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sex before marriage Anonymous 71628

I've never seen a solid argument against premarital sex other than "god doesn't want you to." Promiscuity, sure. That shit can eat you up inside and can easily become dangerous. But sex before marriage in a committed relationship while birth control is used (which the majority of people do now)? Some anonette enlighten me pls

Anonymous 71629

Well I can't talk for other men but my last boyfriend dumped me after I told him how many other guys I had slept with. Before that we actually had made plans to marry some day. He was the most romantic, good looking and intelligent man I could've hoped for and now I feel like I squandered my chance at marrying the guy I loved.
English is not my first language so sorry if I'm not being concise while writing this.
I'd say that there's a negative correlation between the number of people you've slept with and the quality of man you will end up with.
But if you don't care about getting married or aren't even straight then bang your heart out.

Anonymous 71633

>>71629
>other men
Sounds like you dodged a bullet, femanonette. He doesn't sound like a nice guy and if body count is so important to him, he should have asked you way before he decided to want to marry you.

Anonymous 71634

>>71629
This.
Keep your body count as low as you can. Men don't really deserve sexual favors anyways. Waiting till marriage is the only way to know your man isn't a total cunt.

Anonymous 71635

>>71633
>he should have asked you way before
He did ask me but I kinda omitted a bunch of details.

Anonymous 71636

>>71628
First argument would be that, even with birth control, the risks involved are not 0. You can still get STDs, there's always the chance of birth control failing, and this doesn't include the risks of the birth control itself causing health issues. Abstinence is the only 100% failproof way of protection from STDs and pregnancy (with historically only one recorded failure of this method :^)).

Second, I have some concerns over the effect of extramarital sex on a person's ability to maintain a monogamous relationship. (Note: not a functioning monogamous relationship, just a monogamous relationship.) In general, monogamous relationships lend themselves to civilization and nation building. If you don't like those two, and I don't know why you have a computer.

Any other arguments I could make would rely on goals and moral values you may or may not have. I have similar issues with any arguments for why suicide would be a bad idea.

Anonymous 71637

>>71636
>civilization
You say like it's something good. Humanity ended with agricultural revolution.

Anonymous 71638

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pic related only applies if you actually want to get married ofc

Anonymous 71640

>>71638
Lol, sexual 'revolution' was a fucking mistake. They convinced women that sleeping around was so empowering and brave, at the expense of their mental, physical and spiritual health just so more (and low value) males would get their dick wet.

Anonymous 71641

>>71638
Obviously, virgins report higher "happiness" because they have no experience and they don't know any better even when their scrotes are shit. Women with more experience know more about scrotes and have higher standards but they also had more disappointments with men, so pleasing them is harder than pleasing virgins. Scrotes know that that's why they're obsessed with virgins.
t. virgin who doesn't want to marry a scrote

Anonymous 71642

>>71640
And just so with the libfem shit that 'mEn aNd wOmEn aRe EqUaLs' men pushed this culture so women could emulate their nasty male promiscuity and now here we are.

Anonymous 71643

>>71636
>Abstinence is the only 100% failproof way of protection from STDs and pregnancy
This is objectively true, but wouldn't that also mean a woman should continue to never have sex even in a relationship? Men can cheat and bring something home, so the answer to being fully safe is to remain a virgin forever.
So this argument isn't even just with regards to extramarital sex. The risk is ALL sex.
(Gay and likely permavirgin so I truly have no horse in this race btw. I'm not even really arguing anything.)

Anonymous 71644

>>71643
I would just ask the guy to have a vasectomy and test him from time to time. I will never fuck a guy who haven't had a vasectomy.

Anonymous 71645

>>71642
It's true but let's not pretend like women had it any better before that. I still prefer modern times than the 50s and 60s when marital rape wasn't even considered rape and the "happy housewives" were getting high on antidepressants in order to cope.

Anonymous 71646

>>71638
>Marriage Stability
Women who have dated more men will know when they are being treated badly and will find it easier to leave.

>Hapiness (sic)

Same as above.

