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Anonymous 306963

>start talking to someone
>is going surprisingly very well
>we share many interests
>he seems interesting smart and cool
this is going dangerously to well
>reveals he is pretty into porn
:/ okay i guess this can still work
>reveals he has a scat fetish
:|

and now i am not sure what to do
i dont want to just ghost him but im not sure how to tell him i couldnt be with someone someone who is into that
seems very rude and insensitive to tell someone that something they are into is disgusting and repulsive
i dont see how i can just suddenly shift up and be cold and push him away without hurting his feelings

what do
what do i say
how do i handle this

Anonymous 306965

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you know what needs to be done

Anonymous 306966

>>306963
That is insane, sorry. However, eating poop is the biggest red flag imaginable so dump his moid ass.

Anonymous 306967

>>306963
you should dox him

Anonymous 306968

Ghost him. Why are you even thinking otherwise? He's into literal shit. Say "your porn addiction and sexual attraction to feces disgusts me on all levels" and block him. Remember that paraphilias cluster, shit probably isn't the only gross thing he's into.

Anonymous 306994

have you even TRIED it yet?

Anonymous 307020

>>306965
i know but its hard to be mean and judge people which causes them to feel bad about themselves

>>306966
>eating poop is the biggest red flag imaginable
yes i agree
it is so extreme it was not even on the list of things i was worried about i didnt even consider it

>>306967
i would never dox anyone its not who i am to be hostile to people

>>306968
>Why are you even thinking otherwise
i want to somehow let him down easy as up until now things have been very smooth and we have gotten along very well
i want to say something along the lines of "im sorry but i cannot see myself being with someone who is into scat porn" and then i will block him on everything i guess
>Remember that paraphilias cluster, shit probably isn't the only gross thing he's into
shudders
yes i agree

its just i have put myself out there expecting to be the one getting rejected as i am not high value
i am not comfortable being negative and saying "no" to people and all of a sudden i am in this position where i have to reject someone for something horrible and im not sure how to make that soft and sweet and not hurt feelings or make him feel disguising even if i see it that way

>>306994
no and i never would there are some lines i would absolutely never cross and that is one of them
i regret even starting this dating experiment

Anonymous 307022

herro

Anonymous 307032

>>307020
The other people here are giving you awful advice, but I agree that you shouldn't necessarily want this to "work out" between you. Just say your piece and say goodbye.

The other person here is just a regular man with a very disgusting porno addiction. Let him know that not one person on earth will tolerate this behaviour and that he has to get rid of this if he wants a relationship with any regular person. It's up to you whether you want to keep in touch with him, but it isn't your job to mend some random man's brain disease over the internet

Anonymous 307035

>>306963
>what do
If you're weirdly tolerant of grade A degeneracy, keep as a casual online shitpost friend and go no further. Make sure you don't share personal info. Bail if/when needed. If it were me, I'd just avoid him entirely. Every guy I've met into scat/watersports/gore has been super fucked up and only seemed okay because he got good at acting to cover up his sick fuck tendencies. I found some semi-anon chats he was in and the way he spoke and acted was way different when he wasn't putting on good behavior. Dunno if your guy is the same, but I've seen it a few times now.

Anonymous 307037

>>307035
*chats one was in

Anonymous 307038

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>>306968
>Remember that paraphilias cluster
QRD?



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