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Anonymous 301047

When men say "women prefer dating bad boys".

What exactly do they mean? Where does this "women only like bad boys" stereotype even come from? Why do so many men believe it?

I can't imagine any woman actually wanting to prefer an abusive and controlling narcissist.

Anonymous 301049

the women who generally fall for this stereotype are, in my opinion, usually "bad" themselves- think of your stereotypical trailer trash couple

that being said, horniness and other strong romantic feelings often override the majority of people's senses, so even a sensible woman can end up thirsting after a "bad boy"

def did it when I was younger but I learned my lesson and now cut men off at the smallest sign of these habits

Anonymous 301050

i think it comes from many women being put off by desperate simps. some of these simps see other guys not being as attentive or “considerate” as them and they think “women just want a guy that will treat them like shit”

they don’t realize that women aren’t put off by simps because theyre nice. theyre put off by them because theyre often desperate losers who underneath, have weird beliefs about women too.

Anonymous 301053

>>301047
>cut men off at the smallest sign of these habits

examples of these habits??

Anonymous 301055

>>301053
not anon but, from my experience

>drug/alcohol use, inability to control intake

>looking at other women (irl or online)

(not habits but):
>INABILITY TO REGULATE EMOTIONS
>excessive defensiveness

Obvs people hide these habits at first but I feel like these are standard amongst terrible men. Regulating emotions is the most important (and noticeable) one. my emotionally unstable bfs all ended up being abusive, one small shift in emotion was enough to make them lash out

Anonymous 301056

>>301049
>def did it when I was younger but I learned my lesson and now cut men off at the smallest sign of these habits

More like you happily gave it up to thugs and abusers when you were young and pretty, but now that you're old and busted and bad boys don't even want you anymore, you're pretending you've "matured" out of it while continuing to learn for them every day.

Anonymous 301059

>>301047
Dark triad traits and Byronic heroes in fiction lets people believe this stereotype



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