>STIs

Prostitutes will make up a big part of this category. Considering the number of men who insist on going bareback, it’s not surprising.

From some googling, family-studies.org seems to be biased towards families, whether they are happy or not.

Anonymous 71647

>>71645
Didn't say it was better back then, just said that it's getting worse in other ways.
We never had any better, just progressed a bit.

Anonymous 71649

So if you met someone that you really liked and wanted to be with them and were very attracted to them and enjoyed hanging out with them, you wouldn't have sex with them because you don't trust them enough to not leave you so you need a legal document to bind them with you?
>>71646
>Women who have dated more men will know when they are being treated badly and will find it easier to leave
This.

I have yet to meet someone with whom I want to have sex irl, but I would totally do it if I did meet someone like that, even if it was a one night stand.

Anonymous 71654

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>>71637
based

Anonymous 71663

>>71649
Not necessarily marrying but many women choose to wait after a few a dates as a security measure.
Women get attached with sex and men take notes of it to fake interest and niceness just so they can get into your pants and ditch you shortly after.

>but I would totally do it if I did meet someone like that

https://youtu.be/12PXvKfWdZs
Watch out.

Anonymous 71671

>>71637
If you don't like civilization why are you on a computer and not out in nature ala full retreat? If you really wanted to, there are places that are remote and you can survive just fine. You can leave. No one can force you as an adult to be a part of society.

Though to be fair it tends that civilization finds you after a while anyway.

>>71643
>Men can cheat and bring something home, so the answer to being fully safe is to remain a virgin forever.
I should clarify that I may have assumed OP meant "extramarital" as opposed to "premarital" sex in her question. I may be wrong on this, but it's what I started with so I will continue with it. The man has exposed himself to risk in these scenarios (possible STDs and possible impregnation of other women which could financially and socially hurt him) under the same reasoning I have already listed. However, I have heard no arguments outside of commune's for why having children within a marriage is not superior to having children outside of marriage on average. We could get into arguments about whether a single mother is going to be worse at raising a child than a unhappy marriage, this also doesn't include child abuse from parents, but that can happen both in marriages and in single parent households, so the distinction would be on rates rather than innate differences in the effects on the child.

With the question of pregnancy out of the way, as far as STDs are concerned she's still safer in this scenario. While it is true that 0 sex is the correct amount for utmost safety, 1 sex partner is the correct amount for absolute minimal sex and sex risks possible while still actually having sex in the first place.
>So this argument isn't even just with regards to extramarital sex. The risk is ALL sex.
True to a certain extent, but OP's question belies the underlying assumption that marital sex is good or least proper for actually trying to conceive. If OP was not actually assuming this, then I suppose I am in the wrong for making this assumption. If OP instead wants to start having an anti-natalist argument we can do that too.

>>71644
Vasectomies can fail as well. All forms of birth control have failure rates, no matter how small.

Anonymous 71672

>>71671
>just leave society if you hate it lol
I'm disabled and it's not my fault I was born, the existence was imposed upon me. Now I need society in order to survive, which I hate. I have self-preservation instinct, I'm not suicidal, but in a more primitive society people like me wouldn't survive for long (probably) and that's a good thing. More advanced civilization creates an entire new class of people who shouldn't have been born in the first place, or should've died shortly after birth.
It's the same dumb quasi-argument with "just kill yourself bro" people use against antinatalists, which only proves the fundamental lack of understanding of antinatalism and the fact that adults killing themselves doesn't solve the problem which is the birth of new people itself.

