/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>122690
Find submissive guys and make them our pets

>>122691
Femdom is not liberating at all, it's just another way to cater to men's many sexual appetites. FUCKING. ANIMALS.

>>122692
Depends on the guy. Sometimes it's just a guy's fetish and he doesn't care about pleasing you, but there are genuinely subservient and submissive guys out there.

>>122696
how do you find them then

>>122701
They're usually shy, so you have to be the one to make the first move.

>>122702
I already know how to approach them, what I don't know is WHERE they are so I can even do that

>>122703
It's harder to meet them after you've graduated. Try frequenting the local library?

>>122703
gaming?

I mean, you have to be the one taking initiative with these which tbh is easy to confuse with a lack of interest

>>122690
Women function as an exclusive in-group with all the same interests and tendencies. Men do not form such collective in-groups naturally to back each other up specifically as men. This is why the idea of an oppressive "Patriarchy" is a laughable fictive system of control. Men compete with other men and only form small groups to cooperate with or they will serve hierarchically under a leader, say, in an army, but only under certain circumstances and never to promote and protect their interests explicitly as men. Women are one collective that functions together via group think and social programming as well as social policing and narrative manipulation and they view men as an out-group and will behave under this assumption when they are not properly culturally controlled.

This is why sexual equality is impossible and incompatible with Civilization itself. The women will always end up socially dominating the men due to the natures of both sexes and the fact that men evolved to naturally see their women as part of their in-group and an extension of themselves while women see men as an out-group that must be controlled and manipulated to benefit and emotionally gratify themselves and which they have no inherent allegiance to or unity with. All of the best parts of women can only come when they are shaped by a strong male dominated hierarchy that enforces proper behavioural standards and keeps the overall group, both male and female, united against real outgroups.

>>122722
Nice Chat-GPT post

>>122723
It's not, but it is an abridged post from Ourchan. I mostly browse there but I wanted to see how other femanons thought.

Basically the point still stands that men don't see other men as an ingroup but as compeition for limited resources and mates. The idea that the Patriarchy is organizing globally to keep women down is nuts. Men see Women from their tribe as "ingroup" and will often protect and look after them.

Alot of Men these days are disgusting do nothing perverts so I definitely get the resentment. At the same time young Men can't just go and get jobs like grandpa did and support a family. It is a political issue and partially a race one.

My husband and I moved out to a rural area and he works remote and I work partime while raising 2 children and we barely make the mortage.

>>122723
OPs like this underplay just how hard life is and has been. More often then not Men look after Women and they help each other out. It is a TEAM effort.

Frankly, Men are/used to be more competant and physically stronger so they naturally took the lead. Yes, alot of men have been deadbeats but more took the mantel for their family.

What, do you all want to be married to physically and mentally weak men and where the pants? Fuck that shit I don't even want to work part time.

>>122729
So you want to be a tradwife? lmao

>>122740
>Women have never thought of themselves as a collective
We naturally do that, it has nothing to do with social media - it's just a tool/vehicle which promotes what already exists. Collectivising and interacting with ingroup bias is a survival mechanism, and in today's age where women compete with men over the same resources, there's even more of a motivation for it to be expressed. But the result on men's part is to either compete back aggressively, which they can't do due to modern laws, or detach, dissociate, tap out, remain weak because their mothers raised them to be non threatening in any way.

>>122728
>The idea that the Patriarchy is organizing globally to keep women down is nuts
have you never seen men harping on women when they are trying to speak against abusive men. 90% of them unanimously start spouting the same shit like "le fake rape allegations" or whatnot.

what you're posting sounds like a schizo projecting their life experience onto everyone no offense lol

>>122728
nothing brings men together more than keeping women down honestly

>>122746
When I was in college all a Woman had to do was whisper and fratboys would get expelled without evidence.

>>122750
sure troon