/feels/ - Advice & Venting

I've never been on a date and I fully intend to keep it that way for the rest of my life.

Last weekend! we went to a local cooking class and learned how to make some French dishes, it was great!

>>119842
never
I hate men

I went to Happy Lamb with my bf. The food was really good but the service was bad and some buffet plates had hair on them. And people were talking way too loudly.

>>301477
Yeah, that's the only reason robots would be good.
They're all bald, don't sweat, don't do nasty shit, would probably have a cleaning function, etc so they would be the optimal servants.

Never been to one, no idea how to get into one either but i don't care lol

I like date nights with my boyfriend. He always pays like a gentleman, but really I wouldn't even mind. I just like being around him.

never. I love women

>>119855
You can go on date with other women y know

>>119856
Sounds degenerate, lesbianism should only be done in private

>>119842
Last Sunday. It was very sweet. Bf is in the military so I don't see him much and every date is a treasure

>>119861
>Bf is in the military

What is it like to date a military man?

On the weekend. We met during the week when I was in a student bar and he saw a sticker for a conference on my laptop and just asked me if I'd been. We ended up talking for about an hour on climate and soil science, then he asked for my number. He has no social media outside of academic and linkedin, so it was a bit of a crapshoot, but we went to an archery range, which was fun, then he bought churros and hot chocolate to have while he walked through a park with views over the city. I think he started talking to me because he was just trying to network, but he seems quite nice so I think we're going to have a dinner date this weekend.

>>119859
Pardon, but meet you moid in private too, I don't want to see ugly males on streets

>>119864
I don't want to see ugly women on the streets either but you keep walking outside lol

>>119872
Said ugly moid

>>119863
Sounds cute!! How did it go?

>>119872
Got 'em

People still go on dates in 2025?

>>119874
The u word can only be used by the facially challenged how dare you use our word

>>119849
>but really I wouldn't even mind
I know it's easy to think this when you don't have to pay but trust me, the more you would pay the more you would realize how not worth it that it is. There's a good reason men have to pay and if you can't understand that, I'm not explaining it to you.

>>121125
Do explain, please.

>>119863
>He has no social media outside of academic and linkedin
That's moid code for "I have a bunch of women I'm talking to on tinder, meta, reddit, x, discord, eharmony, of, and okcupid, but I'd like to explore my options and now you're one of them. Lucky you!" Word to the wise: don't put all your eggs in one basket. Like you said, he was just networking, so you should consider dating other guys too just in case.

>>121127
Nta but I'm a woman and in the same boat. LinkedIn and academic stuff, nothing else. Is it really such a red flag? Especially since more and more people irl are escaping social media. I just can't be arsed to waste my time on liking Jessica's 10 thousand baby photos and scrolling meaningless reels.

>>121133
>Is it really such a red flag?
Honestly yeah. Most moids will "hide their power level" especially around women and either only reveal themselves when they think they've got you locked in or never tell you and make up excuses and pretend they'll change after you accidentally walked in on them. Never do anything without a contingency plan, you will only get used by abusers.

>>121127
>>121133
>>121136
no its not, if anything its a green flag. men that aren't terminally online tend to have their priorities straight.

>>121138
Show me a man who is honest about their usage of social media and I will show you a liar.

>>121139
How does having an insta account prevent him from talking to women on tinder?

>>121140
How does saying you don't use social media prevent you from lying about using social media?

>>121141
See, now you get what I mean.

>>121142
We're on the same side so I don't know why you think you were arguing with me