/feels/ - Advice & Venting

I'm so sorry, nona, but I don't think you can date someone who treats you like that. I hope you break up with him soon.

>>123634
it’s almost like he’s acting like this just to get me to leave because he doesn’t want to be the one to end it. either that or he just hates me and wants to see what i’m willing to endure. i don’t know how to live with this pain. it’s so hurtful.

>>123635
You'll need to do some very hard mental work to slowly end the relationship and focus on other things to improve your life. Start kicking this can down the road, and realize that this relationship is broken and that you'll have to move on without this moid.

Please don’t ignore how badly this is affecting you. You deserve good, not confusion and pain nona. I know it’s hard to let go but just try to remember the pain this is causing you. That’s really all I think I can say to you.

>>123635
I've dated someone who did this and the peace you get in the silence of being alone after is immeasurably better than the ups and downs of dating them. it can be helpful to roleplay as if you're single before leaving the relationship, though, rather than ripping the bandaid, until you're so indifferent that there's nothing but relief by the time you leave. be gentle with yourself and mindfully draw your attention to your own emotions rather than speculating about his.

>>123633
Bet your BF is an abuser that lovebombed you. Leave before it gets worse nona.

Girl stand upppp. Don’t ever let a man make you feel like this

>>123635
I saw many moid podcasts to know this is a thing.
They don't want to be the one to initiate the breakup so they make us do it so they dont feel bad. You should tell him how much of a piece of shit he is so he feels bad anyway when you break up. Write a long letter. He might feel so bad he will try taking you back, but you can't fall for it.

Alternate option is to start looking for his replacement and then "cheat", but I don't condone this behavior. I think it is better to break up first.

>>123686
The OP seems to be a "normal" woman and not a sociopath with a bad behavior, because if I were her, I would make this shitty moid life's a hell until he man up to end this fucking relationship.

>>123689
same nona. OP needs to get her revenge. I would make him cry to have me back and still dump him.

>>123690
I don't even think it's a question of revenge, but that if he doesn't want this relationship anymore, he should honor what he has in his pants and be man enough to say what's really going on, and not treat the girl like trash like that and make her suffer.

>>123693
This is how a lot of moids act nona. They silent breakup so we have to break up with them and they feel ok. Moids today are disgusting and have zero sense of accountability. When this happened to me I wrote a really long letter and broke up with him and then he kept apologizing like a madman. I didn't take him back and now I am with a much better moid who does treat me like a human being.

Women need to stop wasting their time with these moids who play games.

What kind of things does he do that would constitute abuse nona? You should keep a tally and confront him about it.