Anonymous 71675

>>71672
>I'm disabled and it's not my fault I was born
You are right, however, it's your responsibility that you were born, and it's most definitely your fault if you continue to choose to live.
>I have self-preservation instinct
Which many people everyday manage to overcome.
>I'm not suicidal, but in a more primitive society people like me wouldn't survive for long (probably) and that's a good thing.
Correct, but it also worked like this in Spart, and it would work like this in Nazi Germany if it was allowed to continue. Thus your problem seems to not be with civilization itself, but with the current Christian derived atheistic version of it. This is not an argument against civilization, but certain forms of it.
>More advanced civilization creates an entire new class of people who shouldn't have been born in the first place, or should've died shortly after birth.
Yes, and while prevention is best, correction is second best, and doing nothing being the worst.
>It's the same dumb quasi-argument with "just kill yourself bro" people use against antinatalists, which only proves the fundamental lack of understanding of antinatalism and the fact that adults killing themselves doesn't solve the problem which is the birth of new people itself.
Is it impossible to understand your reasoning while also telling you to kill yourself? I do agree that the disabled shouldn't be born in the first place, or should be killed shortly after birth, but alas, this is not a perfect world, and when prevention fails all that is left is correction, a path always open to you yet you constantly reject. I can understand Buddha's arguments against suicide and anti-natalism, as under that world view suicide wouldn't actually end the suffering, but just displace it. However, this doesn't fly for atheistic incarnations where suicide would most definitely solve the problem they are describing and not perpetuate it. Instead, anti-natalists (ironically) cling to life desperately as missionairies trying to prevent other's from meeting their own fate, thus relieving their own suffering with the feel good chemicals of trying to prevent other's suffering. While I understand the logic of it, the anti-natalist mindset is, fundamentally, incongruent with the nature of living beings in this material world. It will bubble up here and there for millenia after millenia, but due to it's intrinsic belief patterns, anti-natalists will, fundamentally, always be outnumbered by natalists, and forced to march toe-to-toe with pro-natalists. It's a losing position.

Anonymous 71676

>>71675
Ah, and I forgot to mention. The entirety of anti-natalism falls flat on it's face if you don't agree with hedonism or utilitarianism where happiness (and it's sister mindset; avoidance of suffering) is the ultimate goal of human existence and morality, and not a byproduct.

Anonymous 71678

>>71675
>durr antinatalism is wrong because most people will never agree with it because they are primarily driven by their animalistic instincts
Great blogpost with no argument against antinatalism. You didn't say anything new antinatalists haven't talked about themselves.
Also, there were gnostic/christian groups with essentially antinatalist views. I respect buddist approach but atheistic approach doesn't matter to me.

Anonymous 71679

>>71678
You were expecting me to create an original argument when you're quoting other people? Now that's funny coming from someone depressed about relying on other people.

You also seemed to have missed this post which has the other argument. >>71676

Anonymous 71683

Not the anon you were replying to.
>>71675
>I do agree that the disabled shouldn't be born in the first place, or should be killed shortly after birth, but alas, this is not a perfect world, and when prevention fails all that is left is correction, a path always open to you yet you constantly reject.
I take you you believe this because you agree that it would be better for these people not to exist than to exist in a state of suffering that also causes inconvenience to others. The question is, how much suffering for the individual and inconvenience for others is too much? My personal answer to that is "any amount".

> However, this doesn't fly for atheistic incarnations where suicide would most definitely solve the problem they are describing and not perpetuate it.

As the other anon pointed out, the overwhelming majority of humans has an extremely strong survival instinct. We are also subject to various cognitive biases that shift our perception of quality of life for the better. More importantly for me, the most intense suffering is concentrated on the last decade or so of our lives, so from an utilitarian point of view it makes sense to delay suicide until one reaches a point of negative returns, so to speak. The problem is the survival instinct and the cognitive biases I mentioned, which make one push their check-out date further and further forward, until they are unable to carry it out by themselves, and must spend what time they have left wishing they had the guts to do it earlier.

>Instead, anti-natalists (ironically) cling to life desperately as missionairies trying to prevent other's from meeting their own fate, thus relieving their own suffering with the feel good chemicals of trying to prevent other's suffering.

Most anti-natalists act are only missionary insofar as engaging in relatively sedate conversation online. There are of course those that publish articles and books (Benatar, Ligotti, etc.), but they are no more missionary than any other person who believes that there is something morally wrong with how things are and wish that it would be different.

>feel good chemicals of trying to prevent other's suffering.

