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is having a crush supposed to feel like a panic attack Anonymous 09/25/25 (Thu) 11:20:08 PM125563

i gotta die i like this guy and i feel like my nervous system is under attack. every time he texts me i feel like im gonna throw up everywhere . dont even know if he likes me back but i kinda hope he doesnt because we should all just die this is the most nerve wracking thing to happen o me

Anonymous 09/26/25 (Fri) 05:47:22 AM125567

this feeling will disappear when you're older, since I can kinda guess you're underage by this post

Anonymous 09/26/25 (Fri) 10:34:30 AM125578

You're gonna be okay nona

Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 12:31:17 AM125587

>>125567
im 25 ive lived with partners before and had multi year relationships i dunno why i feel like this

Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 01:13:25 AM125588

>>125587
Attachment issues maybe? It was designed around infant-caregiver relationships but the core principles apply to adult life as well.

Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 01:13:56 AM125589

by "it" I meant to say attachment theory specifically, sorry

Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 02:04:55 AM125590

>>125589
probably something like that, i think im dismissive avoidant. wanting to talk to someone genuinely makes me feel humiliated and when he does something nice for me or i tell him i enjoy something it makes me angry almost?

Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 04:49:40 AM125595

>>125590
Damn an irl tsundere

Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 12:58:55 PM125601

>>125590
I'll make a guess based on limited information I see.

There's probably something in your past that is making you act. Unhealthy attachment styles are an adaptation to shitty relationships, generally. They're fixed by having healthy relationships.

If your reactions to social interactions are this turbulent you're probably around a lot of crazy schizos or something because it's not very normal. I kinda relate to what you're saying and I got better after getting better and more understanding people around me.

Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 06:29:39 PM125603

>>125601
i was for a loongggg time i was a shut in and a neet. for the last year and a half ive gotten normal and around normal people, surprisingly integrated really well into everyone elses world outside of my computer. but until then i was staring at a screen with social invalids and yeah i think having a crush on a guy i met irl through mutual friends who is normal is driving me batty