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growing up ugly Anonymous 125729

can you ever heal from growing up unwanted + ostracized by your peers? I've slowly but surely improved my looks and the feedback I usually get is above average. but I still feel hideous, like an alien or lesser-than. getting asked out as a joke and being made to feel like you're "gross" is rough. i analyze my looks so much i don't even know what I look like any more.

anyone here grow up ugly, glow up, and not feel like that same ugly kid?

it probably has more to do with me having not been white in a predominantly white area. i was kind of a cute kid.

Anonymous 125731

>>125729
Can the moids making this AstroTurf slop get it through their heads we know it's their bitter agenda ? Can we talk about it once and for all mods? They're pissed at our pinkpill, etc threads so moids plaster cc with smear content like this.

Nobody actually talks like that in real life

Anonymous 125735

>can you ever heal from growing up unwanted + ostracized by your peers?
This one is really hard desu and requires a lot of support from others to recover. Bottom line is you need to be wanted and accepted by others.
If the extent of the damage done to you by ostracization was limited to your self-esteem, you'll probably have an easier time recovering by simply glowing up and changing your environment to a less racist one. You have an issue but you're pretty independent socially.
But if there was serious damage done to your socialization to a point where you're self-isolating weird etc then you'll need much more actual help.

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>>125731
Not OP, but sometimes I think some women in spaces like these sort of take it as a slight against all women when a woman talks about feeling ugly, lonely or pathetic or like a loser or something, and they feel the need to overperform how much of an outlier she is or that she's probably a larping moid, like embarrassedly saying "she's not with us" in case an outsider conflates her situation with yours. I don't think that's very fair. This mindset is why I never feel like I can vent about never having a boyfriend before, as if that's somehow remotely implying that applies to everyone here. It doesn't and you shouldn't care what hatereading scrotes think, even with perfect optics they would still make up bullshit reasons to insult women anyway, as they always have done for centuries including back when female outcasts were less prevalent than today.

If anything, I think it's a bit of a horseshoe to imply all women naturally live fabulous lives free of any insecurity, stress or problems. And maybe I'm being a retarded schizo, but "pinkpill" seems like an Inglourious Basterds wrong fingers moment. I thought feminism is the purplepill, and the pinkpill is moid discord/preddit tranny shit.

I dunno. Just seems a bit strange to argue we need to ban women for feeling miserable or suffering, and assuming an anecdote of a girl being harassed by moidlets is actually unrealistic anti-woman propaganda.

Anonymous 125741

>>125739
There has been some complaining about "embarrassing" posts here on /feels/ but really I don't think this thread falls anywhere under that umbrella



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