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I am pregnant Anonymous 06/11/25 (Wed) 03:51:05 AM122619

I found out a week ago that I am pregnant.
I am married, have been for 2 months to my husband who I have been with for 3.5 years now.
I am scared.
Right now I am the sole breadwinner of the house and I don't even make that much money. Enough for bills but hardly enough for anything else and slowly have been draining my savings.
He doesn't work. He had a good paying job but left it to pursue school 6 months ago. And what he is in school for I honestly don't think he has a future in.
Other than the financial struggles, neither of us are ready to be parents.
I think I could handle being a Mom, but I do not want to be a Mom. I am not ready for a lifetime commitment yet. I wanted to enjoy being newleyweds longer.
He is not ready to be a Dad. Emotionally immature.
The reality is slowly dawning on me on how hard this will be for us and I am really distraught. We are broke and I am married to a man who literally cannot handle fatherhood. I am terrified.
At first I thought I would be excited for a baby but I am more scared, mostly because of ny husband being unprepared. I know he couldnt support us but I know one of us will have to stay home with baby all day.
I just dont know what to do.

Anonymous 06/11/25 (Wed) 01:18:58 PM122641

>>122619
You should have been careful in picking your moid, nona. First thing you should do is get him to work and earn money. He can do so with school or after quitting but you need him to earn. Figure out the money part first, and then the rest. If not, divorce him and demand alimony. He'll work then, but your kid will grow up without a father which would be sad.

Anonymous 06/11/25 (Wed) 09:52:33 PM122649

>>122619
> I am the sole breadwinner of the house
>He doesn't work.
>neither of us are ready to be parents.
>I do not want to be a Mom. I am not ready for a lifetime commitment yet. >He is not ready to be a Dad.
>I just dont know what to do.

Girl, it sounds like you know exactly what to do.
Pleasw don't wait. Being a single struggling parent is an absolute nightmare.

Anonymous 06/12/25 (Thu) 02:55:35 AM122657

>>122619
this isn't the answer you want to hear but you have to abort.

Anonymous 06/12/25 (Thu) 05:23:35 PM122661

>He had a good paying job but left it to pursue school 6 months ago
Why did you marry this retard?

Anonymous 06/13/25 (Fri) 07:10:14 AM122676

>>122619
Why don't you get an abortion?