/b/ - Random

>Addiction
>All of his relationships ended badly. Doesn't think well of any of their exes
>Anger issues
>Getting into physical fights with other people even for a "valid reason"
>Group of shitty friends but "he's different"
>Talks shit with hate on traditionally femenine things
>Uses misogynistic insults for women he doesn't like, like bitch or cunt
>Into toxic gym communities
>Speaks too much about his good actions
>Watches porn and doesn't think it's a problem
>Rape fetish
>No female friendships
>Doesn't consume any media made by women
>Brings up his sister or his mom to talk about why he's a feminist
>Calls himself a feminist
>Has never cut off anyone from their life
>Wants gf to be prettier than him
>Expects you to mommy him

>>313635
Volcel spotted

>>313635
Imagine being a moid and being confronted with such a person. He would propably keep you around as a fuck buddy and drop you once he got bored of you or would reject you instantly.

>>313643
>Getting into physical fights with other people even for a "valid reason"
Are you implying that valid reasons don't exist? If you get attacked, do you want your bf to just wait for cops to arrive? Just watch? Gee..

>>313635
Red flags and things that aren't attractive to you personally aren't the same thing, noona…

>>313647
Some guys make up excuses or escalate things unnecessarily. Physically defending someone isn't something I'd describe as "getting into a physical fight."
Imagine some random drunk asshole calling you a skank and this guy walks over to him and physically fights him about it when the two of you could simply leave. That's not the kind of response I'd expect from a regular adult.
Some people are more prone to violence and that's a dangerous trait in itself. I wouldn't immediately stop being friends with someone over one potential red flag, but I doubt I'd date him.
>>313643
I almost disagreed about "calls himself a feminist" but now that I think about it, the kind of guy who brings it up like that is probably more interested in bragging about himself than actually supporting women's rights in his country. Depends on the person and situation ofc. Guys who believe it entitles them to anything are certainly not dating material though.
Great list.

>>313657
>Physically defending someone isn't something I'd describe as "getting into a physical fight."
Then you are stupid.

>>313662
Defending someone isn't the same as picking a fight with people is what I meant

>>313672
And also not the same as escalating a fight to a physical level.

Good list.
I’d like to add: believes too much in shit like “men in some countries have 3 wives!!” without recognising these countries aren’t developed, or if they are to some degree developed, was due to superior cultures who did not practice polygyny. I get it, a guy in Papua New Guinea has 3 women who would suck his dick for a bag of rice, I’m sure that’s the type of love you’re looking for, you really earned it pal. Do these guys actually enjoy the company of women or just the idea someone could need to be around them for almost nothing? Do they not value their own personhood to think someone else could value it too?

Simultaneously, these are the same people who get angry at the idea of women wanting men just for resources and not for his personality. What exactly do you want brother?

>>313674
> “these countries aren’t developed“
Subtle racist dog wistle

am I the only one (know this is technically off topic cos it’s not a red flag) who doesn’t give that much of a shit about dick size? To be fair, I never got off that much on penetration anyway. I would rather it just sort of look decent, not too tiny but as long as the proportions are there i’m not that fussed

>>313685
I don't care about dick size or height. I'm in the same boat about penetration, I usually just touch my clitoris directly. But I do have more of a thing for balls than penis. Not size-wise, I just think they're neat.

I kinda thought the dick size stuff was a moid psyop. I don't ever want to be in pain during sex. A big dick seems more like something they care about than women would, because they think it's physical evidence/measurement of their manliness. In general I wouldn't want to be with a guy who's insecure about appearing manly. I don't like macho men anyway.

>>313686
100% it seems to me like something guys mainly obsess over to the point where they sexualise cocks more than anything else, although I never spoke too in depth with other women about it. I will say I do prefer tall men but I can be attracted to manlets if they’re cute
also all this “guts rearranged” talk they do is genuinely disgusting, peoples insides are not sexy

>>313685
I think most people don't care that much, it's just that those who do and are really into it like to talk about it which can lead to people overestimating the importance.
I'm sure it's important to some people, but it's also kind of a meme at this point.

>>313674
>believes too much in shit like “men in some countries have 3 wives!!” without recognising these countries aren’t developed
>a guy in Papua New Guinea has 3 women who would suck his dick for a bag of rice
What?
Wait
What???

>>313745
Women sell themselves out of desperation in many parts of the world.
You can absolutely outright BUY a wife in pakistan and all sorts of places like that. One eager to be a wife too since the arrangement is often sending money back to family consistently. Some of SEA and East Asia do it too, just less officially.

Being overly nice in the beginning, putting you on a pedastal, then randomly becoming abusive and horrific

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