/feels/ - Advice & Venting

Yeah uh, every time I wear glasses I want to cry knowing it doesn't help with my masculine features. My boobs fucking sag at 18, it's worse that they're large as it gives an illusion that my body is short and stocky whenever I'm braless (they look like they sit on my fucking ribcage). So not even my body can make up for my face like other uggos. What's the point of being a girl if you can't be eye candy? Anyways, what slightly helps for me is doing my eyebrows, if you understand that certain shapes can make or break your face then it's a game changer.

I live in a ridiculous shithole, with a hypersexualized and misogynistic culture, and here, women's appearance is subject to absurd scrutiny. When I was a child, I was chubby and wore glasses, so I was always bullied a lot, not only at school but also at home. I remember my family humiliating me a lot, and my mother would always point out fat people on the street and say that if I didn't stop eating, I'd end up like them (today I look at photos of myself as a child and realize I wasn't even that fat, but I always felt huge). I ended up becoming a closed-off and unsociable person. I missed out on many opportunities in life, but at least I'm not a normie.

>>124874
I want to bebaverage to moids so my life can be a party
Free of strife
I don't understand how any of you think you get anything from moid attention
If you are not seen by moids you're on your way to total freedom
Men are ugly as shit compared to women usually, so, I'm sorry what am I missing here ?

>>124893
Because some people want to be in a relationship and when you are ugly that makes it virtually impossible
>just date a woman
I've tried dating on both sides and trust me I've had no luck on either

I wish I had enough beauty capital to make up for my mental issues and everything else

>>124898
Such capital doesn't exist.

>>124908
NTA Are you saying nona is soo mental that no matter how beautiful she is she won't gain anything from it?

i've always been the "ugly kid" growing up (still am). i got called "it", "thing", etc. eventually i learned to accept that being ugly was/is my reality but it still hurts to know i'll never be considered "eye candy" to anyone.

>>124920
Even if that was the case I doubt it. People underestimate how much value you gain or lose from looks.

>>124920
I'm saying that physical attractiveness isn't a substitute for sound mind.

Once, when I was at university, my friends discovered my other friend's Facebook password to post shit on his account. We ended up reading some of the chats (shitty I know but we were dumb) and in one of them he ranked the girls doing our degree and I was the last one. He even told the person I was the ugliest from the bunch. I didn't even know the other person. Good times.

i just turned 24 and i keep looking at photos of me from ages 19-21 where i looked so cute and pretty and still had light in my eyes. now my eyes are sunken and my nose is somehow bigger. i carry myself so rigid. ugggggh. meanwhile my boyfriend just keeps getting more handsome with age ofc. at least he loves me and how i look i guess.

>>125047
Tranny impersonation itt

>>124897
But you obviously see how ugly as shit moids are so whAts the point? Its like willingly throwing yourself in a burning house to save the Freddy Krueger in there

Stop pretending like it's not a total waste of time

Ugly in personality, hideous in looks 99.99999% of the time. If you still believe they won't destroy your life you're a victim of brainwashing

>>125048
? i hate presuming cunts like you..

I stay home all day because I'm scared of facing interactions with moids who will humiliate me for my neanderthal features.

>>125056
Definitely a tranny moid

>>125047
>meanwhile my boyfriend
fuck off and die humble bragging bitch

>>125056
trooooon

>>125099
nice to meet you, troooon, I'm Mom

>>125098
I thought guys were easy, what's the deal? Why don't you have your own personal moid?

I'm sick of my glasses giving the impression that my face is fatter and my eyes are further apart than they actually are. I look ugly as shit but I'm still made to wear them because contact lenses are cheap as fuck. FML.

>>125106
Sounds like dysmorphia to me unless your lenses are actually fuckhuge

im so fucking ugly im about to kill myself. last month i was going to work and a little girl looked at me and said "ew". i shouldnt even be alive.

>>125111
Maybe you just had some toilet paper stuck to your foot

>>125112
I've been bullied a lot so.. I know I'm ugly and it's just a fact not my opinion.. I struggle a lot with suicidal thoughts and isolation bc of this..

>>125098
lol cry moar

>>124875
>My boobs fucking sag at 18, it's worse that they're large as it gives an illusion that my body is short and stocky whenever I'm braless (they look like they sit on my fucking ribcage)
I'm confused. where else would they sit?

Uhg I’m actually ugly
My jaw is too far back and my face is crooked, like I have a squirrel face.
I’ve had sad-looking wrinkles since I was 10 years old, a wide nose with a hump.
A thick mustache and eyebrows, droopy eyes that stick out a little from the side.
My underdeveloped jaw made me look like I had a double chin even when I was skinny.

I was always bullied.
And I always knew I was ugly.

