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Dumb teens being dumb teens as they're in the process of rebelling and figuring themselves out, who cares.

They're just following trends. Don't pretend you didn't follow at least one. Just laugh at it like our parents did at our trends.

As someone who was born in the late 1900’s, I would’ve 100% called myself a femcel if the term was around back then. I literally had “relatable” rage comics with picrel on my planner and pencil case in high school.

It’s not that I think they aren’t cringe, I just know how I was like at that age. When you’re 16 and you haven’t had bf it really does feel like you’re this social outcast even if it’s not founded in reality. I also don’t love the fact that board culture has infected the normies so to speak but it is what it is.

It's trendy on tiktok

it’s funny bc i think by definition teenagers can’t be hikineets. unless they fucking dropped or something. and femcels, i think theyre just socially retarded and mad at their boyfriends. they dont get the lifestyle and its implications, nor do they actually want it. just the trend and everyone wants to be mentally ill and “cool” now.

World is lonelier than ever, feel bad for the future generations that will have the same problems with even less people around

I do feel bad for them for using that word to describe themselves, especially since they’re so young. But at the same time I feel contempt, since they’re probably doing it to get attention from moids far more retarded than them.

>>270915
Teenagers shouldn’t feel as though they’re weird for not having sex.
It shows our culture is WAY too saturated with sex if not engaging in sex is a major stressor on a teenager’s mind

it's just a trend and soon they'll latch on to something else. i guess it's part of struggling with having an identity when you're a teen

>>271077
best answer ITT

>>271153
There is a huge middle ground in between thinking that teens shouldn't feel pressure to have sex and that everyone should swear themselves to chastity until they meet a soulmate

Yes because when you say it it's real, when they say it it's just an larp, correct? You're the universe's only lonely woman.

>>271154
>everyone should swear themselves to chastity
Based

I want to tell them that it's okay and it won't matter as much when they're older, but I'd be a lying hypocrite.

No one ever asked me out or anything in high school. Back then, I'd cope by thinking I'd find someone as an adult and have a nice family with them…now I'm approaching 30 w/o even a kiss.

I feel like I'm rotting on the shelf.

>>271162
>>271163
I'm not male, just a budding old maid.

I'm glad I have no idea what nonas upthread are talking about. Anyway, teens can't be neets because they're in education, they're in middle school or high school. Unless they dropped out, and I don't think these girls did. Not having a summer internship at 16 doesn't make you unemployed, you're still a student

can't femcels just date incels?

None of them know what a femcel is or what it's original meaning. That's the case with most things that go popular, esp. on tiktok, things just lose their original meaning and the tiktok brainrot army redefines it completely

>>271170
>can't femcels just date incels?
Genius. No one has ever thought of that one before anon.

Incels don't want femcels, they want their dream girl who is obsessed with them and looks just like their favorite pornstar/instagram model but is also a virgin. They are assholes with an inferiority complex who think wallow in self pity but still think they’re so smart and better than everyone else.
Furthermore, some of them are still obsessed with a random Stacy from high school and are so bitter and stone cold from that experience that they wouldn’t even give the “perfect” girl a chance let alone femcel Franny.
I’m sure you could genderswap this for femcels but most non retarded women are aware that there is some loser who would fuck them.

Sorry for the OT. Uh >>271171
>>270989
>>270985
ur right everyone else is ritardando I guess

>>271185
moid opinions lmao

>>271188
ur not even a woman probably just a troon lmfao

>>271189
LMAO keep seething maddona/whore complexed retard.

>>271185
>>271188
>>271189
>>271191
You both sound like you just finished kindergarten.

>>271194
Y he ear so fast?

>>271158
Absolutely. No one’s self worth should be tied to whether or not you’re having sex, no matter who you are

>>271185
>i only want a girl that fits my personality type, i couldnt care less about her looks or whether she's ugly or fat
That’s actually really sweet. I wish everyone was like this!

I’m like this too - I have a crush on a guy who’s almost 60, not the best looking, and only makes peanuts, but I love his personality so much and we definitely vibe.

If you’re outwardly unattractive with a heart of gold, it actually enhances that inner beauty.

fucking annoying how they make trends from literal mental illness, same with this "bedrotting" stuff. can't even call myself a hikki or neet anymore cause people will think i'm just some 16 year old quirky girl from tiktok. normal people stop invading mentally ill peoples spaces challenge go

>>271246
If you're not diagnosed then you're doing the same thing, you know.

