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No. I’m a bitch that’s different

>>269492
Yes, in elementary school I did some pretty mean bullying now that I think about it that probably fed some kid's insecurities. Mostly the kind of things stupid kids do like pointing out when a kid smells bad or was acting like a retard. Nothing I also didn't get back in petty insults. (never was I the smelly kid, I feel the need to emphasize) Didn't we all receive and give shit to each other like that?

I did a lot of kind of messed up stuff like spreading rumors or stealing login info and snooping in a few kid's myspaces/facebooks/tumblrs but I only did it as payback for them treating me like shit first so I'm not sure if that counts.

Outside of some teasing that in retrospect got a bit out of hand, no. I was only ever outwardly nasty to people who started it with me or others.

No but i was bullied when i was a kid, being a retard as a woman is a death sentence.

In elementary school me and a few other people bullied this one girl. I honestly don't remember what made us target her because she was completely inoffensive from my adult perspective. I really regret doing it. In elementary school I would also do a lot of trash talking and gossiping behind my classmates backs. I don't know if people count that as bullying since it wasn't a direct thing. I ruined most relationships with my classmates and then had a moment of self awareness in 6th grade that I was the problem and decided to stop gossiping in any future friendships. I was also bullied too like being called fat and ugly to my face mostly by the scrotelets.

I've never bullied anyone but of course I was bullied in middle school. In high school one of my best friends and I had a falling out which ending in both of us doing toxic bully-like things to each other, but since it was mutual I don't think it counts.

Kinda, I used to just be a bitch in general, but the people I was nasty to were nasty right back at me and it usually wasnt a repeated harassment. There was one kid who I, on one occasion made cry, and shoved a marker down his buttcrack. Maybe that was bullying because it was repeated and he didnt fight back much. I felt bad after making him cry though as I had a crush on him, and said sorry? I dont know.

>>269492
I was tormented throughout elementary and middle school, probably because of being undiagnosed while on the spectrum as a girl. High school I had an entirely fresh start as I moved away from the area I grew up in after my parents got divorced. In HS though I got into a very catty/bitchy mean-girl phase, mostly due to some problems at home, that I regret. I shit-talked a girl who in all reality was nothing but nice to me on my tumblr at the time, and another girl I went to school with told her shortly before graduation (other girl followed me which was retarded, the tumblr mentality of 'don't have people you know irl follow your blog' had some truth to it). I regret it now but it'd be weird to reach out to her and apologize.

me and my friend used to kinda bully this one guy for idk what reason tbh we were like 8 stupid ass kids. nothing physical we were just mean to him. then last year of elementary school (when we were 16 i think) he started texting me so we ended up sending memes to each other every day but never hung out irl cause i was 247 with my girl friends. i really regretted being mean to him as kids so obviously i apologized and he forgave me. last year i asked him to hang out bc i was rly bored, but i realized we had nothing in common besides the meme sending… but yeah now we stopped talking bc he thought i was too hateful of moids. i shitposted on my private acc that "moids should start the new year in jail and get out once they prove they're good people" lmao obviously i wasnt being dead serious, but he took it personally for some reason. keep in mind i have 2 guys on my private account so obv anything i post excludes them… but yeah thats the story ig still im glad he forgave me cause i still regret being a bitch w my friend

I found a cat on the sidewalk and destroyed his self esteem

Irl no, online maybe? I don't enjoy when someone starts breaking down so I stop them but I dont think it all was bullying ever really just arguments

>>269492
>>269492
Yes sort of and I got bullied as well.

Kind of, although it was really only because I just wanted my own bullying to stop. My bullies found a new target with a new student and started spreading rumors that she had to leave her old school because she got caught having sex there by a teacher. I joined in spreading them and laughing at her, since they had stopped laughing at me and were focusing on her for the time being.

I have physically bullied multiple kids, I've also been bullied but it never became physical

>>269595
>>269594
Now this is romance. The liberal media doesn't want you to see this.

idk if it was bullying but its what id consider to be it,, mostly just picking on this girl that was more autistic than me because people would treat me better when i did

