/feels/ - Advice & Venting

honestly, it feels like they're mocking me by using 'femcel' as an aesthetic. it's like they don't view people who actually struggle with these problems as people, more like an image to fit into. an "aesthetic". i especially hate those tumblr #femcel posts too, they're all pedo bait/coquette. can't even be a loser in peace because some 16 y/o mhtb+ is going to larp as one. my culture is not your costume.

>>126355
>more like an image to fit into. an "aesthetic".
This is 99% of popular people in your feed on any of the social medias of your choice. No matter what group they pander or pretend to belong to.

>>126356
i rly hate people who hope from aesthetic to aesthetic without any substance to them at all

>>126366
there’s no substance to any aesthetic anymore. when everyone is alternative there is no more counter culture.

>>126355
it feels like everything is labeled as coquette now. just say lana del rey fan at this point.

>>126370
oh i really like how u put this. i agree 100%, i feel like almost any actual subculture u can name has been completely watered down for tiktok and fast fashion buzzwords. even ones that i’ve personally been a part of i don’t like to interact with anymore bc of that. everything feels cheap and disingenuous!!!! it’s all reheated nostalgia shit

>>126370
"Aesthetics" can't be countercultural in any way that actually matters anyway. Only the underlying philosophy associated with an aesthetic can be countercultural, and those could have almost any visual aesthetic attached.
>>126353
I recommend you stop caring about the sanctity of your identity label and for that matter stop melting your brain on douyin. Unlike eg. lesbianism, literally nothing will happen if the term "femcel" gets co-opted by whores on the internet.

>>126404 there's no spaces for actual outcast women to discuss their feelings together without being mocked now. look at r/foreveralonewomen's reception for instance. a lot of these self-proclaimed "femcels" are fucking HORRIBLE anyways. there's a pattern of them using their self-diagnosed mental illnesses to justify abusing others.

>>126399
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