Everyone says I sound like a little boy/man, I’m a female in my early 20s; https://voca.ro/1ceklQukgYUJ
Why do people say this to me
Stop whispering I can't really hear what your voice actually sounds like
Oh sorry family was sleeping so I have to be very very quiet lol
You don't really sound like a boy, but definitely sound young. If I were to hazard a guess you genuinely sound 15, which is when a lot of voice differentiation takes place anyway.
RE: being referred to as a young boy specifically, consider that men online are naturally hostile to women because they are insane and will even blot out reality of you being female if it means maintaining a male only space. It's not you, it's them.
Thank you for being honest with me, and I get the “you sound too young l” thing all the time, nobody ever takes me seriously on the phone because of how I sound, life is hard and it’s shit
At the risk of sounding like someone's grandmother, consider that once you hit your 30s and 40s you will sound younger and cool.
I’ve never considered that, thanks xD I’ll remember that next time someone tells me I sound like a child or little boy
Might be because I'm an uncultured ruralanon but your voice sounds really cool to me.
Does anyone else have a voice that doesn't match your "class"?
I had to do elocution lessons in a public library, from a kindly lady who I do not wish to disrespect when I say this: it fucked up my life trajectory wildly. People didn't understand my original accent when I moved as a kid and now I forever sound like I have rich parents hidden somewhere kek
naw you have a very nice voice.i appreciate the well wishes in the audio.
you definitely sound like a girl, just a young woman, like 20
No I would say you have a fairly normal feminine voice.
You have a nice voice anon
OP, your voice sounds fine but maybe a little timid and that might be what reads "young boy" to some people.
Here's mine: https://voca.ro/13r88r8yefsQ
it's not grating. (not saying you are this) but you sound like one of those secretly bitchy girls. like someone that sounds and acts nice but is not. not grating though. not blaming you, i'm blaming the covert bitchy girls for tainting this voice type.
cute voice, anon
if you want to change it look up how to develop your formant, that usually results in a more "full" voice
Thanks anon. I am pretty internally bitchy/judgemental so it's interesting that it comes out in my voice lol.
Thank you and you’re welcome :D
I’ve been very timid since I was a kid, so maybe it seeps through into my voice? I’ve been told that by many people, argh :/ basically means if I wanna change my voice I’ll have to change my entire demeanor and personality
Also you sound like my therapist (lol Idk if that’s weird)
I’m Canadian, close enough anyway, thanks xD :)
Thank you xD, oh wow, that sounds fun lol haha the classes, I stutter and slur a lot I shoild do that
I bet you sound cool though
Are you trolling for attention because your voice is obviously cute and feminine?
That’s cute if you are.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=APIKVLw1tT0
You’re what I imagine the English speaking nagatoro or sounds like.
intelligent, willful, fun, lots of self respect.
Like a samurai.
i sound kinda like you and i always get kicked from lobbies for sounding like a child feels bad
What accent is that? I barely noticed it in the first dæy and in möerning. Otherwise you sound completely normal.
I don’t notice I have an accent, sometimes I do I guess, what’s interesting is though I only had an accent once I started talking to people online (discord and other chat clients) so I guess i subconsciously incorporated other people’s accents into mine?
You sound like me me!!!??? Oh my
Idk why I’m excited about this lol, I found another girl once who sounded like me online and i was so happy lmao, and she was nice to me!
Well I appreciate that and I’ve never heard that comparison or compliment before to myself.
I get people that either say they hate my voice and I sound gross, or people that do like my voice, I genuinely couldn’t tell how I sound. I still don’t like that I sound like a child, I’ll probably always sound like that.
I sound way more boyish than you. I wish I had your voice
Thank you, anytime I find a girl that sounds like me I get happy lol, idk I don’t like how I sound, people either don’t take me seriously or they think I’m naive and or annoying.
Weirdly enough I’ve been told my appearance doesn’t match my voice.
You probably look androgynous and have short hair. That is what they mean, when they say you look like a boy, despite still knowing that you are a girl.
Your voice sounds really young. Like a kid. I honestly am thinking of boy too, when I hear it.
I never get told I look like a boy/man, and my hair is quite long and I’m feminine appearing in general.
I actually look nothing how I sound and I frequently get told that.
I do get told constantly I sound like a little boy or just a child in general.
You have a raspy voice but I think it's cute :)
>>95189>I don’t like how I sound, people either don’t take me seriously or they think I’m naive and or annoying.
Your voice doesn't even have to be the reason, it's just less likely to be taken seriously if you're 1. Female 2. Young 3. Shy 4. Short/petite
I’m severely depressed and have been for a long time, maybe it impacts my voice and I’m unaware? I’ve had people tell me I sound very sad before, people I didn’t even know personally.
I’m also autistic, that could impact my voice too?
You sound like a 13-year-old boy going through puberty.
Assuming you were professionally diagnosed with all of those things, as opposed to self-diagnosed, yes. Autism tends to cause a "blunt affect" i.e. little emotional variance in the voice. English has a very "musical" quality to it and most normalfag expect you to emote somewhat (usually positive). Depression wouldn't help the emotional side of things, but that wouldn't effect your processes as much as autism.
Again, assuming you have this professional diagnosed and not just "lol I took an online test and it said I totes had disabilities xD"
I can hear why they say that, you kind of sound like a prepubescent boy about to start their Let's Play youtube channel>Hey, what's up
You dont sound male to me at all, but my guess is the communities you are speaking in are heavily male based, and you possibly have internet knowlage, which is commonly associated with males. Which could be why they’d think such. Basically, maybe you aren’t acting like the stereotypical female.
u sound normal. anyone who says otherwise is just a dick
What else am I supposed to say? Any idea genius?
Everyone that says I’m a boy is usually in discord or when I’m gaming (and they’re usually males)
Let’s hear what you sound like? I bet you’re a guy or a tranny, gross, I sound better than you either way Sir
Nta but I agree with her lmao. They probably have speech lessons on YouTube you could try!
the thing is little boys voices can be mistaken for a womens voice. i mean think of the little choir boys who would make you think a woman was singing instead. your voice registers 100% female to me. its not anything to feel bad about + shitty mics make it worse imo
You’re agreeing with yourself, but okay cool brother
Yes it’s true, that’s what I don’t get when people Tell me “you like like a little boy or kid”
Well atleast I sound young lol
I get the same thing. I've had a guy on Discord tell me he can't tell if I'm a guy or a girl, and an old dude tell me I sound like a little boy. I wish I had one of those sexy, mature voices like Eva Green's but instead I sound like a pre-pubescent child on helium.
The trans girl I know even told me she thought I was "voice-training" when she first heard me. feelsbad.jpg
you sound like a girl, whoever said to you you have a manly voice is delusional
The thing I don’t understand is, if a trans girl is voice training she would sound like a full on man who’s chained smoked to 40 years, a pre pubescent boy sounds almost like a high pitched voice female, so idk, but Atleast we sound young and youthful
In games with voice chat I sometimes get told that aswell, but never by women. I don't think a lot of them say it on purpose, they're just confused to hear a womans voice (except for their mommies)
It mostly happens in games yeh, honestly incels
When this thread was made and was active I was away on a holiday and I forgot about it when I got back, glad to see it pop up again.
So here's my advice for the girlies todayhttps://voca.ro/1cKzygVGCF2N