Men make me feel so lonely Anonymous 125423
I can’t handle how lonely men make me feel. No matter how kind, patient, or understanding they seem, they always end up disappointing me. They’re all lustful. They all watch porn. All of them struggle to see women as actual human beings, some just get better at hiding it. They all want you to perform for them in some way shape or form.
I ache for this so called true love. I want romance, tenderness, respect. I want someone who sees me, who values me, who cherishes me. But instead, day by day, I grow more bitter and resentful. It feels like I was sold a lie about what men and relationships are supposed to be. It makes me angry and doubt romantic love is even real at all. It all just feels like a cruel lie. I even feel like the women who claim their men are so great are experiencing some sort of cognitive dissonance.
I keep telling myself I just won’t ever get this from a man, but accepting that is so hard. The loneliness eats at me. Sometimes, it feels like being a straight woman is nothing but a curse. Being alone sucks but being with them makes the loneliness even worse.
Anonymous 125428
men are a waste of time. focus on your friend circle and nuture those relationships
Anonymous 125430
>>125428> men are a waste of timeDid you always feel that way nona?
Anonymous 125441
>>125430Since middle school, all men have only been interested in sex. They are basically useless after that, and will become abusive if you don’t give them what they want.
Anonymous 125519
The biggest issue with men for me is that they do not seem to want or value having a true emotional connection with anyone or anything. Status and keeping basic needs in check seems to be the only thing that care about in this life and if you ask them what about having a high quality of life or finding meaning or true fulfillment in life they laugh at you like thats stupid. They seem to just want to be spiteful and oppositional to everyone and everything their entire lives, live in a dark room and eat tv dinners everyday until they die and they will die happily not even thinking for a moment if they wasted their lives. I have a really good boyfriend but I can't bring up most things on my mind like my worries or something that upset me asking for comfort bc they prefer to rub salt in the wound due to male to male socialization being a status bant. Its lowkey on some npc type shit
Anonymous 125520
Be being alone is great bc when u live in a house with people you can't shower or make a hot meal or use the microwave or go outside whenever you want 24/7, and you waste alot of energy being emotionally on guard/dealing with them triggering you living with people of any gender
Anonymous 125561
why does half the human race have to be shitty? wouldnt it be nice to be friends with a guy and not have to think if they are secretly attracted or something?
Anonymous 125582
>>125423I have to agree. The lack of self awareness when it comes to emotional connections is actually quite disturbing. I wonder if they even have any empathy or compassion to others who are not inherently their friends or family members.
Anonymous 125591
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>>125423>Being alone sucks but being with them makes the loneliness even worseI couldn't agree with you more.
Anonymous 125592
>>125519>I have a really good boyfriend >but he’s not there when I need him Ouch. That hits close to home. Are you sure he’s a good partner?
Anonymous 125602
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>>125591I really try to keep my mouth shut as I don't want to gatekeep loneliness or step on anyone's toes, but that is a shitty 4chan redpill incel image made to imply all women are constantly showered with gentlemanly love and respect they're taking for granted and only pretending to be lonely due to "impossible standards" or "only wanting chad/tyrone/prince charming". I come here to get away from scrote bullshit lies about having a "tutorial mode" life. I don't know, maybe I'm overreacting, I'll probably regret being a spergy asshole about it later, but I still hate memes like that. I hate how men try to gaslight women into thinking you're entitled, shallow or stuck up for not settling with some loli porn addict who never bathes and doesn't even view you as a sentient human. They only want to nut in something and leave, and I'm supposed to be grateful and not feel lonely about that arrangement for supposedly being better than nothing. But if I did let that happen instead of being "stuck up", they'd hate me for being a "whore" and "used up" as well. It's bonkers. Whoever said men are logical was the greatest conman who ever lived.
Anonymous 125671
The sad thing is that many man find platonic, emotionaly mature and empathic relations with other man because lust do not take over them. But here I am gatekeeped by nature, doomed to be seen as meat by those I want love from
Anonymous 125761
>>125671I feel like platonic friendship is something they should be able to handle, but it is so rare to see it work without the man catching feelings. They need to learn emotional maturity
Anonymous 125767
>>125441Seconding this. Every time I thought a man was different it was only because I didn't know them enough.
Anonymous 125768
>>125602The same men talking about how most girls are whores will turn around and relentlessly pressure you for sex or leave you because you said you don't wanna fuck. They simultaneously want an innocent puritan who also instantly becomes as sex-addicted as they are the moment you get together.
