>>126636>I don't like submissive sexThen don't have it??
You can
sit on a man's cock cowboy style, really squeeze him, make him whimper and order him to move his hips while playing with his cute nips or you can do it commisionary style, while kissing, whispering sweet words and touching and staring at each other lovingly, whatever, there are countless positions and ways to do the penis in vagina style of fornication, it's literally your choice. You don't even have to
put anyone's dick in your vag, a lot of women "naturally" don't even like it that much, there are other ways to stimulate your clit during sex, like having your partner perform oral on you or just grinding against each other.>it's not because of men that I feel this way, neither porn, but I've seen pornIt's literally because of porn, and shitty porn aimed at males at that. If you prefer something more romantic or even femdom, read/watch that instead.
For femdom, I personally enjoyed the webtoon Sadistic Beauty (it's problematic because the female lead rapes and strangles some guys in it, but not all scenes are like that and I like how it's drawn). There's also a femdom thread on the /nsfw/ board here and there's always one on lolcow.farm as well. >human and naturalI honestly think that the repulsion you feel towards certain kinds of sex is pretty much natural. A person's nature can be influenced by society, experience, kinks and whatnot because everything is impacted by its environment and then either endures, adapts or dies, that's just how nature works.
(We could argue about semantics and "nature" all day, but it's clear that everyone has their own experiences and preferences.)
Now I don't know where it came from, but I've been a sexual sadist ever since I can remember, so my body gives me a big old arousal response to seeing cute men getting hurt. People call this a paraphilia, much like how sexual masochism is a paraphilia, so you're not that special for not being into it.
Btw, I can also go against my own paraphilic "nature" and decide to not be sadistic in the bedroom, because I don't have to do whatever my body tells me I like. Much like vegans who can decide not to eat tasty steak, I have this little thing called "reason" and "free will" or whatever you want to call it.
>>126637>men who are bottoms are seen as gross and subhumanWtf… I think submissive men who are bottoming are super cute and hot, you just have shit taste.
You sound like you wouldn't even like extreme femdom because you clearly wouldn't even appreciate hot bottoms, so maybe stay away from BDSM, doms and subs entirely. (Yes, you can do that, you can have sex without a dom-sub dynamic and dom-sub also isn't the same as top and bottom, you can have submissive tops and dominant bottoms, wherever your genitals are doesn't immediately give you power, just read the example I gave above.)
Sex isn't always a powerplay, it can be fun and actually funny, you can joke around during it and you can just go at it at your own pace. It can be an act of loving and exciting communication. If you don't like to take off your clothes, you don't have to, you can choose what you want to do during sex, whatever it may be.
>>126644>Porn is literally the same as real sexNo??? You are literally pornbrained, noona.
>Women fucked on all fours and sucking dicksDid you know that there is more than one sexual posiion? Are you a child that's been traumatised by seeing a shitty porn ad and have then forever decided that all sex is disgusting because it degrades women?
Degrading porn degrades women, that should be common knowledge. You don't have to emulate it and you don't have to go along with anyone who wants to emulate it, you can always say no to whatever minisucle part of it you don't want to do and always talk to your partner about things you do want to try with them.
Confusing porn with real sex is pretty much the definition of being "porn-brained".
