figure out you specifically prefer virgins.
Anonymous 238451
>>238377
I literally said
>formerly virgin man (who lost it to her)
btw I'd suggest not dating illiterate men either
Anonymous 238550
>>238450
STDs, surprise kids he has to support, and previous relationship drama are things you may possibly get. Not a guarantee, but still. Experience can always be built up together so it's not a concern, it'd be weird to expect someone new to be a god in bed. Learning as a couple is actually quite nice.
Anonymous 238556
>>238450
Virgins are inexperienced (obv) but they're usually pretty eager to listen and learn what you like since they don't know wtf they're doing. Doesn't mean they'll end up being any good, but they'll try.
Like a third of "experienced" guys will just jackrabbit away for 30 seconds and then roll over asking if they blew your mind.
Anonymous 238566
>>238560
you'd be surprised how many experienced males think like that
Anonymous 238572
>>238556>>238566Ok r9k moid. The one "inexperienced" man I fucked made zero effort to make me feel good and made me feel like a fleshlight. The other guys I've been with, all with at least some experience, have ate me out and done the most to make me feel pleasure and feel wanted. Granted, they didn't have tiny penises like the virgin so they had to warm me up beforehand.
Anonymous 238573
>>238572calm down used up manwhore fan, not everyone likes stds. i had a really good experience with a virgin guy so i cant relate.
Anonymous 238574
>>238573it's so obvious you're an incel moid. The way you jump to extremes and can't read is a dead giveaway
Anonymous 238575
>>238377
men born through c-section btfo forever
Anonymous 238576
>>238574>you jump to extremes!>accuses people who disagrees with her of being incel scrotes>you cant read!>throws random insult despite lack of inconsistencies in the reply she gets just because you were "used like a fleshlight" by a virgin scrote that doesn't mean it's everyone's experience. maybe don't sleep with men that treat you like that next time? lol
Anonymous 238580
>>238576even XYs pretending to be women online physically can't stop themselves from calling the females they argue with whores, it's a programmed routine in the genetically defective scrotoid's mind.
Anonymous 238582
>>238580i called
men "used up manwhores" mrs 'u cant read' lol
unless you meant me calling out sleeping with undeserving scrotes, which i never said was whore behavior, although its indeed cringe. keep embarrassing yourself
Anonymous 238601
>>238576>haha pick better >"hey guys I think we should avoid picking virgins just because they're virgins since they can still be manipulative">N-NO NOT THAT WAY Anonymous 238603
>>238601you wish you sounded this level headed lmao
Anonymous 238609
>>238560
I’ve been with virgins and most of the time they’re just really underwhelming the first few times and require some guidance, but I’ve never run into one that’s been full on “where do I put it” levels of incompetent.
Anonymous 238638
This is a very interesting video on the subject that I saw recently.
The girl on the left denies that adult male virginity is a red flag for fully half the video. She and maintains that denial even while the girl on the right confronts her with her past dates, which left had terminated specifically because she learned that the man was a virgin, with that as the sole and exclusive cause for termination. The girl on the left spent the video playing the semantic game of redefining red flag away from the common definition of a stop signal, as used by dating advice forums, and instead used the uncommon definition of an indicator of homicidal danger, used only by the true crime fandom.
The reason this is an interesting video is that it raises the same question as the OP. Neither girl in this video would ever date a virgin, but both of them are simping for virgins in their own different way. The girl on the right is simping by taking the position that virgins shouldn't be lied to or misled, and she simps much harder in other and subtler ways. And the girl on the left is simping by taking the position that virgins shouldn't disclose their virginity status ever (instead have some right to treat society as a whole and women they are dating in particular as adversaries whom virgins have a right to mislead. It is a little terrifying to see her fall into certain platitutes related to their stances. When the girl on the right falls into the platitude that the men she abruptly left should not have disclosed their virginity on the date and the night when she chose to have sex with her, she is granting license to all men to avoid disclosing any or all information related to intimacy that would and do cause women to exit the relationship. Women should never give a pass to men to hide information that is important enough to immediately end a liason. Since virginity is and has been demonstrated by her to personally be as important as oh let's say a treatable STD, avoiding disclosure is obviously immoral. Only a major simp would give a pass to a man who took the opportunity to give a girl the clap through a lie of omission.
