>>117932very real, women already tend to select more for marriage material than not if they're not looking for a quick fuck and/or are stupid.
men, stupid and smart, will go for a quick fuck whether the girl is or isn't marriage material. real love is (much) more important on the man's side of things if you really must measure between the two. the alternative is the mess that lots of women are facing because of shitty, nonreciprocal men