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Anonymous 305912
Guys make some high effort posts about your interests or something. Enough boymoms and some stupid shitty boyfriend you should probably leave. Some random gossip or something interesting that happened to you works too
~ I will start. A family member of mine eloped with her bf after covid and cut all contact from her super toxic family. She still posts on her very public ig though lol. Its not super interesting but it is something.
Anonymous 305916
>>305912people who've cut out toxic or abusive family that still post publicly online confuse me. i've had to cut out abusive family and i found out over a year later one of those family members was searching my name, email, phone number, literally anything that could tie an online account to myself. thankfully all they managed to find was an old and now deleted tiktok account i stupidly signed up for with an old phone number.
this family member was posting literally anything they could find (or speculated they could find) about me publicly on facebook until i threatened to get law enforcement involved (again).
i guess everyone has different circumstances, though.
Anonymous 305919
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>>305912Left this site two years ago, came back because of the 4chan hack and decided to visit some imageboards for nostalgia sake.
I've got a boyfriend! A handsome one! Got my degree and started having a grown up job.
I'm no longer a femcel, maybe I'll marry him in a few years. So yeah nonas, life can get much better!
Also, is that pic Chizuru from ReLIFE?
Anonymous 305922
>>305916Her toxic fam is only made up of her very elderly parents and one brother that dgaf. Her distant family is fine and were actually very concerned when she stopped all contact. I find the ig posts funny because we all thought she went to another continent or something.
Anonymous 305923
>>305919I'm so happy for you nona…want this to be me in a few years haha…no this is just a random drawing I think …got it from pinterest
Anonymous 305971
>>305919nona please give some advice, how do you meet good men??
Anonymous 305985
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>>305912>Some random gossip or something interesting that happened to youMy mom checked into rehab and I got a new phone. New phone is sorta exciting (although i really didn't need a new one). Mom in rehab is sad, but I hope she truly gets better and finds her way. So…all in all, things are looking up?
Anonymous 305986
>>305985Yes! Enjoy your new phone…your mom will get better!! <3
Anonymous 306029
>>305919I hate to be a parrot, but please give me some advice to break out of femceldom Nona. Also how old are you? Do you think 27 is too late to start dating and find love?
Anonymous 306033
>>306029NTA but 27 is not too late at all. Just extra annoying because you're in the divorced dad range
Anonymous 306038
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>>306033>start dating at divorced moid range Ah, I missed so fucking much. I’ll never be someone’s high school or college sweetheart. I already knew that though… thanks for the encouragement. I should try to be less negative. Any tips?
Anonymous 306039
>>306038Tips on finding a scrote worth dating and won’t just date rape me I mean. Pretend I’m not a socially inept freak.
Anonymous 306040
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>>305916But if you don't give out too much information on your social networks, you can continue posting normally. You can't give that much power to family members you don't even like (with the exception of Linkedin, of course. On that network, abusive family members can't find out at all.)
>>305919Are you a late bloomer? Because I also only managed to get these things as an adult, and honestly, I think it was better that way.
Anonymous 306088
>>306038You are in the age range to date guys that have never been married before too! Keep first option unmarried then divorced
Anonymous 306306
>make some high effort posts
>gossip
>eceleb
Never change cc.
People who talk about "toxic families" always seem to have joined some internet cult. websites and discords are not communities.
Anonymous 306458
>>305912>make better posts! like this one I just made that belongs in feels instead of bThis ain't it.
Anonymous 306459
>>306039>Pretend I’m not a socially inept freak.Alright then I won't give any advice since a non-socially inept person will already know the answer.
Anonymous 306469
>>306039Make sure he is able to put up with a lot punishment. Threaten to kill yourself if shows the slightest bit of irritation.
Anonymous 306470
I met a one of a kind moid, he's fat but very handsome somehow he has the face of a man a third of his weight, he has a bit of muscle too which helps, he's really confident but he has his shy moments which are cute, he's clearly an introvert but super good with social situations which I admire, he's interesting, funny, kind, considerate, he has the edgiest most 2016 sense of humour ever but it somehow comes off as funny and endearing rather then cringe, he's saving himself for marriage but he's not a prude or judgemental of others, this guy is a walking contradiction.
Anyways, I procrastinated too long before making my move so now he's dating the nigerian exchange student and I'm in the friend zone and basically it's so fucking over…
Anonymous 306472
>>306470Nona is literally in an interracial ntr hentai
>the story of how my chubby innocent bf got blacked and stolen from me Anonymous 306476
>>306458No need to be rude …I was tired of the moid postig and other stupid shit back when this thread was made
Anonymous 306498
>>306039Sounds like your mindset is completely fucked. Unfortunately the only way to have a relationship, any relationship is to open yourself up and trust people. This can lead to heartbreak and pain, but can also lead to relationships that will last a lifetime. If you think every man you come across is a date rapist or going to do you harm, you will never, ever, have a satisfying relationship and will be forever alone
Anonymous 306513
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>>306459Okay pretend I’m what I am.
