/feels/ - Advice & Venting

"Hey babe what did you think of the playlist I made you?

>>112111
i did this over two weeks ago and he said he didn’t get to it yet but would. never did.

what kinda songs were on it?

if he loved you, he would have listened to it the moment you sent it to him.

>>112110
Post playlist so we can judge if it's worth listening to.

>>112121
cutie pie - all girl summer fun band
scott pilgrim - plumtree
absolutley cuckoo - the magnetic fields
i just do - go sailor
you’re so cool - colleen green
odd couple - weezer
heart 2 heart - lisa prank
ozma - shannon and the clams
baby i love you - the ramones
guy 4 me - peach kelli pop
perverted girl - happy birthday
through the day - hutch and kathy
when can i see you again? - kids on a crime spree
since you stole my heart - saturday looks good to me
your bed - cub
handpocket - best friends forever
think of you - bleached
hate everyone but you - habibi
if you could know - shannon and the clams
please be my third eye - la sera
make you mine - best coast
crazy one - rivers cuomo
baby - of montreal

>>112126
Is that the type of music he normally listens to?

>>112142
Sure it’s stuff we both like with maybe a couple things he isn’t familiar with sprinkled in

>>112144
Nona you're dating a gay man.

>>112164
No not at all. I think that’s a petty claim to make based on someone’s music taste alone. He is definitley heterosexual and very masculine. If you think the playlist is feminine maybe that’s you projecting love songs as an inherently feminine thing, but I assure you men can enjoy this kind of music without being gay.

>>112144
>I wish there was a way to nudge at him to listen to it without revealing i skimmed his last fm to see if he had listened.
"What did you think of (X song he doesn't know)?"

I don't think succesfully 'nudging' him to listen to the playlist adresses the underlying issue (if you can call it that) that he didn't bother listening to it in the first place though.

>>112171
Yeah I guess you’re right. I never made playlists as a romantic gesture before. I usually just make them for myself but wanted to try it out since this relationship is new. I know he’s made playlists for his ex gf so I thought it was something he’d respond well to.

>>112184
sounds like he really does not appreciate you then, especially if playlists are part of his love language

>>112186
We’ve only been seeing each other for a little over 3 months. Could it just take time for it to develop?

>>112186
>>112196
I don't think you should jump to conclusions too fast over a single playlist. If he really doesn't appreciate you, there should be other clues/instances.

>>112196
three months isn't that long, maybe he just doesn't quite love you yet

>>112199
That’s what I think I could be overreacting because it’s just one thing, I just happened to be particularly sensitive about it I believe because it’s new to me.