Both girls briefly touch on the platitudes of "virginity is fine for a relationship but not a hookup" even though most relationships that start over the age of 21 start as what could be called "exploratory hookups," disclosure of personal vulnerabilities such as virginity status would indicate an intention to explore a relationship rather than a one-and-done, and the qualifying criteria for relationships are universally higher than hookups rather than lower. And both follow the platitude of virginity being acceptable in men at all stages in life with the evidence being that other men lost their virginity at a socially acceptable stage, even while both recount personal experiences and personal feelings that show it as being unacceptable by the early to at latest mid 20s. Neither girl seems to believe either of these themselves, but both of them promote these because they are the standard simp responses to prioritize the male's feelings over any and every other consideration.
Why is there this level of simping, among women who have no connection with and certainly no intentions towards this kind of creature?
Anonymous 238651
>>238638But it doesn't seem like they're simping. They think virgin men are weirdos and don't want to give them anything. Saying that virgins should lie about their virginity is bad advice, but I don't see how it amounts to simping, since they're not expecting to get anything in return.
Anonymous 238654
>>238651It's advice that is beneficial to the men and harmful to women and you don't see how that amounts to simping?
Anonymous 238655
>>238654She's giving a general advice to men in general which is harmful to women in general, but simping would be if this particular woman suffered particularly for a particular man for particular affection in return.
Anonymous 238657
>>238638>Why is there this level of simping, among women who have no connection with and certainly no intentions towards this kind of creature?Good question. I think it's because women grow up being culturally reminded that they're meant to be accessories to some man who's better than them and will reward them with eternal love in exchange for fealty. They don't like the idea that men might be inherently bad so they'd rather defend the idea that they're not instead of reckoning with the more uncomfortable truth that they might have to be lead characters - not just side characters. Simone de Beauvoir talks about this in the 'woman in love' chapter of the second sex.
Anonymous 238658
>>238655NTA but I think their question is why would a woman effectively simp for men
as a class - at least when you simp for a particular man it makes sense, because you love him, but simping for a class you're not even a part of makes no sense at all
Anonymous 238659
>>238658I do agree with nona in that the women in the video are licking the boots of moids. My claim is that the word
simp isn't used when submitting to the entire class of men but only to an individual.
Anonymous 238662
>>238026Hentai is (usually) equivalent if not worse than real porn, but literotica is completely different. It's all about romance and build up. This is why it's so rare to find moids who actually use it primarily or solely for sexual fantasy.
Anonymous 238678
>>238676
nta but it doesnt take a lot of personal experience to recognize the differences between porn and erotica. you sound like a man
Anonymous 238765
>>238004I don’t simp for anyone, but I like taking men’s virginity
Anonymous 238766
>>238765Please leave the virgin men to virgin women.
Anonymous 238779
>>238765wont they catch feelings though?
Anonymous 238780
>>238659what would would be used to talk about submitting to men as a class? pick-me?
Anonymous 238785
>>238363>you don't want a guy who has ever dumped a womanAs opposed to being dumped by a woman? I don't see the reasoning in this.
Anonymous 238786
>>238785yes - people dump other people for utterly inane reasons (wanting to "explore", cheating/monkeybranching etc.) so a man who was dumped for an unreasonable reason is fair game. a man who's dumped because he's a manchild or abusive or a cheater should obviously be avoided and any man who has dumped a woman should be as well, as he has a proven track record of not being able to commit. this is how you avoid rendering your future kid fatherless (and wasting your time in a relationship that ends)
Anonymous 238787
>>238786Okay but what if his ex cheated on him or something else actually egregious though
Anonymous 238788
>>238779That has been the case. But I did too, so it was ok
Anonymous 245467
if a guy I went on a date with mentions I am his first kiss does that mean hes a virgin to?
