this needs to get off my chest Anonymous 121592
i've been friends with this girl ever since my first year of college. we got along and she made me realize that life isn't always about your final sat score or your gpa. that maybe its about the little things that happen.
when i started to get comfortable with her, i realized i changed a bit. like, not in a good way- but in a bad way. it was frightening because i was saying yes to things she asked me to do with her that 17 year old me would've never agreed to back then.
she used to bully this one girl that we'd see usually and thought it was funny if we got her socials and kept sending her grabify links to log into her instagram, snap, tiktok, etc. i agreed.
i hesitated when she sent me the link so i could go send it to her but she insisted. and so i did. we then got access to her instagram. then her snap, then her tiktok. i knew it was wrong but i still did it.
i told an old friend from high-school about it and she told me that we were both wrong, but she should've never dragged me in if i she was insisting.
was this bad influence? or am i severely at fault here?
Anonymous 121595
Even if she is/was a bad influence your decisions are ultimately your own. What you should be asking yourself is why you went along with what this other girl wanted despite your hesitation and "knowing it was wrong"
Anonymous 121596
>>121592you should give this girl proof the other girl did that to her so she can go to the police otherwise you’re just as bad as any other creep stalking a young woman. did you freaks like look at her nudes and shit? like her conversations with other people? how fucking jealous and obsessed were you???
Anonymous 121613
>>121596we're both female, and she didn't send any nudes to like literally anyone. and we don't really live in a place like america where stalking (online) or hacking other people is considered a serious crime. we weren't obsessed, and logged out the minute we found out we had access. + she's not someone id be jealous of lmdfao..
Anonymous 121614
>>121595she kept nudging me to do it, and honestly i surrendered from the amount of times she kept asking. every time she kept doing it, she'd always add a pesky comment that would ultimately hurt my feelings. she didn't feel bad a single bit, while i felt bad the most.
Anonymous 121615
>>121592You lack courage in your convictions.
You chose to do those actions. Yes, the other person is also a fucking piece of shit, but you are asking for absolution, and I will not give it, nona.
Anonymous 121623
>>121614So her being nasty to you was a good reason to do what she wants? You knew what you were doing but you did it anyway. Ask yourself why. Were you just bored? Did you want to fuck around and find out? Are you just that numb and lacking moral compass? Only you know the answer to these. The important thing is to self enquire.
Anonymous 121626
>>121614her hurting your feelings a little was worse than fucking hacking someone? it’s a serious crime whether it’s illegal there or not. you’re a creep whether you’re a man or not. i literally don’t believe you hacked her and then looked at nothing. who would? that’s clearly not what happens. and who would spy on someone and obsess over someone they think is a loser? you were both clearly jealous of something and interested in SOMETHING to HACK HER.
Anonymous 121627
>>121615yeah it’s pathetic. this is the creepiest thing ive seen a nona confess to and they do it defending themselves? like they want us to forgive them and no?
Anonymous 121628
>we got along and she made me realize that life isn't always about your final sat score or your gpa. that maybe its about the little things that happen.
caring abt ur gpa and sat is more valuable than softbullying and uhh hacking a girl
Anonymous 121629
>>121628i love the correlation between both of their gpas falling past caring about them as their obsession with this girl they stalked grew. karma.
