how to know someone is a fuckboy? Anonymous 125779
I met a guy (unfortunately through a dating app and I haven't had a kiss in the last 3 years, we are going to for a date this Monday but, I really wanna know if anyone here had dealt with a fuckboy before and how to notice if I'm just gonna lose my time, he said he is open for a long time relationship so, at least the "open" may mean something? I won't open my legs coz we met.
Yeah that's all
Wish my stupid ass some luck, he is really cute ngl
And he is a nerd, quite a big nerd tbh, someone that collects anime figures and paint warhammer stuff at the end of the day goes against the "i go to the gym and I have a six pack" type of guy only, or that's what I think, sighs…
Anonymous 125780
Hard to judge until I read some of his messages/texts
Anonymous 125788
Ask for his social media accounts and see his replies and who he follows
Anonymous 125790
>>125779>And he is a nerd, quite a big nerd tbh, someone that collects anime figures and paint warhammer stuff at the end of the day goes against the "i go to the gym and I have a six pack" type of guy only, or that's what I think, sighs…Nerds are just as capable of being fuckboys, that's what most incels are. They just want to pump and dump and think all women are hoes who want to be treated badly. It's more of a grey flag than a green flag, could go either way.
Anonymous 125795
>>125790Agree. A lot of men have caught on to the fact that being nerdy is the new meta since girls don’t trust the traditional fratty fuckboys.
Source: My ex was a super nerdy dorky guy and he ended up cheating on me w two different girls
Anonymous 125797
adding onto the nerdy fuckboy thing too. it has been meta since around covid.
also men's consumption of pornography is around 78%-91.5%. Why do I mention this? Because nerdy men usually have more issues with porn addiction. In general men do, but I've noticed bad prevalence in the group you've mentioned. Obviously with earlier screen usage. Reason of this mattering is it's like being a lite fuckboy (misogynistic) that is obsessed more with images of women than you when the honeymoon phase is over causing dehumanizing effects or he has PIED or some weird shit.
hopefully he's normal. good luck.
Anonymous 125800
>>125799It seems like a simple question to me.
Anonymous 125849
>>125779Withold sex for a decent amount of time and say you're looking for something serious.
Anonymous 125851
While the FDS subreddit had a nasty reputation for being misandric (and having a lot of nasty posters), I think they actually give some good protips for dating in their handbooks. Check out their wiki and the sidebar.
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/el5gse/7_signs_hes_a_fckboy/ these aren't too bad for example
Anonymous 125861
>>125851>a nasty reputation for being misandric…You know where you are, right?
Anonymous 125876
>>125779Monday's come and gone so how was it?
Anonymous 125878
>>125779Tell him you won't have sex before marriage.
Anonymous 125924
Just deny him on the first few dates and see how he reacts. Get to know his interests and hobbies first, too.
Be careful those nerd types are usually insecure, but they can get really nasty when they don’t get what they want in a short period of time. Most men are like that, but a nerd can become obsessed since he doesn’t have anything else to move on to.
Anonymous 126991
>>125924Nerd types are the biggest toxic losers. They never continuously bathe. They’ll e-cheat on you.
Anonymous 126993
>>126991okay but i want to know what makes a “nerd” type because don’t all men have those kinds of hobbies now? i get it used to be subcultures but now everyone is into pop culture. what makes a nerd a nerd in 2025?
Anonymous 127041
>>125779just don't give it up
does open here imply the relationship is incidental?
Anonymous 127042
>>127041what i mean to say is: is he really just looking for sex?