Anonymous 245475
>>245467>kisses before marriageHe's a slut
In all seriousness, he's probably a virgin, yes. Anonymous 245476
If you want a non-incel/voluntary virgin bf then chances are they are gonna be autistic or at least have aspergers. You can't just have your cake and eat it, it doesn't work like that
Anonymous 245477
>>245476I don't get it. What does autism have to do with chastity?
Anonymous 245479
>>245477Extreme introversion and social maladjustment. The sort that would be very hard to get to know. Those kinds of autists live in their own world and would be difficult to have a relationship with for most people
The only other kind of man that might be voluntary celibate would be religious zealots
Anonymous 245480
>>245475thats what I was thinking but what if he does a bunch of hookups and hasnt kissed because he's not looking for a relationship?
Anonymous 245481
>>245479I understand how autism would make a moid unable to have sex if he wanted it, but I don't understand how autism would make a moid not want to have sex to begin with, as that is the definition of a voluntary virgin, which you claimed are usually autistic.
Anonymous 245482
>>245481Because they don't like to be touched and prefer to be alone mostly
Also they don't even have to be that bad either. Some are just weird and don't trust anyone or love shy. They just tend to be more divergent. It is not normal to choose not to have sex in the modern age, especially men. In this age, if a man is voluntarily celibate, he's probably a sperg
Anonymous 245484
>>245467Almost certainly.
Imagine such a manwhore that has had sex without ever kissing.
I guess the exception is if he was r*ped.
Anonymous 245553
>>245531
what about hook ups, do hookups usually kiss? I want to ask if he's a virgin but he could just lie… is there any way to know for sure?
Anonymous 245561
>>245481A moid I was talking to for a while said sex "creeped him out". He couldn't really elaborate on it much but I wish he did because it's such a weird hangup. Some people clearly just have their brains put together wrong.
Anonymous 245571
>>245553When I had hook ups, we kissed. I would say it’s fairly normal to
Anonymous 245572
>>245561Here we have it again. Sounds like autism or SA victim
Anonymous 245646
>>245572I can only assume it was autism, since we met on 4chan and he was an engineering major.
Anonymous 245660
This is the same mentality that encourages the idea that women are sluts and men are pimps
Anonymous 245661
>>238026I've read just as much erotic fiction as I have hentai visual novels and I can say that men AND women are objectified in both.
The whole point of sexuality has a finger in the pie of being objectified to some degree. To say one does and the other doesn't is just ridiculous
Anonymous 245788
I only like the idea of them, but I’m too shy to approach or even befriend “virgin” looking dudes. I am an ugly virgin myself and I feel like even male virgins will still be shallow and disregard my existence. I’m sure it’s just me and my social anxiety, though.
Anonymous 245949
>>245788Why not try approaching a virgin moid first if they're shy? At worst he'll just reject you.
Anonymous 246051
so real nona, every virgin has a hissy fit if you even alude you're not gonna put out
even on higher levels of education and what not, they are still entitled brats who deserve nothing more than extermination
lord knows why they've had nothing their whole lives, depraved, the lot of them
Anonymous 246132
__houshou_marine_h…
Can't believe this thread has gone on for so long without the obvious winning answer stated:
Don't simp for men. Let men simp for YOU!
You will save yourself so much heartache if you keep that principle in mind, regardless of what role you want in the relationship. Even virgin men and bottom boys still enjoy the feeling of the chase. They may be weaker willed than dominant men but deep down they still favor something they must pursue rather than being spoonfed your love and adoration. Don't let them get too comfy and think you're just "easy" and "always there", because they're stills scrotes at the end of the day, and they mentally lack the empathy we have due to hormonal bullshit. Men like that will cheat if give the freedom and opportunity, and it's absolutely soulcrushing.
Provider men will bitch and moan and be butthurt about unfaithful women, but men given the same luxuries from a provider woman will cheat on her at significantly higher rates than unfaithful women. They simply cannot be trusted like that and should hush the fuck up with insisting they would be "more faithful"; they sure aren't.
