/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>122102
Found the scrote

That's honestly harmless

>>122099
I don't understand some nonas.
I get being alone sucks but dating a fetishist is much worse.

Is he getting weirdly insistent on you wearing a maid outfit or was it just something that got brought up and not paid much attention to?

>>122099
It really depends on the details. By itself, it's harmless.
I'm fairly certain a lot of it is just the appeal of the outfit and moids not having any understanding of women's clothing. Then, the rest is mostly guys wanting caretaker figures or subservient women they have power over because they're poorly socialized.

>>122124
he said that I would look good in such clothes and offered to buy it for me

>>122156
Sounds like basic uniform fetishism. If you aren't into it, just say no.
However, the big question now is what sort of clothes your bf will actually buy. Will it be actually something of decent quality you could wear semi-regularly, or will it just be cheap underwear/a halloween costume? That is the big test.
Alternatively, find something decent online yourself and send it to him. The housemaid look can be achieved simply with a regular black dress with an apron, combined with some other odds and ends. If it turns out he just wants the stupid cartoon look because he's retarded, don't bother.
>he said that I would look good
As if he knows fuck all about this. He's just saying that to try to get you into the outfit.

>>122156
For what it's worth, it sounds like he's being pretty normal about all this if he doesn't ask you about it every day. Indulge him if you want, or not if you don't. Doesn't really ring any alarm bells in my head.