/b/ - Random

>>308192
i used to be angry but then realized that was slowly turning me into a female version of them. when you give into hatred and become what you hate, you haven't really won anything. Peace is nice, now I don't mind or hate anyone and work on myself. life is better.

I don't hate all moids, only certain types
But yes this place is nice

Both because I'm a multi faceted woman.

I started to feel contempt towards men when I finally got a bf. My male friends were generally very nice, but dealing with my bf's bullshit was very hard without resorting to looking at him as if he's an animal that needs training.
When men don't give me a hard time I don't feel negativity towards them. That's a defense mechanism really I guess.

Most of the time I just don't care about them, because I only deal with men of my immediate family (my younger brother and my father), my boyfriend (I've only had one my whole life) and some from the gym I go to (when I have doubts about an exercise I want to do). When I was still in school, I hated moids a lot, they were a fucking disgrace, they talked a lot of shit about my appearance, and a lot of misogynistic stuff, but thank God it's over. When I go on social media, I also get a lot of hate, because what they say is despicable, but I don't waste my time with that kind of shit for normies anymore.

Honestly I don't think about them very much.

I wouldn't say hatred for men in general, but my apathy for them is starting to become a problem. I have difficulty remembering and connecting their names and faces, which makes friendship difficult and might even impact my career (I work in tech). I think I've seriously offended them this way before.

They don't exist when I don't think about them or browse the internet, which I Kind of stopped doing

>>308192
I really do hate them. I don't care if they suffer, if they get abused physically or emotionally by their partners, if they get raped, if they kill themselves, I don't give a shit and do hope they suffer as much as humanly possibly because they're all born evil and they deserve every bad thing that comes their way. Like rn everyone's crying over that twitter teen troon that offed himself and all I'm thinking is "good, one less male". They are a plague, a disease, if they were all subjugated or if they would all just fucking die the world would be a much better place. I dream of a world where the 98% abuse/rape/murder stat were flipped and women started beating and killing their partners with the same frequency men do, maybe that way they'd finally learn and be put in their place. They're animals, beasts, incompatible with life, incapable of empathy or basic humanity. So yes, I hate them, and even then all collective hatred women feel for men would pale compared to how much a single man hates all women.

I hate most of them, but honestly, I don’t care about them that much either. I don’t believe they’re inherently evil and I think their behaviour is often influenced by how they’re raised or the misogynistic attitudes they’re exposed to online. I do believe there are good ones out there and that things will hopefully change in the future.
I prefer spaces away from men since males on online spaces are incredibly annoying and insane sometimes, like I can’t go a day on Twitter,Reddit or TikTok without seeing horrible posts from them.

I have a bf and dont like social media and I hate whatever movie is popular right now I want to watch suspiria with my friend group

are we just supposed to deny the humanity of men? Yes, we hate men, because most of them are retards, sexist, just horrible people. but at the end of the day, they are human.

We, as women, realise there is much more to us women than sex. We are all different people. Why can we not extend the same empathy to men?

I mean, we are all conscious, including these horrible men, so I see no reason to call off the hatred - as long as we are hating the group, and not random individuals who have never interacted with us. My point is, the men who decide to be horrible people deserve hatred, they deserve to be scorned and hated by us, because it is their actions and mindsets that have hurt women.

But what about men who are just people, like us? Those who never thought of women as 'beneath' them. These men exist.. and I find it a failure of our humanity and feminism to continue attacking them as if they are part of the group of men who consciously and without guilt contribute to women's oppression.

Have we forgotten we are all human?

Continue hating the group, continue fighting for liberation, continue being skeptical of all men. But remember, we are ALL victims of the patriarchy.

caveat: i love hating 'random' individuals that just fucking suck. Tate, Trump, Musk, whatever the fuck. Death. I am a rehabilitation over death penalty person…… but these powerful men make me want to set up some gallows

>>308293
>men
>human
kek

>>308293
Men aren't victims of the very system that exists to uphold them, benefit them, and keep them in power. Straight people aren't victims of homophobia, white people aren't victims of white supremacy. Namalting retard stfu.

>>308298
>Men aren't victims
masculine ideals do cause harm to the men raised under them. "Men don't cry or show emotion" and other ideas of 'correct' masculine expression leads to emotionally stunted and disregulated men who hurt others. They are part of the problem, but this ideal was not their idea, it has been reinforced over generations of patriarchal society. It's a positive feedback loop which will produce more men reaching for ultimate masculinity and power, harming women along the way by reinforcing what they were raised to believe

>Straight people aren't victims of homophobia
Same thing, different situation. Fear of seeming gay restricts same-sex platonic affection, gender expression, and interpersonal connections with queer people. And there are many bisexual people who have presented hetero their entire lives, who believe themselves to be straight, who will never embrace the queer part of themselves because of homophobia.

