/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>125667
go to library ? read book ?
i recommend the utopian novels of charlotte perkins-gilman (fl. 1920s)
set, basically, in entirely female asexually reproducing society, although it is concerned with moid intruders, moid 'visitors' - the first in millenia, because they use the still novel (to the author) means of what is called a 'plane in the text (it is after all a clipping)
reading can be so improving, personally and intellectually, and you have all the time in the world for it

>>125668
although i wouldn't recommend gilman for her literary merits, but for the exceptional character of her work - feminist, but only in the sense that women are people - complete legal independence, and certainly emancipation, of women, not qua women, but qua humans - and (unlike her best-known works which are shorter and didactic in character) novels are some of first female-only human societies imagined

My answer depends on this: why are you a neet.

I can hardly immerse myself in anything. Most I do is think and think and think

>>125672
too bad! do it NOW
go to library and do not bring any phone or ordinator and you will have a gay time

>>125672
I like the days where that doesn’t happen to me.

A friend asked me to make a website so thats what Im gonna do now since Im still unemployed

>>125667
I was really depressed when I was a NEET as well.
Watching Osomatsu-san made me feel a little bit better but also worse in a way too.
Do you have hobbies? Any plans on not being a NEET anymore? What's keeping you from pursuing a career and education? Depression? I hope you're seeing a therapist about it… My depression was largely situational, and improving my immediate environment and finding a way to advance my education for the sake of my future career helped me immensely. It's not any special job or anything, but I've found that doing anything is usually better than doing nothing and learning things is actually pretty fun.

>>125900
>Watching Osomatsu-san made me feel a little bit better but also worse in a way too.
for me, it's Juushimatsu.

you have to MOVE
your body produces endorphins when it moves around, especially when exercising

you should have a ritual to kickstart to your day
tell yourself that you can play your games after your morning ritual AND breakfast (which includes washing the dishes)
you'll have to wash them anyway so what difference does it make ? if you get rid of your chores first, your fun won't be spoiled by the worry of having to do them

>tiktok
soulless slop
>r*ddit
no comment
tbh i find trooncord less cancerous, i have a few servers that i only use to scroll the meme channels and mute the rest

I'm not formally recognized as not NEET by the government, but I'm actually employed as a god, and always educating myself on matters pertaining to that.

So, fairly thread relevant.

I'm 22… I feel like my life is ruined because of neeting

>>128267
how? you're still young at 22 lol

>>128268
>you're still young at X
NEVER think this way. It will end in regret.

Clean, cook food, game or watch yt videos, go on walks with my friend sometimes, torture myself with the fact that I need to start looking for a job because im running out of money

Besides satisfying my physiological needs, not much. I think a lot. From the moment i wake up i start thinking and i don't stop thinking until all my energy is depleted. It is lonely to be a thinker, to have realized things that take long time to realize, because you can't explain to others something that takes long time to realize for the same reason you can't learn a language by having someone explain it to you. It takes time and i have spent a lot of it. Now there is an abyss between me and other humans, it feels lonely, but at the same time i feel fortunate, i regret nothing. There is a way back to people, some day i might start helping them, but my compassion is still lacking.

>>125667
Self study. Free courses online. Laugh at streams. Hobbies. Cloud watching, painting, woodwork. Explore. Go on virtual tours. Plenty of free crap to do online and IRL. Volunteer.

I'm over 30. It's possible that I have AuDHD but I never got diagnosed, and never will. I just watch useless videos, scroll useless sites, read useless things, argue with useless people online, and do useless stuff. I live with my parents and help around the house, and I watch movies during days where I don't feel guilty about wasting my time.

I have tried many attempts to change my life, but my attempts always crumble because I try to take drastic steps to change. I try to change to take steps that could be as simple as starting to go out for a walk or as drastic as getting an interview but I could never really make it out. The simple changes don't stick for more than a weak and the drastic changes are too overwhelming I just crash out the next days and completely hit rock bottom again.

Smoke ciggies like a real woman
But in all honesty I just do art all day and lift with my husband , I clean he cooks so it's a good dynamic

I’ve been a neet for like…3 years now. I’m not doing shit with my life lol. (obviously) I just bed rot, cook, clean, doomscroll. Occasionally i’ll write and post fanfic but I mainly use my free time for Genshit Impact. I have friends, but we don’t talk often. The only person I texted often was this moid I had to cut off bc he fell in love w me. (how? idk.)

It got so lonely and isolating (even with him around) I got addicted to chat bots to roleplay. Thankfully i’m not that retarded anymore, I haven’t used them for a few months now.

Unfortunately I do fixate on other losers on twitter or tumblr so. You win some you lose some. It fucking sucks and i’m lowkey just waiting for my parents to arrange a marriage or for something to just take me out entirely :P

Being a neet sucks. If anyone is a few months in, for the love of god go get a job or go outside, the longer you live like this the harder it gets to leave.

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I’m in the thick of it everybody knows

>>125667
dont lose hope! Why dont you try some new hobby? I love sewing and i think it's highly rewarding, so i'm always going to suggest it. You could start by making a plushie of a videogame or anime character that you like!

30+ and been living for years in a lucky financial situation that I don't have to work and still live comfortably. I do whatever I want and I love it. I only had a fulltime job once in my life and it was such a frustrating, anxiety inducing experience I wouldn't ever want to deal with that again. So what do I do, honestly, most of the time I'm playing video games, lots of different ones that there's no way I would have the time for if I had a job. My other hobbies including watching shows, working on art, reading manga, taking care of my home. I post on discord chats and forums somewhat regularly so I don't forget how to socialize. I avoid any other form of social media because doomscrolling is a depressing waste of time. If you're lucky enough to be a NEET, enjoy your freedom, it's society that's wrong not you.

>>125667
I make music. I am an artist. I create

>>128638
Ugh I wish I could talk to you

>>128638
This goes beyond being a subculture, we're basically aristocrats!

>>128638
How did you get "lucky"?
If you're a SAHM it doesn't count

I'm a wagie but it's all wfh since 2020 so it feels like being a bedrotting neet anyway, but also I have to do boring stuff all day. It's terrible

>>128736
Is this little guy dead? I hope so.

>>128738
No he's getting an x-ray under anesthesia. Also rude