Are you suggesting people feeling bad about the existence of suffering and taking action to prevent the general suffering and ease their minds in the process are egotists? Couldn't that argument be made "against" every cause? "You only want to stop this company from turning these woods into a golf course because you feel bad about the local endangered species!" or "You only want to solve homelessness because you feel good about getting people off the street!"

>anti-natalists will, fundamentally, always be outnumbered by natalists, and forced to march toe-to-toe with pro-natalists.

Yes, we know. The fact that it's hopeless doesn't mean that we'll engage or condone the behavior we see as the root of all suffering. I know I'll probably not convince anyone, but I'll die with a clean conscience, and that's important to me.

>>71676
>The entirety of anti-natalism falls flat on it's face if you don't agree with hedonism or utilitarianism where happiness (and it's sister mindset; avoidance of suffering) is the ultimate goal of human existence and morality, and not a byproduct.
Personally, my primary motivation for anti-natalism is the idea that it's a violation of consent.

Anonymous 71687

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>>71654
>To ‘define’ a disalienated world would be impossible and even undesirable, but I think we can and should try to reveal the unworld of today and how it got this way. We have taken a monstrously wrong turn with symbolic culture and division of labor, from a place of enchantment, understanding and wholeness to the absence we find at the heart of the doctrine of progress. Empty and emptying, the logic of domestication with its demand to control everything now shows us the ruin of the civilization that ruins the rest. Assuming the inferiority of nature enables the domination of cultural systems that soon will make the very earth uninhabitable.

Anonymous 71691

>>71629
Next time, lie. The only reason scrotes ask is because they have cuck anxiety, which is not a worthwhile reason to ask ANY question.

Anonymous 71693

>>71683
>I take you you believe this because you agree that it would be better for these people not to exist than to exist in a state of suffering that also causes inconvenience to others. The question is, how much suffering for the individual and inconvenience for others is too much? My personal answer to that is "any amount".
The amount is any the individual personally doesn't want to bear and what the people they rely on don't want to bear. A simple return to natural values and the lives of animals would show that those who were inept could die quite easily if just left to do so. Any human sense to change this pattern is more human's being very bad at being animals and not accepting their nature.
>As the other anon pointed out, the overwhelming majority of humans has an extremely strong survival instinct.
How do you know it is "survival instinct" and not the sincere enjoyment of being alive? As evidence every single day, every single person innately carries within them the ability to overcome this instinct.

Though thinking about it more, are you confusing "survival instinct" with "optimism the future will be better"? Because those are two very different things.
>As the other anon pointed out, the overwhelming majority of humans has an extremely strong survival instinct.
And? Suffering is also based on perception. A person who doesn't recognize what is happening to them as negative, is, by definition, not suffering. This statement just implies that humans inherently aren't prone to suffering, which undermines your argument, not mine.
>More importantly for me, the most intense suffering is concentrated on the last decade or so of our lives, so from an utilitarian point of view it makes sense to delay suicide until one reaches a point of negative returns, so to speak.
First, by what measure? The fact that disease occurs more? That fact that others you know are more likely to have already died? What measure are you using for this.

Second problem, even if we were to agree on that premise, this is yet more bitching that doing the right thing is hard. This isn't a point for anti-natlism as much as it is, yet again, a point for letting natural course take place and not prolonging life artificially.

>Most anti-natalists act are only missionary insofar as engaging in relatively sedate conversation online. There are of course those that publish articles and books (Benatar, Ligotti, etc.), but they are no more missionary than any other person who believes that there is something morally wrong with how things are and wish that it would be different.

