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on tinder to lose my virginity Anonymous 126509

im 27 and a virgin, idk, it never happened to me and its getting kinda weird. i just wanna know what is like, and im too tired to form a real bond with some guy until it happens, i dont have any male friends or anything like that so i made a tinder acc

what do you think nonas? i do think is a questionable idea, but tbh every passing year i put less value into giving it to someone "worthy".

Anonymous 126513

it's more fun when it's with someone you enjoy
or is paid to give an actual good experience

Anonymous 126515

>>126509
Nona, don't do it.
Find someone you love and respects you.
Moids on tinder only want to have sex and then ghost you.

Anonymous 126518

Agree with >>126515 over here. Please don't waste your first time on a hookup up. The men on there won't care about pleasing you or meeting your needs. You gotta invest time to finding the right man who knows how to find the clit

Anonymous 126559

>>126509
I'm older than you and also a virgin.
Went to a small orgy, to "try things out", and no, didn't find anyone attractive, didn't want to have sex with anyone. I tried a few things out of curiosity, and like, it was kinda fun to just touch people and see how things work, but that was it, I've seen more interesting things that I think more about at my local aquarium.
You can really just stay a virgin forever, it doesn't matter noona. Are you an aquarium virgin because you never went to an aquarium? Ooh, so weird, it's an essential human experience to look at fish if you live in my city. (It kinda is to some people here, but that doesn't mean you actually need to go).
It's normal to masturbate and have fun with it, you really don't need to do more than that.
If you want an actual relationship or raise a child, that's different ofc, you can try getting into dating. But losing your virginity just for the sake of what, having a dick in your vagina just so you can tick a little box? Like, what's the point? There are other fun sex things you can try out, like buying sex toys or reading up on female masturbation advice. At least that stuff is fun.
>I really want to know how sex feels, people say it's fun
If you're forcing yourself, it definitely won't be though. I know a woman who is married and told me that she only had like one orgasm in her relationship, it's fucking bleak. I orgasm all the time by myself. If you have sex with someone, you also have that deep bonding aspect and communication thing and if you don't do that with someone you love, what are you doing it for, getting off? You probably won't, at least not with a random tinder hook-up.
And if you're really that desperate (why??), at least do this >>126513
If you don't like the title of "virgin" just don't call yourself a virgin. It's mostly weirdos who care about that shit anyway, nobody who matters cares.



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