>>269492
I know bullies don't realize it themselves most of the time but I still wouldn't say I ever did. I did however gossip about people and shared some 'theories' I had about them which I couldn't really prove or anything. There was this one mentally ill girl (in hindsight I think she might've had borderline or something) who was always super hot and cold to me. One day we'd be friends being all close and the next one she would bully me with a group of others. Idk why I still stayed 'friends' with her but I did. I also made fun of her promiscuity (we were like 12 at that time and she had already had quite a few sexual partners and obviously with me being a raised-on-the-internet pick-me who thought she was a cool gamer girl or whatever I didn't have any tolerance for 'whoring around', especially while being as young as we were). I remember she answered some questions of her tellonym on insta and someone left a quite aggressive message on her tellonym talking about how her uncle raped her or took her virginity or something along those lines. Now in my head I somehow came up with the theory that she herself sent this message. I just thought it didn't make any sense to share it publicly on her story and claiming she didn't want to talk about it in order to not cause any drama while never clearly confirming or denying it happened. I also somehow couldn't understand why she would've told some guy who could hold it against her (I was such a retard). So I proceeded to gossip about it with some of my friends. Really I could punch myself in the face for that. If anything her shitty behavior and her being promiscuous at that young age and everything should've been an obvious sign that something must've been wrong. Like even if she somehow had just made that shit up, obviously a healthy person wouldn't do that. She also cut herself. While I'm glad to not have her in my life anymore (and I think I should've just walked away back then too) I still hate the way I handled everything especially since even back at that age it wasn't like I incapable of understanding stuff like that, I somehow just chose to be ignorant and give in to my negative feelings about her. I really hope she's doing better by now and I really hope she somehow didn't actually have to go through this shit. God I regret reacting like that so fucking much.

No, I was frequently bullied, though. I do "shit talk" everyone to a degree, but I expect that happens to me behind my back (or that people don't even care enough about me to talk about me). I don't think shit talking is the same as bullying, though. I've never been cruel to someone to their face intentionally. I can appear cold, though. Maybe that's hurt someone's feelings and I'm not aware of it.

a bit, it's inexcusable but i was going after the kids who had the same traits that i myself was bullied for. why weren't they as scared and sad as I was? sometimes i see grown ass adults acting the same way nowadays and i wonder if they were ever bullied and if they were, how they could be unashamed of their jackassery

I bully racists online. They end up locking their accounts (if on twitter) or getting very obsessive in turn. I don't feel bad.

no not really unless you consider being mean to assholes on twitter as actual bullying lol

I bullied a guy in high school because I wanted to be part of the in-group with other girls and he was an easy target. I feel really, really awful for it, but he never reacted and just took it with pure stoicism. We were never friends, but we communicated by tapping on the shared wall of our changing rooms after PE and learning morse code. If I'd been less obsessed with fitting in, I probably would have dated him instead.

>>269594
>shoved a marker down his buttcrack
Elaborate

>>276189
>If I'd been less obsessed with fitting in, I probably would have dated him instead.
Really? All I remember thinking about these guys is wondering why they didn't fight back and feeling like they are extremely pathetic. Sometimes wondered what their homelives were to end up like this

>>276202
female bullying is a lose/lose situation for most men Nona

there was a guy i went to school with, in early elementary school we lived in the same neighborhood and were "friends". later on we went to the same high school and he was not popular. i personally did not bully him but my boyfriend at the time did.

years and years later i got a job and he was my boss's boss (CTO of the company). a few times i tried to say hi to him and catch up but every time he was very cold, distant, and rude to me. i left the company after about a year because i felt unfairly treated and ostracized, and i wonder if he had something to do with it.

>>276216
this is what moids actually believe

>>276189
>we communicated by tapping on the shared wall of our changing rooms after PE and learning morse code
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I was a sperg and harassed people and played pranks and did weird things for amusement when i was feeling manic but for some reason i had the unshakable label of being "quiet" and no one cared or forgot about the times i acted like a retard somehow/ people who i harassed didn't tell anyone else? and just felt uncomfortable at the most because I had low social standing or was seen as childish and uncool?, this actually won me a bored normie friend who really liked me for my psychopathic antics, though the times i was shamed for my spergy actions haunts me now, not the actions themselves, just ruining the social atmosphere by hurting other people's feelings or upsetting them has always hurt me. It's really haunting me. Ithink im getting schizophrenia. I've always been so, so disconnected from people. hear me out with this one n0nas, but Jeffrey Dahmer seems to have had a similar childhood and he makes me feel less alone

>>276240
The atmosphere is already always ruined by psychosocials. If its not psychosocial when you're in high school, it most certainly is after college. Maybe college is a short relief from all that, but then you're quickly plunged into world of destructive lunatics that do themselves with or without autists. People are generally really vile when you get into adulthood. Don't sweat it too much, nothing changes with or without you.