/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>123004

I've decided it's just easier to be a hermit or mildly aquatinted with other people. It's a lot of effort and disappointment that I just don't have the capacity for anymore.

>>123012

I think it might be time for me to accept that. It sucks.

>>123015

Socializing has been really fucky lately, don't be hard on yourself nona

coming back to this and I think I need to get evaluated for bpd. I hate my friends but also love them. I wish they just took the time to be my friend. I think the internet has rotted us all because they can just see what I’m up to at all times and choose to not reach out because of it. i feel like I need to scrub all of my social media profiles and just become completely anonymous. it gets to the point sometimes where I want to kill myself just so they feel bad for not reaching out more. I know this is very harmful thinking and not good for anyone but ugh. again, I’m looking into evaluation.

>>123004
You just need to let stuff like this go or you'll end up alone. See the bigger picture.

you're not alone
i had to beg my old best friend of 10 years to have decent conversations with me instead of answering me with a one word reply and she just told me that she's not my boyfriend to talk to me enthusiastically on a daily basis
In my opinion, it's better to not expect too much from people and just treat them the same way they do

>>123037

that's selfish nona
okay so think rationally
let's say HYPOTHETICALLY you off yourself.

What will happen?
FEELINGS ARE REACTIONS
okay let's say they did not care at all. For some reason.

Then why would you do it?

It's stupid. Just live and just move on nona, you surely can be smart.

Do things, move on, like the other nona said.

Sometimes it's not BPD, it's just selfishness, no one really owes you anything.

I can say I'm glad you at least reach out to online forums. Else you would be alone dealing with stupid thoughts. And guess what stupid thoughts do? make you do stupid stuff.

I hope you do smart stuff and not dumb stuff. xoxo nona

>>123106
Fuck that woman.
How will women ever be free, if they can't turn to each other for emotional support?