The degree of which is not important, the matter of importance is that they are engaging in this conversation at all in the first place. Caught in the same trap as the natalist they despise, instead of killing themselves and ending the suffering, they seek relief from their suffering by engaging in discourse. My point isn't that the anti-natalist is special, it's quite the opposite, the anti-natalist assumes the mindset of the natalist when they decide that the boon of emotional comfort of trying to save other's the same pain is worth perpetuating their own pain by not ending their own lives. This falls right in line with natalists that believe that life is worth creating as the happiness outweighs the suffering. If the anti-natalist did not inherently have an optimistic outlook, they wouldn't bother talking about it.
>Are you suggesting people feeling bad about the existence of suffering and taking action to prevent the general suffering and ease their minds in the process are egotists?
Aren't they? "I hate my life so everyone else must hate being alive too." In order to espouse views like this means they, egotistically, assume everyone's life is similar to their own. Furthermore, as sense of tonic on their ego they commit the "good work" of spreading the word of anti-natalism.
>Couldn't that argument be made "against" every cause?
See now you're getting it. Anti-natalism is not at all special and falls for the same premises it itself espouses to despise in practice and theory. You got it!
>Yes, we know. The fact that it's hopeless doesn't mean that we'll engage or condone the behavior we see as the root of all suffering. I know I'll probably not convince anyone, but I'll die with a clean conscience, and that's important to me.
Yeah it's my bad for thinking anyone that joins a movement with "anti" in it's name is actually emboldened by the fact they are an underdog and inherently in a losing game, because that's what being "anti" as opposed to "for" anything is all about. A constant losing position that is ego-tonic in an anti-hero narrative and is only emboldened by resistance. This one is entirely on me and is my bad for forgetting how any "anti" movement works.

I will say, taking it to logical conclusions, it would be interesting to see if an anti-natalist could have intentionally triggered a nuclear war to kill all life whatsoever on earth and actually fulfilling the premise they support. Alas, too scared to live, too scared to die, too scared to kill and too scared to create.

>Personally, my primary motivation for anti-natalism is the idea that it's a violation of consent.

Would you feel better if a religion told you you had consented to being created in the first place?

Anonymous 71694

>>71693
>Yeah it's my bad for thinking anyone that joins a movement wit
*for forgetting anyone

Anonymous 71701

>>71693
>A simple return to natural values and the lives of animals would show that those who were inept could die quite easily if just left to do so.
We both want to minimize suffering. Your approach is to prevent someone in a naturally unsustainable situation to go on living. Mine to is prevent them from coming into being all together. In other words, I see it as better to not have a child than have a child then abandon it in the woods when it comes out horribly deformed (which would cause suffering to both the child and the parents, though less than if the child was allowed to live).

>How do you know it is "survival instinct" and not the sincere enjoyment of being alive?

That's a good point. I would say that the fact most animals have something similar to fear, regardless of the state of their lives, shows an instinctive desire to continue to exist despite the circumstances. For example, a sick and beaten dog will still cower and try to escape if pushed towards a high ledge, or a fire. The fact that human beings in horrible situations oftentimes don't kill themselves can be seen as evidence of that, or of hope for a better future. Take the American/British POWs during the Japanese death marches: they could have easily stopped walking and gotten a shot to the head, but instead most of them walked to death. I wonder how many sex slaves in Indian brothels have tried to kill themselves somehow (I genuinely don't know, and maybe should look into it).

>are you confusing "survival instinct" with "optimism the future will be better"?

The two are related, but not always the same. This would fall under the "cognitive biases" I mentioned. It is adaptive to believe that things are going to get better. It is adaptive to remember the meal rather than the hunger that made the meal memorable.

>First, by what measure?

Overall quality of life decay. Loss of mobility, sensory perception, cognitive abilities, health and immunity, athletic ability, living friends and relations, etc.

>This isn't a point for anti-natlism as much as it is, yet again, a point for letting natural course take place and not prolonging life artificially.

Yes, when we're talking about people who already exist, I wholeheartedly agree with you that our cultural norms of trying to prolong life are making things actively worse.

(cont.)

Anonymous 71702

>>71693
>Caught in the same trap as the natalist they despise, instead of killing themselves and ending the suffering, they seek relief from their suffering by engaging in discourse. My point isn't that the anti-natalist is special, it's quite the opposite, the anti-natalist assumes the mindset of the natalist when they decide that the boon of emotional comfort of trying to save other's the same pain is worth perpetuating their own pain by not ending their own lives.
You make the reasonable mistake of assuming that all antinatalists hate their lives. That is not the case, at least for me. I recognize that my life is not more negative than positive (according to my brain, which is subject to the aforementioned cognitive biases), but I still think it would have been preferable not to have been created in the first place, since the absence of the net positive of my experiences would not have been a problem if no one were to experience it.
The degree of which is important in the use of the word "missionary".

