/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>121269
He probably liked you back but you never had a honest discussion with him about how you really feel so he assumed you weren't interested and moved on. Lesson learned, people can't read minds.

>>121270

i mean i literally gave him all the signs in the world, what happened to men asking women out??

tbh like yeah i get on some level i could have said something sooner but he literally said he wasn't really planning to get into any relationships rn and he literally TOLD ME to wait until we moved in together like when i brought up that i was considering dating again he literally got mad at me! i just really thought i was safe but clearly he silently moved on and i never did

>>121271
Sometimes the woman needs to start the discussion. Guys can be clueless, they just flirt for fun sometimes, and people can room together without being in a relationship. It sounds like a complicated situation though and you might have dodged a bullet with that one.

>>121271
>what happened to men asking women out??
twitter and tiktok happened

>>121269
>boy
By the sounds of it you are still in college or high school. You have no reason to be upset even if you messed up with this moid. A forth of the Nonas here are forever alones who never even had a guy give us attention. You aren’t allowed to let this ruin your life until you are 30+ and incapable of love anymore like me. You will be fine.

Move on you will find a good man if you open your heart to love. When I was 13 I had a crush on a guy so bad I ignored everyone till I was 17. I think I let that energy get in the way of finding love. I'm better now. I still cannot ask men out thougn. Its never happening sorry!

>>121271
>I gave him all the signs in the world

So you didn't have an actual talk with him about it. You just assumed he'd understand what you meant. Instead of just not risking it and saying it very clearly and concisely like an adult.

>>121279

yeah i know i just really did think i was safe when he was literally calling me his girlfriend i know I'm a fucking idiot i just was so scared that he'd reject me and I'd lose him as a friend and i just knew i was too ugly for him and i ended up being right anyway cause he left for a way prettier and younger girl

>>121269
sometimes you have to make the move yourself, people are just too shy to do it

>>121281
don't feel too bad. sounds like he wasn't worth it if he left you after all that