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Anonymous 121044

>meet boy on reddit
>funny boy, finds me funny
>somehow in 10 days' time we are exchanging nudes and talking about getting married
>i want out

what do. i feel like such a whore.

Anonymous 121046

bvmp

Anonymous 121047

>exchanging nudes in 10 days

Have you never heard of the rule of 3s?

Anonymous 121048

>>121047
i don't know why i went along with it. every time it was "hm ii went this far it's ok if i do more". i ama such a retard. what do i do.

Anonymous 121049

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>>121048
It's a lose-lose situation. Either you have to live with some random moid having pictures of you nude, like becky in picrel, or you have to marry him, which you've said you don't want to.

Anonymous 121052

>>121044
Just stop agreeing to send your nudes. Make it a rule for yourself.
Talked to several moids when they're horny and I always tell them the spiel of "Oh I'm sorry but I don't really feel comfortable with sharing intimate pictures online :( I hope it's ok" and even so they still send me theirs no problem. A few might beg a little but if you remain firm with your decision they'll eventually give up asking. However the only way for this to work is for them to fully believe you're a woman, and if you did a good job at sweetening him up with your previous messages the easier it will be for you.

This has worked especially well so far on 2 moids for me. One of them I kinda miss, he was really cute, had a nice dick and knew how to send spicy messages. But he got a girlfriend so that was the end of that. And if the moid you're messaging says something like "Do you not trust me? I thought we were close" when you tell him you won't share nudes then maybe let him go because that's a manipulator trying to guilt-trip you. Never forget that being wary and exercising privacy measures online is your right so don't feel bad about it.
And no offense but how the fuck do you start having marriage talks with someone at 10 days of knowing them??

Anonymous 121090

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>meet boy on reddit
>boy on reddit
>reddit
Well that's your first problem..

Cut your losses. You have put yourself in a monkey trap situation, and the longer you hold on, the harder it will be to get out. You have a lot of losses to cut, so take a breath, have a drink, and start planning.

Anonymous 121396

>>121047
what are the rules of 3s

Anonymous 121562

>>121396
Three dates, three weeks, three months
You need to hit these marks before you advance to overcompensating with attraction, sex, etc.

Anonymous 121574

delete your account and never do anything as crazy as e dating again. a redditor i can’t imagine what it really looks like. how pathetic.

Anonymous 121578

>>121044
You got played by a guy online who's doing the same for ten other girls

Anonymous 121579

>>121044
You got played by a guy online who's doing the same for ten other girls

Anonymous 121582

>>121562
>three weeks, three months
so which is it then?



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