There is a fundamental difference between dying and never having existed in the first place. If that difference isn't clear to you, I'm not sure how I could articulate it satisfactory.

>This falls right in line with natalists that believe that life is worth creating as the happiness outweighs the suffering.

Yes, for antinatalists who base their position on utilitarianism, the symmetrical opposite are utilitarian natalists. This isn't really a refutation. The people who follow principle A reach conclusion X, so the people who follow a principle which is the opposite of A will reach a conclusion that is the opposite of X.

>Aren't they? […] they, egotistically, assume everyone's life is similar to their own.

I made the point that every person with a philosophical/political position could be said to be egotistical because they feel bad about the current state of things and wish that such a state would be different, presumably a state in which they would not feel bad. The argument it pointless because it implies that the only valid arguments are made by those with no emotional investment in the question being argued.

>Anti-natalism is not at all special

I never claimed that it was.

>Yeah it's my bad for forgetting that anyone that joins a movement with "anti" in it's name is actually emboldened by the fact they are an underdog and inherently in a losing game, because that's what being "anti" as opposed to "for" anything is all about.

So anti-slavery, anti-whaling, anti-war activists did it because they wanted to feel persecuted, not because they believed in it?
(Before you say something like "Those movements stopped existing the moment they weren't the minority any more", there aren't many anti-whaling and anti-slavery people around any more because mostly they won and got what they wanted).
Anti-universal suffrage, anti-interracial marriage are also examples of "anti" movements which were the dominant position when they started.

>Alas, too scared to live,

Wrong.

>too scared to die,

Death is scary, which is why we want to prevent it.

>too scared to kill

I don't want to kill anyone, I want to stop people from coming into existence.

>and too scared to create.

I'm not scared to create, I don't do it because I think it's wrong.

>Would you feel better if a religion told you you had consented to being created in the first place?

Consent cannot be given by something which does not exist, and it cannot be given retroactively. The moment there is something which can consent, there is something which was created without consent.

Anonymous 71705

>>71691
If something comes down how you've acted, and it's between lying or conducting yourself differently. Do the latter, for god's sake anons don't lie.

Anonymous 71707

>>71705
No, go ahead and lie. The only reason not to lie is if there's a solid evidence trail. Purity is a retarded obsession that doesn't deserve to be taken seriously.

Anonymous 71737

>>71693
This retard still doesn't see the difference between killing someone and preventing birth KEK. That last bit about antinatalists nuking the whole humanity is my favorite
>What, you're a murderous freak, huh? YOU WANT KILL PEOPLE HUH? YOU'RE TURNED ON BY NUCLEAR HOLOCAUST HUUUUUH?
Take your meds.

Anonymous 71743

If you don't accept that avoidance of suffering is a moral imperative, anti-natalism has no foundation and is thus untenable.

Ironically, the act of even talking to an antinatalist means that their moral system has failed. There is no room for discussion, as the discussion itself is the moral failure.

Anonymous 71745

>>71737
Dying and never being born aren't different at all.
>That last bit about antinatalists nuking the whole humanity is my favorite.
It's not about anti-natalists doing, it's about anyone who actually took anti-natalism seriously would actually do it as a proper moral imperative. What is a minor, albeit large scale, occurence of suffering compared to an infinite possibility of suffering in the future? If avoidance of suffering is a moral imperative, prematurely ending all of it as soon as possible, alive or otherwise, is the only correct thing to do.

Anonymous 71748

>>71745
someone correct me if I'm wrong, but antinatalists believe you have no right to impose death on the living just like you don't have the right to impose existence on the unborn. they also don't believe they have the right to stop people from breeding. it's just silly to assume that killing everyone is the final conclusion to antinatalism. it doesn't make any sense.

Anonymous 71749

>>71745
That's only the case if you assume antinatalists are utilitarians. I think >>71748 is probably more correct about what they think.