Rare is the male that will actually be satisfied with a single woman and never start looking at other women of his own accord, and even if you manage to cultivate such a man, you will still have to protect him from other women that don't respect your boundaries. Sometimes this is easier to obtain if you are his first, but other times it's easier when he's been around and realized you are the best and he doesn't want to look anymore.
Anonymous 246142
>>246141
NTA but why such a negative association with imageboard users? What's the benchmark for what a "good" partner is? A normie? You don't think a partner who shares your interests (shitposting on imageboards might be one) is better than a conventional one who likely doesn't share your interests?
I also wouldn't recommend simping for men, 'cause they genuinely enjoy simping for YOU. They want to bring you nice shiny things to impress you with and then smooch you as a reward, and if they don't then they do not like you enough to be considered eligible partners to begin with. I don't know why you would willingly rob yourself of this.
Anonymous 246211
>>246132>>246142But virgin moids usually don't simp for women, they are too shy to start. Also:
>vtuber Anonymous 246230
>>246211I feel like virgin moids would most likely be simping for e-women like instathots or streamers.
Anonymous 246246
>>246132I would probably agree with you if you are only talking about incels who are obsessed with getting sex because they are cumbrains who just can't participate in promiscuity so they get angry. But other than that, aren't you just assuming the worst of everyone? You just sound like redpill retards who hate women and assume the worst of women. How can I know what you are saying is accurate? This is all you hear on the internet. Men/women are all cheaters and then they come up with elaborate post hoc explanation and reasoning. But in reality off of the internet I don't see that much cheating and when you do, it is usually something shocking and it can never be kept a secret for long because someone will see something eventually
Anyways I think it depends on what kind of virgin they are but that has already been discussed
Anonymous 246250
>>246246yeah i dont get it, i like my men shy and intimidating
so when i ask them out i get to see them blush.
"simping" is a totally normal and healthy tool in relationships, poaster is obviously some offensive stereotyper
>>246230lol
Anonymous 246251
>>246250>so when i ask them out i get to see them blushI have never done that because I am too shy myself to chase men but that does sound cute. I am warming up to the idea of it. I wish I could be confident enough. Timid boys are at least less intimidating to approach I imagine. If you are gonna date a virgin, the ideal I think would be one who is virgin because he is shy. But there will always be someone to tell you "you'll just give them confidence and then they will cheat on you!"
Like how the fuck can you know? It is always the worst scenario in their heads I don't know if they just want everyone to be as miserable as themselves or do they actually think like this
Anonymous 246359
>>246251you get someone who's shy and timid who's had sex a couple of times, enough that they have some confidence, but not that high.
Anonymous 247975
>>238026It doesn't have to be pornographic to cause "unrelistic expectations for relationships."
Guys who watch romance animes are probably more far gone than those who watch porn
The way girls act in anime would be considered mentally ill in real life. They're obsessive, assertive, clingy, and relentless.
Like women who watch Hallmark films exclusively are similar, the plot usually follows rich guy businessman from the city is engaged to the main character, but she returns to her home town and runs into a self employed rough around the edges who don't open up at first, but later apologies and asks her to stay.
Anyways my point is porn isn't the only problem, the crux of it is fantasy.
Everyone has the capacity to indulge in escapism, and set expectations based on fiction.
Anonymous 248245
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Virgin guys are a meal ticket to loyalty for life. If you keep a mommas boy chasing, you will be his muse for your entire collective lives. Bonus points if he's some burnt out artist (not the gas station stoner kind)
Anonymous 248249
>>248245mommas boy can become too overly-reliant on you if you get married because many of them are spoiled their entire life by their mother. They will expect you to take care of everything for them, and also you better pray his mother is not mentally deranged because a mommas boy may prefer to listen to his mother's advice over yours. Of course this isn't true for all of them, but it is common.
