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Would you raise a child as a single mother with heavy community support? Anonymous 324115

This artical claims that that it is no longer possible for humans to pair-bond and the species will not survive unless we heavily subsidize single parenthood.

https://doi.org/10.1017/pls.2026.10020

Do you agree? Would you be willing to raise a child from a sperm donor if your country took responsibility for most of your expenses?

Anonymous 324116

This article sounds like a meme but if "heavy community support" looks like something similar to an extended family network or local community, then yeah. Kids used to have not only their moms, but their grandmas, aunts, older siblings etc looking after them.

Anonymous 324117

Umineko.no.Naku.Ko…

>In this framing, marriage between the First and Third Sexual Revolutions functioned as a kind of de facto affirmative action program for low-value men. After the Church’s insistence on monogamy, it was no longer a legally sanctioned option for women to share the highest-value men in polygynous relationships (Henrich, Reference Henrich2020). This radical intervention could be seen as “DEI for men,” or more precisely, for the low-value men who previously would have been outcompeted by men who could attract and afford multiple mates
lmao

Anonymous 324118

>>324116
That's what it says.
>We suggest that two main elements are key to making individualistic reproduction sufficiently appealing, one economic and the other social. Women must feel economically secure, regardless of whether they want to work fulltime, parttime, or not at all while raising their children. That is why we propose experiments should begin soon, to find out what level of economic resource transfers are required for enough women to choose to have children on their own.
>The other element is the social environment. As we explored, while hominins evolved to sexually reproduce as couples, this pairing up does not extend to raising children in small, atomized units. Even when females mated promiscuously, not having the father around typically did not entail the mother being on her own. Kin and other alloparents often made crucial contributions to help feed and raise the child (Hrdy, 2009; Sear & Mace, 2008). In our modern world, such social networks have eroded. Women who move away from kin to seek education or work mostly lack the support that bands, tribes, farms, and villages provided in the past. We therefore propose that governments consider experiments with establishing apartment buildings or other living arrangements centered on the needs of solo parents and their children

Anonymous 324119

>>324118
Yeah, that sounds like what I'm talking about. Though I am not sure what they're suggesting is enough. One of the reasons (IMO) people have less kids is because in our modern world they require a lot of investment, not just financial, but in everything that would make their child more competitive in society, nowadays they have to be supported way past 18 yo.

This is why peasants had a shitton of kids, they would be able to contribute to the lifestyle fairly early on in their life. Positive ROI. They couldn't just shitpost all day like we do so there's nothing to take incentive away from reproduction either.

Who knows, maybe communal childcare would help take care of this by reducing the perceived investment required. Something still feels iffy about this experiment of theirs, but I guess that's a start.

Anonymous 324121

Also in some way it doesn't address the problem of social atomization still. You'll be creating a huge chunk of population that will have to resort to an emotionless machine (artificial wombs) for reproduction. Humans aren't meant for this I don't think. We're all lonely enough already thanks to the Internet. Not sure how'd they address this. They're just responding to atomization with more atomization.

Anonymous 324122

>>324121
Yeah.
>This is not ideal, as most people still desire to partner up and tend to be happier in relationships (Argyle, 1999; Diener et al., 2000; Grover & Helliwell, 2019; Stern et al., 2024). After all, our psychologies are strongly shaped by millions of years of pair-bonding (Fisher, 2016). But we are in a situation where the ideal is not available; mating markets have become so frustrating for both sexes that many are giving up. Not only are 42% of Americans unpartnered (Pew Research Center, 2025), but 50% of single men and 65% of single women report that they are looking for neither short- nor long-term mating (Gelles-Watnick, 2023).
>Unless we are able to turn this trend drastically around, which we consider unlikely, the next step for human reproduction could be to facilitate more individuals having children without a partner. Offspring were historically a responsibility for the forager band, then the tribe, and then three- and two-generational families. A future with more single parents would fit this trend; it could be viewed as a return to our early hominin starting point, framing the past few million years as an era of pair-bonding— a temporary evolutionary compromise.
Basicly: "Not everyone gets a person, tough shit".

Anonymous 324123

>>324122
It's true but it's fucked up and I don't look forward to a world where most people are some sort of incels or volcels
Idk tho good thing they're at least experimenting with ideas

Anonymous 324124

>>324123
>I don't look forward to a world where most people are some sort of incels or volcels
You best start believin' in ghost stories, Miss Turner…

Anonymous 324125

>>324117
Do the authors of this not even understand that this type of polygamy is the very foundation of the patriarchy?
If multiple women are vying for a spot in the household of the same man it reduces the "value" of each of those women to him. He's what's being negotiated with so he makes the rules.

Anonymous 324131

>>324115
no, i was raised by a single mother and i hated it, i was jealous of other children having their dad picked them at school etc I see my dad every week but that's not the point, i wanted two parents.

Anonymous 324147

>>324125
If you had to choose between remaining single and sharing the man of your dreams with one other woman, what would you choose?

Anonymous 324148

>>324147
Depends on if it's our life or just his.

Anonymous 324168

>>324147
You're not sharing him, you're competing against other women for resources. Back in the day you all had to share a hut, but now that a 3 bedroom home costs $2 mil anywhere a guy like that could work, you're renting your own place. Take a look at rich guys who have multiple sugarbabies and you can see how that relationship pans out - dependants all paid the same subsistence amount, all competing to be the favourite so you can get free meals, clothes, cars etc. for the next month until he gets bored of you.

I personally would rather be single than playing a 24/7 game of The Bachelor against a growing list of younger, more attractive women until one day he sees a paunch when you slouch and has a repo agency take back the Lexus he leased for you the last time you agreed to get go get a boob job.

Anonymous 324170

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>>324168
>I personally would rather be single than playing a 24/7 game of The Bachelor against a growing list of younger, more attractive women
literally

Anonymous 324305

I really think that have children through IVF is the best option for most women
nowadays, but it would be for few, cause it's an expensive procedure and I dislike
the idea of the government putting in children's upbringing, except in cases of abuse, neglect or violence.

>>324116
Children can be quite tiring and irritating at times. I can't imagine an inexperienced woman, or even an experienced one, having to deal with several children throughout the day, whether they are of similar ages or older than others

>>324168
Most moids nowadays don't even have resources for themselves,
Most men today don't even have the resources to support themselves, let alone a family or several younger women; Most moids love to brag online about how much their supposed "SMV" increases when they get older, but that's not really the case, except in some instances when they want to pull a dirty trick on some know-it-all normie, hoping to find a gullible old man from whom they can squeeze a few bucks.

Anonymous 324688

>>324131
so you were raised by the better gender your whole life, chose to continue seeing the dirty scrote that impregnated her, and you're still complaining to this day. You're a shitty ungrateful pathetic excuse of a daughter who should've been turned in while your unfortunate mother still had the chance.

Anonymous 324689

divorced parents is one of those things that contributes to your ACE score

Anonymous 324699

Americans are completely retarded now.

Americans say seatbelts must be mandatory for safety and then Americans turn around and scream cars must be banned to protect the environment.



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