Anonymous 71750

>>71748
>it's just silly to assume that killing everyone is the final conclusion to antinatalism. it doesn't make any sense.
It's a very simple logical chain for the "avoidance of suffering" moral argument.
>There is a moral imperative to prevent suffering
>There is no moral imperative to increase happiness, or, at a minimum, it is impossible to increase happiness within a more severe increase in suffering
>Because there is a moral imperative to prevent suffering, but not one to produce happiness, bringing someone into this world is an a violation of moral duty, and furthermore, is an act of violence and control over that person.
>This is because, even if there is a chance for happiness, there is guaranteed suffering, and to not prevent possible suffering is morally wrong.

Now we get to the next logical step if we take that premise.
>any living being, at any given moment, at any point in time, as a chance to suffer in the future
>preventing possible suffering is a moral imperative
>furthermore, if left to their own devices, living beings will propagate and create infinitely more suffering
>for every child you don't kill, you have the possibility of that they will have children that suffer, and those those children will have children that suffer, ad infinitum
>there is an infinite potential for suffering by leaving anyone alive

The only difference is, anti-natalist say we should "just sterilize everyone and let all of us die off", as if that is any different from just killing everyone pre-emptively and actively. The two are the same in outcome. Everyone dies, no one is left alive. The only difference is one is passive (dying of old age after not having any children) and the other would actually require them to get off their ass (killing people to stop their breeding). Either way everyone is doomed to die, the acts are synonymous.

This at least address the utilitarianism argument, the only argument against this is the Buddhist one, which would put forth that the act of killing other's is pointless as it wouldn't end the cycle.

As far as the "violation of consent" anti-natalists, who, in my readings, appear to be a minority to the utilitarian ones, their argument is different. They would be the ones you are describing that believe they have no moral imperative to violate other living beings "consent" to reproduce, but I have problems finding very solid definitions of what "consent" even is or how you can ever give it in the first place for any interaction honestly.

Anonymous 71751

>>71750
>They would be the ones you are describing that believe they have no moral imperative to violate other living beings "consent" to reproduce, but I have problems finding very solid definitions of what "consent" even is or how you can ever give it in the first place for any interaction honestly.

To put in another way, the argument goes that something that does not exist can not give it's consent, yet this implies that something that does exist does have the ability to consent. I have no proof to accept this premise that anything existent or non-existent has the ability to consent.

Anonymous 71753

>>71750
antinatalists don't want to sterilize everyone…

Anonymous 71755

>>71753
I am well aware they "don't want to", that's my point. Their philosophy states they "should" do so, but they, falling victim to their passions, can not carry out what is the correct action.

Anonymous 71788

>>71755
nah, I think it's rather because they're not sociopaths bro.

Anonymous 71893

If virginity is so important, then what the fuck is the point in even marrying men? Once it's gone, it's gone. No amount of personal development and discipline will ever unfuck you, so you're worthless forever. Fuck men. I never want to date one again.

Anonymous 71912

>>71628
Anon, I've come to believe there is seriously something called spiritual health, and when you get into such an intimately close experience such as sex, you're not only endangering physical and mental health, but spiritual as well. I believe there are focal points on the body called chakras, and when you have sex you're aligning your body's chakras with anothers and it can leave you both feeling drained and deprived from one another. That's why it's so dangerous to have sex with someone you can't completely completely trust. For most, marriage is that ultimate foundation of trust to leaves someone assured they can be able to have sex and not regret it later.

Anonymous 71914

>>71912
I can only agree with this if we put an equal emphasis on male and female virginity, not just the female one. I also don't see why would you need the institution of marriage to sanction this kind of life-time bond, or any other kind of man-made laws. Maybe if you're weak and you can't live without some sort of authority in your life.

Anonymous 72030

>>71628
Best argument i've heard is that it makes you overly attached to the person, so you can't really make a fair decision on if you want to stay with them of not. If you wait until marriage, you've already made that decision so no worries committing to it. I think there' some truth to this, even if it's just that being single sucks even more once you've had someone you can bang regularly because you crave it.



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