Anonymous 248292
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>>248249 Oh, in that case it would just be a matter of a spoiled child in a man. They take risks because they know their parents money will bail them fast and are easier to spot; what I had in mind were the poorer "forced to work, born to create" guys who are stuck with their single moms in relative poverty- guys who are actually empathetic. Sorry I should have clarified. The guys you mentioned are way more common though I agree
Anonymous 248483
>>248245>Virgin guys are a meal ticket to loyalty for life.I doubt that this is a guarantee.
Anonymous 248485
>>248245>Virgin guys are a meal ticket to loyalty for life.wasn't going to reply to the obvious larp but in case anybody here thinks this is true I can say from personal experience it is not. my ex was a virgin but he wanted to live out a harem fantasy by cheating on me with barely legal girls with daddy issues. Males are biologically attracted to spreading their seed, so being with only one woman will not satisfy that urge. You'll have to be very good at manipulating him and/or ensuring the shame of cheating would be too much for him to handle.
Anonymous 248499
>>248485This is probably the worst attitude you could have dating a desperate virgin
It's a quick ticket to getting cheated on
in my experience:
I thought I had leverage because he was inexperienced but it backfired hard when he cheated on me and broke up with me saying I treated him like shit
non virgin guys have a lot more patience because theyve been through shitty relationships, but virgins are super insecure and will ditch you if they get the hint you're using them
Anonymous 268790
If you don't go for a virgin you are getting leftovers
Anonymous 268791
Male sluts + virgin chuds should actually die.
You've given away yourself to some random bitch and now you want to take away my virginity? Slutty men are so stupid and egotistical as well, however on the other far side of the spectrum, some virgin chuds oversexualize EVERYTHING that you do and its like –can I fucking SIGH without you asking me if I'm moaning? Even as a virgin you are as filthy as a male harlot because porn has corrupted your disgusting mind.
What even is there left to do? Finding a pure virgin male that isn't out-of-touch due to a porn addiction is like an extremely rare legendary find that is impossible to attain.
Anonymous 268912
>>238004If a boy is a virgin that means he didn't fuck some nona and dumped her afterwards, creating a miserable girls who feels unloved (me) which is enough to earn my respect
Anonymous 268913
>>268912>If a boy is a virgin that means he didn't fuck some nona and dumped her afterwards>nona doesn't know that virgins can dump you Anonymous 268914
>>268913the fucking part that happens before dumping is the important one
Anonymous 268915
>>268912Yeah, but he would have if he had had the chance
So not only does he have all the incel baggage, there is also nothing to judge his character by, except that every girl who would have slept with him decided not to
Anonymous 268916
>>268914who gives a fuck about that?
I think there are other parts that are more important.
Anonymous 268918
>>268916The sex makes him lose consciousness so that you can restrain him with your silk, sink in fangs and inject the liquifying venom into his abdomen. That is a very important part of most relationships. Trust me I'm a human expert.
Anonymous 268920
Wishful thinking that he's free of poison and not a coomer.
Anonymous 268923
>>248499pretty sure most people would break up when they realize theyre getting used
Anonymous 268924
>>268923men want to feel useful tho
the trouble is not when he is used
it is when he realizes the thing you are making him feel useless about
is the same thing you are using him for
Anonymous 268927
>>238004the ideal bf has a very low but non zero body count, like 1-2. You could be the third time that's the charm. It's the balance in between not being a loser incel and not being a promiscuous manwhore.
Anonymous 268932
>>268927Even a body count of one makes him a promiscuous manwhore. One rotten apple spoils a barrel.
Anonymous 268937
>>238004There are two reasons for men to have had previous sexual partners;
>He is incapable of love. Men fall in love faster than women and only care about looks. If he found her attractive enough to have sex with, then he should have fallen in love with her.
>he has some horrible flaw that he's hidingSomeone else didn't want him. This is why he has had sex, but isn't in a relationship.
Anonymous 268952
>>268937>There are two reasons for men to have had previous sexual partners;There is ultimately only one. It looks like two from a distance, but converges.
