/b/ - Random

>>266643
She's single. I don't take relationship advice from single pick-up artists. If they were good they'd not be single.

>>266644
She's not wrong. Hold out for 3 months and you'll see how quickly moids show their true colours. Her singleness is a reflection on the quality of men around her, not on her.

(With that said, this trick only works if you hold out for every guy; if you've kissed within 3 months previously, then you've kinda shot yourself in the foot).

She also says wearing sunglasses and drinking tap water is bad.

People like her should have their phones taken away and be made to hand out leaflets outside a supermarket, then we'd see how popular their dumb ideas are.

>>266651
Drinking tap water can be bad tho
Obviously it depends on your area but you're better off drinking it filtered

>>266643
Most moids would just assume you are not attracted to them, how does she propose to get past that?

>>266668
What

she's right. most men get bored after one kiss anyway so kissing is a waste of effort and emotional energy.

great way to make a man assume you're super religious and are saving sex until marriage, but then you'll only attract men who are also religious

>>266643
Am I the only one here who thinks this is a good idea?

There's just no way you can sort the grain from the chaf with scrotes bc there's no grain. There are no decent men so all these hacks to find The One are just wastes of time. Pump n dump if you really have to deal with men, but don't look for value in them past that.

>>266694
Idk some of you guys act genuinely addicted to dick. If I said "don't deal with men at all" then Dickriders Club would be after me. Cannot win with you sadsacks

>>266696
>Cannot win with you sadsacks
I mean, women's alternatives are all ass. That's why we're here.

>>266690
it is genuinely a good idea although 3 months and kissing are pretty arbitrary. But setting a boundary on how easily you give up sexuality not only ensures you get the right kind of man, it actually makes you more attractive. It shows you are respectable, have expectations and wont have sex with any random person.

I did this this my first year of uni with a really nice guy in my chemistry unit and the closest we got physically was holding hands and hugging. However, after 2 months, it turned out he thought we were just friends…who cuddled in bed while watching movies, took long nature walks while holding hands and held each other when we had to say goodbye. By the time I thought I was ready for more intimacy, he'd been on 2 dates with a girl he liked and wanted us to meet, as I was just such a good friend. God I cringe thinking back on that. As it turns out he wasn't actually fucking with my head, as his other female friends from high school actually did cuddle with him while watching movies, climb over him for piggyback rides and latch onto his arms, so his norms of physical intimacy were massively skewed.

>>266720
>his other female friends from high school actually did cuddle with him while watching movies, climb over him for piggyback rides and latch onto his arms, so his norms of physical intimacy were massively skewed
He is a slut.

>Female pickup artist says
Doesn't matter, they're wrong.

>>266724
He was a virgin until they met.

>>266759
>was a virgin
"Was" is the word here
Every slut "was" a virgin

>>266861
>demand money and time
The money is his payment, but time is his recompense. The arrangement is that he is paying for our time, not for any specific activity within that time. You know. Like escorts.

>>266861
I'm sorry that you see time with yourself as something that's low in value nona, but it's not. You have value. You deserve to be yourself and be comfortable being yourself, and in that you deserve to be valued as a person. To be valued for just being who you are, without any other proviso or caveat.

Your time is worth something, being with you is worth something. Hanging out with you is worth something. Even if you aren't doing anything. Even if you just sit in silence enjoy each other's company, knowing that the other person enjoys being with you.

You aren't just desirable for a body, you are also desirable for your mind and your heart, your soul and your dreams. You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, because you are important. Whoever say otherwise is a liar. You have intrinsic value, human worth, an nobody can take that from you. You are someone to be proud of, you are someone to be respected, someone to be treated with kindness and decency.

What a man gets from being with you isn't "nothing". It's companionship. Camaraderie. The a person that will be able to form a relationship with that will potentially last a lifetime, if you both so desire. You aren't nothing, nona.

>>266861
Split costs of stuff idk? Economy is shit and everyone is broke these days, maybe just go chill at a park or the pool or something?

I've been dating my bf for a year and we've never even been in the same room together.

>>266982
e-dating is worthless

>>266667
I've generally made every moid I've dated wait this long - not for pua reasons but I just don't feel comfortable doing stuff like that until around 12-15 dates in (which ends up roughly taking like 3 months). I've never gotten shit from them - they genuinely like your company at the beginning so they'll cut you slack if you seem kind of awkward around physical stuff at first.

>>266956
thx nona i have diabetes now

>>266956
This attitude of "he brings money I bring personhood" can be phrased to sound advantageous or hard and harsh but in practice creates complacency. Not expecting camaraderie, companionship or basic human decency from men leads to a lower quality of dating experience overall. For everyone including anyone who raises their standards up to require a man to also be a human.

>>266983
Not who you're responding to, but i kinda like it personally.
I'm e-dating some from my BDO guild for a while now, and it makes me feel warm and loved w/o all the unpleasant stuff like worrying he only cares about your body.

>>266643
She's on the right track. Being physically affectionate with a moid releases chemicals in your brain that can cloud your judgment. It can allow low value moids to have access to your when they haven't earned it.

>>266643
Ive been married for 15 years but I'm gonna say thats shit advice. If this guy is willing to wait 3 months for just a kiss I'm gonna see him as pathetic and lose interest.

Then again I like kissing.

>>266643
So women are finally getting into this grift too huh? I think we should all know by now these people just spout off bullshit and not to listen to them. They say stupid shit because it gives them attention.

I asked my bf what he thought and he said "Its like if a job has an overly intensive screening process, you think youre getting the best candidates but you only get the most desperate".
Not sure if there is much truth to that. I think physicality is extremely important for most people to connect, not just men, and just because you value physicality doesnt mean thats all you want from a relationship.
I dont think kissing is the problem anyway. I think sex is, take your time with sex to know you 100% trust and love someone.