>white people aren't victims of white supremacy
This one is a bit more nuanced, but again, the ideals of 'perfect pure white society' restrict connection with POC and their cultures. I'm pretty sure white people enjoy products of other cultures, like music and food… My brother is married to a white woman whos family has shunned her and has cut almost all contact with her for marrying a black man. She is white, and she is a victim of 'white supremacy'

Generalisation of these issues will lead to more harm. The people need to be fixed, but the larger problem is the structure of society itself (insert joker) The point is, the issues of patriarchy (and other systems of discrimination) are not black-and-white. They have caused real harm, and have restricted human expression to the point where women like you can only see the stance one takes on an issue as Correct/Incorrect.

Having empathy for others doesn't mean you believe them to be above all criticism. The world is in shades of grey…

They're hot but they're fucking stupid.

por que no los dos? we live in a (((society))). i would like to live in my cabin in the woods with high-speed cable internet but i don’t, so here we are.

>>308302
At this point I'd settle for a laptop connected to dialup so i can check my emails once a week

>>308300
All of that is simply their own misogyny backfiring on them.
>only women are weak and cry
>if you cry and are weak you're like a woman
>being like a woman is bad
It all boils down to the hatred of women. If men were as harmed by the patriarchy as they claim to be they could easily just collective wake up tomorrow and immediately dismantle it, get rid of the institutions, ideas, laws, media that subjugates and undermines women and all live in an equal society where nobody suffers, but of course they won't, because they'd rather keep the negatives than ever giving up power and domination over women. If anything they love the very things you mention because they can weaponize them to shut women up and act like the real victims. Men like this, men want this, it works exactly as they wish. You're really fucking stupid and have a skewed view of how the world truly operates and came to be, you ignore socialization, expectations, who upholds what, who benefits in the end, putting men's fake tears on the same level as women's perpetual torture. Even teenage boys realize the power they have over girls and women by virtue of simply being born male, any problem they may face is worth it if it means having an entire class of people "beneath" them, and this applies to every kind of men, from privileged to homeless, black or white, straight or gay. ALL MEN benefit from the patriarchy, that's why they'll never tear it down.

Similarly, a racist person isn't harmed or concerned by the idea that they're missing out on other cultures, they simply don't care, they see them as filthy, ugly, also beneath them, they're content with that they have.
Fear of seeming gay won't translate into not being able to marry or adopt, of not being able to date who you truly love, it won't put you at risk of being attacked or killed by strangers, of making your existence be criminal.
You fail to grasp what real, systematic oppression is vs minor inconveniences than can easily be overcome or that are born from the person's own prejudice.

But anyway, it's alright, in the end it's women like you who end up going on reddit asking if they're overreacting after their precious Nigel beat them up because she didn't want to do the dishes. Good luck with that.

>>308293
bro you cant post about not hating men on wehatemen.com kek

>>308317
why do moids always spew the same boring stereotypes again and again and again. holy shit you guys are like broken records
and there's no way in he'll you even believe anything of what you're saying you fucking liar. most men cry sometime in their relationships with women and I can assure you that there's a million other reasons that women leave them and it's got fuck all to do with that

>>308319
because moids aren't getting broken up with after they cry you retard. it's it's blatantly obvious you've got no real relationship experience but do you have to make it so obvious?
don't talk about accountability because you're the one claiming that moids aren't getting broken up with due to their personality flaws kek

>>308321
if women are so attracted to dark triad traits how come the majority of manosphere troglodytes like incels remain single and lonely? it's such a predictable talking point and a stupid one at that. you can find tons and tons of examples of women who leave their abusive partners behind online but you don't care about the truth and you're just some mindless npc

>>308322
>>308322
Because alphas's knock up random women who are either single mothers or raise them with a beta who thinks it's their child?

>>308192
I don't really hate all of them but I am very wary and suspicious of most of them, they make me feel uncomfortable and feel the need to keep my guard up around them at all times if I haven't already known them for long enough

>>308317
Holy shit you retards are so DESPERATE to be victims so bad, it's pathetic.
This is a problem you created yourselves, every redpiller and incel as well as the average moid online always goes "abloo bloo women make it so hard to be man :(" but then in the same breath start shaming your own kind for being 'weak' and 'beta' and not being exactly like the macho man patriarchal standard you homunculi set up on your own.

It kinda sounds to me like the only ones that have to take accountability are you retards. Either stop perpetuating the cycle that you claim hurts you so much or shut the fuck up.

>>308331
men are children

I only hate the bad ones but I REALLY hate the bad ones and there's a lot of them.

I really hate them and how fucking low iq they are. Every single problem they complain about could be easily fixed by them but they choose not to. Even the moids that act “nice” are usually secretly evil and go mask off once they get sexual favors out of a woman.

>>308325
BPD is hot to them until they deal with abandonment panics.

>>308192
No, because this site it’s full of trannies anyway. Get over it

>>308363
I fucking hate trannies like you. 51% yourself