My teeth were crooked but I managed to get braces treatment.

I would never hesitate to get aesthetic treatments. Never.

There was an older guy who slightly paid attention to me at work. Until he saw the night audit girl (she’s as tall as a fucking man). Now I’m just chopped liver I guess. I hope she falls down and bashes her face open. It’s fine tho I work before her and I can leave her all the extra work. Enjoy you dumb bitch

>>125395
How old are we talking? Also, moids don't normally like tall women. If your only problem is being short, I doubt you can relate to the problems shared by other nonas itt.

I hate being this jealous of other women. They effortlessly have what I always wanted. I just want to be part of the club.

>>125513
It's not effortless. Put in the work and you can have it, too.

i was bullied daily by a group of moids all throughout highschool and it ruined my self esteem.

i genuinely cannot interact with moids without getting a fear response, in any context :( and i dont care about moids i feel genuinely repulsed by them but still this causes inconveniences for me

i also feel jealous when other girls are praised for the things i like just because they are pretty and then i feel evil afterwards because i like these girls too i just wish i wasnt treated like shit for stuff that i'd be praised for as well if i was more conventionally attractive.

>>124874
Y'all also see these tiktoks about your type of makeup? You're supposed to pick a letter, like if you have a narrow face you pick A, and if you have a round face you pick B
These are super-confusing to me because like which side of the face? For me one side is very narrow, the other is quite round. And the eyes, one is also more round and the other is narrow. At least I know my nose is prominent I guess. But it still constantly reminds me of how asymmetric my face is and for some reason tiktok suggest lots of these vids and it's kinda sad

I'm getting sick of always being the ugly one and being passed

>>125537
was it this guy?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9Sf4jtDJTA

just went to the doctor and took my weight for the first time in three years. she said 'quite low' in a weird tone. i'm smoking a pouch every five days, drinking daily, and taking amphetamines every now and then, but i know most of the weight i've lost is a financial issue; there's this huge pressure to get the money for something cheap and sufficiently nutritious that isn't a nightmare to eat, while also making the time to cook and actually fucking eating. for the past three months i've been paid extremely late - every fifty days or so - and during those last couple of weeks i made it a routine to switch to green tea, cigarettes, some eggs, and two beers (or stolen wine from work, on the nicer days) for dinner. being a little drunk makes it easier to fall asleep with the 'perk' of being dragged out of bed at the first ring of my alarm, not hungover, but not well either. then eggs. then tea, cigarettes. after a few cycles of this i've killed the impulse to get groceries once i'm finally paid. i'm banging this guy and instagram's bitch ass algo has made his liked posts a priority amongst all other slop. last time he came over, i was a bit sick of him. i started to fight him, both of us fully naked on my bedroom floor; i was hitting his chest accusing him of just wanting to fuck and not seeing me as a friend anymore. i'm right by the way, but he kept saying shit like, i'm crazy for you, etc. i think of this when i see the girls on his likes, and though of it again when the doctor brought up my weight. since last week, i can see an unfamiliar, sinewy strip of meat next to each of my hipbones. i got fired two weeks ago. seven years ago i would've loved to be moderately underweight and having any sort of shitty relationship with a schizoid mass of blown out tattoos. i didn't have any mirrors in my room back then. the one in my shared apartment has some stickers that surround my new-old body that i hate: fuck the IDF, fuck the AFD, jesus saves, abolish the police.

So let me preface this by saying I’m fat. Always have been. Anyways I remember having sex with this guy and after, while I was laying in his lap. He was like looking at my face and goes “you’re actually really pretty.” I think about that probably once a day. I probably would have been a Stacey if my cousins didn’t molest me and cause me to have really bad issues with binge eating.

So let me preface this by saying I’m fat. Always have been. Anyways I remember having sex with this guy and after, while I was laying in his lap. He was like looking at my face and goes “you’re actually really pretty.” I think about that probably once a day. I probably would have been a Stacey if my cousins didn’t molest me and cause me to have really bad issues with binge eating.

>>125663
You had literally your entire life to lose weight though if I understand this right

I hate thinking about how messed up I am in comparison to my siblings. I downright have a deformity while they look normal, attractive even. It's so unfair

It's a curse! I bet I wouldn't have been this mentally ill if I wasn't so disgusting looking since such a young age. I can't even romanticize my misery with such a repulsive face. Pretty people have no idea how much better they have it even in suffering

>>125656
this isn’t helpful but your life sounds straight out of a coming-of-age film lol. can i ask how old you are…? just really curious

Shut myself in all day. Wear pounds of makeup every time I step outside and avoid eye contact with anyone if possible.

Alternatively take 5 shots and then I stop feeling too ugly to leave the house because I stop caring.