Affirmations / Spells / Prayers to make someone less important in your life Anonymous 119375
I've been working together with this coworker on and off for like 3 months. He tries to keep it professional and so do I, but sometimes the boundaries are blurred and we both have shared about our work related problems and personal problems with each other and text each other almost every single day since then. Every message that he sends feels like getting by a cupid arrow and makes me lose my mind and wanting more from him. I just want to be pampered by him all day. We sometimes even walk together out of office and get to talk.
There are lot of problems. He's married and way too older than me. He smiles at me whenever we cross each other but then he never "sees" me the way I see him, like I chase up to him while walking together and he just keeps walking. I don't even understand if I am actually a friend or just a coworker, or something more to him. For the most part he only initiates work related conversations and hasn't initiated any personal conversations about me, but wouldn't really mind sharing his personal shit on to me out of nowhere. But whenever I do talk about my personal problems, he always cares about me and it makes me feel very good.
I just don't know what to do. I'm worried if I'd do something stupid and destroy everything that is going on right now by pressing my luck. I love him a lot and cherish the times I spent with him but at the same time I sometimes wish I had never met him.
Anonymous 119416
Stop romanticizing some old man. Think about your situation from an outsider's perspective. Imagine being his wife.
Anonymous 119534
>>119416I managed to get a bit closer than before.
>Imagine being his wife.Yes, I feel bliss imagining that.
He quit. I may see him for a few more days for his exit procedure to complete and after that it's over. Something in me is still in denial and can't believe that he will be gone soon.