1. He keeps making bad decisions
2. He keeps being a bad decision
If he consistently makes bad decisions on something as important as a lifelong intimate partner including trivializing the decision itself then he is a bad decision.
There's obviously a time limit on how long putting off the decision can remain a neutral decision and it definitely turns into a bad decision by no later than say the age of 24 so if you're 27 and single it's time to date younger men.
Anonymous 268956
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A virgin man will feel so empowered from your attention and care that he will immediately start looking for women to cheat on you with. You should only go for men who are able to get sex on the regular as they won't start a relationship with you just for a crumb of pussy.
Anonymous 268960
>>268956>moid fucks woman A, dumps her>moid fucks woman B, dumps her>moid fucks woman C, dumps herHe's the perfect moid for woman D!
Anonymous 268970
All this larping about wanting virgins and saying what great partners virgins make is SO obviously incels trying to trick us into giving them a chance. Like come on you think anyone would fall for this?
Anonymous 268973
>>268970>if you hate slutty men, you're a larping moid Anonymous 268974
>>268970unironically
virgin guys in their 20's are virgin because they are short and or unattractive, the rare exception is muslim celibates
end of story
Anonymous 268975
>>268974>all the attractive moids are slutsIt's a bleak world out there
Anonymous 268976
>>268970You're right this seems so forced. Women aren't generally obsessed with future partners retaining their virginity like men are. This sounds like moids trying to imitate what they think femcels are like by just saying incel stuff but flipped.
Anonymous 268981
>>268976So, what, I'm not allowed to talk about how I don't want some lousy manwhore? Women aren't a monolith, and different women want different things.
Anonymous 268983
>>268975It's not as bad outside the West. East Asian countries people in general are less slutty. Half of people between 20-24 in Japan are still virgins.
>>268976One, I don't see why we need to follow what other women are doing. Two, valuing virginity but not vice versa was always a very powerful moid tool, like moids holding positions of power or force. It's a simple empirical fact that virgins make better partners. Women, who are far less promiscuous and pair bond strongly, have always had more reason to find virgin men.
Anonymous 268985
I popped the cherry of my moid and made him into my perfect husband,he is literally perfect, if you settle down for a non-virgin its basically the same as getting cheated on.
Anonymous 268987
>>268933and then both have homosexg with eacother
Anonymous 268988
>>268970>everyone I disagree with is a scroteYou are a retard who wants soiled goods. Most incels aren't even virgins and a lot of them sleep with hookers.
Anonymous 268989
>>268983Ya no. Do you know how much prostitution there is over there? Cheating? They consider sleeping with prostitutes something to be proud of because it shows they can afford it. You sound like a retarded weeb idolizing asians
Anonymous 268990
>>268976I have a question. Why do you like slutty men? Do you think you'll somehow be different from the other girls he pumped and dumped?
Anonymous 268991
There is nothing as intimate and satisfying as conquering the moid you have chosen and then deflowering him. Most women will never know this joy sadly, most moids are whores and fuck anything that moves.
Anonymous 268993
>>268989Prostitution is even bigger in the West + casual sex. Yes no society is actually good for finding a moid in. It's just harder to find a non used moid outside of Asia. At the same age range just 6% of moids are virgins.
Anonymous 268995
im a virgin (early 20's) but i have social anxiety. its probably over for me
Anonymous 268996
>>268993>Prostitution is even bigger in the WestPlease do your research
Anonymous 269001
>>268993Nona there’s a huge number of virgins in the 20-30 age group range based on some stats posted a while back I believe
Anonymous 269002
>>269001in fact zoomers are the most virgin and socially isolated generation ever
Anonymous 269007
>>269004Theres a handful from 99 that are still unblemished
Anonymous 269010
>>268791>Finding a pure virgin male that isn't out-of-touch due to a porn addiction is like an extremely rare legendary find that is impossible to attain.I think you'd find it is quite the opposite actually, you do realize purity and nofap is coming back to fashion in the manosphere, right? I think there's a lot of young virgin zoomer moids out there right now, your goals are not as impossible as you think. Try lighten up a little, see the silver lining.
