one of my friends totally dropped me Anonymous 120770
as the title says, one of my friends texted me last friday, and decided that we couldn’t be friends anymore. he said that our friendship was “too intense” and he couldn’t handle it for his mental health. this came out of nowhere, and he hadn’t expressed discomfort any time in the past about our friendship and what we talked about. we’ve only known each other since november but we’ve gotten really close in that time, and tell each other about our mental health, personal, and family struggles. i’m not mad that he did this, if anything im glad he’s prioritizing his mental health. but, it just really fucking sucks that he just,,, decided we can’t be friends anymore. i don’t even know if this is permanent. from the way he spoke, i don’t think it is, but i have no clue when he’ll be stable enough for us to be friends again.
on one hand, he’s kind of right? like, our friendship was a bit mentally draining for the both of us. but on the other hand i really miss him. i miss talking to him from when i woke up to when i went to bed. i miss seeing funny videos and sending them to him. i miss talking to him about literally nothing and everything. i think it’s worse because he still like, looks at my ig stories. he doesn’t hate me, we just can’t be friends for the time being.
Anonymous 120775
I do this…sometimes because of things at home friendships become too much for me …I know isolation doesnt help but I dont want my foul mood to spoil everybody else having a good time…I hope you guys start hanging out soon!
Anonymous 120797
he's just being your e-bf
Anonymous 120839
>>120797A role he really needs to fullfill better.
Anonymous 120844
>>120797>>120839op here, i came to check on this thread because i was thinking about him (and feeling terrible) again, and this really made me laugh so thanks you guys <3
Anonymous 120911
>>120844how can I get into an obsessive relationship like you?
Anonymous 120918
>>120911meet someone who is equally as mentally ill as you, talk from literally when you wake up to when you go to bed, develop complicated feelings for him, "confess" but make it clear that you're not sure if you actually like him (or men at all), tell each other your worst secrets, profit
Anonymous 120950
op here again. i texted him earlier and he left me on read. i sent him another text after that which he didn't read. i hate my life.