>>271202
>I’m like this too - I have a crush on a guy who’s almost 60, not the best looking, and only makes peanuts, but I love his personality so much and we definitely vibe.
exactly… glad im not alone
im not going to pretend that looks are 100% irrelevant for me because that would be dishonest as literally everybody is biologically wired to be somewhat lookist - but for me, in terms of actual romantic relationships, its maybe 90% personality 10% looks. most of my crushes have been average or below average girls (in terms of conventional attractiveness) because for some reason those are the ones that tend to have the personality i like - introverted, sweet, nice, loyal, clingy and a little weird

i can fall in love with someone just through texting for long enough without seeing what they look like. literally just be nice and sweet and make me feel loved. and im sure that im not the only one that thinks this way… so i cringe hard when i read stuff like what that other nona posted.
if you're ugly and reading this… dont be discouraged, you will find someone one day

i think it stems from a lot of children growing up way too fast like youre not expected to be in a relationship at fucking 13

>>271253
This. I remember being 15-16 and convinced I’d die alone because I hadn’t had my first kiss or bf

>>271184
>Incels don't want femcels
>most non retarded women are aware that there is some loser who would fuck them
So which one is it? Don't incels post all the time that incels and femcels are literally made for each other?

>>271272
Incels are losers but every loser is not an incel. Also “will fuck” is not the same as “have a relationship with”. Conflating the two makes you sound male.

>>271272
get reading comprehension

Yes on reddit sub with femcel in its name I forgot

>>271274
Differ incels from losers, then.
My guess is that you define incels as lonely men who hate women, when it actually just means that they're lonely.

>>271274
but incel and femcel literally just mean involuntary celibate

>>271327
>incel = involuntary celibate
>femcel = female celibate (no involuntary)
Properly, it should be femincel.
In fact, it should be involcel, not incel to begin with.

>>271330
incel naturally would lengthen to incelibate, which means the opposite of what incel actually means.

>>271161
I'm sorry. I hope you get lucky this year.

>>271257
That’s insane that you felt that pressure to conform to that at such a young age. I remember having an existential crisis around 14-15 when I found out people were having sex regularly in high school- I legit thought it was normal to wait until marriage and that only a tiny degenerate fringe had sex for fun.

It’s disturbing that something so obvious to me - to wait to have sex until you’ve found “the one,” yet everyone else seems to throw it away so frivolously or even worse, out of a need for conformity and to avoid the shame of being perceived a certain way.

We just need to shift the collective mindset from one that sees virginity as awkward/inexperienced/inconvenient/belittling to one that sees preserving it as a beautiful sacrifice for one’s future spouse. This epidemic of prolonged virginity and lonliness is a symptom of the sickness caused by the electronic distractions being prioritized over hanging out with friends IRL

Seriously, growing up, I couldn’t wait to be a mall goth, but then the internet came along and everyone became a zombie and public places quickly became desolate. I honestly h8 the internet, but can’t seem to quit it.
I love you nonas too much <3

>>271346
Thank you. I'll admit that when I wrote that I was in a pretty bad mood over it, but it does come and go. At the very least, I should realize that I shouldn't take what I DO have for granted because I'm actually very blessed in so many other things.

>>270915
They think it makes them quirky. Same goes for the people that call themselves schizo, autistic, et cetera, when they aren't. They don't seem to realize their efforts to become different just makes them all the same.

>>271365
They are normies. I don't understand normies

yknow, i used to be this way. i grew out of it, though. i think a lot of girls are just extra insecure at that age because puberty is gay.

Yes. They are pretty too which makes no fucking sense. Just try for gods sake.

>>270915
Nah but i don't identify with femcels or hikineets. Kids just wanna have some identity. I also did when i was their age

>>271188
is that your crush? How'd you even find an obscure channel with 3k views?

Kids always think they're special. Plus, at that age they're starting to feel their age for the first time. They're still kids, but they're becoming aware of their power and the fact they aren't using it. They're very rapidly, very confrontingly, seeing what others in their age group have accomplished. At 14 they convince themselves they'll reach those oh-so-important milestones by 16; at 16, having accomplished nothing, they reschedule those milestones for 18. It's easy to feel like a failure at that age, because your peers seem to fall into two categories: stars and failures.

i've been calling myself a femcel since i was 16, not just because i haven't had sex but because i haven't even held a conversation or eye contact with a male since i was 13

>>272038
That's normal. I'd wager to say it's common. A lot of young girls don't really interact with men who aren't family or teachers. Later, they only really interact with men who are coworkers. Doesn't make them femcels, inherently.

>>272038
>>272045
Were you both homeschooled?

>>272045
i interact with them, my female friends have a bunch of guy friends but when i try to talk to those boys they just ignore me

>(13-17) calling themselves femcels and hikkiNEETS
If you're 13-17 it's child abuse for you to be a NEET considering you are in high school.
And it's also for the better if you're a "femcel" at that age.

it's just tiktokfags trying to be special when it makes them look even more retarded. same with "femcel"

>>271196
Y he don get brain freeze (wud be funneh, lel)