Anonymous 269011
>>269002I hate the fact that this is somewhat mostly true. The solution is right infront of our eyes, really. The observations are too, it's almost comedic. I'm laughing at the thought and the entire ordeal right now, it's more funny than it is actually sad.
Anonymous 269018
>>269007>>269004Don’t zoomers go til 95?
Since 30 year olds should go to 94?
Anonymous 269019
A male being a virgin doesn't mean shit because they all watch porn.
>>269010Nofap exists because they cranked their dick so much it broke, it has nothing to do with purity.
Anonymous 269022
>>269010Those men only reject porn because they've been ruined by it. They hate porn because it broke their dick. They all probably had some embarrassing incident where they couldn't get it and their girl laughed at them.
Anonymous 269029
>>269019>>269022Not everything is about sex, nona.
Who are you to just pessimistically assume the worst in men anyways? I think you need to quit this delusion.
You'd be far better off optimistic than just assuming the worst in everyone. Even if you are correct…
…maybe you could own that virgin, get him to stop watching porn, because of your presence in his life.
Love is far better than just a bunch of pictures and videos of e-thots, I think you know that all too well.
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>>269029nta but we are not better off being optimistic "nona". assuming the worst in men is what keeps us safe.
>own that virgin, get him to stop watching porndo labor to fix the moid until after 5-10 years his natural biological urges makes him cheat on you and abandon your children for a naive 18 year old girl
Anonymous 269033
>>269030>5-10 years his natural biological urges makes him cheat on you and abandon your children for a naive 18 year old girlTo be honest, I can't really argue with that, but nothing really lasts forever, I guess. Not to mention that women are also guilty of this. Sometimes, things don't really work out, I know, but you can still have hope, you can still enjoy what you have in the present, not all relationships last forever, there are ways that you can prevent that from happening, and if it did happen to me at least, then maybe I'd be seeing the world through your eyes right now. So, has it happened to you? Or are you just believing in what you are told to believe in without any actual life experience?
Anonymous 269034
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>>269033happened to my mother, grandmother, aunts, friends, countless women throughout history and worse. quit coming on here thinking you can convince women to date your sorry ass.
on the off chance you are female, make sure you always have financial independence. do whatever you want with males but as long as you are financially independent you will be ok. don't let some male convince you to move for him or make less money.
Anonymous 269037
>>269034nta but
"quit coming on here thinking you can convince women to date your sorry ass."
>i only want a virgin bf grrr>oh, you sound like a virgin moid trying to get me to date you!! get lost!uhm…okay
Anonymous 269038
>>269037I don't think they are the same anon.
Anonymous 269039
>>269036lmao what did he say? i missed it
Anonymous 269042
>>268983People are literally just as promiscious in korea and japan. It's just that they don't have kids.
Anonymous 269043
I made this thread 9 months ago?
Where did time go?
Anonymous 269052
>>269043Has your question been answered?
Anonymous 269173
>>269029I have a Nigel husband and he's perfect. This doesn't mean I'm some kind of retard who can't acknowledge how shit the majority of men are. Even my husband admits this.
Anonymous 269421
Virgins are the best husband material
Anonymous 269435
>>248499>virgins are super insecure and will ditch you if they get the hint you're using themNot just virgins. Friend told me that a moid she was talking to shared with her a ton of stories of 'being used' in friendships. Guy was a total lech and thought he was entitled to sex or a relationship. When he did get in a relationship finally that insecurity just followed him. He didn't ditch but he was always a pain to be around because you could tell he was neurotically analyzing every interaction as some kind of transaction.
Anonymous 269436
When I was in high school I had a crush on a boy who was saving himself for marriage. He was super cute and I'd sit behind him in gym class with my friend and oggle his butt.
Anonymous 269443
Most nonas making that sort of claim are just saying weird things for fun. The internet isn't real and not every meme is in the form of an image macro.
Anonymous 269494
What the male equivalent of "no hymen, no diamond"?
