>>125491I don't have physical experience with male escorts yet, but damn this post has crazy timing, I was just looking into one as well for similar reasons to you. I saw a post in another thread saying everyone here either currently has a bf or is between relationships, that really bummed me out since I've never had a bf. I was worried about safety when being with a male escort, but the website I was on lets women review the guys, although I'm not sure how verified or legit they are. From what I understand, you organise where you want to meet up (read his page front and back, if he's willing to travel far you may have to additionally cover his travel costs), arrange a date and time, plan your activities (cafe, dinner, movies, walks, home or hotel, etc) in advance, and if you directly mention sex before you meet in person he'll drop you because he thinks you're a cop. I know you said you weren't gonna do that, but in case there's any lurking nonas who might. The vetted ones seem nice, apparently they listen really well, respect boundaries, make their clients laugh, look their best and dress sharp, can bring you flowers or chocolate, multiple guys I was looking at offered a "boyfriend experience" so you can probably ask for that and they'll just be romantic and affectionate and invested without any sex involved.
Obviously stay away from any of the moidy ones doing pornsick rp like advertising themselves as dominant or whatever. There's a lot of self-identified male escorts that are just random middle age dudes trying to make a career out of disappointing women.
I'm sorry if this was totally useless info and you just want to know what it's physically, emotionally like as an experience. If I go through with it and don't die, I'll let you know everything.