>>313399they're opposite sides of the moid spectrum. on one end we have the shy, passive, awkward and soft beta moid. he presents himself as a male feminist and an ally to women, but he's so eager to avoid any kind of uncomfortable situation or conflict that he stands looking in another direction as though he doesn't even notice the disturbing act that is taking place a few feet away from him.
and then we have the alpha moid who seeks to dominate anything and anyone around him. he will take whatever he wants through violence, intimidation, and manipulation, and only an equal or greater amount of these things applied to him can change his behavior, but only temporarily.
they're both equally bad, just in different ways.