>>306469That sounds like a good idea. I’ll run up to the first good looking scrote I see and threaten to off myself if he doesn’t take me to a steak house.
>>306498That’s fair I guess. Maybe being in here doesn’t help with my mentality. I just need to figure out where I can even meet people these days and figure it out. All the bars I go to have no single people and I hear rape stories come out the one night club in my area, not that I’d do well in that environment anyways. Maybe I can look up social events.
Anonymous 306516
>>306476Moid posting and stupid shit website, sister.
Anonymous 306519
4chan refugee trying to find a place to fit in but finding the color formats of other chans to be very unpleasing to the eyes, I think I need to just move on at this point.
Anonymous 306522
>>306513Night clubs are great for sex with strangers or getting raped, any guy at a night club is not marriage material.
Anonymous 306524
>>306498>open yourself up and trust people.People…or moids?
Anonymous 306539
>>306522You are probably right, but that just feels like kicking the question of where to find a good mood down the road. I’m scared the answer is just, “you meet them randomly while living your life”, since I don’t meet anyone outside of work as a reforming shut in. My brother met his gf in highschool and my sister meet her bf at a bar in college, so I always just sorta figured I’d stumble into something.
Anonymous 306545
>>306539I don't think there's anything wrong with listing places not to meet people at least.
>I’m scared the answer is just, “you meet them randomly while living your life”Technically that's probably the best and purest way to meet someone but also the way with the most variable success rate.
Anonymous 306547
>>306545It seems like everyone did all their “meeting friends and loves” at school. It’s bad enough starting from 0, but knowing I have to build up social skills just kills me. At this point, I feel like I’m the one who needs to approach everyone and I’ll always come off as some awkward freak approaching people at the grocery store. What do people my age do for fun?
Anonymous 306551
>>306547Go out to places with their friends and lovers…
Anonymous 306557
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>>306551The only people I know are my sister and brother. My sister is on the other side of the country and my brother only goes to clubs and sells firearms at gun shows. I guess I could just go to a gun show. That would be interesting if nothing else… I’m really starting at level 0 here, I am stupid. I’m not trying to come off as thick headed.
Anonymous 306563
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>>305912i really like watching car accidents in real life. theres an intersection i go to and crashes happen there semi often. usually fender benders. sometimes huge ones. saw a big one this week. called the cops and helped one of the people get out of their car, they were really grateful and gave me a hug and i almost cried. will never see them again but it was like a hit of meth and i think about it a lot.
Anonymous 306571
>>306557You could just do what I do and live in isolation and never have friends.
…It's comfy!…
Anonymous 306572
>>306571NO! I’ve done that for so long and I only regret it. I want to try and make positive changes to my life. I want friends and love and a better job and hobbies. If nothing else, I want to say I have it an honest try.
Anonymous 306587
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>>306563you should read this, or watch the film adaptation
Anonymous 306617
>>306587kek, does the main character have a fetish for it or something? i'll look it up
Anonymous 306618
>>306038Don't feel too bad nona, because of the pandemic there's plenty of unexperienced guys(who aren't incels) you can experience puppy love with. You just gotta put yourself out there, go to events and stuff.
Anonymous 306637
>>306625this is so fucking funny actually. they fuck in a car until they wreck and that's their thing. what will people make up next
Anonymous 306645
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>>306618What sort of events do you suggest? Im going to try using meetup com but it seems sorta like a ghost town. There is a music festival coming up in a few months… but that’s in a few months. I don’t use Snapchat. Is that a good resource?
Anonymous 306648
>>306524People. How could you form a friendship with someone if you're unwilling to share part of yourself with them. You have to put effort into your relationships whether they are romantic or not.
Anonymous 306659
>>306625Nta but I watched it years ago and it was just about one of the dumbest things I've ever seen
Anonymous 306677
>>306645you can't meet me because I only live on the internet.
Anonymous 306678
>>306677We probably also love a billion miles from each other, but I hope you try to stop living in the internet too.
Anonymous 306686
the moderation here is so crazy
like
I understand gatekeeping especially with all the new traffic but like
let me post shit though
(unrelated to any horrible spam posts you've deleted recently)
Anonymous 306693
>>306648They would share everything with me and I just wouldn't open myself up to them…
Anonymous 306694
>>306686>high effort posts about your interests>crying about moderationIs shitposting your only hobby or something?
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>>306695
It’s wild how niggy became integral to .cafe culture in less than 24 hours.
Anonymous 306700
>>306698
You should consider retiring from living.
