/feels/ - Advice & Venting

Im pretty sure all you need to do is quit jerking off so much. Give your clit a rest and she'll be back soon. Unless you somehow broke your clit. If so, my condolences.

>>122617
is breaking your clit possible?

>>122642
Clitoral atrophy is a think but idk if it can happen through overstimulation. Give urself a break, and if you still feel nothing try going to a gynecologist or something

Take a long break. Like at least a month. Then start again and just jack off without the intent to come. Do this a few times. Let it come back naturally. Use your imagination— try not to imagine porn you’ve seen but rather create your own in your mind. Good luck!

put me in coach

>>122614
There's nothing wrong with toys, tho, it's only porn that's the problem. You basically conditioned your mind to only get off to it, so of course you're gonna struggle now.
Like others said, start by letting it rest for some days, maybe even weeks, don't masturbate when you feel slightly horny like a moid would do, actually wait for when you REALLY want it and then go at it, make your body crave it, make it special. And then for actual action, try to imagine your ideal partner, not just looks wise but how they'd treat you, pretend your hands are theirs, slowly feel up your body instead of going directly for your vulva; feel your breasts, your thighs, your stomach, slowly build up arousal so when you finally get your hand down there it'll feel a million times better, and even then don't just go at it all at once, stop, feel yourself again, go again, etc. Just play around and really take your time, maybe use a toy and then your hand and then your toy again, just listen to your body and switch it up. Something we do have above filthy moids is that we have so many erogenous zones, we're not stuck rubbing a stupid stick, there's so much you can do to feel good and have fun, but you have to take your time and really engage your mind/imagination. Moral reasons aside, another reason I'm glad I quit porn is because all my porn-induced orgasms were fucking pathetic and fleeting, whereas masturbating like this, even if it takes time or is not as frequent, give me incredibly intense orgasms that legit leave me gasping for air and like I've been struck by thunder. I think if all women learned how to properly masturbate they'd all become separatists ngl, so yeah, take your time.

>>122755
Thanks, but I actually think I might have a better chance at leaving porn than at leaving toys, it's just really hard for me to reach an orgasm without them now. Also I feel like my fantasies will still be really porny even if I'm not watching porn, I can't just get off thinking about my crush naked or something like that like some people have suggested me to do

>>122763

don't get off
don't go no fap

do things that actually matter nona.

You will always be horny.

Use that energy for actual things.

If you have a lover, be horny with them. Not alone, that is useless.

That is why househusbands are for, sex, cooking, cleaning, being cute.

>>122767
>That is why househusbands are for, sex, cooking, cleaning, being cute.
Where to get one?

>>122768


it's all about money and avoiding manwhores.


A warm puppy cute guy who can welcome you home will always go for you if you can think detach enough to not care if your dog dies.

Men know and notice when you accept they are whores, when they say they don't notice they are either lying or are deeply autistic. Even a psychopath can notice subtle cues, they just cannot care.

Therapy is manipulation.

Looking for a househusband is accepting your job is to pay bills, solve problems and get home to see your adorable and cute husband. Not the other way around.

Praise a dog for being good, do not say "ow but he's a cute traumatized cutie" he's a retard. He's stupid. He's retarded.

He's obedient or loyal, and that is what you will say "is cute"

Now after saying the basics, I can recommend you to focus on your academic goals, building a business career, and do not accept any invitation from men.

I met my current lover in college. He approached first, I accepted his submission.

If he is a weeb reject him. Unless he proves himself to be submissive enough.

Do not accept orders, if he orders you something around, see it as when your mother tells you to do something, it is not dominance. It is being taken care of, that is the point of a househusband.

I hope you can find one.

>>122769
nta, but what if i am deeply autistic