/feels/ - Advice & Venting

Not my type but I support you

If all men were like that, the birth rate problem would be solved and feminism would no longer be necessary, but since most moids are unbearable, it will never happen.

>>122630
how would you know which one is your bf if they all looked the same?

>>122644
they will be expected to wear jerseys with their girlfriends full names on them so that they can be identified

>>122645
some men would swap jerseys

>>122646
well that just means you get to enjoy a harem of cute boys.
if women dont want to take the risk we could force men to wear irremovable tech gadgets/devices/chips thatll identify them through an app.

>>122648
Oh yeah and give them all a mindchip which reinforces the right behavior, they'll stay at home, cook, clean, take care of the kids amd will be always available. They wouldn't have any other life and will be solely dependent on the relationship and will love it.

stop yapping about useless stuff and just give us his name already, holy shit

>>122630
Too muscular for my taste

>>122630
Would but his face is kinda meh. Need a chiseled angel bf to molest

>>122834
i dont like beards and his nose is too fat

>>122834
nah, this one is actually very ugly

>>122835
You talk about him the way moids describe women

>>122892
so? i cant be the only woman who does that

>>122903
Definitely not it just seems hypocritical to me that most of us dislike things like that when men do it then turn around and do it aswell. Obviously with the power imbalance between sexes it could never impact a man the same way but still i just think its cringe

>>122933
do you really think refraining from judging a mans looks makes other men go easier on women? cmon nona. what happens is it causes men to think theyre immune from looks-based criticism, that women arent "visual creatures" and that its fine for them to not put effort into looking appealing to the opposite sex. then they get confused when they get rejected and ghosted by women. that guy above isnt ugly by any means, there are actual male trolls in the world but he still isnt my type. men obsess over humbling women when theyre the ones who need to be humbled the most

>>122934
I dont believe this so that men will go easier on me, i believe this because i wouldn't want anyone talking about me that way. Im not against not having a type, im against talking about human beings like they exist specifically for my tastes

>>122933
We should actually be judging them way more, men criticize absolutely everything in women, including having pores (oh the horror, a human being) while they go out there to the world as the ugly, unkept ogres that they are. Men are fucking hideous and we SHOULD shame them more, we SHOULD be calling them disgusting fatasses, making fun of them being bald, of their beards that look like pubes, maybe then they'll shut the fuck up. Women are too kind to these pieces of shit.

>>122980
It just sounds like you run on spite. Im not interested in hating others in retaliation. Its a waste of time. nothing changes that way. consistently picking at others will probably just make you a more miserable.

>>123066
i disagree, i think the only thing that wont change anything is being nice to them tbh. judging or criticizing them definitely hurts their ego the way they hope to hurt women. treating them kindly while they mistreat you is kind of pitiful because theyll use that as proof of their superiority over you

>>123076
I'm not saying be nice to people who are cruel to you, I'm saying you should show basic respect towards people that you don't know. It shouldn't be considered normal to go around picking at everyone's looks

his pecs are too small, waist too big, thighs not as thick as it should, he looks 175+, too tall, he probably would hit you to death

>>123087
not everyone, just moids, hope this helps!

>>123126
Unfortunately, men are people

>>123076
>judging or criticizing them definitely hurts their ego

but what if it doesn't and you just fuel the resentment towards women because by bullying him you prove to him that women are bullies. it might reduce their compassion for women and when your attempt of hurting him fails, you feel weak which then hurts yourself.

makes you look weak and petty and repells everyone around with dignity.

>>123134
NTA, I don't agree with mocking anyone unprovoked either and I agree that when doing this stuff you need to keep PR in mind.

However, the same people who want to "prove" women are bullies are generally narcissistic shizos who will actually try to look for any proof we're bad.
We don't need to appease people who think we're bullies already IMO. Men rarely if ever think in terms "but what if it reduces women's compassion for us?" so I think giving them that courtesy is a bit undeserved.

>>123136
this does not sound that you have bothered to learn from the mistakes of prior generations at all. well i wish you a pleasant unconscious ride on the conveyor belt to carry the same idiocy into the future that ruined the present.

>>123134
>but what if it doesn't
it always will, if you think it wont you havent been around enough men. they cant even handle reasonable criticism, giving them a taste of their own medicine does extreme emotional damage. i see women parroting your talking point on here, but it only shows your lack of experience with men. theyre so thin skinned that theyre difficult to be around
>it might reduce their compassion for women
men who demand better treatment than theyre willing to give, or go harder on women have already made up their mind. theres nothing you can do to change it, there are even studies on this. you could show these people irrefutable proof of women being less prone to engage in cruel, antisocial or criminal behavior and they'll just double down on their beliefs instead. being nice or even arguing with them does jack shit. a lot of these men even admit theyve never had a bad experience with a woman personally
>and when your attempt of hurting him fails, you feel weak which then hurts yourself.
thats the thing - it wont fail and thats why ive never felt "weak". a lot of women tend to project their own mentality onto men, thinking it wont hurt them which is why they refrain from acting that way. and thats also why theyll never experience men seething

>>123138
Prior generations was just men constantly seeing women as convenient punching bags for improving one's own confidence. They still do it now and do you know why it works? Because a lot of women are socialized to be doormats, like you are. (no offense)
You're jumping at some random moid's defense who you don't even know anything about. Then telling your fellow women we should just stay nice and put lest some moid might lose control if we do something wrong. You say he might get hurt and then get mad at us, then you say he might not and then we'd be hurt. How come I never see anyone telling men that?
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. You are probably going to be justifying your abuser in the future, or already have.

>>123143
really well-said nona. i think i could have understood or sympathized with her if she had simply thought to herself "well thats hypocritical" without feeling the need to police women on their treatment of men on an anonymous imageboard. you wont see men police other men, hell you wont even see women police men on the manosphere. what this does is it causes an extreme imbalance where only women are treated unfairly online. kind of grim lol. idk it just doesnt sit right with me to have to care MORE when it comes to mens feelings and continue to be a part of what makes them so entitled in the first place

>>123134
lmaooo, not nona pulling the "men treat women badly because women said mean things about them online", even in countries were women are more subservient than dogs they still get treated like uber shit, even more so than in the west. men hate women, period, this whole "i'm actually actively fighting against your rights because you said men suck on twitter dot com" is just an excuse they employ to get women to shut up and stop giving back the same energy. don't be such a stupid doormat and believe their lies.

>>123141
>>123143

war is where the conveyor belt is supposed to bring you to, clearly you are there already. if you think being hostile and being a soldier in a gender war will improve anything you are destined to repeat the mistakes of the unconscious puppetwives and suffer the same consequences and regrets.

don't bother arguing with me about it, i don't believe in it. i just consider you a lost cause and continue to clean up the resentment, suspicion, division and suffering that you will waste your life causing without taking responsibility for.

>>123151
>suffer the same consequences and regrets.
which is?

>>123150
tbh I think if you act like an asshole in the right way people do end up respecting you more lol

>>123151
moids always reveal themselves here

This but with Pedro Pascal. I'm 22 and this guy looks way too young for me lmao

>>122834
>>122630
As a blonde girl, I don't get the obsession with blonde hair. I dye mine brown because it makes my eyes stand out.
I think girls can look well as blondes but not men. I don't like black, red, or blonde hair on men. Light brown with green/blue eyes is peak.

>>123232
i guess since im not blonde i find that hair color rlly exotic on men. but only if theyre hot, ugly men arent human