Anonymous 269509
>>269494Women don't give men diamonds.
Anonymous 269520
>>268995 nona, youre still quite young , although you feel as youre not moving fast as the other people your age and falling behind you still have so many years so dont feel inadequate
>>269010 the only reason why those moids have rejected porn is because they blame it for their inability to get it up or because theyre religious, but most moids still consume porn even on things like pinterest and tiktok
Anonymous 269521
>>269509Right, so what's the equivalent?
Anonymous 269538
>>269521Just think of something women are expected to give men in marriage, then try to think of a rhyme for it.
Anonymous 269540
>>269538Diamond is a metonym for marriage itself, and hymen is one for virginity. So what's a metonym for virginity that only applies to men?
Anonymous 269552
>>269509I bought the wedding rings for mine.
Anonymous 269561
>>269552Congrats on being conformist lol
Anonymous 269562
>>269545But virginity is desirable in this context
Anonymous 269563
>>269561I just wanted to remove him completely from the dating pool quickly.
Anonymous 269569
>>269494No virginity, no affinity
No virgin schlong, no wedding song
No virgin dick, no wedding pics
No virgin cock, no wedlock (best one imo)
No virgin thing, no wedding ring
No virgin balls, no wedding bells
No virgin man, no wedding plan
No virgin male, no wedding veil
No wife for slutty life
Only wed the new in bed
Anonymous 269596
>>269569These are kinda unfunny and most of them dont make much sense.
Anonymous 269616
This whole thread is basically chatGPT output for the prompt "what would a womens discussion about male virginity look like in bizarro world".
Anonymous 269702
Can women in this thread explain why they simp for used goods? I've never understood it, I'm curious to hear your reasons. I see this shit irl and could never wrap my head around it.
Anonymous 269704
>>269616It's honestly S-tier absurdist comedy
Anonymous 269706
>>269702If you want to get virgin moids you have to date children or 30yo+ basement dwellers who are either 500lbs tubs of lard or 90lb skeletons. All other scrotes are used goods.
Anonymous 269747
>>269706Just talk to the awkward moid that never speaks to girls, 80% probability of virgin
Anonymous 269766
>>269569There is a highly enervated part of the penis which attaches at the junction between the glans, urethral opening, and shaft. It is called the "frenulum."
It is also called the "virgin string." Or "rope."
It is called that because it is fairly common for it to tear during first intercourse for uncircumcised men. If this occurs it is generally accompanied by bleeding.
"No string, no ring."
unfortunately there isn't much if any porn of this happening sorry apparently it's actually dangerous to health and a lot harder to fake than a woman's so any searches will just turn up dull medical and anthropological stuff sorry again Anonymous 270050
>>268956>>238029We must have respect unto God, the Father of the Lord Jesus Christ; and unto His Son. It is not good to refer to God in a disrespectful or mocking manner. You can receive the forgiveness of your sins by obeying the Gospel of Jesus Christ. The Gospel is very important, because it is what we must obey in order to be saved and have eternal life in the Kingdom of God. You can learn more about the Gospel of Christ in the following video:
Anonymous 270169
>>269766>no string, no ringI like it. Imma gonna start using it.
Anonymous 270177
>>269766>it is fairly common for it to tear during first intercourse for uncircumcised menI dread this, mine is so short and tight
Anonymous 270180
>>268933I've never encountered a known virgin adult male that wasn't vile physically and mentally.
>le innocent twink!doesn't exist unless you can look hot and groom an 18 year old with self esteem issues.
Anonymous 270213
>>270180Don't be such a Debbie Downer. Innocent twinks do exist.
Anonymous 270236
>>270213>>270180Twink is a gay community term and the more extreme form of it is femboy(slut).
There is definitionally no such thing as an innocent male prostitute slim from drug use and seminal testosterone absorption who adopts catty attitudes in order to tease homosexual men into a state of arousal.
Anonymous 270297
>>270236You're judging the term by it's more extreme form though. That's like judging cars by semi trailer trucks.
